What exactly do men get from marriage?🤔

The hardest question our dear women can never answer.

A man can become so good at solving problems that his family forgets he occasionally needs someone to solve him.

That’s our punishment from God. Read your bibles or Quran

You can build a home brick by brick and still spend years wondering why you feel like a visitor inside it.

THANK YOU!!!!! Marriage is absolutely a BAD contract for men.

A man can buy flowers, pay rent and fix the leaking tap. He still needs to feel desired, not merely maintained.

Facts. But that shit is done and over with in the States. I used to want to be married. Not anymore

A man can have the keys to the house, the title deed and the final word on nothing. Welcome to modern confusion.

Exactly. And gets worse everyday. The west is 100% cooked. Between feminism…which the forces-to-be ALLOW…and social media, there’s no coming back. People say there needs to be a “Great Reset”, but it’s just talk. It’ll never happen. And the more social media saturates the world, it’ll be even more globalized. Maybe other countries…ones that haven’t lost their balls and don’t give a damn what women say…will have an epiphany and reset their countries. But in the west? It ain’t happening.

Ask Jesus what he benefit from the church as the husband of the church. He provides, he heals, he cares, he carries responsibilities of the church, yet his people at a times are ungrateful to all these provisions. So what is Jesus getting in return? Marriage is typified to this.

Don't compare Jesus to a human like you.

That is the wrong question. A man is the bearer of the vision and the foundation of the family. Everybody else in there is meant to support him to achieve that vision.

The real test of marriage isn't how you treat each other when money is flowing. It's who you become when the taps run dry.

Are we going to keep walking in the shoes of our ancestors, All in the name of 'safety ' or 'acceptable' ?

😂 peer pressure from people

Exactly 😊

If we look into it deeply. I don't think men gain much from marriage. Marriage demands too much from men. They expect a certain level of openness, behaviour from men. Then they go ahead to do the same thing. If you dare question that, they end up to gaslight u.

A man can lose his job and discover something frightening: the marriage suddenly has a completely different temperature.

The bride is the first dependent, followed by children that’s the groom responsibilities. A little bit of joy is received from the children and intimacy from the bride. Add it all up, husbands receive a whole lot of #responsibilities and could complain but who’s gonna listen?

A man doesn't necessarily want control over his wife. Sometimes he wants to know his voice still carries weight in his own house.

If she isn’t under his control, whose control is she under, to have her husband unsure, if his voice, still carries weight in their home?

Men are witnesses to the “out of control”behaviour with horrific solutions.

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It's only men who spend time with their family who benefit. Why? You bond and get to know each other better. Meaning respect, focused and better treatment because your family understands you. If you stay away from you family. Everyone treats you as a stranger.

The strange thing about being “the man of the house” is that everybody brings you problems, but nobody asks where you put yours.

I think she should go and ask her mother

Some marriages don't need another financial plan. They need two tired people to sit down and admit, “We're not okay.”

Hahahahhaa respect 🫡 Not being Genz s

If a man is poor and have a good wife, he will be at ease and feel like a king. And if a man is rich, and has a nagging wife, everyday is for drama. Only men who married good wives enjoy and benefit from marriage. A good woman is like a bed, a resting place for a man.

A man shouldn't have to bring home a payslip before he gets affection. Otherwise that's employment with wedding rings.

No wonder men don't wanna get married

Some wives want a provider. Some husbands want peace. Both can earn salaries and still go home emotionally broke.

Man dont ask questions thr moment you ask lots of questions you stop being a man . Questions are women business 😂😂

The dangerous part isn't a wife earning more than her husband. It's when money quietly becomes the measure of whose opinion matters.

I Hear children & sex as if women don't want children and in sex are always the ones abusing 2min men🤣👋

A man can survive without applause. What slowly kills his spirit is doing good for years and being treated like it's his job description.

Marriage is the main institution that helps him unleash his potential, we all need that challenge to display our potential. Marriage is that institution that helps a man to confidently say i know i can defeat anything, i am the man who God said i am. It is difficult for a men to really show his maximum capacity, strength, ability and to leave his purposeful life without being in that institution called marriage. It is in a marriage where men can face all possible challenges of life

The problem with being the family provider is that eventually everyone knows your income, but nobody knows your fears.

Men are the foundation of the family, and like in every buildings, foundations is designed and spec to carry the entire weight of the building, men are built to carry the entire weight of the family. It comes natural. Men are built to even win against fear of any unknown. No one should apologies for pushing every problem to the men, its our responsibility to carry it

👍🏼 Sometimes a man doesn't need his wife to fix his problems. He needs her to notice he's carrying them.

Not sometimes, always. A men doesn’t need his wife to fix his problems, he also doesn’t needs her to notice he is carrying, she is incapable of realising that and its unfair to expect her to. Men need his dreams and vision to make him understand he has a purpose to fulfil and his conviction of his capability, a woman is there to test how strong the men is and to test his capacity and capabilities. Same as marriage is there to refine him

The modern women, no matter the level of education still don't know this!

Some husbands aren't emotionally unavailable. They're emotionally exhausted from always being the one expected to hold everything together.

Even me I don't know. I think Purpose and children. Especially if it's a God ordained marriage.

The real test of marriage isn't how you treat each other when money is flowing. It's who you become when the taps run dry.

Sex and Dignity

A marriage can have money, children and a nice car outside while quietly running on emotional fumes inside.

(*cue crickets chirping, or some dumb b*tch "logic"*)

You can give a woman security, children and a beautiful home, then discover you've become furniture.

He is getting disrespect and depression

A man may forgive a bad meal faster than he forgives feeling like the least important person at his own dinner table.

A loving partner and a lifelong teammate.

What we put jn

A man may not be tired of providing. He may be tired of feeling that nobody notices the man doing it.

Her mother had some rough di*ck ride from the husband to make her, now she's an anti husband advisor! Nkt

The cruelest part of marriage isn't carrying the load. It's carrying it while wondering if you're wanted.

@grok who is this woman?

We get a woman to disturb our peace.

Not all women are stressing factors

Why should men get married actually?

There are men who don't want another woman. They want their own wife to look at them like she still sees the man she married.

In all, men are not getting anything out of marriage.

We get absolutely nothing

Marriage becomes peaceful when neither person needs to win every argument.

If you marry the right one you get a real partner to battle life with...if not.. then.... you get absolutely nothing

Tough questions

Some husbands aren't financially broke. They're relationally bankrupt, and nobody checks that account.

Critical questions 😂

Some men don't leave because they hate marriage. They leave because home stopped feeling like home.

But aside from a home no longer feeling like home, those questions clearly highlight the fact that marriage is largely a woman's institution, in that it benefits her more than it does a man.

MArriage can be a motivator for a man that is not exactly self motivated Issue nowadays is with a bored wife, she can cheat,file for divorce, take all your stuff, half your retirement, alienate the kids from you & go live with the guy she cheated with I'd rather play Roulette, better odds

we suffer

Some husbands aren't asking for submission. They're quietly asking, “Do I still matter when I provide nothing?”