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That lady really brought out anger in me, i literally had to block her cause who told her there’s reward for suffering???? And the nonchalant man she called a husband that one I have no words for him, their cross…

She said she didn’t have the strength to take the child back to the hospital but she had the strength to go home and cook at 5cm dilated

I am really glad that you made this video because we have a lot of illiterates and educated fools in this country. Cos I dont know what she was trying to prove or what the husband and families were thinking. This is not right at all. Stop celebrating nonsense.

All this on top of giving birth, ahhh 🙆🏼♀️😭 We deserved to be given princess treatment after all this. It is not to come and suffer after. Just make sure, you marry well and have the resources. From all of this, we can point out that, the issue is money and irresponsible husband. Marry for money, my beloved women. You don’t deserve to suffer after all this.

Even if there’s award for who suffer pass , I WILL NOT SUFFER.. Award for who strong pass? I’m not an Hebrew woman

One lady; four moral lessons😭😭 What a legend!!!!

Women like this disgusts me so much. They don’t love theirselves They’ve just come to this world to suffer and suffer Good luck to them.

It won’t cause them anything if they get a napep to take her home from the hospital than using bike but trust myopic people to think oh because of money and no car. No be everybody get car but for that day you can make provision for ease of transport for her and the baby

Thank you for making this video. I was genuinely angry when I saw it, but held back because even the husband seemed reluctant. No, let her collect Wife of the Year award. 🙄A woman who is 5cm dilated is in the kitchen cooking jollof rice? Does she have no family or support? Must everything fall on her because her husband cannot cook? Maternal deaths and childbirth complications are serious issues. Sometimes, it’s not village people; it’s ignorance, poverty, and harmful expectations we impose on women. Thank God she delivered safely, but what about postpartum complications, exhaustion, and recovery? Climbing an okada minutes after delivery is concerning, especially when she should be resting and getting adequate nutrition. Are women adequately educated during antenatal about childbirth risks and the importance of postpartum recovery? We need to stop glorifying suffering as proof of a good wife. Women deserve support, not awards for enduring unnecessary hardship.

Nigerian women love to compete for who suffer pass. Una doh! Continue!!! Doc please tell it to our African mothers also, sing it to them bikonu! Cus they feel they have magic solutions for babies that are not medically aligned.

This is poverty and lack of planning, And it’s annoying to me. How will your wife and new born baby be squeezing on bike or along cab where 4people are pack the back and 2 beside driver with a new born baby 🥲. Bolt sometimes is 2500 or 3K.

Not even mad at the men, it's the women really, you are the one in pain, you are the one whose life is at stake during labour, but you chose cooking for others over your own life, why should the man be chalant when you wey get the life dey nonchalant

Lizard swim, e shake body and dry but rat follow, e need 2 working days to dry. Just because say lizard dry fast, no mean say e like to swim. All these women & men of Hebrew lineage, if una like make una follow & use her as example. Flexing with risk. Even put baby for danger

Thanks for this video Dr. My gender will always try to win trophies for risk and suffering. Unfortunately, there’s no trophy for it. If most women actually understand what the body goes through just to give birth, they will give their body all the attention and care it deserves

Leave am she dey block her baby oxygen, she go con born pikin with cerebral palsy. She go begin church to church journey up and down. Mtchewww

Her hubby needs to he sued frfr 😑

With this stunt she pulled now! Some illiterate will now start thinking that “pregnancy is not a big deal! Labour is not a big deal” They’ll start comparing their wives to her! Please let’s stop all this unnecessary drama for clout 😩

Some women don’t love themselves

This people think everything is content, gambling with your life? You'll learn the hard way tho.

She dey compete with herself on who go suffer pass.

I am genuinely angry because I lost a cousin who delivered in a one room clinic owned by a woman, her third child but internal bleeding started and couldn’t be controlled, no blood collected as per usual standard before delivery and this girl just went like that.

I had a perineal tear too even inside the car going back home the way I sat down sef, it’s so painful!! This man came to see my mother in law and told me to sit right, the way I eyed him ehn my mother in law came back to say “do you know if he’s a doctor?”. He’s obviously NOT!!

The woman na suffer head

the way every pregnancy video on this app starts with a disclaimer but the comments still turn into a birthing class war zone

@Boladeismyname Very anyhow person

Person poor, e still no get sense join.

I don’t know what we were told as women to think our life is for gamble. This strength we like to prove, who promised an award?

I had a neighbour like this once. Same day she came back from labour room, when guests were around to visit she came out to light charcoal stove to cook and warm water. And friends are busy rubbing powder inside? Women who send una ooooo

This guy doesn't know anything. At 5 cm a nurse will tell you to go home or be walking around and come back ... They will even be insulting you. The woman cooking does 2 things. - hold the mind strong and steady. - the standing and walking that helps with dilation. Wokeness.

I couldn't stand her video. Gosh!!

Am her mumu Husband sleeping

