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Why do some guys put up with almost anything from a girlfriend just so she won't leave? 🤔🤔🤔 Is it insecurity or a lack of self-confidence? A guy can get so attached to being in a relationship that he starts accepting behavior he knows he shouldn't. He might even... overlook disrespect, constant drama, manipulation, dishonesty, or a complete lack of appreciation because the thought of being alone feels worse than staying in a relationship that makes him miserable. But there's a big difference between loving someone and being afraid to lose them. A healthy relationship should be something two people choose because they genuinely want each other in their lives, not something one person desperately tries to hold onto at any cost. A man should be willing to communicate, compromise, forgive, and work through problems. But that doesn't mean abandoning his own self respect just to keep someone around. If staying requires you to constantly tolerate behavior that goes against your values, eventually you have to ask yourself what you are actually holding onto. Being alone for a while is not the end of the world. Sometimes it's far better to walk away from the wrong relationship than spend years trying to convince someone to treat you properly. Are you staying because the relationship is worth fighting for, or because you're afraid of what might happen if your partner leaves?show more

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"What you're doing for yourself is more important for a woman more than weti you dey do for am." Why do you think women want rich men? It's because they have done well for themselves. What attract women to you is what you have amount for yourself. This is why as a man, it's important to prioritize your self development. You'll see a man who hasn't finished school sponsoring his girlfriend through school. A man who hasn't built a house for his parents building a house for his girlfriend parents. A man who hasn't opened business for all his siblings opening a business for a girlfriend. So after elevating this woman, you expect her to see you the same? This is why women punish simps because they elevate them above themselves. Unfortunately, women are hypergamous by nature and will never want to be with a man they believe they're better than. If you use all the money you want to spend on a woman to invest more on yourself, she'll love you more because you'll end up being a better man than she initially met you but foolish men think spending lavishly on a woman is what will keep her. As a man, always remember that what you're doing for yourself is more important to a woman than what you're doing for her. ALWAYS PUT YOURSELF FIRST!

KING CHIDI

17,616 görüntüleme • 1 ay önce

Guys will see this kind of thing and think it’s instruction, but they don’t read the fine print: 1️⃣ This girl is married yet still posting thirst traps online 2️⃣ She is clearly ADVERTISING herself for someone; someone who is NOT the husband (the husband already has her!) 3️⃣ Further, she is bragging about what she is able to get her husband to do and how easy she has it (i.e., he is way more invested in her than she is in him) Many men assume that, “The easier and more comfortable I make life for my woman, the more indebted to me she’ll be for all that comfort and ease, the more grateful she’ll be for how spoiled rotten I’ve made her, and the less motivation she’ll have than ever to look for other guys!” This assumption is based on one very WRONG misunderstanding of women, however: That what women really want is ‘stuff’. Material comforts. ‘Nice things’. It is easy for men to get this misunderstanding, because women will constantly tell you they DO want ‘stuff’. Just like how children will tell you they want stuff: • “I want this present!” • “Will you buy me that gift?” • “A new version of that came out! Can we get it?” But if you spoil a child rotten, that does not make the child ‘forever grateful’ to you. Likewise, spoiling a woman rotten does not make her forever grateful either. The harsh reality is a woman’s loyalty has NOTHING to do with how much or how little you spend on her. You can spend on her if you want to and if it makes you feel good. But you should treat it like charity; it is like giving alms to the poor. That is, it is not an action you should expect anything back from. You can spoil her rotten but still have her posting thirst traps online, showing herself off and advertising for other men. (In this chick’s other videos, she shows herself getting a nose job, and looking at the camera flirting and ignoring her man even when he is on camera next to her paying her attention. This husband is a placeholder.) Likewise, you can spend nothing on her at all yet have her be fiercely devoted to you. If you want a woman to actually be LOYAL to you: ✅ She needs to do things for YOU. She needs to work hard in the relationship. She needs to invest in it. She needs to be putting thought into how she is going to keep you satisfied. ✅ She needs to be getting it from you hard enough in the bedroom that she is so sexually sated she doesn’t even want to think about other men or feel any need to bother to act outwardly flirtatious in public to entice other men in. ✅ She needs to be at least a little more attentive to you than you are to her. There is no such thing as ‘true equality’ except in the imagined world of Platonic ideals. In reality, someone will always be working a little harder to gain the other’s attention. For an actual healthy relationship, the one working a little bit harder MUST BE the woman! Again: buy her stuff if you really want to. But, like spoiling a child rotten, don’t delude yourself thinking that, “If I keep her comfortable enough, she’ll be so happy and loyal!” There is ZERO relationship between “spending on her” and “keeping her in-love and loyal.” These two things are completely unrelated. Her devotion stems from her feeling invested in you, not the reverse.

Guys will see this kind of thing and think it’s instruction, but they don’t read the fine print: 1️⃣ This girl is married yet still posting thirst traps online 2️⃣ She is clearly ADVERTISING herself for someone; someone who is NOT the husband (the husband already has her!) 3️⃣ Further, she is bragging about what she is able to get her husband to do and how easy she has it (i.e., he is way more invested in her than she is in him) Many men assume that, “The easier and more comfortable I make life for my woman, the more indebted to me she’ll be for all that comfort and ease, the more grateful she’ll be for how spoiled rotten I’ve made her, and the less motivation she’ll have than ever to look for other guys!” This assumption is based on one very WRONG misunderstanding of women, however: That what women really want is ‘stuff’. Material comforts. ‘Nice things’. It is easy for men to get this misunderstanding, because women will constantly tell you they DO want ‘stuff’. Just like how children will tell you they want stuff: • “I want this present!” • “Will you buy me that gift?” • “A new version of that came out! Can we get it?” But if you spoil a child rotten, that does not make the child ‘forever grateful’ to you. Likewise, spoiling a woman rotten does not make her forever grateful either. The harsh reality is a woman’s loyalty has NOTHING to do with how much or how little you spend on her. You can spend on her if you want to and if it makes you feel good. But you should treat it like charity; it is like giving alms to the poor. That is, it is not an action you should expect anything back from. You can spoil her rotten but still have her posting thirst traps online, showing herself off and advertising for other men. (In this chick’s other videos, she shows herself getting a nose job, and looking at the camera flirting and ignoring her man even when he is on camera next to her paying her attention. This husband is a placeholder.) Likewise, you can spend nothing on her at all yet have her be fiercely devoted to you. If you want a woman to actually be LOYAL to you: ✅ She needs to do things for YOU. She needs to work hard in the relationship. She needs to invest in it. She needs to be putting thought into how she is going to keep you satisfied. ✅ She needs to be getting it from you hard enough in the bedroom that she is so sexually sated she doesn’t even want to think about other men or feel any need to bother to act outwardly flirtatious in public to entice other men in. ✅ She needs to be at least a little more attentive to you than you are to her. There is no such thing as ‘true equality’ except in the imagined world of Platonic ideals. In reality, someone will always be working a little harder to gain the other’s attention. For an actual healthy relationship, the one working a little bit harder MUST BE the woman! Again: buy her stuff if you really want to. But, like spoiling a child rotten, don’t delude yourself thinking that, “If I keep her comfortable enough, she’ll be so happy and loyal!” There is ZERO relationship between “spending on her” and “keeping her in-love and loyal.” These two things are completely unrelated. Her devotion stems from her feeling invested in you, not the reverse.

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

37,276 görüntüleme • 9 ay önce

Aside from Basketball, Jalen Brunson should be every kids super hero. Not a single person believed in him. But the work always works, no matter what is happening around you or what is being said. Just work. Allow your work to be the measure of you. Not success, not the records, not the trophies. Measure yourself in the hours you put in and the work you dedicated yourself to. Fall in love with being alone with yourself in the gym. I love Jalen Brunson.

Aside from Basketball, Jalen Brunson should be every kids super hero. Not a single person believed in him. But the work always works, no matter what is happening around you or what is being said. Just work. Allow your work to be the measure of you. Not success, not the records, not the trophies. Measure yourself in the hours you put in and the work you dedicated yourself to. Fall in love with being alone with yourself in the gym. I love Jalen Brunson.

Mikey O’ver

19,335 görüntüleme • 3 ay önce

Take a moment to understand this scene well. Arnold is happy that Tua is thrilled to know Dean got back with Jack but the shift to the downcast face is out of guilt knowing Dean almost made a mistake of kissing him the night before. Arnold may not be in a clear relationship with Tua but he is becoming emotionally attached to him knowing that secret could hurt him even if he has no emotional or intimate connection with Dean. It is in Arnold's hands now if he'll be transparent about it to Tua, if they make a clearer label for their relationship, or things get messy with misunderstandings in the future (which will happen 🤪) #OnlyFriendsDreamOnEP7 #JossGawin

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Take a moment to understand this scene well. Arnold is happy that Tua is thrilled to know Dean got back with Jack but the shift to the downcast face is out of guilt knowing Dean almost made a mistake of kissing him the night before. Arnold may not be in a clear relationship with Tua but he is becoming emotionally attached to him knowing that secret could hurt him even if he has no emotional or intimate connection with Dean. It is in Arnold's hands now if he'll be transparent about it to Tua, if they make a clearer label for their relationship, or things get messy with misunderstandings in the future (which will happen 🤪) #OnlyFriendsDreamOnEP7 #JossGawin

alex 🐼💛

20,291 görüntüleme • 5 ay önce

Ever noticed how quickly a dog can become part of the family? 😁😁😁 Have you ever considered adopting a dog? It's about a lot more than just having a new pet. It means taking responsibility for another living thing, building a routine around caring for it, and having a companion that genuinely wants to be part of your everyday life. Dogs have a way of getting people outside and moving, even on days when you would rather stay on the couch. They give kids an opportunity to learn patience, responsibility, gentleness, and what it means to care for something that depends on you. And for adults, there is something pretty special about coming home to a dog that is genuinely excited to see you. Adoption can also give a dog a second chance at a good home. There are plenty of dogs waiting for someone willing to give them time, training, patience, and a place to belong. The relationship you build with that dog can become one of the most rewarding parts of everyday family life. Of course, owning a dog is a real commitment. They need food, exercise, training, attention, veterinary care, and plenty of patience. But that responsibility is part of what makes the relationship meaningful. Sometimes the best additions to a family are the ones that teach everyone to be a little more caring, responsible, and grateful. Could adopting a dog be one of the best decisions your family makes?

Ever noticed how quickly a dog can become part of the family? 😁😁😁 Have you ever considered adopting a dog? It's about a lot more than just having a new pet. It means taking responsibility for another living thing, building a routine around caring for it, and having a companion that genuinely wants to be part of your everyday life. Dogs have a way of getting people outside and moving, even on days when you would rather stay on the couch. They give kids an opportunity to learn patience, responsibility, gentleness, and what it means to care for something that depends on you. And for adults, there is something pretty special about coming home to a dog that is genuinely excited to see you. Adoption can also give a dog a second chance at a good home. There are plenty of dogs waiting for someone willing to give them time, training, patience, and a place to belong. The relationship you build with that dog can become one of the most rewarding parts of everyday family life. Of course, owning a dog is a real commitment. They need food, exercise, training, attention, veterinary care, and plenty of patience. But that responsibility is part of what makes the relationship meaningful. Sometimes the best additions to a family are the ones that teach everyone to be a little more caring, responsible, and grateful. Could adopting a dog be one of the best decisions your family makes?

Declaration of Memes

16,688 görüntüleme • 1 gün önce

Your kids aren't listening to what you say. They're becoming what you are. Providing for your children is good. Showing up is good. Being present, being reliable, keeping the roof over their head. That is what a good father does, and it matters. But there's a deeper layer most of us miss. You're not just raising your kids. You're installing their identity. Every reaction is a blueprint. Your anger teaches them stress. Your calm teaches them regulation. The way you speak to them becomes their inner voice. The way you treat their mother becomes their standard for love. The way you handle pressure becomes their definition of a man. And it's the same truth in every company I work with. Your team doesn't become what you preach. They become what you model. Culture is just the founder's nervous system, scaled. So yes, provide. Show up. Be present. And on top of all of it, lead by example, because you cannot give from a well you never filled. It starts with you. Be the person you want them to become.

Your kids aren't listening to what you say. They're becoming what you are. Providing for your children is good. Showing up is good. Being present, being reliable, keeping the roof over their head. That is what a good father does, and it matters. But there's a deeper layer most of us miss. You're not just raising your kids. You're installing their identity. Every reaction is a blueprint. Your anger teaches them stress. Your calm teaches them regulation. The way you speak to them becomes their inner voice. The way you treat their mother becomes their standard for love. The way you handle pressure becomes their definition of a man. And it's the same truth in every company I work with. Your team doesn't become what you preach. They become what you model. Culture is just the founder's nervous system, scaled. So yes, provide. Show up. Be present. And on top of all of it, lead by example, because you cannot give from a well you never filled. It starts with you. Be the person you want them to become.

mikechabot

10,733 görüntüleme • 2 ay önce

$I think some people are just not ready to read this, so feel free to skip🫴🏼 The thing is, you don’t want to admit that Serhat is a human too just because he’s a man. And I will stick to that sentence and repeat it as much as I can. Not to convince you, but because it’s a fact. If you ask Ercan the last 2 episodes could literally be titled: “How to emotionally break Serhat in every possible way.” If you’ve been paying attention from the beginning, you would already know how his character is built. He’s someone who was never allowed to express his emotions. Yes, he was treated “better” as the heir but what does “better” even mean here? He wasn’t protected, he was programmed. Forced to suppress everything, to carry responsibility, to stay in control at all times. And that stayed with him. And when you grow up like that, you attract people who treat you the same way. That’s exactly what happened with M. She treated him in that same controlled, restrictive way. The only person who didn’t was Yıldız. From the very beginning, she saw the real him the vulnerable him. No matter how high he built his walls, she could still see through him. And that scared him. Not because he doubts her, but because he’s not used to being seen like that. Every time someone saw even a fraction of his softness, they used it against him (Akif, Sultan, M…all of them.) Yıldız wouldn’t do that, he knows it. But that doesn’t change the fact that having someone understand you that deeply feels overwhelming. It’s human. Now, about the hospital incident and the lack of communication… Both of them are right and wrong at the same time. This isn’t about blaming one side. Some situations are just the result of circumstances, not fault. And if you actually watch the show because you care about the characters, you’ll understand that. The lack of communication from the previous episode clearly showed in the office scene this episode. Yildiz moved forward, trying to hold onto their promise to trust each other, to let their word be one. But he was still stuck in that moment. Not because he held grudge against her, but because he knows that one small action( her taking the gun) led to much bigger consequences. And they both know that. And most importantly they are exhausted! Everything started when he went to kordağli’s mansion last ep . Then M told him she would marry his enemy and give his child his name. Then his Ortak was shot, and he had to carry him to the hospital and operate on him while injured!(an injury that was caused my Aşir himself!) almost losing him. He broke down alone!! no one even saw that because this is how Serhat is used to be🙂‍↕️ Then he started suspecting his own brother. Then yilidz rose the gun in front of the other ağas and that’s when all the pressure and the responsibility of maintaining control and respect not just in his family, but as an Ağa, crushed him at once! Then Yıldız was jailed because of M & the next day it was confirmed that Akif shot Aşir and he discovered his betrayal with nida and hast to give his own brother to death! Because that’s what morally correct! And then Hicran First, she was someone he was supposed to protect cuz Aşir told him to protect her. Then suddenly, she is his sister. And just as quickly, she was dying. He found out his own mother was behind her suffering. He didn’t get time to process any of it. The guilt alone is enough to destroy someone. Knowing she was always there, part of his life, and he didn’t know. That he couldn’t protect her. That he couldn’t repay her. And it didn’t stop there… He lost his status. He was manipulated by M. He was pushed further and further. Then came the final blow Hicran’s brain death. And right after that, he had to face the reality of her being an organ donor. And then… her heart goes to her killer… Anyway, since you’re all acting like superhuman creatures and these situations wouldn’t affect you at all if you were in his place then go ahead, have at it.$

I think some people are just not ready to read this, so feel free to skip🫴🏼 The thing is, you don’t want to admit that Serhat is a human too just because he’s a man. And I will stick to that sentence and repeat it as much as I can. Not to convince you, but because it’s a fact. If you ask Ercan the last 2 episodes could literally be titled: “How to emotionally break Serhat in every possible way.” If you’ve been paying attention from the beginning, you would already know how his character is built. He’s someone who was never allowed to express his emotions. Yes, he was treated “better” as the heir but what does “better” even mean here? He wasn’t protected, he was programmed. Forced to suppress everything, to carry responsibility, to stay in control at all times. And that stayed with him. And when you grow up like that, you attract people who treat you the same way. That’s exactly what happened with M. She treated him in that same controlled, restrictive way. The only person who didn’t was Yıldız. From the very beginning, she saw the real him the vulnerable him. No matter how high he built his walls, she could still see through him. And that scared him. Not because he doubts her, but because he’s not used to being seen like that. Every time someone saw even a fraction of his softness, they used it against him (Akif, Sultan, M…all of them.) Yıldız wouldn’t do that, he knows it. But that doesn’t change the fact that having someone understand you that deeply feels overwhelming. It’s human. Now, about the hospital incident and the lack of communication… Both of them are right and wrong at the same time. This isn’t about blaming one side. Some situations are just the result of circumstances, not fault. And if you actually watch the show because you care about the characters, you’ll understand that. The lack of communication from the previous episode clearly showed in the office scene this episode. Yildiz moved forward, trying to hold onto their promise to trust each other, to let their word be one. But he was still stuck in that moment. Not because he held grudge against her, but because he knows that one small action( her taking the gun) led to much bigger consequences. And they both know that. And most importantly they are exhausted! Everything started when he went to kordağli’s mansion last ep . Then M told him she would marry his enemy and give his child his name. Then his Ortak was shot, and he had to carry him to the hospital and operate on him while injured!(an injury that was caused my Aşir himself!) almost losing him. He broke down alone!! no one even saw that because this is how Serhat is used to be🙂‍↕️ Then he started suspecting his own brother. Then yilidz rose the gun in front of the other ağas and that’s when all the pressure and the responsibility of maintaining control and respect not just in his family, but as an Ağa, crushed him at once! Then Yıldız was jailed because of M & the next day it was confirmed that Akif shot Aşir and he discovered his betrayal with nida and hast to give his own brother to death! Because that’s what morally correct! And then Hicran First, she was someone he was supposed to protect cuz Aşir told him to protect her. Then suddenly, she is his sister. And just as quickly, she was dying. He found out his own mother was behind her suffering. He didn’t get time to process any of it. The guilt alone is enough to destroy someone. Knowing she was always there, part of his life, and he didn’t know. That he couldn’t protect her. That he couldn’t repay her. And it didn’t stop there… He lost his status. He was manipulated by M. He was pushed further and further. Then came the final blow Hicran’s brain death. And right after that, he had to face the reality of her being an organ donor. And then… her heart goes to her killer… Anyway, since you’re all acting like superhuman creatures and these situations wouldn’t affect you at all if you were in his place then go ahead, have at it.

Maurora🫦

15,873 görüntüleme • 5 ay önce

Yes, Trump went to Dairy Queen yesterday and asked "What the hell is a Blizzard." If I were to guess, probably about 98% of Americans know exactly what a Blizzard at Dairy Queen is. It definitely is baffling to me that a former President would not know this. But who cares? No, I'm not going to claim that Trump has dementia because he doesn't know what a Blizzard is. I'm also not going to claim that this disqualifies him from being President. Although I think a lot of other things should. What I am going to say is that Americans need to stop focusing on the BS attempts to smear candidates with stupid attacks. Whether it is the right trying to attack Biden for slurring his speech, or the left trying to attack Trump for being overweight, or anything else in between, it's all just BS. We're better than that.

Yes, Trump went to Dairy Queen yesterday and asked "What the hell is a Blizzard." If I were to guess, probably about 98% of Americans know exactly what a Blizzard at Dairy Queen is. It definitely is baffling to me that a former President would not know this. But who cares? No, I'm not going to claim that Trump has dementia because he doesn't know what a Blizzard is. I'm also not going to claim that this disqualifies him from being President. Although I think a lot of other things should. What I am going to say is that Americans need to stop focusing on the BS attempts to smear candidates with stupid attacks. Whether it is the right trying to attack Biden for slurring his speech, or the left trying to attack Trump for being overweight, or anything else in between, it's all just BS. We're better than that.

Ed Krassenstein

3,830,240 görüntüleme • 3 yıl önce

The thank-you is on the screen. The relationship is in the hand that never puts the spoon down. One of them is cooking and half on his phone. The other walks in and needs to be held right then. That split is the whole domestic contract, and it rarely makes the caption. Gay couples get filmed in kitchens like the kitchen is the proof. Proof of what. That two men can share a stove. Most of us already knew that. What the clip actually shows is uneven timing. Affection arriving mid-task. A neck kiss while the pan is still on. “Thank you for who you’ve been in my life” is a tribute. Tributes are easy to post. They flatten years into a sentence someone else can repost. The daily version is less poetic. Someone wants your face in their hands while you are trying to finish dinner. You let them, and you do not fully stop. The song asks why they do not feel like the stars. Stars do not share a rental kitchen, a vacuum in the corner, or a phone that stays in the free hand. The ordinary is the point, and it is also the part people edit out when they want the relationship to look like gratitude instead of interruption. Staying looks like this more often than it looks like a love note. One person reaching. The other still watching the pot.

The thank-you is on the screen. The relationship is in the hand that never puts the spoon down. One of them is cooking and half on his phone. The other walks in and needs to be held right then. That split is the whole domestic contract, and it rarely makes the caption. Gay couples get filmed in kitchens like the kitchen is the proof. Proof of what. That two men can share a stove. Most of us already knew that. What the clip actually shows is uneven timing. Affection arriving mid-task. A neck kiss while the pan is still on. “Thank you for who you’ve been in my life” is a tribute. Tributes are easy to post. They flatten years into a sentence someone else can repost. The daily version is less poetic. Someone wants your face in their hands while you are trying to finish dinner. You let them, and you do not fully stop. The song asks why they do not feel like the stars. Stars do not share a rental kitchen, a vacuum in the corner, or a phone that stays in the free hand. The ordinary is the point, and it is also the part people edit out when they want the relationship to look like gratitude instead of interruption. Staying looks like this more often than it looks like a love note. One person reaching. The other still watching the pot.

Su-Ra 🌊✨

62,824 görüntüleme • 2 gün önce