Y’all come look at this.👴🏿

He Is Making Sense. Most Nigerian Married Women Are Like That, Most Especially Igbo Women.

Things like these are why some women eventually decide to leave their marriages. Sometimes, they feel they have little or nothing invested that they stand to lose by walking away.

"Don't kill yourself in the name that you are a man". If she can't contribute then she has no business remaining a wife to you.

Any woman that is financially okay but not contributing to her immediate household is actually contributing to another household could be her family or another man somewhere.

She go buy property somewhere… stuck enough cash to move on anytime something is wrong with you. Men, put your future first.

Great advice. However you guys always ignore the root causes to some of these issues. The men with these challenge are "usually" the controlling ones that have only money to offer (no character). So they flow better with women who keep taking ur money to keep pretending to be controlled. Imagine someone thinking that being a man is only by providing. They won't allow the woman contribute to keep her opinions low or non existent in the house. She plays along till one day it turns

This contribution matter so many reasons are involved. There are Women that actually supports but they stopped because their husband took advantage of it and left everything for them seeing they're capable financially. Regardless, a Woman can't claim she loves a Man sincerely and will leave him and allow him handle everything at home financially when she has something doing. Last but not the least, there are Men that derives joy when their Wives are totally dependent on them.

True.

30%??? What exactly is she using the money for?? Aren’t we supposed to make lives easier for each other??? 100% from both ends or nothing. Nobody came to this World to die for anybody. Maybe only Jesus.

All this women can kpai person all bcos of money ,if dey see say U dey bother dem dey can unalive you

No one, man/woman values a relationship they don’t make sacrifices for.

Men have to learn how to avoid broke women at all costs, you can fuck but don’t marry them

At least she should assist the husband with the bills.

Not this new Gen Z oh

That is why they will leave the marriage when they feels they have raided enough money to be independent woman then the man will be left broken

The only place I will not permit my wife to contribute in, is in our rent.

Partnership or nothing 💯

Today's men (most) are dealt a left deep end raw deal in marriages by women fr! High time most men sat down to reassess this whole social construct and how it to go about it with the realities of today for him in full focus (and decide/ act accordingly)

Men are providing and still getting disrespected..God forbid I place any woman over my enjoyment

You understand well... it's should not be complicatedthing, for the family net income to be invested back in the family. Women HATE this conversation but trust me as a man, it's very important to discuss all these things before Marriage, else buy your coffin.

He is a capable man. I bet she is Igbo. Our men are very useless. My wife salary comes to my account and I send to her. If u simps don't get what I'm saying go n keep simping

Most men are crazy All in the name of traditional or Alpha men

I collect 30% of her earning monthly. That is how it should be, I will not come and die bcos am a man when she is earning good money monthly.

I swr, a woman has to invest in the relationship so she can think twice before leaving the relationship

Woman don't threaten her a marriage if she is invested in it

Nigerian men made their women lazy, that’s all I can say..

Some lady are just wicked why na sometimes you need to support your husband too

My only question, was this discussed during courtship? some important discussions exposes the mindset of the individual and makes it easy to terminate the relationship at an early stage rather than a broken marriage.

The man is just grateful to be married to her… Unfortunate Man 🤦🏽‍♂️

I am a provider but as you Dey work na one account 90% of the money go enter we’d discuss where we’d put the money

She is saving her money for girls trip, too many fools we call men💔.

Bro to Bro. Make sure people who you got, got you 💯

If my wife can’t contribute to the household financially, I’m leaving that bitch, the world we at right now, a man can’t do it all alone, he needs supports too, those traits as to be there even before we get married, I will never marry a stingy woman. God forbid!!!

@Dahniel_ec The woman will have properties in her name that the said man doesn’t know about, since her money isn’t going to the family, it is going somewhere.

🤔 Her money is her money for CONTINGENCY PLANS... Such women are CONTRACT WIVES. They are no lawyers but DIVORCE specialists...😒 Most of them have AT LEAST 3 MEN to run down and MAKE FORTUNES in their life time.☹️☹️☹️

Raising children requires father and mother, If a child can only make reference to father only and no mother, children will not be psychologically balance. However, men should try scrutinize well and identify a virtuous woman who are very scarce these days.