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What the Bible Actually Says About a Constantly Arguing Woman Scripture doesn’t mince words on this. Proverbs 21:9 says it is better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Proverbs 21:19 goes further: better to live in a desert than...

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@wickedcece315 Keep the home in peace. It’s better to hold your tongue than argue.

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That is such a powerful message. Wives read it, memorize it, seal it in your heart, LIVE it God bless 🙏

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Well said, Sister Nancy. Scripture isn’t singling out women as the only source of contention, it warns all of us about the destructive power of an uncontrolled tongue and a quarrelsome spirit. A godly marriage isn’t about winning arguments, it’s about honoring Christ and one another. “A soft answer turneth away wrath.” (Proverbs 15:1) Peace begins when pride ends. 🙏✝️🎯

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It is so important to focus on building up our homes and fostering genuine peace instead of letting constant conflict and bitterness tear apart the relationships that matter most.

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A wise builder chooses peace over the last word. Proverbs 14:1 shows the difference: one path tears down day by day, the other quietly strengthens the whole house. That daily choice of gentleness is real strength, and it multiplies joy for everyone under the roof.

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Amen. Find come for snd strength in Jesus

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Amen. Real strength is building the home in peace, not winning every argument. Proverbs hits hard for a reason — thank you for sharing this reminder. 🙏

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Proverbs pairs the warning with the blueprint: a wise woman builds her house (14:1). Peace isn’t the absence of opinion—it’s choosing words that strengthen the foundation instead of cracking it. That shift from “winning” to “building” is the real daily work.

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Powerful truth from Proverbs. A home thrives on peace, not perpetual conflict. Self-control and a gentle spirit build far more than winning every argument. 🙏

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This insightful take on Proverbs rightly emphasizes that a spirit of peace and mutual self-control builds stronger homes and marriages for everyone involved.

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I Agree 💯%

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True.... evaluate circumstances, support , promote the path that builds maximum virtues; Evade hubris,open& teachable to the LORD, yet value your self worth, self esteem accdg to the LORD'S measure. Prov 31

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Goodnight Nancy!

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@AmericaPulseNew In view of the many “influencers” out there encouraging young women to see their husbands as responsible to meet every need,this is a good reminder that marriage is given to us as a blessing, not a power struggle. Expect more of yourself. Be your best. Give yourself peace.Pray.

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Had a wonderful wife of nearly 50 years and being a cop i know how lucky I was when God chose her for me. We didn't always agree but we didn't argue and never went to bed angry. Mad maybe, once or twice, but not angry.

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Amen Sister. It is a shame that more women don't understand this. And men as well.

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Lord, change my heart.

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That is great advice for everyone. Think about what you are about to say, before you say it. Words have power.

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Thank you so much for your post🙏 The 10 commandments was given to mankind to follow not the way of twisted minds of violent and corrupt humans. Satan and his followers are strong today but the WRATH of our ONE and ONLY God is Mighter than the entire Universe,keep that in mind🤨

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Lord Yeshua...I Fully acknowledge, Seek...and Humbly come before You..I Choose to Surrender and ne Broken in Your Presence. ...I give You Yeshua.. Full Authority to Please Change my Very Imperfect Heart. ...and Lead me...to seek and find a Woman...who acknowledges and is committed..to do the same....as we Humbly regularly are led by Your Beautiful Precious Majestic Unstoppable Holy Spirit. Thank you Yeshua

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Marriage was never designed to be a battleground for control. Love is not a license to change or control your spouse. There is no verse in Scripture that authorizes you to treat your husband or wife like your oldest child. God established divine order in the home, but that order was never meant to become a weapon. When you fight over headship, you’re fighting against God’s design. Real love releases control and replaces criticism with praise. The Bible commands husbands to love their wives and wives to reverence their husbands - not manipulate, dominate, or belittle them. Responsibility is the key to greatness - and it is also the key to a healthy marriage. Blaming your spouse for your emotional frustration will not fix your relationship. Accept responsibility for who you have become and for the quality of your marriage. If you do not take happiness into marriage, you will not find happiness in marriage. The Apostle Paul declares in Ephesians 5:33 that husbands are to love and wives are to reverence. Reverence means to stand in awe. When love and respect meet, heaven touches earth in your home. Try it. It works. Replace control with honor. Learn how in What Every Man Wants in a Woman & What Every Woman Wants in a Man
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I've become a missionary with one message. Every time I meet a young person, the same words: have children, get married, build a family. I did not decide on this calling. It overtook me. And it overtook me for a single reason. I had no idea. I genuinely did not understand how much joy, how much meaning, how much sheer beauty pours out of a child until I was holding one of my own and felt the floor of my life drop into something deeper than I knew was there. I grew up white, affluent, secular, comfortable, and insulated. That world does not put babies in front of you. None of my friends were starting families. Out of my whole circle, almost no one has a big one. We were not formed by the presence of children. We were formed by their absence, by the strange quiet of homes built for two careers and no cradle. And a person believes what his world shows him. So we believed. What we believed was a lie. It is a lie with an author, and that the author is the enemy of joy himself. It is the gospel of the world, and its commandment is wait. Wait until you are older. Wait until the career is built and the savings are stacked and the twenties are properly spent. Enjoy your freedom. You are not ready. It does not arrive sounding like temptation. It arrives sounding like wisdom, like prudence, like the responsible thing, and that is exactly why it works. The most effective lies are the ones that wear the face of virtue. And the maddening thing is that it collapses from every angle at once. It is not rooted in biology, because the body is made for this work precisely in the years we are told to postpone it. The flesh keeps a calendar the culture pretends not to see. And it is not rooted in theology either. You will not find this deferral anywhere in the Christian imagination, in any of the fathers, in any of the scriptures. So choose whatever lens you like. Take the cold secular measure or the ancient sacred one. By either light the counsel is rotten. It is bad for the body and bad for the soul and bad for the society downstream of both. This is why I have come to see it as one of the central tragedies of my generation. Every age carries its own wound. The Great Depression was a depression of bread, a scarcity in the world of matter, hunger you could measure. Ours is a depression of a different order. It is a famine of the spirit in the middle of abundance. We have more than any people who ever lived and we are starving in a way our ancestors would not recognize, because the thing we are refusing cannot be bought and cannot be banked. The ones most made to give and receive this love are quietly declining it. They are walking away from the one inheritance that actually compounds, and the cruelest part is that they do not feel the loss as loss. You cannot grieve what you were taught not to want. That is the deepest cut of it. The lie does not only steal the thing. It steals the capacity to know the thing was stolen. A man can spend his whole life on the far side of a door he never knew was a door, mistaking the wall for the edge of the world. Because this beauty is not ordinary beauty. It is not the pleasure of a good meal or a clear morning. It is participation in something that comes down from above, the same generative love that spoke everything out of nothing and called it good. To make a person, to be undone and remade by loving that person more than your own life, is to be drawn for a moment inside the very act that holds the cosmos together. A child does not merely add to your life. A child reorders the soul. It teaches you what you are by asking everything of you, and you discover, kneeling there exhausted at three in the morning, that you had a capacity for self gift you never suspected, a depth in yourself you had no other way to reach. In the Gospel of John, on the last night, Jesus prays, these things I have spoken to you that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete. And I have come to understand why family is the road into that fullness, why it is not one path among many but the one most fitted to the shape of the promise. Consider who is praying. Christ does not come to us as a lone figure dropped out of the sky. He comes out of a family older than the world, the eternal communion of Father and Son, the love between them so total and so alive that theologians dared to call it a third person. Before there was anything, there was a family. The deepest fact about reality is not a force or a law or a void. It is a household. It is begetting and being begotten, giving and receiving, a Father who is only a Father because there is a Son. So when Jesus speaks of joy made complete, he is not pointing away from family toward something higher. He is pointing toward the very thing he came from, the life he has known from eternity and came to share. His joy is the joy of belonging utterly to a Father and pouring himself out for those he loves. When you marry, when you bring a child into the world, when you wear yourself down in the small unseen labors of a home, you are not stepping outside that divine life. You are stepping into a small image of it. Your family is a created echo of an uncreated one. The love you give your child rhymes with the love the Father has for the Son. The exhaustion, the tenderness, the way a parent would tear the sky open to protect a sleeping infant, all of it is the heavens pressed faintly into flesh, the eternal household leaving its fingerprint on yours. That is why the joy is not merely added to family but completed in it. We were made in the image of a God who is, at his very root, relation and gift and generation. To found a family is to do the most Godlike thing a creature can do, to participate from below in the begetting that God does from all eternity. Your home becomes a window. Through it, dimly and imperfectly, you glimpse the country you came from and are going to. And now a word for the young people reading this, the ones who do not yet have children. I want to tell you what it is like from where I stand. When I am out somewhere, a restaurant, anywhere, and a large family comes through the door, the noise and the chaos and the small bodies of them, something happens in me on two levels at once. The first is joy. A pure gladness at the sight, the way you feel watching something good and alive. But underneath it, almost in the same instant, a sadness reaches up and takes hold of my heart. Because I know now, at my age, after my own years of waiting, that I will never have that. I will never know the particular fruit of a family that large, the fullness of that table, the weight of all those lives gathered under one roof. The door to it has quietly closed, and I felt it close. And I am telling you plainly, because I love you and have no reason to lie to you: you will feel this too. You will. The day will come when you see what you passed up, and you will recognize the ache for what it is, and it will be too late to answer it. So please, learn from a man who got it wrong. Let my regret be worth something by becoming your wisdom. Do not wait yourself into a grief you cannot undo. Choose now, while the door is open, so that you may step into a joy that does not end.
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I've become a missionary with one message. Every time I meet a young person, the same words: have children, get married, build a family. I did not decide on this calling. It overtook me. And it overtook me for a single reason. I had no idea. I genuinely did not understand how much joy, how much meaning, how much sheer beauty pours out of a child until I was holding one of my own and felt the floor of my life drop into something deeper than I knew was there. I grew up white, affluent, secular, comfortable, and insulated. That world does not put babies in front of you. None of my friends were starting families. Out of my whole circle, almost no one has a big one. We were not formed by the presence of children. We were formed by their absence, by the strange quiet of homes built for two careers and no cradle. And a person believes what his world shows him. So we believed. What we believed was a lie. It is a lie with an author, and that the author is the enemy of joy himself. It is the gospel of the world, and its commandment is wait. Wait until you are older. Wait until the career is built and the savings are stacked and the twenties are properly spent. Enjoy your freedom. You are not ready. It does not arrive sounding like temptation. It arrives sounding like wisdom, like prudence, like the responsible thing, and that is exactly why it works. The most effective lies are the ones that wear the face of virtue. And the maddening thing is that it collapses from every angle at once. It is not rooted in biology, because the body is made for this work precisely in the years we are told to postpone it. The flesh keeps a calendar the culture pretends not to see. And it is not rooted in theology either. You will not find this deferral anywhere in the Christian imagination, in any of the fathers, in any of the scriptures. So choose whatever lens you like. Take the cold secular measure or the ancient sacred one. By either light the counsel is rotten. It is bad for the body and bad for the soul and bad for the society downstream of both. This is why I have come to see it as one of the central tragedies of my generation. Every age carries its own wound. The Great Depression was a depression of bread, a scarcity in the world of matter, hunger you could measure. Ours is a depression of a different order. It is a famine of the spirit in the middle of abundance. We have more than any people who ever lived and we are starving in a way our ancestors would not recognize, because the thing we are refusing cannot be bought and cannot be banked. The ones most made to give and receive this love are quietly declining it. They are walking away from the one inheritance that actually compounds, and the cruelest part is that they do not feel the loss as loss. You cannot grieve what you were taught not to want. That is the deepest cut of it. The lie does not only steal the thing. It steals the capacity to know the thing was stolen. A man can spend his whole life on the far side of a door he never knew was a door, mistaking the wall for the edge of the world. Because this beauty is not ordinary beauty. It is not the pleasure of a good meal or a clear morning. It is participation in something that comes down from above, the same generative love that spoke everything out of nothing and called it good. To make a person, to be undone and remade by loving that person more than your own life, is to be drawn for a moment inside the very act that holds the cosmos together. A child does not merely add to your life. A child reorders the soul. It teaches you what you are by asking everything of you, and you discover, kneeling there exhausted at three in the morning, that you had a capacity for self gift you never suspected, a depth in yourself you had no other way to reach. In the Gospel of John, on the last night, Jesus prays, these things I have spoken to you that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete. And I have come to understand why family is the road into that fullness, why it is not one path among many but the one most fitted to the shape of the promise. Consider who is praying. Christ does not come to us as a lone figure dropped out of the sky. He comes out of a family older than the world, the eternal communion of Father and Son, the love between them so total and so alive that theologians dared to call it a third person. Before there was anything, there was a family. The deepest fact about reality is not a force or a law or a void. It is a household. It is begetting and being begotten, giving and receiving, a Father who is only a Father because there is a Son. So when Jesus speaks of joy made complete, he is not pointing away from family toward something higher. He is pointing toward the very thing he came from, the life he has known from eternity and came to share. His joy is the joy of belonging utterly to a Father and pouring himself out for those he loves. When you marry, when you bring a child into the world, when you wear yourself down in the small unseen labors of a home, you are not stepping outside that divine life. You are stepping into a small image of it. Your family is a created echo of an uncreated one. The love you give your child rhymes with the love the Father has for the Son. The exhaustion, the tenderness, the way a parent would tear the sky open to protect a sleeping infant, all of it is the heavens pressed faintly into flesh, the eternal household leaving its fingerprint on yours. That is why the joy is not merely added to family but completed in it. We were made in the image of a God who is, at his very root, relation and gift and generation. To found a family is to do the most Godlike thing a creature can do, to participate from below in the begetting that God does from all eternity. Your home becomes a window. Through it, dimly and imperfectly, you glimpse the country you came from and are going to. And now a word for the young people reading this, the ones who do not yet have children. I want to tell you what it is like from where I stand. When I am out somewhere, a restaurant, anywhere, and a large family comes through the door, the noise and the chaos and the small bodies of them, something happens in me on two levels at once. The first is joy. A pure gladness at the sight, the way you feel watching something good and alive. But underneath it, almost in the same instant, a sadness reaches up and takes hold of my heart. Because I know now, at my age, after my own years of waiting, that I will never have that. I will never know the particular fruit of a family that large, the fullness of that table, the weight of all those lives gathered under one roof. The door to it has quietly closed, and I felt it close. And I am telling you plainly, because I love you and have no reason to lie to you: you will feel this too. You will. The day will come when you see what you passed up, and you will recognize the ache for what it is, and it will be too late to answer it. So please, learn from a man who got it wrong. Let my regret be worth something by becoming your wisdom. Do not wait yourself into a grief you cannot undo. Choose now, while the door is open, so that you may step into a joy that does not end.

Kirk Rollins

78,143 görüntüleme • 4 ay önce

☝️ “American presidents swear an oath to their people on the Bible. What does the Bible say? It says that a marriage is a union between a man and a woman. They swear on the Bible and contradict with the Bible. Doesn’t it mean that American presidents violate the oath they took to the American people?” - President Putin.
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☝️ “American presidents swear an oath to their people on the Bible. What does the Bible say? It says that a marriage is a union between a man and a woman. They swear on the Bible and contradict with the Bible. Doesn’t it mean that American presidents violate the oath they took to the American people?” - President Putin.

🇷🇺Russia is not Enemy

303,015 görüntüleme • 2 yıl önce

Proverbs 16:19 - "It is better to be of a lowly spirit with the poor than to divide the spoils with the proud." We want to see in ODM, 'the proof of the pudding that is in the eating'; when the time comes for vetting CSs, how their MPs will vote.
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Proverbs 16:19 - "It is better to be of a lowly spirit with the poor than to divide the spoils with the proud." We want to see in ODM, 'the proof of the pudding that is in the eating'; when the time comes for vetting CSs, how their MPs will vote.

Kalonzo Musyoka

34,418 görüntüleme • 2 yıl önce

It is infinitely easier for white men to sleep with black women for the same reason it is easier for PL champions to sign Championship players. Beyond the denial and online posturing, blacks recognise white superiority and so the s'xual attraction of a white man to a black woman is validating and status-enhancing for her. Hence, when an African woman realises a white man finds her desirable, she jumps at the opportunity and spreads her legs faster than fake news on whatsapp. This is why you will find a million 'The Russian' in Africa before you find one 'The Nigerian' in Europe. Whilst there are other inducements like money and relocation prospects, the principal incentive is the validation of being desired by a man from a superior race whose women are more desirable than yours. It's not juju or hypnosis; women are both cheap and 'expensive'. It is their valuation of you that determines what version you get. And if you're a young white man in Africa, you don't even get cheap or expensive. You get free
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It is infinitely easier for white men to sleep with black women for the same reason it is easier for PL champions to sign Championship players. Beyond the denial and online posturing, blacks recognise white superiority and so the s'xual attraction of a white man to a black woman is validating and status-enhancing for her. Hence, when an African woman realises a white man finds her desirable, she jumps at the opportunity and spreads her legs faster than fake news on whatsapp. This is why you will find a million 'The Russian' in Africa before you find one 'The Nigerian' in Europe. Whilst there are other inducements like money and relocation prospects, the principal incentive is the validation of being desired by a man from a superior race whose women are more desirable than yours. It's not juju or hypnosis; women are both cheap and 'expensive'. It is their valuation of you that determines what version you get. And if you're a young white man in Africa, you don't even get cheap or expensive. You get free

Yehgha

60,423 görüntüleme • 8 ay önce

Nick Fuentes on why Christianity isn’t for simps and why Christians should understand female nature better than anyone. “Proverbs is filled with verses saying that it’s better if you die than to have a b*tch of a wife.” 🤣 (Proverbs 21:19)
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Nick Fuentes on why Christianity isn’t for simps and why Christians should understand female nature better than anyone. “Proverbs is filled with verses saying that it’s better if you die than to have a b*tch of a wife.” 🤣 (Proverbs 21:19)

AF Replays

108,134 görüntüleme • 2 ay önce

Why is my book on The Lust of the Flesh necessary? Because of teachings like this from Sam Allberry. He has believed the lie from the devil that he is same-sex attracted and cannot get married and have children, though he would love to, and it breaks my heart for him. He says, "I would love to be...opposite-sex attracted rather than same-sex attracted. I would love to be a husband to a wife. I'd love to be a father to a child....I love family life. I'd love to have kids. But however much I might want those things, the great goal in my life is not that one day I'd become heterosexual. That is not the win for me. That is not the prize that excites me as a Christian. It'd be lovely if it happened but it's not what I spend every waking hour kind of trying to go towards. No. Far, far greater than becoming heterosexual is knowing Jesus better....We have found the One who provides real satisfaction." 1) Who told Allberry that he was "same-sex attracted" and could not marry a woman? The Bible didn't. God didn't. The Holy Spirit didn't. The world and Allberry's flesh did. But we are who God says we are, not who our flesh or the world says we are. You don't have to be a "heterosexual man" to marry a woman, you just have to be a man! Because all men are "heterosexuals" according to Scripture, meaning that God created them to be men, and entailed in being a man is finding a woman to marry (Gen 2:18-25). *This is the created order. This is the default. There are exceptions for not pursuing marriage given in Scripture, but "I'm same-sex attracted" is not one of them. 2) Biblically, since Allberry is a Christian man who desires marriage and children, he should pursue a godly Christian woman to marry. The only thing keeping him from doing so is believing the world and his flesh. Sexual desire is not a prerequisite for marriage, though he should desire to cut a sexual covenant with a Christian woman to become his wife. 3) Allberry is obviously lonely, obviously desiring marriage and kids but has rejected God's wonderful gifts because he has bought into the world's lie that his sexuality is separate from his biology. He is not a "same-sex attracted" man; rather, he is a man that God designed for marriage, based on his biology. God literally designed Allberry's body to fit together with a woman in the marriage bed. But his flesh has warped his desires to be contrary to God and His design. 4) Instead of rejecting God's good design, Allberry should turn from his same-sex desires, find the godliest single woman he can, and pursue her for marriage. Repentant men make the best husbands and fathers. And I believe a repentant Allberry would be a great husband and father! 5) To summarize, the only thing keeping Allberry from biblical marriage is Allberry. I pray he repents, because he's unnecessarily reaping loneliness. And he doesn't have to. And...if you have same-sex desires, you don't have to reap loneliness either. #marriage #bible #singleness You can buy my book here
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Why is my book on The Lust of the Flesh necessary? Because of teachings like this from Sam Allberry. He has believed the lie from the devil that he is same-sex attracted and cannot get married and have children, though he would love to, and it breaks my heart for him. He says, "I would love to be...opposite-sex attracted rather than same-sex attracted. I would love to be a husband to a wife. I'd love to be a father to a child....I love family life. I'd love to have kids. But however much I might want those things, the great goal in my life is not that one day I'd become heterosexual. That is not the win for me. That is not the prize that excites me as a Christian. It'd be lovely if it happened but it's not what I spend every waking hour kind of trying to go towards. No. Far, far greater than becoming heterosexual is knowing Jesus better....We have found the One who provides real satisfaction." 1) Who told Allberry that he was "same-sex attracted" and could not marry a woman? The Bible didn't. God didn't. The Holy Spirit didn't. The world and Allberry's flesh did. But we are who God says we are, not who our flesh or the world says we are. You don't have to be a "heterosexual man" to marry a woman, you just have to be a man! Because all men are "heterosexuals" according to Scripture, meaning that God created them to be men, and entailed in being a man is finding a woman to marry (Gen 2:18-25). *This is the created order. This is the default. There are exceptions for not pursuing marriage given in Scripture, but "I'm same-sex attracted" is not one of them. 2) Biblically, since Allberry is a Christian man who desires marriage and children, he should pursue a godly Christian woman to marry. The only thing keeping him from doing so is believing the world and his flesh. Sexual desire is not a prerequisite for marriage, though he should desire to cut a sexual covenant with a Christian woman to become his wife. 3) Allberry is obviously lonely, obviously desiring marriage and kids but has rejected God's wonderful gifts because he has bought into the world's lie that his sexuality is separate from his biology. He is not a "same-sex attracted" man; rather, he is a man that God designed for marriage, based on his biology. God literally designed Allberry's body to fit together with a woman in the marriage bed. But his flesh has warped his desires to be contrary to God and His design. 4) Instead of rejecting God's good design, Allberry should turn from his same-sex desires, find the godliest single woman he can, and pursue her for marriage. Repentant men make the best husbands and fathers. And I believe a repentant Allberry would be a great husband and father! 5) To summarize, the only thing keeping Allberry from biblical marriage is Allberry. I pray he repents, because he's unnecessarily reaping loneliness. And he doesn't have to. And...if you have same-sex desires, you don't have to reap loneliness either. #marriage #bible #singleness You can buy my book here

Jared Moore

483,301 görüntüleme • 3 yıl önce

I do not understand this fantasy of making someone constantly happy. You are a grown woman. Your emotional state is your responsibility. If you need a handler to regulate your happiness, then that is your weakness, not his failure. Every time I hear the word “provider” thrown at a man, I ask the obvious question: Provide what exactly, and how much is enough? A roof? Money? Attention? Validation? Endless reassurance? At what point does it stop—or does it ever? This woman sits there waiting for a man to manufacture her happiness like he is a factory and she is entitled to the product. As if she is incapable of building a life she enjoys without outsourcing her emotional stability. She wants joy delivered on a silver platter and calls it love. That is not love. That is dependency dressed up as romance. If you cannot create your own happiness, you are not looking for a partner. You are looking for a caretaker.
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I do not understand this fantasy of making someone constantly happy. You are a grown woman. Your emotional state is your responsibility. If you need a handler to regulate your happiness, then that is your weakness, not his failure. Every time I hear the word “provider” thrown at a man, I ask the obvious question: Provide what exactly, and how much is enough? A roof? Money? Attention? Validation? Endless reassurance? At what point does it stop—or does it ever? This woman sits there waiting for a man to manufacture her happiness like he is a factory and she is entitled to the product. As if she is incapable of building a life she enjoys without outsourcing her emotional stability. She wants joy delivered on a silver platter and calls it love. That is not love. That is dependency dressed up as romance. If you cannot create your own happiness, you are not looking for a partner. You are looking for a caretaker.

Larry Conger 🇺🇸

31,096 görüntüleme • 7 ay önce

As a woman with a silly huge bust and a small frame I am well aware of the impact my form has on men. Any woman with similar proportions does. Many of us will try to shame men for finding the female form desirable while simultaneously refusing to admit that we do the exact same thing, and we tend to be far more mercenary about it. The reality is that while a woman's body gets attention men are far and away more likely to choose a woman based on how joyful and accepting she is. Lots of manosphere influencers will tell you men want a woman who brings them peace, and I don't think that's entirely accurate. I think men want women who bring them joy. Not just during courtship, or the honeymoon phase, but throughout their lives. Because oftentimes a fellas life is hard, extremely hard, and while peace is one thing, it's those moments of joy within those stretches of peace that really revitalize him. Give him purpose. "I was fun and sweet when we met, and now he has to accept the real me." No. The "real you" has to include sustained joy or the deal was false advertising. Often times this joy takes the form of children, or shared experiences, or just moments of sweetness and memories and they can be extremely esoteric things too. Things you wouldn't even expect. I believe a lot of women lose sight of that reality, and to some extent men do too. Men need more than just peace, they need a reason to keep going and the women in their lives are often instrumental in showing them there is.
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As a woman with a silly huge bust and a small frame I am well aware of the impact my form has on men. Any woman with similar proportions does. Many of us will try to shame men for finding the female form desirable while simultaneously refusing to admit that we do the exact same thing, and we tend to be far more mercenary about it. The reality is that while a woman's body gets attention men are far and away more likely to choose a woman based on how joyful and accepting she is. Lots of manosphere influencers will tell you men want a woman who brings them peace, and I don't think that's entirely accurate. I think men want women who bring them joy. Not just during courtship, or the honeymoon phase, but throughout their lives. Because oftentimes a fellas life is hard, extremely hard, and while peace is one thing, it's those moments of joy within those stretches of peace that really revitalize him. Give him purpose. "I was fun and sweet when we met, and now he has to accept the real me." No. The "real you" has to include sustained joy or the deal was false advertising. Often times this joy takes the form of children, or shared experiences, or just moments of sweetness and memories and they can be extremely esoteric things too. Things you wouldn't even expect. I believe a lot of women lose sight of that reality, and to some extent men do too. Men need more than just peace, they need a reason to keep going and the women in their lives are often instrumental in showing them there is.

BLACK DUMPLING™

44,117 görüntüleme • 10 ay önce

Your faith was forged in people who would rather be exterminated than assimilated. A soft version of it, eager to be liked and desperate to fit in, is not the thing they died to hand you. So stop striving to be liked. Stop angling to be loved by a world that drove your fathers into the snow. That world would think no better of the gospel today than it did in 1838. Stop trying to file down every peculiar and glorious edge of the Restoration until the world finally finds you acceptable. It never will. And the wanting of its approval is the slow death of everything your people bled to preserve. I am thinking of the proclamation on the family, and of how many have quietly gone looking for a way around it. Some say it aloud now. Some march under the world's Pride banners and tell themselves it is only love. They have done the quiet arithmetic and concluded that if they give the world this one doctrine, the world will finally stop hating them, finally let them belong, finally call them good. It does not work that way. It has never once worked that way. Understand what the world actually hates, because it is not a single teaching about marriage that it cannot abide. It is the claim. It is the unbearable, scandalous claim that the keys of the priesthood were restored to the earth, that there is a prophet who speaks for God, that this and no other is the authorized house of the Lord. That is the offense. That is what it cannot forgive. You could surrender every doctrine the world finds distasteful, one after another, and you would not buy a single hour of peace, because the thing it objects to is not your position on this or that. It is that you claim to hold the authority of heaven, and it intends to see that claim humbled. The doctrine is only the doorway it is pushing on. The house is what it wants. Embrace the truth. Embrace the battle that has always come with it, because there has always been a battle, and there is one now. It is the oldest war there is, good against evil, light against the dark, and you were born onto its field whether you wished to be or not. You did not inherit a museum. You inherited a war, and a banner, and a people who never once surrendered it. You are a Mormon. The blood of the persecuted is in you, and the truth they died for is in your hands. You are not tourists. You are not spectators. You are the heirs of warriors, and the line they held is now yours to hold. So plant your feet on the ground they bled for. Lift the banner they would not drop.
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Your faith was forged in people who would rather be exterminated than assimilated. A soft version of it, eager to be liked and desperate to fit in, is not the thing they died to hand you. So stop striving to be liked. Stop angling to be loved by a world that drove your fathers into the snow. That world would think no better of the gospel today than it did in 1838. Stop trying to file down every peculiar and glorious edge of the Restoration until the world finally finds you acceptable. It never will. And the wanting of its approval is the slow death of everything your people bled to preserve. I am thinking of the proclamation on the family, and of how many have quietly gone looking for a way around it. Some say it aloud now. Some march under the world's Pride banners and tell themselves it is only love. They have done the quiet arithmetic and concluded that if they give the world this one doctrine, the world will finally stop hating them, finally let them belong, finally call them good. It does not work that way. It has never once worked that way. Understand what the world actually hates, because it is not a single teaching about marriage that it cannot abide. It is the claim. It is the unbearable, scandalous claim that the keys of the priesthood were restored to the earth, that there is a prophet who speaks for God, that this and no other is the authorized house of the Lord. That is the offense. That is what it cannot forgive. You could surrender every doctrine the world finds distasteful, one after another, and you would not buy a single hour of peace, because the thing it objects to is not your position on this or that. It is that you claim to hold the authority of heaven, and it intends to see that claim humbled. The doctrine is only the doorway it is pushing on. The house is what it wants. Embrace the truth. Embrace the battle that has always come with it, because there has always been a battle, and there is one now. It is the oldest war there is, good against evil, light against the dark, and you were born onto its field whether you wished to be or not. You did not inherit a museum. You inherited a war, and a banner, and a people who never once surrendered it. You are a Mormon. The blood of the persecuted is in you, and the truth they died for is in your hands. You are not tourists. You are not spectators. You are the heirs of warriors, and the line they held is now yours to hold. So plant your feet on the ground they bled for. Lift the banner they would not drop.

Kirk Rollins

30,673 görüntüleme • 4 ay önce

⚠️ The woman next to you is a reflection of your standards. The woman who brings peace and the woman who brings chaos both tell a story—not about luck, but about what you’re willing to accept. Your relationships often mirror the boundaries, expectations, and standards you choose to uphold. ❤️
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⚠️ The woman next to you is a reflection of your standards. The woman who brings peace and the woman who brings chaos both tell a story—not about luck, but about what you’re willing to accept. Your relationships often mirror the boundaries, expectations, and standards you choose to uphold. ❤️

FlourishWithLaurin

13,913 görüntüleme • 4 ay önce