Wife and intimacy?

Almost 1 minute to not say the right answer for that guy: "yes, sex life can come back. Just not with your wife."

A monogamous relationship is 1) having sex, 2) with one person only. If someone cheated, that one destroyed the contract of monogamy. If someone don't have sex, that one destroyed also the contract of monogamy. So he should find a mistress or divorce, she betrayed the contract.

No intimacy, no marriage. Ball is in my partner’s court. Not interested in sneaking around or stepping out on my partner. Will do whatever it takes to get things back on track, but as noted above, it takes two to tango. Didn’t get married to be celibate and be roommates.

I’m 53 and my wife is 53, we have sex all the time

Kate, unfortunately, the collateral damage of menopause is often not addressed thoroughly enough.

If my wife “closed the door” to intimacy, I’d be OUT the door. 🤣 Simple as that.

Wife - I refuse to be your wife Husband with leverage - great. I'm moving out at the end of the month. Have a nice life Husband without leverage - Dear Reddit, my wife says...

What's there to talk about? We already know the why: she chooses not to. She chooses to prioritize herself over her husband and she's made it clear she will continue to make that decision every day for the rest of her life.

"See a counselor" is a pretty useless piece of advice when the wife has already made a decision.

Flirt with someone else! That usually works a treat 😘

She’s either cheating or wants someone else.

The problem is, the LL person in a relationship usually is not willing to discuss it.

Next it'll be separate rooms - You've got a housemate. Draw a line and move on.

When a person removes intimacy from the relationship they've basically ended the relationship. The reason why it happens can obviously make it more or less understandable but the result is still that the relationship is over.

Common topic for married men

They don't need a therapist! they need an actual doctor, you can undergo hormone treatment to help raise your libido.

bro deserves this for getting married

Or just find someone who *does* want intimacy. Don't waste your life, your time with someone who has already made that decision - unless you have kids still living at home!

Sure it can. With someone else

Unbelievably bad takes, talking about sex is about the number one thing to do if you never want to have it again. Never mention Muh needs, it will only make matters worse.

...oor just get a divorce. Far too many women are just toxic like that and try to use withdrawing sex as a form of punishment. Those creatures need to be weeded out WAY sooner than that though.

Not for her, so you get a mistress, hire a prostitute or get a divorce. She obviously never liked you or already has a boyfriend.

Yep. Time for an upgrade to new model

That's a crock. Divorce her ASAP.

Having frequent sex with your spouse is bare minimum behavior, if your wife refuses to have sex with you at least once a week, then she has no business being a wife. I’m sure she’s more than happy to accept your money, quality time, etc.

My wife and I are 52/50 empty nest and our intimacy only gets stronger. I think we both feel extremely fortunate to still be into each other so strong after 32 years exclusively. We get hit on by lifestyle peeps a lot but isn't our thing. Still cool to hang with tho

The husband should Marry a second wife , don’t put up to this selfishness of women

Nothing about ages ???? She’s in the menopause FFS !!?

bring back violence and everything comes back. Men have turned themselves to wimp by simply listening to the female retarded narrative.

It simple: old recipe, no honey no money. And probably wife was defective from the beginning just hiding this.

When the primary contractor can't or wont work through the contract you need to consult with a sub contractor. It's simple buisness. Deduct the difference from the primary contractors benifits. 👍😂🤔

This is why you don’t have a government marriage.