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Vice is currently running a YouTube series called "Child's Play" that features a 6 year old drag queen. A 6 year old drag queen who is actively performing at drag shows. His "parents" say that he knew since he was 4 that he wanted to grow up and do...

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DelilahM2 年前

How would a four year old even be aware of such a thing as “adult themed entertainment”? If the kid likes to dance, put him in ballet or gymnastics or something.

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Mike R2 年前

Just child abuse... What "parent" says "my TODDLER wants to do ADULT entertainment"??

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🇨🇦 Jack2 年前

Why does this remind me of the documentary “the dancing boys of Afghanistan”.

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Copernicuski2 年前

Until my daughter was 5, she ate well. Her favorite treat was yogurt and berries. After she was introduced to junk food by a family friend, it changed. If you expose children to garbage, they will take garbage. Especially if it's colorful, jolly, and fun. They are children. When he's older and knows mom and dad let him dance $$$ so gross men could get hard dicks watching him, he may no longer see their colorful garbage with the trusting eyes of the child he was....

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JLewis2 年前

Exploitation of children is illegal. Arrest the parents.

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MidLifeVirus2 年前

You can tell which parents treat their kids like pets and which parents treat their kids like people. It looks totally different These parents are pet owners.

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Tracey Russell2 年前

The parents are exploiting this child and should be investigated. The audience cheering a 6 year old drag queen, I would question their morales.

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CanLen 🕙2 年前

Would people be okay with lil girls at 6 stating I want to be a burlesque dancer and the parents providing strip tease lessons? I think probably not

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Joe Joe the clown2 年前

This boy’s parents should be in prison

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VICE just ran this piece celebrating a 6-year-old drag queen. His parents claim he knew since he was 4 that he wanted to do this adult themed entertainment. He was taught as a toddler to dress up as a girl and perform provocatively for adults as they hand him cash tips.
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VICE just ran this piece celebrating a 6-year-old drag queen. His parents claim he knew since he was 4 that he wanted to do this adult themed entertainment. He was taught as a toddler to dress up as a girl and perform provocatively for adults as they hand him cash tips.

Libs of TikTok

2,730,084 次观看 • 2 年前

This is textbook grooming, plain and simple. If this isn’t grooming, then nothing is. The mother openly admitted she dragged her 3-year-old son to his first “pride parade,” shoving him across every boundary of decency and common sense. From that moment on, the parents have systematically groomed him into a child drag queen. They set up his social media accounts, dress him in drag, and parade him at adult venues, restaurants, bars, pride events—filming and broadcasting the videos for the world to consume. A 3-year-old doesn’t know any better. He can’t consent. He can’t understand what’s happening. And he sure as hell isn’t choosing this for himself. This isn’t “supporting” a child. This is exploiting a toddler, sexualizing him for clout, and conditioning him to entertain grown adults in environments no kid should ever be exposed to. It’s vile. It’s predatory. And it needs to be called out for exactly what it is.
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This is textbook grooming, plain and simple. If this isn’t grooming, then nothing is. The mother openly admitted she dragged her 3-year-old son to his first “pride parade,” shoving him across every boundary of decency and common sense. From that moment on, the parents have systematically groomed him into a child drag queen. They set up his social media accounts, dress him in drag, and parade him at adult venues, restaurants, bars, pride events—filming and broadcasting the videos for the world to consume. A 3-year-old doesn’t know any better. He can’t consent. He can’t understand what’s happening. And he sure as hell isn’t choosing this for himself. This isn’t “supporting” a child. This is exploiting a toddler, sexualizing him for clout, and conditioning him to entertain grown adults in environments no kid should ever be exposed to. It’s vile. It’s predatory. And it needs to be called out for exactly what it is.

I Meme Therefore I Am 🇺🇸

355,218 次观看 • 1 个月前

This is INSANE Drag Queen story time at a public library in Los Angeles has a drag queen brainwashing little kids, having them chant over and over again “Drag is lots of fun, drag is lots of fun, drag is lots of fun” This same drag queen was in a thong last time at the event, confirmed by an attendee The police remove a concerned resident and let the kids keep being mass indoctrinated According to California law, grown men who expose themselves on a thong to little kids should regularly be charged as a misdemeanor with up to 6 months in county jail Not only that, it should be Mandatory sex offender registration (Penal Code § 290) for at least 10 years, Tier 1, for most convictions even misdemeanors But somehow Transgenders and the LGBTQ community are all immune from this law. They should all be prosecuted like anyone else
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This is INSANE Drag Queen story time at a public library in Los Angeles has a drag queen brainwashing little kids, having them chant over and over again “Drag is lots of fun, drag is lots of fun, drag is lots of fun” This same drag queen was in a thong last time at the event, confirmed by an attendee The police remove a concerned resident and let the kids keep being mass indoctrinated According to California law, grown men who expose themselves on a thong to little kids should regularly be charged as a misdemeanor with up to 6 months in county jail Not only that, it should be Mandatory sex offender registration (Penal Code § 290) for at least 10 years, Tier 1, for most convictions even misdemeanors But somehow Transgenders and the LGBTQ community are all immune from this law. They should all be prosecuted like anyone else

Wall Street Apes

74,377 次观看 • 11 天前

This happened at a Hamburger Mary’s, which, for those who don’t know, is a drag restaurant and bar with dozens of locations across the country. The drag queen hid his prosthetic breasts when he saw the kid, for which we commend him for. The issue here is with the parents and the establishment. Bringing a child to a drag show as well as allowing them to attend should be criminal offenses nationwide. The narrative that drag is somehow kid-friendly is a LIE. Drag has always been sexual in its nature and for adults only. #GaysAgainstGroomers
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This happened at a Hamburger Mary’s, which, for those who don’t know, is a drag restaurant and bar with dozens of locations across the country. The drag queen hid his prosthetic breasts when he saw the kid, for which we commend him for. The issue here is with the parents and the establishment. Bringing a child to a drag show as well as allowing them to attend should be criminal offenses nationwide. The narrative that drag is somehow kid-friendly is a LIE. Drag has always been sexual in its nature and for adults only. #GaysAgainstGroomers

Gays Against Groomers

1,626,364 次观看 • 2 年前

Wallahi we are not ready, what kind of system looks at a child of 5 years old, a toddler, a baby who should still be clutching his mother’s wrapper and says, "You are on your own"? You see them everywhere in the streets of Arewa. Little boys with dirty faces and rusty bowls. They are infants sent out to battle the world with nothing but the shirt on their backs. At an age where their biggest worry should be scraped knees and whose turn it is to play with the toy, their biggest worry is, "If I don't find food today, I will sleep on an empty stomach again. We have created a culture where it is acceptable to drop a seven year old off at a mallam’s house and wash your hands of him. You don’t feed him. You don’t bathe him. You don’t hold him when he cries. You just leave him. You leave him to the streets. You expect him to beg from strangers to fill his stomach. You expect a child to understand humility when all he feels is hunger. And people wonder what happens next. You take a boy who has never known a soft hand. You take a boy who has never been tucked into bed. You take a boy who has had to fight for every crumb of food since he was old enough to walk. You raise him without mercy, so why would he have any mercy to give? You watch him grow. He hits ten, twelve, fifteen. He is still on the street, but he isn't a cute little boy anymore. He is a young man with nothing. No skills. No family. No future. Just a lifetime of scratching and clawing to survive. If you are that boy, and your stomach is eating itself from the inside, and there is no food in sight, what do you do? Do you just lie down and die? No. You survive. And if that means stealing a loaf of bread from a market stall, you steal it. If that means joining a gang because the gang gives you food and a place to sleep, you join the gang. And then what happens when the hunger is gone, but the anger remains? What happens when someone comes along and hands that angry, abandoned boy a gun? What happens when they tell him, "The people who abandoned you, the society that ignored you they are the enemy"? You get a terrorist. You get a thug. You get a boy who has been dead inside since he was seven, and now he has nothing left to lose. And some of you have a words to justify that? Nice joke.
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Wallahi we are not ready, what kind of system looks at a child of 5 years old, a toddler, a baby who should still be clutching his mother’s wrapper and says, "You are on your own"? You see them everywhere in the streets of Arewa. Little boys with dirty faces and rusty bowls. They are infants sent out to battle the world with nothing but the shirt on their backs. At an age where their biggest worry should be scraped knees and whose turn it is to play with the toy, their biggest worry is, "If I don't find food today, I will sleep on an empty stomach again. We have created a culture where it is acceptable to drop a seven year old off at a mallam’s house and wash your hands of him. You don’t feed him. You don’t bathe him. You don’t hold him when he cries. You just leave him. You leave him to the streets. You expect him to beg from strangers to fill his stomach. You expect a child to understand humility when all he feels is hunger. And people wonder what happens next. You take a boy who has never known a soft hand. You take a boy who has never been tucked into bed. You take a boy who has had to fight for every crumb of food since he was old enough to walk. You raise him without mercy, so why would he have any mercy to give? You watch him grow. He hits ten, twelve, fifteen. He is still on the street, but he isn't a cute little boy anymore. He is a young man with nothing. No skills. No family. No future. Just a lifetime of scratching and clawing to survive. If you are that boy, and your stomach is eating itself from the inside, and there is no food in sight, what do you do? Do you just lie down and die? No. You survive. And if that means stealing a loaf of bread from a market stall, you steal it. If that means joining a gang because the gang gives you food and a place to sleep, you join the gang. And then what happens when the hunger is gone, but the anger remains? What happens when someone comes along and hands that angry, abandoned boy a gun? What happens when they tell him, "The people who abandoned you, the society that ignored you they are the enemy"? You get a terrorist. You get a thug. You get a boy who has been dead inside since he was seven, and now he has nothing left to lose. And some of you have a words to justify that? Nice joke.

𝐉𝐎𝐑𝐃𝐀𝐍

34,281 次观看 • 4 个月前

This teacher had her 2nd grade class write on their hand what they want to be when they grow up? I have to say, I was pleasantly surprised to see some hopeful, future police officers. A valiant career. 💯 The very last little girl who wrote “mom” at the end, that got me- that is a beautiful choice. 🥹 They haven’t the slightest idea of the hardships ahead of them …. I hope and pray they all make it through and achieve their dreams and much more. Always loved that song. ❤️ Do you remember what you wanted to grow up to be when you were that age?
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This teacher had her 2nd grade class write on their hand what they want to be when they grow up? I have to say, I was pleasantly surprised to see some hopeful, future police officers. A valiant career. 💯 The very last little girl who wrote “mom” at the end, that got me- that is a beautiful choice. 🥹 They haven’t the slightest idea of the hardships ahead of them …. I hope and pray they all make it through and achieve their dreams and much more. Always loved that song. ❤️ Do you remember what you wanted to grow up to be when you were that age?

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈

34,396 次观看 • 2 个月前

The city of Grand Rapids, Michigan holds an annual "Winter's a DRAG" event. This year it included a day-long drag celebration featuring grown men dressed up as women, performing adult themed s*xu*liz*d shows provocatively in front of children. Your tax dollars hard at work! Would you be able walk your kids down the street with this going on?
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The city of Grand Rapids, Michigan holds an annual "Winter's a DRAG" event. This year it included a day-long drag celebration featuring grown men dressed up as women, performing adult themed s*xu*liz*d shows provocatively in front of children. Your tax dollars hard at work! Would you be able walk your kids down the street with this going on?

Libs of TikTok

429,969 次观看 • 2 年前

"It is child abuse — and we will TREAT it like child abuse!" 🔥 Stephen Miller just laid down the law about radical gender ideology — so-called "gender affirming care." "It is child abuse to change a child's gender, particularly if you do not inform the parents." "If a five year old or a six year old goes to school, or a seven year old goes to school, and the teacher tries to turn the boy into a girl, or the girl into a boy. That is child abuse, and this administration is treating that as child abuse."
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"It is child abuse — and we will TREAT it like child abuse!" 🔥 Stephen Miller just laid down the law about radical gender ideology — so-called "gender affirming care." "It is child abuse to change a child's gender, particularly if you do not inform the parents." "If a five year old or a six year old goes to school, or a seven year old goes to school, and the teacher tries to turn the boy into a girl, or the girl into a boy. That is child abuse, and this administration is treating that as child abuse."

Townhall.com

182,010 次观看 • 1 年前

You’re at the water park letting your child enjoy herself when all of a sudden a boy starts becoming confrontational. He appears to be swinging at the other children. This mother decided to go tell him that is not ok but where is his parents. What would you do and would you say something to whoever is with the boy!
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You’re at the water park letting your child enjoy herself when all of a sudden a boy starts becoming confrontational. He appears to be swinging at the other children. This mother decided to go tell him that is not ok but where is his parents. What would you do and would you say something to whoever is with the boy!

Suzee Q

1,762,537 次观看 • 5 个月前

Ne-Yo blasts parents who let their children believe that they can pick whatever gender they want to be: “I feel like the parents have almost forgotten what the role of a parent is. If your little boy comes up to you and says, ‘Daddy I wanna be a girl,’ you just let him rock with that?”
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Ne-Yo blasts parents who let their children believe that they can pick whatever gender they want to be: “I feel like the parents have almost forgotten what the role of a parent is. If your little boy comes up to you and says, ‘Daddy I wanna be a girl,’ you just let him rock with that?”

Ian Miles Cheong

2,003,562 次观看 • 3 年前

Activist facing prison for exposing drag event for children Yohan Pawer says drag queens have been reading stories to five-year-old children in schools. French activist Yohan Pawer says he is facing possible prison time and a 45,000 € fine after denouncing what he describes as the sexualization of children at a drag-themed event in Nice, France. Pawer, founder of the Eros collective, says his activism began in 2024 after he “infiltrated a drag queens club” where, according to him, “drag queens [were] reading stories to five-year-old children in schools.” “I did a hidden camera,” he said. “And at the time it made a huge buzz in France.” Pawer says the backlash also exposed a political reality many refuse to admit: “Many people think that homosexuality, when you are homosexual, you are on the left. No, there are also homosexuals on the right.” That experience led him to create Eros, a collective of homosexuals opposed to left-wing LGBT activism. “That’s where Eros was born,” he said. Now, Pawer says he has been placed under investigation after denouncing a “drag queen picnic” allegedly promoted for children as young as five. He claims hosts used adult sexual language and that “there were stands with pornographic books” while “children [were] running right next to it.” “Because of denouncing that, I face one year in prison and a 45,000 € fine,” he said. “It is extremely serious.” According to Pawer, the complaint was filed by the Family Planning organization of Nice and a local LGBT group for “defamation and public insult.” But he insists: “We have all the evidence.” “What I denounce is that the world of children must remain the world of children,” Pawer said. “Why do adults come into the children’s world?” He says France is being swallowed by “wokism,” adding that “the government is complicit” and “turning a blind eye.” Pawer says he will fight the case. “It is out of the question that I be silenced,” he said. “I will fight until the end.”
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Activist facing prison for exposing drag event for children Yohan Pawer says drag queens have been reading stories to five-year-old children in schools. French activist Yohan Pawer says he is facing possible prison time and a 45,000 € fine after denouncing what he describes as the sexualization of children at a drag-themed event in Nice, France. Pawer, founder of the Eros collective, says his activism began in 2024 after he “infiltrated a drag queens club” where, according to him, “drag queens [were] reading stories to five-year-old children in schools.” “I did a hidden camera,” he said. “And at the time it made a huge buzz in France.” Pawer says the backlash also exposed a political reality many refuse to admit: “Many people think that homosexuality, when you are homosexual, you are on the left. No, there are also homosexuals on the right.” That experience led him to create Eros, a collective of homosexuals opposed to left-wing LGBT activism. “That’s where Eros was born,” he said. Now, Pawer says he has been placed under investigation after denouncing a “drag queen picnic” allegedly promoted for children as young as five. He claims hosts used adult sexual language and that “there were stands with pornographic books” while “children [were] running right next to it.” “Because of denouncing that, I face one year in prison and a 45,000 € fine,” he said. “It is extremely serious.” According to Pawer, the complaint was filed by the Family Planning organization of Nice and a local LGBT group for “defamation and public insult.” But he insists: “We have all the evidence.” “What I denounce is that the world of children must remain the world of children,” Pawer said. “Why do adults come into the children’s world?” He says France is being swallowed by “wokism,” adding that “the government is complicit” and “turning a blind eye.” Pawer says he will fight the case. “It is out of the question that I be silenced,” he said. “I will fight until the end.”

Rebel News

15,515 次观看 • 1 个月前

The narrator saw a 16-year-old boy crying at Amadi Roundabout. When asked what was wrong, the boy said he wanted to return to his village because the woman he was staying with was maltreating him. Someone gave him money, and he immediately tried to board a keke. A passerby advised him to walk down to Mile 1, where he could catch a bus to Abonnema. Before he could escape, the woman caught up with him. The narrator advised that if children do not want to stay with relatives or aunties, parents should let them go. He stressed that at 16, the boy is no longer a child and urged parents to hold onto their children. He recalled his mother’s words: “Even if it’s garri, we will drink it like that.”
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The narrator saw a 16-year-old boy crying at Amadi Roundabout. When asked what was wrong, the boy said he wanted to return to his village because the woman he was staying with was maltreating him. Someone gave him money, and he immediately tried to board a keke. A passerby advised him to walk down to Mile 1, where he could catch a bus to Abonnema. Before he could escape, the woman caught up with him. The narrator advised that if children do not want to stay with relatives or aunties, parents should let them go. He stressed that at 16, the boy is no longer a child and urged parents to hold onto their children. He recalled his mother’s words: “Even if it’s garri, we will drink it like that.”

ÓMÒÉLÉRÍNJÁRÉ

156,506 次观看 • 2 个月前

This US Army soldier says that since he joined the service, he gets more hate than love. Not this time. He recount a story at Walmart of a four-year-old boy running up to him and hugging his leg out of the blue. The little boy says that when he grows up, he wants to be a soldier. That little boy’s parents are raising him right! Nothing but love for our service members!
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This US Army soldier says that since he joined the service, he gets more hate than love. Not this time. He recount a story at Walmart of a four-year-old boy running up to him and hugging his leg out of the blue. The little boy says that when he grows up, he wants to be a soldier. That little boy’s parents are raising him right! Nothing but love for our service members!

AmericanPapaBear™

93,715 次观看 • 6 个月前

This dad called 911 because his seven year old autistic son wasn’t behaving and was having a tantrum. The officer that spoke with him told the father that it was completely inappropriate to call the police over this. He said they have an entire town to protect and three officers responded and then asks the dad while chuckling - “can’t handle a seven year old?” The dad tells him that he has called 911 twice before but no one has ever got mad at him like this officer. The officer tells him that they are approaching charging him with false summoning a police officer. He also tells him that if he can’t handle a seven year then maybe they should get CYS involved because clearly the dad needs parenting classes. 😳 Many said the officer was rude and didn’t have to be. That his job is to protect and SERVE the community and that the family was just reaching out, that he needed support and someone to to talk to because they have no idea how hard it is to raise an autistic child? But others said this is not a job for a police officer, that they aren’t counselors and therapists and that there are many resources available through the city that he should using. 💯 I am team police officer. Some may find it rude but this is not in their job description. And being the third time? You have to put a stop to the 911 calls. What do you think? Do you think the officer had a right to be upset and talk the way he was talking to the dad being that this is the third time this has happened? Or, do you think he should have had more compassion for the father?
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This dad called 911 because his seven year old autistic son wasn’t behaving and was having a tantrum. The officer that spoke with him told the father that it was completely inappropriate to call the police over this. He said they have an entire town to protect and three officers responded and then asks the dad while chuckling - “can’t handle a seven year old?” The dad tells him that he has called 911 twice before but no one has ever got mad at him like this officer. The officer tells him that they are approaching charging him with false summoning a police officer. He also tells him that if he can’t handle a seven year then maybe they should get CYS involved because clearly the dad needs parenting classes. 😳 Many said the officer was rude and didn’t have to be. That his job is to protect and SERVE the community and that the family was just reaching out, that he needed support and someone to to talk to because they have no idea how hard it is to raise an autistic child? But others said this is not a job for a police officer, that they aren’t counselors and therapists and that there are many resources available through the city that he should using. 💯 I am team police officer. Some may find it rude but this is not in their job description. And being the third time? You have to put a stop to the 911 calls. What do you think? Do you think the officer had a right to be upset and talk the way he was talking to the dad being that this is the third time this has happened? Or, do you think he should have had more compassion for the father?

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈

26,642 次观看 • 1 个月前

“This isn’t a debate about vaccinating your child or not. My 6 year old was vaccinated and hasn’t had issues, hasn’t been a sickly child, & never had any type of reaction. My 2 year old and 6 month old went for their wellness checks last week and both got the vaccinations they were due for. The way my heart broke in that drs office holding my 2 year old down to a table and letting someone stab a needle into his leg 3 times while he held my face and screamed mama to the top of his lungs is something I will never do again. Ever. I decided right then he would never get another vaccine. My 6 month old cried most of the way home then was PITIFUL the rest of the evening. I am his comfort, his only want and need, and even I couldn’t console my baby. It’s a no for me. I’m not as knowledgeable as a lot of my peers or my friends who don’t vaccinate their children, but I know enough to decide that I am comfortable not letting them have anything else injected into their little bodies or have to essentially torture them by holding them down to receive a shot full of God knows what. I say all this to say, if you vaccinate your kids, GREAT! If you don’t, GREAT! I don’t care either way! Again, my oldest is vaccinated. At that time, I thought that was best for him, for us. Six years and 2 more kids later, I no longer think that. And that’s okay. Here’s to doing what you think is best for YOUR child and trusting your mom instincts instead of just going along with it because it’s what your parents did for you, or what the drs tell you, you HAVE to do.” - Kaitlyn Wilson - ✍️
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“This isn’t a debate about vaccinating your child or not. My 6 year old was vaccinated and hasn’t had issues, hasn’t been a sickly child, & never had any type of reaction. My 2 year old and 6 month old went for their wellness checks last week and both got the vaccinations they were due for. The way my heart broke in that drs office holding my 2 year old down to a table and letting someone stab a needle into his leg 3 times while he held my face and screamed mama to the top of his lungs is something I will never do again. Ever. I decided right then he would never get another vaccine. My 6 month old cried most of the way home then was PITIFUL the rest of the evening. I am his comfort, his only want and need, and even I couldn’t console my baby. It’s a no for me. I’m not as knowledgeable as a lot of my peers or my friends who don’t vaccinate their children, but I know enough to decide that I am comfortable not letting them have anything else injected into their little bodies or have to essentially torture them by holding them down to receive a shot full of God knows what. I say all this to say, if you vaccinate your kids, GREAT! If you don’t, GREAT! I don’t care either way! Again, my oldest is vaccinated. At that time, I thought that was best for him, for us. Six years and 2 more kids later, I no longer think that. And that’s okay. Here’s to doing what you think is best for YOUR child and trusting your mom instincts instead of just going along with it because it’s what your parents did for you, or what the drs tell you, you HAVE to do.” - Kaitlyn Wilson - ✍️

“Sudden And Unexpected”

29,570 次观看 • 3 个月前

Watch Congressman Tim McBride, who pretends to be a woman, read the book "I am Jazz" to young children. He tells kids that it's "society's" fault that people thought he was a boy and because his parents loved him, they let him pretend to be a girl.
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Watch Congressman Tim McBride, who pretends to be a woman, read the book "I am Jazz" to young children. He tells kids that it's "society's" fault that people thought he was a boy and because his parents loved him, they let him pretend to be a girl.

Libs of TikTok

2,113,519 次观看 • 1 年前

Issues of paternity have shaped our society for generations, especially in Zimbabwe. They did not start today. I remember going to a funeral with my father in the 1990s, and as we sat around the fire the men began sharing stories. One of them has stayed with me ever since. A Zimbabwean doctor had married a nurse, and they struggled to have children. As usual, when there is no child, the blame was placed on the woman. She went to see her own doctor, who told her plainly that she was not the problem, and advised her to bring her husband for testing. The husband refused, as many Zimbabwean men tend to do. Their marriage eventually collapsed, with the man insisting he could not be the problem because he had a child with another woman before marrying the nurse. That woman, he said, was also a doctor, and he was raising that child. After the divorce, the nurse remarried another doctor, and she immediately fell pregnant. Because it was a tight medical community, the whole situation became a talking point. The ex-husband had loudly declared that his former wife was barren, yet here she was having one child after another, three in total, with her new husband. Meanwhile, the ex-husband remarried, and again there were no children. One day the ex-husband and his former wife met at a gathering. During a casual conversation, as people who once knew each other, she told him directly that he was raising a child who was not his. She told him that he had no capacity to father a child and that if he finally went for tests, he would discover the truth. She reminded him how he had insulted her and her parents, and how he had refused to listen. The revelation shook him. He went for tests, and it was confirmed that he was the problem. He had spent seventeen years looking after a child who was not his. The moral of the story is simple, and I always stress this when mentoring young people. When in doubt, check. In fact, even without doubt, check. A DNA test at birth saves you from future heartbreak. Many men are raising children who are not theirs. Some women know exactly what they are doing. Others genuinely do not know because their relationships overlapped before they settled down. In those cases, even the woman cannot be sure who the father is. So when you have a child, get a DNA test. If you ask for one and a woman becomes defensive or resistant, that is a major red flag. At that point, the test is no longer optional, it is necessary. That is the reality of life today. As they say, trust is beautiful, but DNA is confirmation. In this life we live, hope is not a strategy when it comes to your children, so test your child and protect your future, as the saying goes. I have DNA stories that I could share for a whole year. If compulsory DNA testing was demanded of all of us today, you will be shocked by what will come out. This brother in the video is now going through denial. He has been told the truth, but he is still in shock, which is why he is asking for silly things from this woman. It is hard for any man to discover that the child he believed was his belongs to another man. That is why DNA testing is a necessity and why it should be compulsory.
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Issues of paternity have shaped our society for generations, especially in Zimbabwe. They did not start today. I remember going to a funeral with my father in the 1990s, and as we sat around the fire the men began sharing stories. One of them has stayed with me ever since. A Zimbabwean doctor had married a nurse, and they struggled to have children. As usual, when there is no child, the blame was placed on the woman. She went to see her own doctor, who told her plainly that she was not the problem, and advised her to bring her husband for testing. The husband refused, as many Zimbabwean men tend to do. Their marriage eventually collapsed, with the man insisting he could not be the problem because he had a child with another woman before marrying the nurse. That woman, he said, was also a doctor, and he was raising that child. After the divorce, the nurse remarried another doctor, and she immediately fell pregnant. Because it was a tight medical community, the whole situation became a talking point. The ex-husband had loudly declared that his former wife was barren, yet here she was having one child after another, three in total, with her new husband. Meanwhile, the ex-husband remarried, and again there were no children. One day the ex-husband and his former wife met at a gathering. During a casual conversation, as people who once knew each other, she told him directly that he was raising a child who was not his. She told him that he had no capacity to father a child and that if he finally went for tests, he would discover the truth. She reminded him how he had insulted her and her parents, and how he had refused to listen. The revelation shook him. He went for tests, and it was confirmed that he was the problem. He had spent seventeen years looking after a child who was not his. The moral of the story is simple, and I always stress this when mentoring young people. When in doubt, check. In fact, even without doubt, check. A DNA test at birth saves you from future heartbreak. Many men are raising children who are not theirs. Some women know exactly what they are doing. Others genuinely do not know because their relationships overlapped before they settled down. In those cases, even the woman cannot be sure who the father is. So when you have a child, get a DNA test. If you ask for one and a woman becomes defensive or resistant, that is a major red flag. At that point, the test is no longer optional, it is necessary. That is the reality of life today. As they say, trust is beautiful, but DNA is confirmation. In this life we live, hope is not a strategy when it comes to your children, so test your child and protect your future, as the saying goes. I have DNA stories that I could share for a whole year. If compulsory DNA testing was demanded of all of us today, you will be shocked by what will come out. This brother in the video is now going through denial. He has been told the truth, but he is still in shock, which is why he is asking for silly things from this woman. It is hard for any man to discover that the child he believed was his belongs to another man. That is why DNA testing is a necessity and why it should be compulsory.

Hopewell Chin’ono

67,842 次观看 • 8 个月前

This little 6 year old drag queen's stage name is Lulu Lovely Twirl. A 6-year-old should be playing with LEGOs, riding bikes, and watching cartoons. Not performing provocative routines for adults. Childhood is not a stage show. Adults are supposed to protect children, not use them to push agendas or chase attention. This is child abuse. His parents need to take him to a psychiatrist for a group session. That's my opinion. What's yours? 🤔
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This little 6 year old drag queen's stage name is Lulu Lovely Twirl. A 6-year-old should be playing with LEGOs, riding bikes, and watching cartoons. Not performing provocative routines for adults. Childhood is not a stage show. Adults are supposed to protect children, not use them to push agendas or chase attention. This is child abuse. His parents need to take him to a psychiatrist for a group session. That's my opinion. What's yours? 🤔

🎹 Ames™ 🎹

13,049 次观看 • 1 个月前

The Emotional Risks of Skipping the "Rebellious Stage" Philosopher and author Alain de Botton on why adolescent rebellion is a psychological necessity. Most parents dread adolescence. But de Botton argues it might be the most important phase of your life and skipping it could haunt you for decades. Adolescence, that messy, tumultuous stretch between 12 and 19 is "commonly held to be a nightmare by parents," de Botton acknowledges. Lots of sighing. Lots of mutual commiseration. "When a child turns to its parent and goes, 'You ruined my life, I hate you, everything about you is ridiculous,' that is part of growth. That is part of a journey to adulthood." Without it, you don't become an adult. You become something far more fragile. The "Premature Adult" Trap De Botton draws a sharp distinction between a true adult and what he calls a "premature adult": "A premature adult is not an adult. They are a child who's had to act like an adult in order to protect the adults around them from their reality. And that's a brutal and cruel thing to have done to you." Children who never got to be messy, angry, or difficult didn't grow up. They just got good at performing adulthood and that performance has a cost. The Question You Should Ask on a First Date De Botton suggests that one of the most important things you could ever learn about a partner is whether they've had a proper adolescence: "Imagine on an early dinner date you say to somebody, 'Have you had an adolescence?' They might not really know what you're talking about, but what you're really asking is something extremely important." What you're actually asking is: Have you had a chance to be something other than merely good? Have you listened to your own feelings? Have you been angry in the way you needed to be in order to feel real? "Are you more than just an actor of adulthood? Are you actually mature, rather than a good boy or girl?" The Law of the Missing Stage The most sobering part of de Botton's argument is what he calls a fundamental law of psychological life: "If you haven't had all the stages that are necessary to growth, you will need to go back and repeat a stage. It's like a curriculum, an emotional curriculum. And the stages that we've missed, we need to go back and have them." This plays out in ways that can devastate relationships. People who never had their rebellious 15-year-old phase can suddenly "wake up" at 70 and need to live it out. The result? Chaos for everyone around them. "It's hard to be 15 when you're 50." What Parents Actually Owe Their Kids The most loving thing a parent can do is to let kids feel it fully, at the right age. "One of the most generous things that parents can do is allow their child to be who they are at every age. When you're five, have all the tantrums that you need to have at five." The tantrum at five. The rebellion at fifteen. The existential crisis at nineteen. These are signs that a child is being allowed to grow.
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The Emotional Risks of Skipping the "Rebellious Stage" Philosopher and author Alain de Botton on why adolescent rebellion is a psychological necessity. Most parents dread adolescence. But de Botton argues it might be the most important phase of your life and skipping it could haunt you for decades. Adolescence, that messy, tumultuous stretch between 12 and 19 is "commonly held to be a nightmare by parents," de Botton acknowledges. Lots of sighing. Lots of mutual commiseration. "When a child turns to its parent and goes, 'You ruined my life, I hate you, everything about you is ridiculous,' that is part of growth. That is part of a journey to adulthood." Without it, you don't become an adult. You become something far more fragile. The "Premature Adult" Trap De Botton draws a sharp distinction between a true adult and what he calls a "premature adult": "A premature adult is not an adult. They are a child who's had to act like an adult in order to protect the adults around them from their reality. And that's a brutal and cruel thing to have done to you." Children who never got to be messy, angry, or difficult didn't grow up. They just got good at performing adulthood and that performance has a cost. The Question You Should Ask on a First Date De Botton suggests that one of the most important things you could ever learn about a partner is whether they've had a proper adolescence: "Imagine on an early dinner date you say to somebody, 'Have you had an adolescence?' They might not really know what you're talking about, but what you're really asking is something extremely important." What you're actually asking is: Have you had a chance to be something other than merely good? Have you listened to your own feelings? Have you been angry in the way you needed to be in order to feel real? "Are you more than just an actor of adulthood? Are you actually mature, rather than a good boy or girl?" The Law of the Missing Stage The most sobering part of de Botton's argument is what he calls a fundamental law of psychological life: "If you haven't had all the stages that are necessary to growth, you will need to go back and repeat a stage. It's like a curriculum, an emotional curriculum. And the stages that we've missed, we need to go back and have them." This plays out in ways that can devastate relationships. People who never had their rebellious 15-year-old phase can suddenly "wake up" at 70 and need to live it out. The result? Chaos for everyone around them. "It's hard to be 15 when you're 50." What Parents Actually Owe Their Kids The most loving thing a parent can do is to let kids feel it fully, at the right age. "One of the most generous things that parents can do is allow their child to be who they are at every age. When you're five, have all the tantrums that you need to have at five." The tantrum at five. The rebellion at fifteen. The existential crisis at nineteen. These are signs that a child is being allowed to grow.

Kevin Tanaka

32,742 次观看 • 3 个月前