When you put your emotions aside…

There’s a way to say things without being nasty and he said it with love. More people need to practice this. It’s okay to say what you mean without being harsh.

She didn’t put them to the side. She processed them, and came to a conclusion. Lol 😂

When you are ready to take some responsibility, you will leave no room for excuses and gaslighting.

She’s a powerful speaker

Love this. We gotta start holding people accountable for their own health. In reality, no one wants to be fat.

Women you see how she didn’t get offended and call him an abuser because he wanted the best for her? Men, you see how he delivered that with love instead of being deragatory and hateful? See how he chose his words correctly?

Thank god she actually listened to the what he really was trying to say to her.

You need a man that would be honest with you and motivate you. Some ladies were advising and dragging a man that told his girlfriend to drop some weight, and he would propose. She accepted the challenge but other women don’t want her to be healthy.

I love her!

My fat ass needed to hear this

Ladies needs to come see this!! Yall see she didn’t focus on the negative comments… she solely placed focus on the positive comments which is I want you for a life time.

But Monique look good regardless glad she lost that weight she looking better now

Awww… cute

Only for grown women. Those useless ones born after 96 will do a video about how their husband secretly hates them. They would even add that the husband is responsible for them being fat.

Hmm, but she’s still…… nvm.

Accountability is the 1st step to charge. Great on her

That’s actually so beautiful. I love Mo’nique.

Love Monique man

That’s how it should be! Truth is bitter, but think ahead

Love this

That mentality I WANT YOU FOR A LIFETIME

and they are 19 years in marriage.🥂 when a man and comes into your life, it’s not about “you no more”, he always makes it about “us”. regardless of your positions or status, its only discipline that will thrive the relationship. she took accountability not throw a tantrum.

But she’s still fat sooo… wtf

10 jumping jack booty ass naked it crazy. That wind was prolly smelling that room up😭😭🤦🏾‍♂️

Not the gen z 😂 bbl and surgeries

MEN IF YOU CANNOT TELL HER THE HARD SELF EDIFYING TRUTH YOU SET HER UP TO RUIN YOU IF SHE THINKS YOU ARE CONTROLLING, SHE DOESN'T TRUST YOUR LEADERSHIP ASK HER TO LEAVE A MAN ENABLES A WOMAN ESCALATES IF YOU WANT A GOOD ALIGNING WOMAN BE A STRONGER LEADING MAN END

That’s a real man he allowed her to change in the process he ain’t fit himself but yeah

She took accountability and became consistent towards achieving her. Taking responsibility is important which seems like a rare 😉 quality nowadays.

"How you say it" over "What is to be said"

Smart man in a marriage with a smart woman. Bro knows he had to say it, sis knew she had to do something positive about it. I know what foöls would've done.

“…everything was moving” 😅

Sagittarius women love they man so badly. Successful black sag women also always court black men who make less than them for a control factor

respect for the lady