When you become emotionally intelligent, it’s hard to hate anyone.

Emotional intelligence is about understanding yourself, not the emotions of others. A common misconception; typically from people who have not read the book “Emotional Intelligence”

You can empathize for others but that doesn’t justify or excuse their behavior or abuse toward you.

Understanding silences anger. Once you see motives clearly, resentment loses its grip.

I might not like what someone is doing but I don’t hate them….

Doesn't matter. Each of us is reponsible for ourselves. If you walk around wounded you're bleeding on people who didn't cut you. Fix your shit and stop blaming others.

@tracybeanz There’s a reason Jesus told us to love our neighbor.

4 I avoid them. Their eyes are dead like a snake eyes. I also protect others from their cruelty. I speak plainly to them. I repeat their words. It shames them to hear the ugly words they intentionally use. People from school & University say I'm their best friend. I'm honored.

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In my experience, emotional intelligence is the ability to express yourself authentically while understanding that you can’t force change, you can just influence one.

3- I know the ruder a person was- they had problems. It doesn't excuse behavior but Grace is easier to extend. I sense things. No I don't believe in psychics. I believe in God. I'm more aware of expressions. Eyes always show hidden hurts. There's wicked people who just are evil

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Hate is good when channeled effectively

I'm well beyond this point. I believe the clinical term for this form of broadscale indifference is "Drago Status"

True

unless they get stabby of course

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2 things I couldn't believe people would do. I realized why they were mean. Because of home situations or other problems. I would listen advise & pray over them. I don't know why others would confide in me but I don't betray confidence. People say I'm their best friend in school

@mindsetmachine That's a powerful insight! Emotional intelligence really shifts how we see others—less judgment, more empathy. It’s like hate loses its grip when you understand where people are coming from. What sparked this thought for you?

5- But they don't know me really. I have 2 friends who are family to me. They know my life. I don't share my problems. People think I had a perfect life. I let them. I praise God for my blessings. I choose to appreciate every moment God has given me. I choose joy.

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I threw the little flowers over him. Jesus loves you. Jesus hears the cries of the Father less. He( meaning step dad) is in trouble. God don't like his ways. I ran back to my home. I was 4. I started watching people's actions. Adults with a hurt inner child - they're everywhere.

If u see a brother fallen down- ur to be the first to lift them up. U are to confirm ur love to them least they stay swallowed up in self condemnation. I read that as a child in scripture. I hope I'm like this because one day I may need a hand to lift me up if I fall.

Agreed, the only person I hate is Sol Campbell, as you can’t understand what he did, other than that he’s a massive c%!t and that’s unforgivable

Yes you can hate a person for the way they are. Hating the sin in a person is what you can hate a person that denies their sin

I've never heard it put this way. It's true. Since a child I saw the hurt of others. I noticed. In school bullies would try to make me upset to see if I would sin. I can't be bullied. God knows, I know & it doesn't matter what u think was my reply. Then they confided in me things

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Nice speech. half right. When those people hurt others or lie, someone better call them out. Or, you just let them think that wrong is right.

@tracybeanz And no I don’t hate anyone. This is just a dangerous line of thinking in the world in which we live.