“Your husband is the only person”

@agbalagbo And you wifes, you just use us and throw us away. That’s why we don’t want to marry you anymore. We prefer to stay on our own. We’re not willing to put up with it any longer.

What you are explaining is in no doubt your experience. Decision respected man. ✅

@agbalagbo Comparing parent's love to any love is crime 🙏🏻 Your husband or wife choose what your parent's made you now from your birth💫 That's it!!!

You call it “comparing”, I’ll tag it contrasting. Just a non-blood bonding she’s explaining

@agbalagbo Finally, someone makes a sensible point 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😍😍😍 — a wise opinion in a chaotic world.

Well spoken

@agbalagbo For that tiny ‘minority’ who choose to look within themselves… This is one of the conclusions to which your inner work will lead you. Maturity leads to balance, and balance leads to healthy love. Real love. Nothing to do with 'falling in love.'

You started off well. The mid is awesome but how you ended it? 🥲 No worries man 😂🙏

@agbalagbo That is precisely the essence of healthy 'disagreement'. Learning -and enjoying- from other points of view 👌 Absolutely no worries, man 😂

@agbalagbo Good Words Always respect your companion.

“Respect your companion”

@agbalagbo I like this but it should "spouse" instead of "wife" or "husband" to be grnder-neutral.

That make sense. “Spouses” 👍🥰

@agbalagbo Do you really choose who you love?

Everyone has a choice to choose

@agbalagbo Yeah, he didn’t love me at all, ever. You don’t exploit, violently assault, control, coerce, manipulate and hurt someone you love. My father also never loved me, really. If he did, he wouldn’t have hurt me to hurt my mom. Now, the man I’m with now? He loves me. I feel it. ❤️

The end of your paragraph is what brought smile to me. Despite the challenges, you still found love and peace. That’s strength.

@agbalagbo And luck!!! Pure luck.

Let the light of luck keep beaming on you Cat. ✅

@agbalagbo Same can said about the WIFE

@agbalagbo It goes both ways.

Yes, both ways

@agbalagbo AI slop

Me rn 😭

@agbalagbo This is soo true but please for a man that loves you oo some ppl use you bet😂

Mmm.

@agbalagbo This post makes all men smile ;)

And when they smile and are excited from heart, they want to do more. Women enjoys the benefits afterwards

@agbalagbo Yeah - happy husband happy bank ;) 🤣

lol 😂

@agbalagbo Anything that is by choice is dependent on a thought and those feelings change.. nature of thought .. While biology is written in DNA ... so flip the script

Choice is by thoughts and they’re meant to change. Marriage is intentional and it takes everyday efforts. Mmm

@agbalagbo I love this non persons advice. I can tell she speaks from her artificial experience

Aren’t we humans who built artificial structures for human use?

@agbalagbo Same for wifey Don’t promise God shit and then let stupid shit fuck it up Marriage is not a joke

“Marriage is not a joke” 🥰

@agbalagbo My bank account and I are in a situationship. It doesn't call me back, doesn't text first, but somehow still controls my whole life.

Oh my 😂😂

@agbalagbo That was way too reasonable for a woman to say.. must be Ai

@agbalagbo And we don't ever expect the wife to be the family provider or give 100% attention to the husband. Man just expect the wife to fully work for their children and lead the family while man work for money. But no... we end up burnouts with a lot of money and undercared children.

And if we have uncared children, what’s the purpose of lots of money? Both parents must be intentional about maturely parenting the children.

@agbalagbo I'm a man myself but this applies to either spouse

Both of them applicable

@agbalagbo Still 80% of divorce cases are initiated by women AND after divorce they are miserable, in other words, the problem was not the husband. Women should be careful when taking advice from women who are ultimately *unhappy* and single when they thrive in destroying relationships

@agbalagbo Same thing for wife also I believe

Yes, husband and wife

@agbalagbo simple but cute

@PatriotPrib3 Hmn

@agbalagbo Your father loved you even before you were born

@agbalagbo Very deep truth

Deep truth ✅

@agbalagbo Friends?

👊

@agbalagbo Gbayi

Gbayi 🙌

@agbalagbo Please go and tell my wife 😔

Dear Suman’s wife 😂🙏

@agbalagbo The most insightful message I've heard today.

🙌

@agbalagbo Same applies for women. 😊

100 percent

@agbalagbo Same thing apply to women

Agree

@agbalagbo And now, you treat me like a leaper after everything I've done for you? Fuck you, I'm burning the whole thing down!!

@KBarDaBlade Oh bro. Take it easy. Burning everything down will turn the whole thing into wildfire

@agbalagbo This is predicated upon the assumption that marriage is about love.Which isn't farfetched,but looking at the character and orientation of many marriages,I think one would be hard-pressed to find evidences that support this claim.

@Olagreenvibes So many people into different things?

@agbalagbo She is painting a very nuanced picture with a broad brush and you are not even calling it out. You just shared it as if she was spreading some kind of gospel and you agree with it.

@Olagreenvibes Did you listen at all?

@agbalagbo Only if it is love marriage which is by choice and not arranged marriage which happen in India by basically, unknowingly force.

Hmn. That “forceful and unknown” is heartbreaking and it took me a while to reply. People being forced against their own wishes 😭

I resonate with this and could aptly call this one a one-off. Though it’s uncalled for

@agbalagbo Sweet words.