What's your opinion about this?

You women said marriage is slavery. Men don’t want to enslave you women. You should be happy about that

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Madam rest none of your genders is ready to build with a man in a relationship, they all want already made men, then when a man make it he’s being careful not to end up with the wrong person or prefer to just have a baby. Life is already hard and no man wants extra burden

Omo

All of them are looking at the same top 10% of men… the other 90% are there but they are not desirable to women… look at her examples, men that can buy multiple cars, go on trips, diaspora men… how many people can afford those things? Lol

She's not realistic

Alot of men are really angry with our women. Omo 😂💔. Has it gotten this bàd with our ladies?

All the men getting married every weekday and weekends are they from Mars? 😌

Ask her oh 😂

Not once did she mention why men are scared to get married.The real question should be: why are men scared to commit to a serious relationship? You ladies are partially responsible, but of course, asking for accountability is like asking for water in a desert

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She’s partially right, although some women get issues too. The economy is also making it difficult for men to settle down. In my workplace, I see beautiful women above 30 still single. Some men don hustle reach 40 without becoming financially stable.

True. E no easy for our men again

@andyebuehi And the women expectations are high another thing even a jobless lady is looking for a ready made man, the simple thing is that men don’t want to get stressed and I don’t blame them because life not easy to carry all the responsibilities alone.

@Ugochukwu96_ True, that's why men dey die quick leave family behind.

Not really teu but in most cases the delusional mindset of modern women makes it difficult for men to settle down

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There's going to be a very big problem in years to come

The modern woman is nowhere near what our mothers were. They don't have the right values and virtues to deserve a good man as husband. All we have are woke ignorant women who have no idea what marriage is or what it takes to have a good marriage. They are more concerned about the wedding than the marriage itself. They need to purge all the rubbish they have learnt and return back to the old traditional way reflecting our cultural values as Nigerians.

Chai 💔

Una go believe, this wan is small una go still begin come social media Dey cry, cus men are highly cautious and careful cus una no wan build with men but want already made wey una go still divorce then if it’s in abroad u will talke 80% of my sweat. Cry harder

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After pushing many men away with your bad character, you are now coming online to cry Shebi, una want equality Shebi, una don't want to build with any man. Let everybody stay on their own.

It’s been turned into a bad contract for men where they can lose everything they worked for and lose their kids that’s why

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Accountability is far from this 1. Men don’t say bad things about marriage compared our women so her analysis is flawed. Women aren’t appreciative of men’s efforts in marriage cos they call it HIS RESPONSIBILITY or BARE MINIMUM. Saying women aren’t materialistic or pay their

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Men are tired….. it’s about time the good women who believe in marriage start calling out the bad women.

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Women are the reason committed relationships is rapidly declining. Many men have begun to understand that they can get everything in marriage without the stress of being married. Men now understand who they are , women opened the eyes of these men.

Chai 💔

Notice how she didn’t say that the men may be seeing negative traits in the women that they are dating that they don’t want in a wife. It is that men are scared of commitment She didn’t say men are learning from the mistakes of other men and are avoiding same mistake. 🤣😂

Whether we like it or not, there is a decline in intentionality in applying the right morals, commitments and loyalty, and in the use of wrongly valued practices in society. This is occurring in societies across the globe, not just Nigeria.

Men want to get married, but they are worried about the economy and the quality of women. Enough women don't want to build, don't want to financially contribute to the household, plus the men are expected to take care of the woman's family.

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@Ebukaderealking That’s me right now, what Ive heard my married friends is terrible and I don’t even think I want to, if it happens, it happens but I’m not thinking about it, at 32, provision is not the problem but my value system is so high and the value system of most women is now getting worse

@Ebukaderealking Chai 💔 Things dey really happy

They Are difficult to deal with in These days

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So it’s the men’s fault for telling their other men what they are going through? Not the fault of the women who caused the problems the men complained about?

The statement is ready made men don’t want to marry, most ladies are looking for ready made man, upcoming man looks invisible to women cause they don’t want to build with him

This is one of the disadvantages of hook up and cheating Why will a man wan to be committed after experiencing hk and cheating?

She said “I’m looking for a man who is ready to settle down” What men know: “I’m looking for a man I will lead into misery”

Lol...she lost me at the point of when she said "most women are not materialistic".. 😁

But men still marry even though divorce rate high dem still dey marry 😒 🙄

Most my married colleagues dey envy me!! They will say stay single and they're not even joking.

Omo

Women hate that men are speaking up. They don't want men cautious. They lost their leverage Men KEEP SPEAKING UP!! U can save a brother. Nothing women love more than a mumu man. No introspection, just self victim. Not once did she mention the value she gives in marriage.

Because most females are becoming modern day evil masterminds.

Men today are wiser. Marriage today made to serve women. Women only want marriage coz they want someone feed them till 90. That is not God's design 4 marriag. Me me me. She no fit say what she fit offer Men. Keep speaking up. Don't let them silent you. U can save a man's life.

They have eyes and seeing what you people are doing

This lady talks as if we do not discuss with women online and offline. Talking about married men scaring single men. You think we don't see how some single guys have several married women as girlfriends? Or the fact that most women today find good men boring? Una eye go clear.

Nigerian men are getting married every other weekend to other African ladies bcuz of how toxic some of our Nigerian women have become especially the so call feminist stan. Men value their peace of mind and wouldn't want anyone to come into their lives with trouble especially now!

She’s been honest. It is a Pandemic. But we aren’t ready to understand why this problem is happening.