Understanding this changed everything for me ‼️‼️

What this man is talking about is called “people pleasing” NOT treating others the way you wanna be treated Treating people the way you wanna be treated is consideration and respect But DONT “expect” others to do so, which is why you have boundaries to cut ppl off who don’t

Dude just described obedience, and confused that with the golden rule. I'm not buying the false intelligence.

Actually for me it was opposite lol Jesus said to treat others as you want to be treated so I do it because I want to spread happiness 😊 this is a victim mentality I feel like

That's an insecure take as fck. I treat people well because I want to and because that aligns with my principles - not because I expect them to do the same. And if they don't - and this is the healthy boundaries aspect - I simply readjust my attitude towards them.

That’s not how that belief is supposed to be held. You don’t treat others like you want to be treated so that they will treat you that way; you treat others how you want to be treated. 👈🏻 notice the period.

The dumbest shit I’ve ever heard

This fool got a toy when he manipulated his parents. And now…

Hard disagree, that never meant you let people walk over you. Just initial interaction and perhaps turning of a cheek on misunderstandings

Every comment is negative and missing his point. I’m certain he’s not saying being cruel is okay. He’s just trying to help us people pleasers stop abusing ourselves and learn to have boundaries and self respect. Learning to unpin your kindness from your self worth.

This guy is literally describing selflessness as a negative trait. This is just selfish dribble packaged to sound intelligent based on its presentation and not its substance. Don't be selfish. Be selfless, and treat others well.

What’s crazy is it wasn’t even my mom that taught me that, it was teachers, in response to bullying.

Yeah I knew this already. I always treat ppl well but when they would try to stray or attempt to treat me with disrespect I would put them in line. Being kind & respectful doesn’t mean you’re a ppl pleaser it means you’re kind & respectful. Nevertheless I’m ready to fight or stop a person trying to take advantage of me. Don’t learn this lesson to late as it can hold you back quite a lot.

Not everyone should post on social media! You treat people nicely not because of what you may gain from them!

Foolish. The Golden Rule isn’t some kinda trauma response. It’s the right way to act.

When did not being an asshole become a psychiatric diagnosis 😂. This selfish mindset is why we are cooked as a society

If he thinks that way, then he doesn’t actually believe in his own belief and therefore quickly gives up on it. If it’s yours, you know how to “put it down and pick it up,” until then you have to wrestle with, “do I actually believe this or has this been given to me as a tradition?” And then wrestle with finding out. Because he’s looking for compliance, and it’s not yielding the results he expects.

This is why you need to just stick to delivering packages. And why my deliveries are late. It should have never been about leading others to treating you better that’s just your selfish perspective. Treat others like you want to be treated. Period. Otherwise you live you life being nice with your hand out. It’s not the way to live. Understand this and you don’t need boundaries.

Did this dumbass bald mfr just conflate the golden rule with people pleasing😂 Stop it, just stop...

Dude has lost the plot thinking himself a philosopher.

treat others how you want to be treated is a direct quote out of the Holy bible & i want to remind y'all that return the energy you receive is a direct quote from the satanic bible. everyone should be treating others how they want to be treated it comes back just not how you want

Hard disagree… Just believe in fairness and justice and there’s none of that in this world.

Reminds me of the book "no more Mr nice guy"

That’s not ‘treating people how you want to be treated’, that’s ‘people pleasing’. Treating others how you’d want to be treated should be practiced by everyone. It doesn’t hurt to be kind. However I agree on his points about people pleasing

I'm hearing this statement and I'm 27 years old. Great advice

No bro, I think you’re so fucking in the head and very very wrong. Horrible horrible fucking advice.

I needed that today

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I treat people like they are also human.basic level of respect and boundaries even if they’re angry, which is usually enough.when they see you’re not bringing the same negativity back they usually chill out. At the same time, clear boundaries. if I don’t like it,it will be known

I gotta call BS on this clip. I don’t believe that The Golden Rule is meant to be reciprocated; I think it’s meant to be a gauge of who you can trust. It doesn’t mean to be subservient to those who mistreat you. It’s meant to teach you how you ought to be treated.

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The golden rule is not meant to be transactional. It’s about being a good person regardless of the circumstances.

Thank you for this! 💚