What do you think is the problem?

She’s in the “high maintenance zone,” attractive enough that high value guys will want to chat, but not attractive enough where a guy is willing to risk it all. I can also tell by her demeanor she is getting into “desperate” territory. For high value dudes, they can smell this

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@lance31329415 Nothing here speaks to a person you'd want to spend your life with. AND, anyone documenting and displaying their lives on social media is immediately unsuitable.

@FrenchOG3 True. You can tell how desperate she is for attention. Don’t get me wrong, I’d chill with her, but I wouldn’t lock her down.

Here’s the truth bomb: The only men she’s interested in are high value men that attract multiple beautiful women, and she is pretty mid so there’s no reason why they would try hard with her She needs to lower her standards if she wants more effort from men

Once post-nut clarity hits she has zero value to give. That simple really.

She's old as fuck. Mystery solved.

The guys she’s into are not interested in her.

You can tell in the first 5 seconds from the tone of her voice and the fact she is making a video. Navel-gazing intellectual women are un-wifable because they dont know how to live in a state of simply being feminine. Instead they are in a hyper-aware anxious state of dissecting and critiquing everything, which eventually gets directed at their man. Women like this are never happy.

There it is guys - piano toes.

face of a 40 year old, mind of a teenager

She has a roster of guys who won't put a ring on it... because she has a roster...

But if a guy comes with all dates and attention she’s not gonna want him

she needs to lose 10 kg

In the past we had post nut clarity which was temporary. Nowadays, we have post-feminism clarity which will likely last at least a generation. I know that I will NEVER trust Western women again. They're ALL witches to me. And they offer literally 0 value to me.

Exactly why women aren’t having sex for fun anymore

Or is it because they are not having sex anymore they are being breadcrumbed

Or is it bullshit and she’s just interest in testing men en masse to provide her security? therefore disqualify them?

Seems more like the guys were interested enough in a low effort bang but one or two more dates and they can’t be asked. But she got invested in the process and can’t deal with unclosed loops. Looks like she is punching.

Not girlbossing hard enough

She's matching "too high" with guys who're not really into her

She's not interested in reality. Nor most people. Short answer. She's aged out of what she wants. Long answer. She's dating... first fail. Dating is the opposite of what wise people do. Dating is trying to share fun times with someone and bond over them. They are both faking best behavior. They do it long enough to feel comfortable having sex. Purposefully avoiding conversations about who they really are that would ruin the fun. The vast majority still do this and can't be honest about it. Unfortunately for her guys her age have learned. They are nothing more than checklists to most women. Height, $$$, and build. Unfortunately for those shallow women, the shallow guys with all 3 of those will choose younger women. Dating site data is undeniable. 80% of women go for 20% of men. 80% of men fo for 80% of women. They can quickly sense narcissism now. Example: Exhibit A. Honest person. My ex and I didn't work out. I lied to myself or was impatient and rushed in because I was tired of being alone. It's all my fault on what they did to me. I'll never do that again. Exhibit B. Narcissist. My ex was a demon that did this this this and that. Poor me. This woman is complaining publicly. This is her. Men know she'll trash them to everyone. <------ shallow men will have casual sex and leave. Wise men RUN away. The 20% of women who are not shallow and vain should be absolutely cherished if you are blessed enough to have 1.

She’s nearing 40, who’s gonna commit to that?

If you film yourself complaining on camera and click “post”. I wouldn’t want to be with you. What else do you give that no one asks for?

The juice ain’t worth the squeeze

She seems to be attracting men in their 30s. Men in 30s have their heartbroken and have no interest in simping to a woman. As Nietzsche said, The price of loving someone very much is never loving anyone again.

The male biological response is intact, but the brain sends a strong signal of risk aversion and he doesn’t pursue 🤷‍♂️

She’s too old. Guys want to smash but that’s it.

You’re older you missed the boat so here’s my advice

Just go for blk guys... they would fk any white women. no standards, just anything white that moves. they would give it to you, if you are so fkn picky about dates. no guarantee he would stick around for the babies though.

she’s old and targeting guys who are above her level obviously. guys are interested in these girls, then these get pushy and they park them and go after hotter more fun younger girls

She played herself out of the game. Sometimes waiting for the highest bidder leaves you waiting….now most men are too exhausted for effort. So they’ll dip their toe in the water but that’s it.

When you cultivate a reputation of granting disparate prices to different consumers, new consumers will naturally develop a mixture of wariness &amp; resolve NOT to pay more NOR invest more time than prior consumers paid (i.e. the douchebags who got full service, paid nothing &amp; left)

She has slightly masculine features and personality

She has rights. That's the problem.

Because you look like a job. You add nothing to a man’s life. There’s more pleasant women to date.

Old, ugly (lbs. of makeup), addicted to social media (massive risk to you socially), extremely inflated value. Only dipshits will go near that, even for recreation.

She’s dealing with men who only see her as a sexual object. This means she’s overvaluing herself. Sure she can get fucked, but she’s looking for commitment. She needs to do what she won’t — lower her standards. Men are very simple. If they like you, you’d know.

She sounds old and bitter.

You ever try making this face?

French what’s the chance she’s having sex with a guy who spends $0 and takes her on zero dates?