when did someone last check on u?

Never had that in my life

Pretty much never in my memory. The mother always asks but being honest or saying anything but "it's fine" starts an argument so I just deal. Alone, in the dark, for hours on end, staring at the wall. How I wish that was an exaggeration.

6-7 minutes ago my girlfriend sent me a meme

I can't remember my last doctor appointment? Seems like they care but that's about it

What is that never heard of it

After years of putting on a smile and replying “I’m fine” or just deflecting the assumed insincere inquiry, i dont know how to react to this. I guess I’ll say “I’m fine” and move on, because even when I’m not fine, I’ll say I’m fine, because I can’t let myself burden anyone.

Im fine. ... oh wait that reply doesn't work here. Uh living the dream? No not that one either.

honestly? i can't think of a time where someone's genuinely asked that without using my answer to throw back in my face later, so now everyone gets the "i'm fine" response, assuming they even ask.

I have a therapist

No one ever checks on me. Except my little brother 🥹

Generally doesn't happen. couldn't tell you if it's a man thing or if it's just me. Personally for moments of severe crisis, like someone having a medical emergency, I stone face it and do what I'm supposed to do to either fix the situation or comfort others, then later I isolate for some time to cope with whatever happened. in terms of general mood, that just fixes and passes on it's own. It is what it is. To live as an adult you have to be able to emotionally regulate on your own.

There is a problem with the premise. "When was the last time" implies there was a time previous.

Honestly it’s been years, I can’t remember the last time I’ve been truly been checked on

i am not concerned with myself so i usually just brush the question off because if i dont care how i am then why should others?.

cries

My pastor and I have a visit every week where he and I talk together. He listens to my problems, helps me manage tough things, and just cares. It's nice to have support from people who care. I hope all of you are blessed with supportive and kind friends.

Out of anyone, it was my ex. I was genuinely surprised when she said "just checking on you" cuz uh no one said that to me since... I dont know. btw for the "no not at all" part we talked and its fine but yk still she was the one who asked me if I was okay, seriously.

good joke. Never. Because Society does not care about Men. Even Therapists these days don't actually give a fuck about Men's mental health.

No one really tbh

Yeah im fine just gotta get through this week

Men. Never tell them the truth. They will only use it as a rope to hang you with later.

Like 2 1/2 years

For the first time in years I have finally found friends who have checked on me mentally. I haven’t really experienced this before and I cannot express how lucky I am to have the friends I have now. Yall have saved me from my lows to my highs.

Unless you count my mom…11 years ago.

😭😭😭

What the fuck kind of scenario is someone sitting with you and talking how shit be? Thats called Therapist and its expensive. Otherwise uh, family on the other side of world sent an email asking how I was, said not great, no response back yet. Thats a very nice being seen day.

never have i ever been cheeked on by someone only been checked on when i cheek on others and ask them first

Last time? That implies I had a first one.

No one cares about men honestly, the sooner you swallow that pill the faster you can begin to work for yourself and no one else

Never