When reality hit her‼️

Snipping out bits to make Pearl look like she won, when she really got roasted the whole debate.

This is why u don’t be a stay at home mother. Males will say women shouldn’t work and then when u get a divorce they will say get a job lol

Alimony makes sense in certain circumstances. If they have kids early and she's a stay at home mom while he's gainfully employed and climbing the ladder; she can't realistically enter the workforce 10-20 years after him and expect the same pay. She sacrificed that for the kids.

Well would you hire a fifty year old single raising mother with no work experience because her husband left her and has no other choice to search for a job? Or would you hire someone twenty years younger with a few years working experience and up to date knowledge?

Funny she says she doesn't need a man, yet she's getting alimony, if she's so independent wouldn't she NOT NEED IT???

If shes a stay at home mother how is she supposed to get a job? This is why men are stupid.

Men like this are such whiny cocksuckers. Be a fucking adult. You had a family and career because of her unpaid labor. She is the mother of your children. Stop being a spoiled little bitch.

To the people who might still not be getting it, Pearl isn't saying alimony is bad. She's simply pointing out that if a woman is having to get paid alimony from a man, then men and women aren't equal. But if feminists admit that, they'd be exposed for what they really are.

If the woman raised the children for 7+ years (therefore being unable to work full time) while the man worked, then she gets alimony. This is a no-brainer. Dudes need to stop making excuses for shitty behaviour - take care of your children.

This is so delusional. 50\50 custody means he will need to arrange and pay for childcare and do school pick ups half of the time. So sure, let’s see how many men will do this instead of just offloading it to the wife and paying alimony. Wives also lost years in job experience.

This makes sense. Divorces usually take some time to finalize. Perfect opportunity for a woman to find a job.

Pearl will never get married and she tried her whole life to do so by faking trad while building an internet career. Wild these low IQ dudes believe her and don’t see the hypocrisy. Low IQ on all levels.

Pearl is a transgender mentally ill man who pretends to be a woman why are people continuing to promote this degenerate or listen to it

If she was a satm/satw, she provided valuable services that would have otherwise cost the family to obtain elsewhere. She took a gap in her career and as a result will start at a lower salary than if she were working the whole time. An alimony is the least the man can do.

50 50 requires men who abandon their kids to pay child support.

I get the child support for a little period of time, for the woman to get back on her feet. If she has been a stay at home mom for 15 years then some alimony should be paid because the man likely wanted her at home with the kids. It’s too much to debate in a comment.

This is the lowest level thinking from men and power has proved herself to be low IQ on every front. Makes sense a man would be pushing her pathetic narratives.

Being a stay at home mom means losing X years of job experience. How would that woman be competitive? Especially if she has no sort of diploma, qualifications. Women really need to think about that. So no, this is not a gotcha moment

Case. Someone I worked with. A couple with a stay at home mom. They had 3 girls and she took care of everything in the house while the husband walked up the corporate ladder. When the kids were in grade school, he divorced her for a simple life. She deserves alimony +

So men think woman should stay home and be their housewives because that's where they belong and then be able to go get a job with no experience once he ditches her. The hypocrisy.

You all sound stupid. I know of a woman who wasn't able to get a job despite her degree because she hasn't been working for 20 years to be a sahm. She even tried to be a janitor in a school and they wouldn't allow her.

Shameful all the guys supporting this. Want to start families and then not support them when they leave. It's your family, take care of them. Otherwise, it falls on taxpayers to take of them. It's usually men with "Christian values" supporting this as well.

On the alimony thing... For a proper house wife/stay at home mother, alimony should be paid but with a limit of no more than 5 years. If she can't sort herself out within 5 years... custody gone.

Dear US Citizens, I have one question: WHY THE FUCK IS NO ONE ASKING WHO IS TAKING CARE OF THE GODDAMN CHILDREN, WHILE THE WOMAN GOES TO WORK? HOW DO 50/50 ON MONEY BUT NOT 50/50 ON CARE WORK?

Then don't be complaining that women aren't sacrificing their careers to have/raise kids. If a couple agrees that her job will be to raise the kids, his income belongs to both equally.

So, she magically joins the work force,

If you have to get a job and have a professional life equal to men, you won't have kids, because you can't be there for them 100%, like a man. So if this is your desired society, you don't get to bitch about women not having kids or fertility rate plummeting.

If my husband leaves me he is going to pay me alimony 100% for the 25+ years I spent raising our kids and supporting his career every step of the way so he could rise as high as possible to being one of the best in his field. And no I wasn't just a SAHM. I ran his business on the side and our home, all his duties and raised our kids 24/7 with little help because of his travel for work. He came home from work to enjoy the fruits of his life without ever needing to pull a duty outside of work but enjoying his time and children. So yes alimony would be the least he could do and he would have one hell of time fighting it but I wouldn't have to worry because he wouldn't fight it because he would have to be an evil pos to not allow me to get to place where I wouldn't need his alimony for support. He isn't a pos human or evil. I married him knowing his heart, values and morals and it's why i fell in love with him. Some women marry the wrong man

Think of alimony as back pay for all the free labor while the person was a SAHM. Probably still underpaid but a start 🤷‍♀️

I never say 50/50. It is 100/100. Both sides giving their 100%. Saying 50/50 is like saying, I will do 50% and then go lay down, be lazy. While the other does 50%. The job is half done on both sides.

These women sacrifice potential careers to be STAHM so the men can focus on their careers. They are entitled to their share of what was earned during the marriage. Cry about it.

This is the debate where the lady on the right literally froze. The point she tries to make here is moot because all that lost experience and entering the job market after divorce, expecting to make what it takes to take care of children, is not realistic.

Not taking into account childcare, of course.

Alimony serves a public interest. The duration of the alimony depends on the length of the marriage (short marriage=no alimony) and if/when she remarries. To the extent that it is a deterrent to divorce, that is a good thing.