who’s gonna tell her😭-

Some of the people here are really not understanding the fact that she’s now completely dependent on her partner, and that’s just not healthy. She got married too quickly, has no career aspects or is wanting to get a job (she’s financially dependent on her husband). Not good

thank you ( and i’m not saying give into the systematic capitalist agenda of having a 9-5 ) but girl if he said “we’re done” today wyd like what’s YOUR passion😭…………

@seras_heaven It’s extremely rare that men throw away things that they built, especially if they invested into it…completely irrational to optimize for the outlier probability.

@beyoncegarden dude, many men have literally abandoned their own families before

@beyoncegarden So you believe majority of men up and leave the families they put blood sweat and tears in to build and keep together?😂😂😂 They’ve really done a number on you lot.

@beyoncegarden Never said the majority, loser. Just saying that many men have done that. Just stating facts. Women have done that too. Facts are facts though, how you feel doesn’t change that

what does a 28 year old have in common with an 18 year old? how did they even meet? where tf are her parents?

Tell her what, exactly? She's living the way a woman was meant to live. I said what I said.

“the way a woman was meant to live” i know what y’all are😭……..

Yes. This is how it's been since the dawn of time. Hunters and gatherers. We have our roles for a reason, because it works.

The response from some of the women to this video is hilarious. They are mad because this 19yr old succeeded where they failed miserably for years.

Someone got groomed, and not at the wedding.

That lack of education/financial independence gonna have her stuck and controlled for the rest of her life. Bless her.

We've all seen this ride before. Sadly she's now going to learn the hard way 😭

I, too, was 19 once and thought no one could tell me shit

That dress is so ugly that she obviously should not be so confident in her decision-making skills.

lol bookmarking this for when he trades her for another 18 year old after she turned 30

Tell her what? That she’s gonna have a happy, healthy life?

Hopefully, nobody is going to tell her your feminist propaganda

Tell her what? She's a beautiful, cultured woman with good values who got what she deserved. A dream woman for any man.

First of all I can’t tell if this is real…second of all, who’s out here taking advice from a 19-year-old about life decisions???

You feminist women are insufferable. You’ll likely never find true love or build a nuclear family with children who grow to adore and respect themselves, due to their parents example. She’s winning at life! Your all salty cuz she didn’t go to college or whore herself out for 4-6 years. Makes sense. Crabs in a bucket mentality.

The ten years gap is too much considering she is 19 and hasn’t even discovered who she is or what she truly wants from life. People like this tend to grow up resenting their husbands for taking their youth away from them.

I married at 19 to someone I'd known for 2 months. That was 26 years ago. If you can't understand this, it just means that this is not for you. I knew within a few days of meeting him that we would be married. We aligned enough that we knew we would spend years getting to know each other and were okay with that. Mind you, when we met, neither of us were interested in marriage or children. It was very much a "when you know, you know," thing.

Pretty much my life story. My age gap was eleven years & I got married at 20 after dating 18 mos. No job, no fallback, no regrets. 20yrs later, we have a happy, healthy relationship, a handful of kids, & a ton of memories. Getting married you can be such a blessing.

WE don’t need to tell her anything. WE should let life itself be her teacher & we’ll revisit her later to see what she has learned. Good choices or bad choices - They’re HER choices that she’s making willingly and she has the free will to make those choices.

Congratulations on being a happy wife and homemaker. I just quit my job finally at USPS after my husband had already asked me 4 times in a span of 5 years with the postal service. I too now get to live my dream of being a full-time homemaker. Our son graduated today for mechanical engineering God's timing is perfect.

Tell her what? That the majority of marriages that last are exactly like this one?

ah yes, i remember when i was 19. its gonna catch up to her when shes 23

There's nothing wrong with this. Now she has the luxury of making her way in the world with back up, instead of having to do it all alone. She might end up taking college courses or working a part time job, but it will be on their terms not for need.

She needs to divorce him and a get a job in HR and put her children in daycare.

Tell her what?

You mean that when he cheats on her and decides to dump her for a younger woman she will have no life skills, no professional skills so she'll have to fight for a service job to provide for herself and the five children they have?

Fast forward ten or fifteen years - and God forbid she is being abused in some way... She has no education - no career experience... This is a defenseless situation especially if you are a parent. And in this country - even more frightening.

I hated watching this dumb monologue.

Bruh 29 and 19 married and 18 and 28 engaged sooo many red flags 🚩 here they had to meet at least around 15 or younger and he would still be in his 20s this guy is a pedophile 🤮

Can’t wait for the 10 year update video!

Men are not reliable these days. I've been married twice, both times to a supposed Christian. The first one cheated and the second one is a lying slob who is likely a closeted gay. I used to be as traditional as they come but that is just stupid in today's day and age. At least go get a skill incase he turns out to be like 90% of men these days. She must be able to rely on mommy and daddy to pick up the pieces at her age.

Who is going to tell her what? She didn’t say she signed a pre-nuptial agreement that negated her ability to access the ability to be compensated should her spouse defile their union. She also didn’t get married to earn from her husband, she got married to build a life the way she sees it as appropriate. She’ll be compensated appropriately. That’s all that matters.

Well, my mom met my dad when she was 19 and he was 29, got married a year later and they were together for 48 years until my dad died of prostate cancer. Good for her...

I mean she's right... "wedding culture" is a scam. Go plan and price out a wedding... Then take all that money and just use it on a honeymoon or a home upgrade.

Not me, my lips are sealed 🤠🤣