“Virginity is a social construct” shook the table? Oya, let’s break the table completely 👍

So I literally watch more than 2 mins of your video, hoping you to quote references from research and medical sources. All i got was opinions and more opinions and gaslighting. Woke generation indeed. You will heal❤️

Okay let’s dissect this topic carefully you don’t have to mislead the young girls. For us to arrive at the logic behind the value of virginity we have to explain what a social construct is. So a social construct is basically an idea that the society collectively agrees on rather than it being a natural phenomenon or law. For example we can see there’s night and day as it’s a natural phenomenon but some examples of social construct are Marriage, Beauty Standards, Religion, Currency, Gold, Diamonds these things have value because society as a whole agrees on it. Your currency is basically paper but it holds value because we all agreed on the value it holds. With that being said we have to understand that just because something is a social construct doesn’t make it bad or wrong. Now you make ask when did virginity become a thing of a value the answer is that it didn’t just become a law overnight it gained value overtime and I’ll address that. Now from a Moral viewpoint In a world full of Sex and Promiscuity keeping oneself signified a level of Discipline that grew on to become valued because back then DNA Tests didn’t exist and so Men had to make sure they got a virgin so they don’t give their inheritance to a child from another man. If we are looking at it also from a Religious view point we will also notice that all Mythologies and religions from the Greek, Egyptian, Christianity, Islam all symbolizes Virginity as the feminine Divine. It is described as a state of Purity free from earthly desires and corruption. Women who are no longer virgins are not worthless but a lot of women give up their bodies like commodities, some use it as a form of exchange to secure money, Positions, and other material things so a woman who remains chaste and doesn’t give in to desires will always hold value because it signifies a high level of discipline free from earthly desires. When men ask about body count it’s because they want to know the kind of person you are. Your body count tells a lot about the kind of person you are and that’s why most women lie. You don’t have to be a virgin but don’t be promiscuous because having sex with too many men means allowing them have access to you and a man looking to make you his wife would not be comfortable with a woman who many men has access to because if any of them means any harm to me they can get to me through you. Women get more attached to the people they have sex with more than men so imagine as a man your wife had so many lovers it takes just one to keep in touch with her and ignite memories and soon you have a cheating wife which is a weak link to the family. Also There a lot of Social Constructs that favors women I don’t see the feminist trying to stop that. Who said a man has to buy you a Ring and go down on one knee to propose? Who said a man has to pay bride price? Why aren’t you challenging those constructs? it’s because you value it so leave people to value what they value and look for someone that doesn’t value virginity just as you don’t. Case Closed.

And there’s men like me who want absolutely nothing to do with virgins. You better know how to throw it back or stay the fuck away from me😂

@antibrokefr Ashewo ni e 😂

I accept 😂

“If you want to marry a virgin be a virgin” same goes for women too… if you want to marry a rich man be a rich woman!!!!

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Dey f00l yourself and your fellow f00ls

You don’t have the brain capacity or bandwidth to properly understand or contribute to this conversation. Shift 😂

"Virginity is a social construct," right? Cool. Let’s break this all the way down. First off , God Himself set the standard. Not men. Luke 1:27: Why did God choose Mary to carry Jesus? She was a virgin 📣📣📣. That’s purity, obedience, and favor in God's eyes. So don’t get mad at men for wanting what God valued first. Leviticus 21:13: "He shall take a wife in her virginity." God commanded even spiritual leaders to marry virgins. Not “experienced” women oooo. So virginity was a requirement, not a suggestion. Deuteronomy 22 around 20/21: If a woman lied about her virginity, she was stoned to death. Why? Because virginity was tied to family honor, paternity, and legacy. This wasn’t oppression, it was order. Now let’s fast forward to today: You tell women virginity is a construct, so now a 17 year old is sleeping with 10 guys at fcking 17, thinking it’s empowerment, why? Virginity doesn’t exist right? Meanwhile, paternity fraud is through the roof. DNA tests are exposing modern women left and right and y’all still want men to just accept it? Nah. Men want loyalty. Men want certainty. We want to know if the child or children is/are ours. You don’t let 20 dudes take a test drive, crash the car, and expect one man to pay full price. Not possible. Women will only scream “virginity doesn’t matter” after they gave it up for free. But the standard never changed. Men still care. God still cares. Y’all just stopped caring. You don’t like it? Take it up with God. He started it. So, can we rest now? Gracias.

I didn’t start debunking virginity todayyy. I made this in 2022 and I still stand by it today.

Dear men, if she's not a virgin don't pay her dowry.

“Damned if you do, Damned if you don’t” - The reality of social media in one sentence

I should be a virgin bc I want to marry a virgin but you are broke and dream of marrying a rich guy . Otinshierey

Ah my own virginity is not a social construct o

Who edit your video???

Me. Why?

Because I like the editing, but for your brain nothing is there !!!

@elizaego What a comeback after an hour 😂

@elizaego You don’t need to rush things !!

Virginity is a social construct” so is money, marriage, passports, degrees, & even time itself. But funny enough, when life demands them, nobody calls it a construct. You people only remember “social constructs” when accountability knocks. Reality no dey argue Twitter theories.

Women want to escape accountability and sleep around . Nooo Virginity is a real thing .

Hoes in the comment section agreeing. But I won't lie, this makes a lot of sense. Society has influenced a lot of things like virginity but that doesn't mean imma marry a run through lady. Impossible.

why Osun shengeshe dey look for virgins to carry the calabash? Why was the Lord Jesus born of a virgin if it had no importance? Even you self would be not be proud of your daughter when she starts sleeping out at a tender age. But continue to sound solo smart.

Except an unmarried lady was rap,ed. Being a non virgin shows lack of self-discipline, respect for oneself and for your creator. No any narrative can change this. Understandably, people always try to justify their mistakes.

Holy Mary who birthed Jesus Christ was also a social construct.

It’s really how you believe that you’ve been making sense for days now. The fact your opinion has been trending doesn’t mean you’re making sense.

Deep down, everyone knows the truth that being a virgin shows sexual discipline and purity for a woman. But because you’ve been ran through, you’d spend time in your closet thinking of ways to change how the world sees you. You hope you can write long epistles and long talks to change our minds that you’re a hoe for being ran through by so many guys in your life before marriage, so you then bring up “Why aren’t men virgins” Lol Men don’t have to be virgins because sex doesn’t come easy for guys. They have to be at a certain social, physical and financial level to get sex, meanwhile for women, all she has to do is have a punani between her legs, and even Dogs would want to hit 🤦🏾 Now if this is the case, and everything with a stick wants to stick it between her legs regardless of her looks or personality or whatever, then it just means she lacks discipline if she lets every Tom, Dick and Harry stick their sticks there. It means she’s loose, ran through and should not be taken as someone who can be disciplined enough to go through marriage without emotional and psychological baggage’s. It means she’s so lose that she’d hit anything despite being married if the condition is right and she can get away with it. Virginity is not a social construct, it’s a proven method of vetting women based on moral and sexual discipline firstly before vetting her in other areas. It’s easy to cope with a woman who can’t cook than a woman who you don’t trust enough not to cheat on you with any person available due to her past of being loose and having so many body counts. “Virgins also cheat” YES But that’s like saying Aeroplanes also crash, therefore not using Aviation is the best way to commute. How many plane creases do you record a year? The chances of virgins cheating in marriage is significantly lower than that of a ran through hoe. It’s one thing to know facts, another thing to accept facts. But it’s witchcraft to try to twist facts to make men feel stupid for believing in what is right.

You talked trash, you came back to back it up with another trash talk with good video editing. This line of mental construct is basically a disgrace. Some of you say so much rubbish because you can stand in front of a camera.

To reduce virginity to "merely a social construct" oversimplifies its seriousness. Many social constructs, including the Yorùbá practice of demonstrating respect for elders through gestures like bowing or prostrating, hold rich meaning within their own culture, shaping identity and relationship. Virginity, too, can have personal or social meaning, whether tied to individual autonomy, cultural practice, or religion. Still, its value is not absolute it depends on cultures, eras, and individual values. A more potent counterargument would be that virginity does not have inherent value, that it's usually bound up with outdated gender roles, or that it isn't a measure of one's moral integrity. Acknowledging this diversity enables us to value why others hold dear to their virginity without thinking that it's the one, absolute virtue. I love your content. Keep it up 👍

This girl😂 I thought virginity means lack of s*xual experience When did it change from that? You can easily debunk that virginity is not and cannot be related to hymen. Where’s your references too? Where are your claims from too? It’s well sha😂

I'll leave this here

Too much sense!!!

You never do video to explain why men kneeling down to propose is a social construct You never do video to explain how a man being expected to provide in a household is a social construct You never do video to explain why a man being expected to take his woman on dates is a social construct But na virginity make you open camera, I know what you are

First of all Shey you get yansh ? Do 360 for the camera before I can say my take on it

I agree with her. The question is, does she also agree that men having to be the ones approaching women, men paying or providing for women, height, masculinity today, are all social constructs too?

Unfortunately she is right

I have been on Twitter for a while, so by that alone I've seen dumb ppl. But u are by far the most unintelligent fool I've ever come across on this app. Not bcos u've said something foolish that hasn't been said before, but the mere fact that u made this video puts u up there.

Make I marry girl wey her Toto done make gbim? Virgin or nothing, I’m going to marry girl who boy hasn’t touch her virginal

Matthew 1:18 NLT This is how Jesus the Messiah was born. His mother, Mary, was engaged to be married to Joseph. But before the marriage took place, while she was still a virgin, she became pregnant through the power of the Holy Spirit. The bible was before you are born.

Where is the research? I was expecting points backed up with Data?? Just words from your mouth? Ehya

Virginity is VALUABLE, if you’re r*ped it’s understandable but sleeping around or loosing your virginity just to please someone who’s not married to you is stupid thing to do. Men honor and value virginity.