Women: why don’t men open up? Same women:

They're never sorry.. Open up at your own risk..

Sad really… very sad

At that moment, he realized, he can’t share shit with her ever again

Ur gonna be her favorite excuse for being a bullshit bitch 😭😭😭

The way she dropped her head after saying that, NASTY.

The actual realization and know the importance of what she destroyed with that statement

I mean if you watched the show, it was a lot and she supported him through it all 🤷🏽‍♀️ And they actually were a great couple. Perfection doesn’t exist in either gender.

The conversation borders on weaponizing weakness. If we put things in perspective, she was the one expecting perfection when she brought that up. No matter what happens, using people’s shortcomings — especially the peculiarity of his— is never right. It has the capacity to destroy the core of what holds people together because it triggers a psychological response that questions things that were held dear.

Bro in real life they don’t even say I’m sorry they double down 😭 look at you crazy for even being upset

Open up a bit they take the information, keep it as a weapon for mass destruction when next their an argument

I mean if you never watched the show you could just say that. That lady sacrificed ALOT for him and their marriage because of his mental health stuff and when she wanted to do something for herself he basically told her it was too late.

You do realize she used the mental health as defense in a critical moment of conversation and that was enough reason to throw sense and reason out the window. We seem to be mixing up the conversation and justifying what she said.

He used her sacrifice of self over all those years as a low blow and she brought him back to reality as to why she made those sacrifices in the first place. Fair is fair

@better_men You being a woman and arguing this is enough reason to prove opening up as a man is not acceptable.

@better_men Get therapy

@better_men They wouldn't be any need for that if we didn't have self-centered women like yourself out here.

@better_men You saying that just further proves my point that you need therapy.

Terrible fr.

@Kaysharic Absolutely… it is one of the major problems in relationships. When a man doesn’t feel comfortable enough to share, it becomes resentment over time

@Kaysharic I experienced this...

@Kaysharic Been there done that… sorry bro✊🏾✊🏾

😂 😂 😂 This got to be a Tyler Perry film

Get yourself a therapist. Dont open up to a woman

You can't use a 41 second clip that was extracted from a 43 minute episode, in an 18 episode season, in a 6 season show, to explain why men don't open up. There's a WHOLE lot of context behind this scene.

People say what the mean, the first time, whether well thought out or not. Also, "I'm sorry," is not a genuine apology.

Tell me you haven’t watched the show without telling me you haven’t watched the show….

This is the advice I’d give any man: The moment you choose to open up in marriage (which is not a weakness but a strength), understand that as human beings—man or woman—there will be moments when emotions overflow, especially during misunderstandings. No matter how hard we try, someone will eventually slip. That’s part of marriage. It can be wavy at times. What truly matters is how you both navigate the hurdles, ride through the ups and downs, and choose forgiveness. Mixed emotions and conflicting feelings will arise, but forgiveness is what keeps the bond intact—not out of obligation, but out of love and a genuine commitment to make it work. If, on the other hand, you decide to lock up your feelings and avoid vulnerability with your spouse, that’s your choice. But from experience, I wouldn’t recommend it. Vulnerability deepens connection; silence often builds walls. At the end of the day, remember this: in marriage, there will be slips, stumbles, and disagreements. But forgiveness is the anchor. For better or worse, through thick and thin, love is proven not in the easy times, but in the willingness to endure, forgive, and keep building together.

This actually was a good show but woman tend to go low when they can't win a argument lol

At least she said she was sorry 🤣🤣🤣🤣

"I'm sorry....I didn't mean..." Yes, she did mean.

Taking this clip to stoke the gender wars flame is just sad. If you watch the show, she instantly felt bad and more than made it up to him plus she sacrifice a lot for that.

You clearly never watched this show. Randall problems were so big that it drowned her own. She was always showing up for him and not able to feel her own pain. This is marriage she said something wrong but what she felt was valid and they worked through it. Both were perfect

I remember Shaq said “Open up to a woman, never cause when something go down they’ll throw it in you face” And women got upset….but they all weaponize men trauma 😔

Why is he in the room with his ex?

She's not wrong though. Because if she did it anyway, he'd blame her for not being there for him when he was having the anxiety attacks 🤣🤣 Damned if you do. Damned if you don't.

I keep everything to myself. Open up to a woman ????🤣😂🤣😂 Hell no. I don't tell anybody jack shit anymore. Only people I'll tell anything to anymore are old people with memory problems or kids with Zero attention span to even remember. Normal adults, specially women DEFF NOT

Anything you say can an will be used against you in an argument, lol

Ik it’s a movie or show or whatever But this is real life 😂😂😂😂 Getting into an emotional argument with women she will always go low. Men argue for what’s right Women argue to BE right So if she feels like she’s losing…….🌚

Big lesson right here

She's right, why is he trying to blackmail her!

Learned this lesson from my own mother. Could never tell her what's on my mind or when I'm passionate about. Because whenever her bipolar self gets angry, it's always used as a weapon to attack me. Grew up with barely any passions and afraid to open up to anyone.

Mother fuckers don’t get how exhausting it is dealing with someone who has anxiety attacks at the drop of a hat. Love is love but a partner isn’t an on call therapist you just endless dump on. This how I lost my wife, we cool now but she was right it was too much & had a kid.

#ThisIsUs was such a top series.

She was never sorry, she just wanted to break the man and "win" the argument. Period.

They would only be sorry that you now know how they really feel.

Gentle men bottle it up and die with chest pain than open up to a woman that is not your mother.Rather open up and speak to a wall than open up to a woman.