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Whenever you confront ASAL idiots from Wajir, Mandera, Garissa, Isiolo on why they can’t invest in small dams that large-scale farms use for irrigation, they go like “it’s the work of the national government”….. they’re so stupid aki. 2023 we’ve put an end to that entitlement. The rest of...

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