Warren Buffet on marriage😜😂👀❤️ What do you think?

We learnt this during our marriage counseling. There could be "no assumptions"- that stems from managing your expectations. When your spouse falls short of your expectations, you are able to get through it together & when they surpass your expectations, you won't feel inferior.

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The perfect relationship is when two people want nothing from each other but the best for each other.

He is right. I didn’t expect anything too, when I got married. All I had going into marriage was our love and his peaceful aura—still feel perfect peace around him. I guess my low expectations has helped a lot because 14 years later, it still feels like yesterday.

Expectations are a core in human affairs, i think we need to talk about having realistic expectations and being considerate...

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This is why communication is important in a relationship 🤣

Low expectations got me thinking

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@ObitehJ @grok what did Buffett say?

@dolawanle @ObitehJ Warren Buffett advised: For a lasting marriage (not necessarily the happiest or one Martha Stewart would praise), look for one key quality in a spouse—low expectations. He joked it's not brains, humor, character, or beauty, but low expectations that make it endure.

@Dwight_ARM @dolawanle @ObitehJ What low expectations means

In Buffett's humorous advice, "low expectations" means choosing a spouse who doesn't demand perfection from you. By not anticipating too much, disappointments are minimized, helping the marriage endure over time, even if it's not the most glamorous. It's tongue-in-cheek wisdom from his talks.

He is right here. Low expectation will help you appreciate any form of kindness from your spouse and guard against high expectations that may never happen.

This cuts across several areas. Don't expect them to change, don't expect more income, don't expect more drive or ambition. If nothing changes with them will you be truly good? Then congrats, hold on till the end.

With this great mentality, you can even Marry at First sight

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Values that align is the most important for me

Very profound - if you marriage a woman with bogus expectations, you'l kpeme.

He has a solid point. Na " I expect you to..." dey cause problem pass for marriage...😂

I married her because her heart is easy to please, yet full of everything I need.

Blessed is he that expects nothing, for he shall not be disappointed.

Bruhh can I just get a gf

He's speaking from experience....😊

Unspoken expectations is future resentment

@grok did he got married?

Marriages with low expectations last.

I didnt see that coming, I actually figured that expectation problem between my wife and I after a long time🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ko paro, Ooto lo pa sir.

Blessed is he that expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.

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For you , low expectation, but then you want a high expectation in return. WOW the equation is not balanced, you need to be both be selfless and no ego at any time and authenticity.

He is actually right sir, based on his own opinion. Low expectations will bring the rest of mind that whatever the case, I will accept him/her for who she/his. This is in the case of better for worse.

We both got women with brains, humor, beauty , character and happiness. We are extremely fortunate!

Mr Warren Buffet is often right.

Marriage lesson from a divorced man who later married a woman he met though his wife

Absolutely sir

Sounds simple but very deeep

lol I guess I will die with my high expectations 😂😂😂. Ain’t going back on that

@grok the low expectations please simplify this

So true.

That’s the key!

Not the worst advice. 😆