What are your thoughts on this❓

If your wife works, you aren't a provider

Both the husband and wife should help each other out and chip in where they can as much as they can. They have to work together. Neither the woman nor the man should have to do everything.

As a husband.... Yard work - maintenance and supply upkeep on equipment, winterization and etc. House work - Everything from CB's to roofing, to carpentry. Appliance maintenance - Washer, Dishwasher, and so on needs fixed. Car work - brakes, oil, wipers, batteries.

These are tik tokers this is their content…called rage bait

If he’s paying all the bills bitch you gotta cook and clean stfu

If both work then all those things should be divided. If one works and the other doesn’t then the one who doesn’t work should do those things. It’s not about man or woman, marriage should be a team effort and one not doing more or less than the other

Most men work blue collar jobs, and most women work white collar jobs. They are simply not the same.

He’s a man-child. Clearly, the situation isn’t working for her and he’s not even trying to find a solution because he has a sweet gig at her expense. And then somewhere down the line he’s going to wonder what happened to his marriage.

She’s right. This is the exact bs I dealt with from my ex while we were married. Same dumb excuses 🙄

Men work Women give birth

NO! YOU'RE PROBABLY LIVING ABOVE YOUR MEANS! CUT BACK! WIFE STAY HOME!

I love how women are all about everything is equal until we talk about money. If she makes 1/3 of the income, his job is more important and yes he should get time to decompress. If she loses her job, things will might be tight. If he loses his job, it will be a fucking disaster.

Solution: Marry a man who earns as much as you're. Otherwise, why do you seek equality when you're not ready to pay dowry. Ok I don't support Alimony & Dowry. But it's illogical, you marry a man who's superior than you in terms of making money, and then seek equality. Solution: Marry a man who earns as much as you're

Great example why women shouldnt work..

This nigga a L. She definitely said “i do more work than you” and you said you the bread winner? If you dont make more money so she can be a soft housewife you have no right to dictate what she does. Not even simping. You cant expect this dumb shit to carry on.

These arguments are dumb, if you both in administration, you both do chores, simple, if one person actually works with their hands and is on their feet all day, and the other is in administration, the on their ass admin person does the bulk of the chores, simply because their body is less worn done. And ladies most men won’t clean like you do, because our priorities are different and we see the world differently, it’s not gaslighting, it’s just brain wiring, it’s also why we view maintenance differently to women too, it’s about interest and priority ranking, just support each other in the ways you best can.

Than stay single booboo. Be your own husband and wife

The only reason women work is so she can say this thing. Pick a fight”

Without knowing the jobs they both do you can’t really tell. If he’s a roofer or anything else incredibly labour intensive, shut up and cook dinner. If it isn’t, then maybe something needs to be worked out. (Guys does sound like an ass tho)

I agree with the lady;; the man should meet her half way

The point is that the wife, if you have kids, should not be going to work. She should be looking after the kids, which also allows plenty of time to do housework/cooking. If both are working full time then housework etc should be split.

Manchild

Its ridiculous that women think they should gwt everything handed to them while men have had to struggle for their whole lifes trying to get everything we want and to make our family and loved ones happy and we still get thrown to the dirt and stepped on and treated like shit

This is an emotional argument and there is absolutely no winning. This is the s*** where the man in the relationship typically stands down and walks away because the technically will never win.

He’s got it all wrong, and I feel bad for these men and women. Everything is the man’s responsibility. Everything. It’s also the man’s responsibility to give appropriate roles and duties to his wife. And his children. You are to love your wife and be someone she wants to follow.

Ok for all women out there that are fucking hate getting dirty who do yall call or go to when your car needs fixed, who do you call when you need something fixed around the house like plumbing or lights or shi like that oh ya men

I am scared to put my opinion, but if she wasn’t working, and she was a stay at home mom and she was complaining about about it then that’s a problem, but in this case “They both work the same amount of hours” (WORK) they should come home and split the chores 😭 Don’t hate me 🥺

No the man has to help then he can chill

This dynamic works only if one person was working if both are working they need to ‘agree’ on who does what, however there is still a maturity gap between this couple, having to fight about who ‘does more’ is gigantic billboard that the relationship won’t make it.

She is right. If your wife is working you aren't a provider. You have to split the jobs at home.

She can choose to work or not; a man can’t. While she does small things daily (what she’s best at), a man has work + duties (chauffeur, bodyguard, plumber, electrician, gardener, trash boy, etc.). I’m missing the point here.

Both work. He has to help.

What she saying is correct only if they absolutely need the money but if she's just working for the sake of working she's avoiding her obligations in the relationship for the atomic family which he obviously wants