Truth about sexless marriage

@_Achetypal What a ridiculous lie that sexless marriage is normal. It could be 90% and it wouldn’t be normal.

Normal doesn't mean it's accepted. Normal in the sense that it's no longer surprising

That hag was giving marriage council. She was selling sexless marriage as healthy by using the word normal. Her implication is that everyone should be surprised and relieved that sexless marriage is the bar for a healthy marriage. She used the world normal to sell a societal normative not to describe a condition.

@_Achetypal Anything is normal with concent from adults and that is not illegal e.g. statutory rape. If they are unhappy that way, that's another story. Dictating how and when people sleep together is a new low tbh, I hope controlling insecure people won't monitor other peoples bedrooms

@_Achetypal I honestly don’t want to know what you do or don’t do.

@DinaAerRegina @_Achetypal I know where you’re coming from, but her normalisation is not about claiming a sexless relationship is good and ok. She’s claiming that it’s normal for that to happen because she works with many people in that situation all the time. She focuses on reintegrating sex to people.

@DinaAerRegina @_Achetypal Im just going off the clip there. She do a lot of double speak and back pedaling?

@_Achetypal It’s mostly women hold sex for men then men holding sex from woman.

You sure?

@_Achetypal @Big_Rollie99 Yes, absolutely. Women control access to sex and men control access to commitment and relationships. Yes, there are exceptions, but it's 100% the majority of women holding off or even weaponising the intimacy in the relationship because it's usually the only thing she offers.

@_Achetypal @Big_Rollie99 Sex isn't intimacy, it is an outcome of intimacy. That's where the problem is.

@wovenscript @_Achetypal It doesn’t change the fact of women still withhold sex from men it’s much more common than the other way around🤦‍♂️

@_Achetypal this is why most smart wise men don’t get married marriage is nothing but a gimmick if anything goes wrong with that marriage women would benefit from it what men benefit from🤦‍♂️

Marriage is God's instituted

Maaan dont listen to this hag.. That shit is not normal.. Its punishment because two people are afraid to break up the relationship. Get with a woman or a man your compatible with fellas and gals.. Dont settle for this new “normal” So a woman or man can use this against you .. yeah tf right

@_Achetypal Lol.. an old, unattractive woman trying to normalise sexless marriages. It's not normal. Never will be.

@_Achetypal More “Christian” content trying to normalize what women do to their husbands. Do better

@_Achetypal Plot twist: MEN in marriages aren’t having sex.

@_Achetypal There are a lot of men in the comments saying that marriage is a "scam" because they have less sex after marriage. Sounds like a lot of you got married for precisely the wrong reason. No one gets married just to have sex. It's a ridiculous idea.

@_Achetypal Because it gets boring. Also, if you have any resentment to the spouse, it’s a huge turn off and you don’t feel like pleasing them.

@_Achetypal I love how triggering this topic is for a certain type of fragile individual.

@_Achetypal Of the 30-40% what percentage have cheated?

@_Achetypal @EverIntrigued Marriage is a financial trap used by Women to secure a financial reward given freely by the US Court system. Women love sex until after marriage, when they get bored and have affairs

@_Achetypal I don’t know why any man would willingly walk into or tolerate a sexless marriage. If she isn’t fucking you, 9:10 times its cause she doesn’t think your needs are valid and if she isn’t doing that she doesn’t respect you one bit. You’re just a simp to her. Total nightmare.

@_Achetypal Marriage is more, much more than sex. Especially if you have kids. If you’ve never been married, sit this one out, honey. Because you have nothing to add to this conversation. 🤷‍♀️

@_Achetypal sex stops after marriage. i thought everybody knew that?

@_Achetypal If I would have known this I would not have gotten married.

People ask my husband and I why we are so happy and in love. We have sex at least once every day, 7 days a week. When my period is heavy we have other kinds of intimacy but we both orgasm most days. It’s wasn’t always the case. In 2016 we were having sex once or twice a month and not getting on well. We did something called “the 10 day challenge” where you have penetrative sex every day whether you want to or not. And we never stopped. It’s made us so much more chemically in love with each other. Bonded us body mind and soul. 22 years together and we lust after each other daily.

@_Achetypal is not normal to be a hostage to someone that genuinely hates you.

@_Achetypal Bullshit, it's not normal.

@_Achetypal The amount of chronically single people in this comments confidently barking away their opinions on the matter 😂😂 you can literally which ones are which by how loud they are!!

@_Achetypal If you aren’t having sex with your partner there is an attraction problem. Period

@_Achetypal Sex is over-rated, it causes so much damage in society. Diseases, wrecked relationships, rape, porn, child sex abuse. The world would be better off without everyone acting like they have to be sex maniacs to fit in.

@_Achetypal If you’re in a sexless relationship then you are with the wrong person.

@_Achetypal People in here claiming this is bullshit are definitely not people who have been in the same relationship for 22 years and going through the same shit. Eventually you just have to negotiate duty sex. A lot of women just treat marriage as an achievement badge...not a biblical bond

@_Achetypal My x wife after 4 years dead bedroom, I tried for 6 months than I met someone and started having sex, one day I packed my shit and walked out, simple, 20 years with my wife now, having sex 2 or 3 times a week still. Walk away don’t look back.

@_Achetypal Is she purposely misusing the word normal? Common is not the same as normal. Words matter. Use the right words.

@_Achetypal Her sample is extremely biased. The couples that fill out her survey for the masterclass are by definition having marital problems they are trying to fix. They are not a representative sample of all marriages.

@_Achetypal It definitely tapers off as the children get older it reminds you what started it all, and parents have no privacy whatsoever unless they can get out of town for the weekend

@_Achetypal These are just the cons of monogamy. Problem is everyone pretends it's the only form of relationship worth having.

@_Achetypal Do not listen to this. There is absolutely nothing healthy about this. Unless there is a medical, physical issue or truely exhausted that day, you should be banging in the shower at least twice or once a day. The moment you wake up even. If not, there is a issue.

@_Achetypal Been with this woman 11 years 41yrs old now we be clapping almost nightly. Literally would throw her out if it was once every 3 months. Humans are very replaceable

@_Achetypal Women use it as a tool to manipulate. They don’t care about sex. Only validation. And if you’re boring they cheat 100%. They aren’t boning you they are boning someone else.

@_Achetypal Sounds like my first marriage, he turned out to be gay. He stole 14 years of my life, but we did have a wonderful son together so I have no regrets.

@_Achetypal When a woman tell you no no no no no enuf times you stop asking it worse when the change of life happin s for them not all stop having sex together but most ot them it dose

@_Achetypal I legit don’t think I could live in a house with a woman and survive off sex 6 times in a year bro Single word but living with someone idk bro that might be torture