Trauma dump..

Why do people put their personal shit like this out to the world? I don’t think I have ever put anything that personal on social media. Why would I? That’s just crazy to me.

I don’t understand the urge to put your life and that of other family members out there for all the world to see. Maybe your siblings don’t want their lives plastered all over social media 🙄

You can go no contact with family and still forgive them. I felt this! I consider my little sisters my children also. I too had to do all of the cleaning, Cooking and child care. My stepdad hated me also. I wasn’t allowed to do activities in school because I had duties. I was 12

Forgiveness isnt for them, its for you. You shouldn't have to explain to anyone.

Nah but if ur mom did everything alone I get it. She had no help

Why do you think we give a shit? We have our own shit to deal with... Boring 😴

Very difficult to understand why people talk abt all this so call”personal intimate issues” to thousands of strangers.

Strikingly similar to my situation…I get it.

Hunny.. trust me she doesn’t want a relationship with you either. And the fact that all of your siblings still love and have a relationship with their mother, says a lot about you.

I’m sorry to hear you had no food or clothes or heat or a roof over your head. I actually was thinking your mother probably used the trust money to provide for her children and makeup for your father’s lost income since he went to prison.

You remind me of me 20 years ago. I basically raised my little brothers for many years. I also cooked, cleaned, my brothers and I to school, etc. Drugs, bad roommates, poverty. I am so proud of how I made it and broke the cycle though. With God I can thrive and succeed.

The sins of a father/mother are passed upon two generations. Forgive those who have injured you and move on with your life.

More power to you. I never forgave my father and never would. I used it as a example of never physically abuse children or women. Be a ‘cycle breaker’

I totally relate. You deserved better.

I remember working for this woman, she had a teenage daughter. They were driving home from a long trip. She literally went online and told the world how bad her car stunk because her daughter had her period. Like, what the fuck?! why do people do that?

The narcissistic vibrations she radiates is off the charts

You should go to counseling for you both to see your needs and feelings. She probably has no idea what she is doing. It’s a shame that today we throw away people because of the perception of betrayal. She may have needed money. Parents don’t intend to traumatize

There is no reason to go no contact with a parent. Your parent learned what they know from someone else. They learned how to treat you from someone else and you. They tried their best to be what you needed. Not what you wanted. They wanted you to see them as a mentor.

I totally relate! Differently but can relate! Glad you have good in your heart! 🙏🏻

Why come and wash personal laundry in public. Fact that she says it makes her feel uncomfortable is her conscience standing up. Mum did this, mum did that. Daughter did nothing. Victim mentality.

Are the people (they do sound like bots though) in this comment section serious??

It sounds like your Mother raised you by herself, which you have no idea how hard that is.

What the heck is wrong with you????

ARE YOU A MAN❓

Everyone has a story. Funny you’re using yours to make money, while you claim to be traumatized.

No need to to contact mom as she’s living rent free in your head.

Awful. My adoptive 'mother' used to send money to my abusive, violent, sadistic ex + new wife. My 'Dad' had to ask her to stop. I had to cut all contact with them for my sanity, brutal 'sister' too. All dead now thank God.

Right so you raised and paid for yourself.,, all those years

most parents hate their children

I’ll pray for you! A balance of all that you’re saying is a must! I understand your wanting to protect yourself! I hope karma and lessons of understanding others doesn’t bite you so hard that you find yourself in the same states as your mom has been! Relationships matter!

Why are her legs so huge 🤔

Ee Gad! Arms are too big. Yuck! Chicks a complete mental patient.

Who fucking cares

Valid reason