What are your thoughts ?

I don’t take weight loss advice from fat people or relationship advice from unmarried people.

Not bad

This is a woman's view about sex. Men's desire for sex is very high. Having sex every 3 days doesn't cut it for men.

Interesting take

She's wrong. Even when they're not in the mood, married couples need to be prioritizing sexual intimacy. Sexual intimacy is a factor that helps couples bind emotionally. That's why it's important. We all have to do things we dont feel like doing once in awhile.

Men trying to figure out the right conditions to get her to desire you.🤣🤣🤣

As a man, I’m a reactive listener. If you want intimate conversation, you need to create the right conditions for me so I’m ready to engage in that conversation. Otherwise it’s just duty listening. Women need to work harder at this, because this is their responsibility.

There is a frequency factor. Once a year will never keep you fulfilled. Need it very frequently, probably every three days, but in the right manner as described. It is not one ir the other but is both. Why can't we just understand that.

3 days is a lot to go without sex if you're married. Every 2 days. People especially women need to understand sexual intimacy is a duty in marriage. You got fulfill it and satisfy your partner sexually

The minute someone gives advice that addresses men's needs and make them feel seen, these one like her come out of the woodwork with the whataboutism yet advice for women is always one-sided and men are never considered, just perform romance, listen, provide 🙄 blah blah bla

Exactly why men cheat. Overthinking garbage

As a psychologist I agree with that number Men go between two extremes Intimacy and Autonomy If they have sex daily men will feel less and less interested by her This is why distance is important before the next time

Not really a quota but men and women usually have different sexual appetites. Finding someone with sexual compatibility, that also as important to the emotional connection too. If you both have very different sexual appetites, it will eventually end.

It's necessary for bonding

10 years married and still havesex pretty much everyday

How about the relationships where the men have been told that there’s a problem and being made to feel undesirable six months in the marriage and stop wanting intimacy from their wives because sexual intimacy comes at extreme cost and battles he no longer is endure especially when their wives gossip to their friends and family over resolve the issues with their husbands

This is coming from a Woman that is not married. This Sexologist lacks Credibility

They always focus on women from an emotional perspective, but from a purely physical standpoint, my pussy simply cannot handle every 3 days for life. It is delicate.

If my wife said we'll have sex every 3 days ... i'd have to go find 2 more wives and start a rotation🤷‍♂️

I came to scoff, instead, I found myself agreeing.

Should be daily

Theres a million out of work comedians and you gonna tell jokes

Uh, the last few sentences where you make it an either/or is incorrect. You completely forgot that different people men and women have different levels of baseline drive. If you can’t match this between you and your partner you’ll be always unsatisfied with the level of intimacy. Yes all of the things that you mentioned are important and you should engage in real intimacy with your partner - but emotional closeness is not a SUBSTITUTE for sex, and depend depending on your drive you will not be satisfied with less frequent sex - because you’re “closer” to your partner. The desire for more frequent sex is not quelled by “true intimacy”.

Having to do shores around the house so maybe she’ll “Feel like doing it” is not sexual desire.

She’s probably living alone Another thing it’s about maintenance If you don’t use it, you won’t have any Built-in need to reproduce 🤪🤪🤪

Read the Bible. Best sex advice ever

Hmm.. sounds like an expert of women. Not men.

Every time a dude jerks off he would rather be fucking. So...there is that.

Every three days? Cheap

Wtf is a “CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIP”??? 14 years??🤨

Everyday

Forget whether men should have sex 3 days a week or women should have sex once a month. You said you have 14 years in a conscious relationship? Did I hear you right?? What the f*** is that?? Why the f*** hasn't this man married you and if not why haven't you moved on?! Wow!!😂

Soooo back to step 1 less sex and divorce

Load of shit. I’ve had sex with my partner less than 10 times in the 8 months we’ve been together. I’m fine. She’s fine. I don’t want to sleep with her and we aren’t sexually attracted to each other anymore. So don’t listen to this shit.

Note to men: Treat all modern women like a loaded gun.