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Your partner cannot be your everything! We’ve quietly started expecting one person to be our best friend, therapist, co-parent, business partner, adventure buddy, and lifelong source of mind-blowing chemistry. And then we wonder why the spark fades. The truth is, your partner was never meant to be your entire...

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