Yeah it would be difficult

Your relationship with your partner is different from your relationship with your friends. If you can’t make the distinction then continue to be in a relationship with your homegirls.

And she will want her friends to be single like her. Any man for her friends will be a threat to their friendship, so it has to be sabotaged 🤣😂

Useless. Women who want to be babied at every turn by others. They can’t evolve independently and be sufficient & not a burden and somehow find a way to blame a man .

"Let me tell you why its hard for me to be w someone".......... A few moments later, "find yourself friends. They will change your life" I think the problem was hearing her out😑🚮🚮

She wants a care taker not a partner She wants a slave not a husband She wants a butler not a companion

Date your friend then.

Oksalayo

Until....Thuli, Naledi and Thashinga all get married and have no time for you, while you're shutting down every potential partner.

When u find a man just note that he ain't ur father, not ur checkers 60 60 nor ur therapist. Get some discipline (financial, spiritual, sexual and social) build ur internal dependency and diplomacy. Understand that ur personal sovereignty begins n ends only with u n u alone.

Never take advice from someone who is unemployed while your employed