Why can’t you get this glow up without getting a divorce??

Most men are drainers 🤷. If you argue let’s exchange gender for 6months 😂

Drainers how 👀

They require a lot when they are in your proximity. Emotionally alone and if you are now a good cook and home keeper. By the time you finish daily, forgetting yourself is easy if you are not very very deliberate

@khanofkhans11_ You speak as though most men just do nothing, do not invest emotionally, do not do house chores. We can't take such one sided sentiment seriously.

@khanofkhans11_ Na why I use most partners and not all partner. Some do

People who have supportive men are glowing in their marriage the ones with the drainers are showing you how they are surviving without them. Now the weight on her is no longer the same Some days she has the kids some days him so she can focus on herself. That the story I see

Some men are from hell , they are usually the devil in a marriage So when the women gets out of the marriage they glow up straight .

Because she can focus on herself, and not worry about catering to a man child.

No way are you guys not seeing that this is all Ai

Because of stress. Mental stress, emotional stress, physical stress and probably unhappiness. These things won't let you glow up and will continue to direct fat to your midsection.... Getting a divorce mostly means something was wrong. That something is what makes glow up hard.

You'll be back to healthy too if you get rid of the cancer that sucked the life of you 👍

Because sometimes cortisol from stress makes you fat, and sometimes marrying a baby man increases your cortisol cos you have to do everything for him

They put effort in trying to prove a point

Потому что рядом с ней тот, кто отнимал у ней жизнь. Если мужчина не отнимает силу и жизнь у женщины или даже полезен ей - она преображается в лучшую сторону. Если отнимает - она с ним выглядит хуже, чем до него, но восстанавливается после расставания с ним. Как-то странно, что до автора это не дошло..

isnt this AI ?

bc of how the person she was married to drained the life out of her. when you fuckfaces realize the relationship and care you have for your spouse she never stop after the i do’s. when you pour love and life into someone it shows. ever wonder why the men always look loved? yea.

Because when women married they busy looking after everything else but herself also the stress try to catch up with everything drained her, when she is single she got plenty time for herself to do what she used to love, less stress so she able to glow up

I am glowing up in my marriage because my husband supports me and invests in me. The secret is in the right man.

How can you glow when another adult can not find their socks or tie? Can not help with anything around?

These divorce. Glow up are fire! Yes! Queens finally get to focus on themselves

This looks like AI

Its cause who u marry, when u marry abuser n cheating man u'll get like that but when u marry a man who is really understand woman, they'll take care of their woman😎

This is AI

Because the man is the reason she needed a glow up in the first place.

Because now she no longer has to spend all her time taking care of a man toddler.

You won’t have time to look good if you’re in charge of making sure that everyone is okay

Bad husbands cause a lot of stress, either from abuse, negativity, or just immaturity, making her carry the mental load. This can lead to excess cortisol and weight gain, especially if she’s doing the bulk of the childcare (far too common) and has no time for self care.

Because they get too comfortable in the relationship. It is a cycle for most of them. Now she is setting a trap for the next prey... Once they get too comfortable, once more, it becomes a case of "what I ordered VS what I got" again.

Girls use to beautiful before marriage, they became beautiful after divorce. If they marry the right person they remain beautiful after marriage also. Got your answer?

Coz he was stressing her out so much that her hormones caused her to gain weight. It's extremely common for women in abusive relationships to gain weight due to elevated cortisol. Losing the man meant losing the weight.

Because she spend the time she will use to work,do chores and cook ogbono soup at the gym.

Because for years they take their partner for granted. After divorce, they have to put in effort to find another attractive mate. This happens with men too but physical attractiveness and fertility are the main forms of capital women have in the mating market.

Stress Less sleep Less time for yourself Hormones/Cortisol Environment I wish men understood this, more than judging. If she gets in another bad relationship no matter what she'll do. She's still going to look like before.

Because she did not have the time for herself that she has now ... Probably had a slob of husband she had to pick up after?

If you marry principalities You go age pass anything

When we say toxic relationships suck the life out of people y'all think we just love talking.

this is actually common btw. marrying wrong person give you stress and you end with no time to take care yourself. so when the divorce come, you have more time for yourself and you cut off toxic relationship.