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Where do you get your dopamine? From the game itself? Or from stacking party tricks in the gym and posting about it? Too many guys fall in love with training. With being the hardest worker in the room. With the process itself. But that’s not the point. Training exists...

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Ms. Malissia

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“I found the cheat quote to always being right. Just change your opinion every time you get better information. Because as you get closer to the point that you have to make decision, that means you will wind up with the right one. Even if you are wrong and you figure it out, what do you do? You have a one momentarily chance to steer your concern to the best possible outcome. Are you going to take it? Or are you going to be the person who just leans into the comfort of character consistency? Why? For what? Do want to look good or be good? It needs to be okay to change your mind when better information comes along. And again, here's the crazy thing. I think if you go through the transcript of this podcast, or just ask the AI to do it, it will probably point out various contradictions inside of what I'm saying. I'm probably on multiple sides. The reason is actually —this is the most important thing—it's everything comes in layers. The optimal operating system in some frame of reference is often contradictory on the opposite of a larger frame of reference.” — tobi lutke
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“I found the cheat quote to always being right. Just change your opinion every time you get better information. Because as you get closer to the point that you have to make decision, that means you will wind up with the right one. Even if you are wrong and you figure it out, what do you do? You have a one momentarily chance to steer your concern to the best possible outcome. Are you going to take it? Or are you going to be the person who just leans into the comfort of character consistency? Why? For what? Do want to look good or be good? It needs to be okay to change your mind when better information comes along. And again, here's the crazy thing. I think if you go through the transcript of this podcast, or just ask the AI to do it, it will probably point out various contradictions inside of what I'm saying. I'm probably on multiple sides. The reason is actually —this is the most important thing—it's everything comes in layers. The optimal operating system in some frame of reference is often contradictory on the opposite of a larger frame of reference.” — tobi lutke

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Dominic White

65,242 次观看 • 1 年前

Jordan Peterson: "If you can't fix your room, you can't fix your life" "Why should you even bother improving yourself? The answer is something like: so you don't suffer anymore stupidly than you have to. And maybe so others don't have to either. It's not some casual self-help doctrine. If you don't organize yourself properly, you'll pay for it. In a big way. And so will the people around you." Peterson continues: "You can say, 'Well, I don't care about that.' But that's actually not true, you do care about it. Because if you're in pain, you will care about it. It's very rare that you can find someone in excruciating pain who would say, 'Well, it would be no better if I was out of this.' Pain brings the idea that it would be better if it didn't exist along with it. It's incontrovertible." On how to start: "Look around for something that bothers you and see if you can fix it. You can do this in a room. Sit in your bedroom and think: 'If I wanted to spend ten minutes making this room better, what would I have to do?' You have to ask yourself that, it's a genuine question. And things will pop out. There's a stack of papers bugging you. Some rubbish behind your computer monitor you haven't attended to for six months. Cables tangled up." He explains why this matters: "If you were coming to see me for psychotherapy, the easiest thing would be to get you to organize your room. You think, is that psychotherapy? It depends on how you conceive the limits of your being. Start where you can start. If something announces itself as in need of repair that you could repair, fix it. Fix a hundred things like that, your life will be a lot different." On fixing what you repeat every day: "People tend to think of their daily routines as trivial. You get up, brush your teeth, have breakfast. Those probably constitute 50% of your life. People think, they're mundane, I don't need to pay attention to them. No, that's exactly wrong. The things you do every day are the most important things you do. Hands down. Just do the arithmetic." On staying within your competence: "Sometimes you don't know how to fix something. Imagine you're walking down the street and there's a guy who's alcoholic and schizophrenic and has been homeless for ten years. That's a problem. It would be good if you could fix it, but you haven't got a clue. You walk around that and go find something you could fix. Just because something announces itself as in need of repair doesn't mean it's you, right then and there, who should repair it. You have to have some humility. You don't walk up to a helicopter that isn't working and just start tinkering away." Peterson shares the key insight: "As soon as you give your mind a genuine aim, it'll reconfigure the world in keeping with that aim. That's actually how you see to begin with. You've all seen the video where you watch basketballs being tossed back and forth, and while you're doing that, a gorilla walks into the middle of the video and you don't see it. If you thought about that experiment for five years, that would be about the right amount of time to spend thinking about it." He explains what it reveals: "What it shows you is that you see what you aim at. If you can get one thing through your head, that would be a good one. You see what you aim at. One inference you might draw from that is: be careful what you aim at. What you aim at determines the way the world manifests itself to you. So if the world is manifesting itself in a very negative way, one thing to ask is: are you aiming at the right thing?"
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Jordan Peterson: "If you can't fix your room, you can't fix your life" "Why should you even bother improving yourself? The answer is something like: so you don't suffer anymore stupidly than you have to. And maybe so others don't have to either. It's not some casual self-help doctrine. If you don't organize yourself properly, you'll pay for it. In a big way. And so will the people around you." Peterson continues: "You can say, 'Well, I don't care about that.' But that's actually not true, you do care about it. Because if you're in pain, you will care about it. It's very rare that you can find someone in excruciating pain who would say, 'Well, it would be no better if I was out of this.' Pain brings the idea that it would be better if it didn't exist along with it. It's incontrovertible." On how to start: "Look around for something that bothers you and see if you can fix it. You can do this in a room. Sit in your bedroom and think: 'If I wanted to spend ten minutes making this room better, what would I have to do?' You have to ask yourself that, it's a genuine question. And things will pop out. There's a stack of papers bugging you. Some rubbish behind your computer monitor you haven't attended to for six months. Cables tangled up." He explains why this matters: "If you were coming to see me for psychotherapy, the easiest thing would be to get you to organize your room. You think, is that psychotherapy? It depends on how you conceive the limits of your being. Start where you can start. If something announces itself as in need of repair that you could repair, fix it. Fix a hundred things like that, your life will be a lot different." On fixing what you repeat every day: "People tend to think of their daily routines as trivial. You get up, brush your teeth, have breakfast. Those probably constitute 50% of your life. People think, they're mundane, I don't need to pay attention to them. No, that's exactly wrong. The things you do every day are the most important things you do. Hands down. Just do the arithmetic." On staying within your competence: "Sometimes you don't know how to fix something. Imagine you're walking down the street and there's a guy who's alcoholic and schizophrenic and has been homeless for ten years. That's a problem. It would be good if you could fix it, but you haven't got a clue. You walk around that and go find something you could fix. Just because something announces itself as in need of repair doesn't mean it's you, right then and there, who should repair it. You have to have some humility. You don't walk up to a helicopter that isn't working and just start tinkering away." Peterson shares the key insight: "As soon as you give your mind a genuine aim, it'll reconfigure the world in keeping with that aim. That's actually how you see to begin with. You've all seen the video where you watch basketballs being tossed back and forth, and while you're doing that, a gorilla walks into the middle of the video and you don't see it. If you thought about that experiment for five years, that would be about the right amount of time to spend thinking about it." He explains what it reveals: "What it shows you is that you see what you aim at. If you can get one thing through your head, that would be a good one. You see what you aim at. One inference you might draw from that is: be careful what you aim at. What you aim at determines the way the world manifests itself to you. So if the world is manifesting itself in a very negative way, one thing to ask is: are you aiming at the right thing?"

Jaynit

68,550 次观看 • 3 个月前

It doesn’t get easier. It doesn't. The challenges just change shape. 🔴▪️🔻🔸 You run a marathon. You get through the suck. You push through exhaustion. And your threshold for pain rises. 🛗 That threshold is the best predictor of your future success. Because hard most of the time equals production. The goal isn't to eliminate hard. The goal is to become the type of person who can handle hard better. Every difficult conversation, early morning workout, setback, disappointment, and failure is a repetition. Each one serves you. Each one expands your capacity. Not because the obstacle shrinks, but because YOU grow. 🍄 Success rarely belongs to those with the easiest path. It belongs to those who have trained themselves to carry heavier loads. Hard doesn't get easier. You just handle hard better.. And now you can do more hard. More hard = more production. So embrace hard.
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It doesn’t get easier. It doesn't. The challenges just change shape. 🔴▪️🔻🔸 You run a marathon. You get through the suck. You push through exhaustion. And your threshold for pain rises. 🛗 That threshold is the best predictor of your future success. Because hard most of the time equals production. The goal isn't to eliminate hard. The goal is to become the type of person who can handle hard better. Every difficult conversation, early morning workout, setback, disappointment, and failure is a repetition. Each one serves you. Each one expands your capacity. Not because the obstacle shrinks, but because YOU grow. 🍄 Success rarely belongs to those with the easiest path. It belongs to those who have trained themselves to carry heavier loads. Hard doesn't get easier. You just handle hard better.. And now you can do more hard. More hard = more production. So embrace hard.

Josh Chambers

22,904 次观看 • 1 个月前

Most people choose belonging over accuracy. The desire to fit in overpowers the desire for truth. "A lot of the time, people will tell you, “Don’t care what other people think about you,” but we all care what other people think—often for very good reason, which is that if people think well of you, it benefits you in life. It puts you in a good position; you are rewarded for it. It helps you accomplish things. It makes you safer. It just feels good. Belonging is a critical part of being human. However, especially in the modern world, the desire to belong can often run counter to the desire to understand or be accurate. If you have to choose between “I could believe this thing and be ostracized or criticized or outcast from my community” or “I could believe this other thing, which may not be that accurate, but it will get me praised and rewarded and accepted by my community,” a lot of the time, the desire to belong overpowers the desire to understand." James Clear on The Knowledge Project
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Most people choose belonging over accuracy. The desire to fit in overpowers the desire for truth. "A lot of the time, people will tell you, “Don’t care what other people think about you,” but we all care what other people think—often for very good reason, which is that if people think well of you, it benefits you in life. It puts you in a good position; you are rewarded for it. It helps you accomplish things. It makes you safer. It just feels good. Belonging is a critical part of being human. However, especially in the modern world, the desire to belong can often run counter to the desire to understand or be accurate. If you have to choose between “I could believe this thing and be ostracized or criticized or outcast from my community” or “I could believe this other thing, which may not be that accurate, but it will get me praised and rewarded and accepted by my community,” a lot of the time, the desire to belong overpowers the desire to understand." James Clear on The Knowledge Project

Shane Parrish

63,966 次观看 • 6 个月前