Who’s in the wrong?

She is in the wrong for recording a personal conversation with her husband.

Both of them are wrong. This isn’t stuff she should be putting on TikTok, private matters should be discussed behind closed doors. Not in front of the world

So tired of the staged rage bait that contributes nothing whatsoever to society.

The fact that she was recording in the first place says a lot…

She’s awful for recording it.

She LITERALLY just made me never want to hear the word "LITERALLY" ever again...yeesh

they are both selfish as can be

That is an example of CONTROL. She is controlling him by forcing him to comply. She wasn't really ASKING how he felt about her stopping for drink, she was making a selfish demand and didn't care about his feelings. It is a selfish demand if the spouse is punished for disagreeing.

Gen X kids were just left alone with the oldest sibling. Told to NOT open the door unless it was mom or dad or they would get a spanking. Latchkey kids grew up this way. We grew up fast, we learned to cope. We were badasses.

This marriage is a failure. Nevermind the arguments, who video tapes their conversation with their husband/wife and posts it on TikTok?