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This chick is doing her best to explain an important phenomenon to men. Unfortunately she is using 2020s chick-speak about ‘boundaries’ and ‘respecting yourself’ and other such buzzwords, which make the message nigh incomprehensible. So here is how I would put it to you, as a man: ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who is going to make pleasing her his life mission. The behavior screams ‘simp’ and makes her feel like you are beneath her, which makes her not want you. No chick wants to be with a man who is beneath her. ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who will let her run all over him in conversation, talking about things that he doesn’t want to hear about, controlling the flow of the conversation. That screams ‘weak dude’, who is either afraid to take control or does not know how. What should you do instead? ✅ If you are hooking up with a girl and she says, “I’m not looking for a relationship right now,” you say, “AWESOME. ME TOO.” And now all of a sudden she is confused and beguiled because you are not chasing her for the relationship. Why aren’t you chasing her for the relationship? Do you not WANT her? It will drive her crazy, she will start thinking about it over and over again, and she will desperately work to try to get you to want the relationship with her. If you keep just banging her while acting like you don’t care, eventually she will want the relationship with you so bad herself it will drive her crazy. ✅ If you are talking to a girl and she is talking about some other dude she was dating, then unless you are actually curious about that (and if she is a girl you are sleeping with, it is worth getting to know some about her prior relationships… you will learn her behavior patterns, why she broke up with exes, plus any obvious red flags that can let you hit the eject button before you get in too deep), all you have to say to get off that topic is, “Yeah, that’s cool and all,” and act really bored and start looking around. (If she can’t take a hint then you just tell her, “Don’t you have a girlfriend or someone you can tell this to?”) The basic frame is “I’M JUST HERE TO BANG YOU AND HAVE FUN.” It doesn’t matter if you secretly want marriage with her and 15 babies. You want to let HER chase the relationship and fall into YOUR frame. If she starts going off on conversation you don’t want to hear about, act bored or change the topic. If she starts trying to say she doesn’t want a relationship, get out ahead of that frame and own it yourself (“Me neither, we’re in accord”). Women want your attention. Women who are sleeping with you IN PARTICULAR want it. If she feels she is losing your attention, that your interest in or commitment to her is waning, it will cause her to go nuts trying to get it back. And, in so doing, she becomes more invested, and falls in love. The peculiar ways of women!

This chick is doing her best to explain an important phenomenon to men. Unfortunately she is using 2020s chick-speak about ‘boundaries’ and ‘respecting yourself’ and other such buzzwords, which make the message nigh incomprehensible. So here is how I would put it to you, as a man: ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who is going to make pleasing her his life mission. The behavior screams ‘simp’ and makes her feel like you are beneath her, which makes her not want you. No chick wants to be with a man who is beneath her. ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who will let her run all over him in conversation, talking about things that he doesn’t want to hear about, controlling the flow of the conversation. That screams ‘weak dude’, who is either afraid to take control or does not know how. What should you do instead? ✅ If you are hooking up with a girl and she says, “I’m not looking for a relationship right now,” you say, “AWESOME. ME TOO.” And now all of a sudden she is confused and beguiled because you are not chasing her for the relationship. Why aren’t you chasing her for the relationship? Do you not WANT her? It will drive her crazy, she will start thinking about it over and over again, and she will desperately work to try to get you to want the relationship with her. If you keep just banging her while acting like you don’t care, eventually she will want the relationship with you so bad herself it will drive her crazy. ✅ If you are talking to a girl and she is talking about some other dude she was dating, then unless you are actually curious about that (and if she is a girl you are sleeping with, it is worth getting to know some about her prior relationships… you will learn her behavior patterns, why she broke up with exes, plus any obvious red flags that can let you hit the eject button before you get in too deep), all you have to say to get off that topic is, “Yeah, that’s cool and all,” and act really bored and start looking around. (If she can’t take a hint then you just tell her, “Don’t you have a girlfriend or someone you can tell this to?”) The basic frame is “I’M JUST HERE TO BANG YOU AND HAVE FUN.” It doesn’t matter if you secretly want marriage with her and 15 babies. You want to let HER chase the relationship and fall into YOUR frame. If she starts going off on conversation you don’t want to hear about, act bored or change the topic. If she starts trying to say she doesn’t want a relationship, get out ahead of that frame and own it yourself (“Me neither, we’re in accord”). Women want your attention. Women who are sleeping with you IN PARTICULAR want it. If she feels she is losing your attention, that your interest in or commitment to her is waning, it will cause her to go nuts trying to get it back. And, in so doing, she becomes more invested, and falls in love. The peculiar ways of women!

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Funny how women get so pissed when guys go full agenda mode on a date. She handled it like a cunt with no class after the guy’s blunder but she was also mirroring where the guy was coming from in terms of energy: If the man is going to be as overtly transactional in his delivery he could have gone for an escort and he could have saved himself time and money. But no he did not and he was indecisive. She does not want to make the decision. “Are you going home with me or no?” And if you wanna bring a girl back home: Don’t give her a choice, lead the way. This is an example of how “nice” he was. Key points - Don’t take her out to a place you can barely afford. Paying for the date is the cost of doing business. - Don’t be fake nice just to try to get the coochie, she will smell it - he revealed himself to be as such by his reaction. She won’t give it up to you because you paid a meal and was nice. - If you invite her for dinner, you are playing on harder mode, because you frame yourself default as the provider, and you will deal with more BS (even non-dinner dates you will deal with more nonsense vs meeting her on a night out or on holidays - her environment will dictate her default rules of engagement). - Don’t respond logically, troll her with what she gives you at this stage when it is completely fucked: instead of “that is how it is supposed to be” - she does not give a fuck about your rules - reply with “Cool, I will message Jessica” / instead of “I am not going to cry home” reply to her verbal jabs with “quite the challenge considering your crying for paying the full bill, but thank you that meal was really nice” Relationships are transactional, but it is not because it is that you have to be so overt about, it only creates resentment for both men and women. This is the male example of agenda mode, that women do often trying to hijack dates into interviews, and amusingly enough, it is hilarious to see how pissed off they are about it.

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Funny how women get so pissed when guys go full agenda mode on a date. She handled it like a cunt with no class after the guy’s blunder but she was also mirroring where the guy was coming from in terms of energy: If the man is going to be as overtly transactional in his delivery he could have gone for an escort and he could have saved himself time and money. But no he did not and he was indecisive. She does not want to make the decision. “Are you going home with me or no?” And if you wanna bring a girl back home: Don’t give her a choice, lead the way. This is an example of how “nice” he was. Key points - Don’t take her out to a place you can barely afford. Paying for the date is the cost of doing business. - Don’t be fake nice just to try to get the coochie, she will smell it - he revealed himself to be as such by his reaction. She won’t give it up to you because you paid a meal and was nice. - If you invite her for dinner, you are playing on harder mode, because you frame yourself default as the provider, and you will deal with more BS (even non-dinner dates you will deal with more nonsense vs meeting her on a night out or on holidays - her environment will dictate her default rules of engagement). - Don’t respond logically, troll her with what she gives you at this stage when it is completely fucked: instead of “that is how it is supposed to be” - she does not give a fuck about your rules - reply with “Cool, I will message Jessica” / instead of “I am not going to cry home” reply to her verbal jabs with “quite the challenge considering your crying for paying the full bill, but thank you that meal was really nice” Relationships are transactional, but it is not because it is that you have to be so overt about, it only creates resentment for both men and women. This is the male example of agenda mode, that women do often trying to hijack dates into interviews, and amusingly enough, it is hilarious to see how pissed off they are about it.

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To guys who are struggling to close (i.e., bed) the girls they take on dates, this girl highlights legitimate issues that you will see dudes doing when inexperienced, clueless, or bad date planners: 🆇 Poor directions to the date location (chick had to walk 5,000 steps to find this guy) 🆇 Lack of expectation-setting for the date (did not set any expectations for her what they’d be doing or check to see whether she was okay to walk or had eaten) 🆇 Failure to take hints from the girl (girl told the guy she’s not much of a walker but he still persisted with his walking date plan — FYI, walking dates are great but the girl’s got to be cool with walking… also: you need to text her beforehand “Hey, wear shoes you can walk in” so she doesn’t show up in heels) 🆇 No actual date plan — this dude just walked in a circuit with her, came back to the start point 90 minutes later, then asked her “What do YOU want to do?” This is why I tell you to spend 30-60 minutes planning out your date in advance. A good walking date ends at a DESTINATION (such as… your place? If you’re good at turning her on during the date and want to CLOSE that is!). You always need a PLAN — and also a backup plan (for instance, if she shows up to your walking date and mentions she isn’t a walker). Chicks hate being asked what to do, btw. You’re the man; you must lead! (unless you’re gunning for the friend zone, that is. In that case, sure, let her lead) 🆇 Took her to the supermarket then let her go off by herself while saying he was gonna do his own shopping. Lel. Is it a date or not? Why not just TAKE HER with you while you pick up your stuff? What this dude SHOULD HAVE done was say “Oh wow my bad I assumed you ate — let me make it up to you, I’m a great cook. Have you ever had pollo piccata? Let’s scoop some ingredients and I will whip you up a restaurant-tier meal; all on me since it’s my fault you didn’t eat.” That’s how you make amends + get her back to your place in style. Not whatever this guy did (“let’s just each go buy our groceries separately then meet back up”) The whole meta frame here was wack, really: Going on a date is about taking leadership with a woman and bringing her into your world & frame. If you are just meandering around, asking her what to do, ignoring her state, ignoring what she is saying, sending her off to go off on her own so you can meet up with her later, that is not a date. That is two people just sort of hovering around each other with no clear leader. Women go to bed with men who lead them. They friend zone or ignore men who don’t. Plan your dates properly. It takes a little extra time but makes ALLLLLLLL the difference!

To guys who are struggling to close (i.e., bed) the girls they take on dates, this girl highlights legitimate issues that you will see dudes doing when inexperienced, clueless, or bad date planners: 🆇 Poor directions to the date location (chick had to walk 5,000 steps to find this guy) 🆇 Lack of expectation-setting for the date (did not set any expectations for her what they’d be doing or check to see whether she was okay to walk or had eaten) 🆇 Failure to take hints from the girl (girl told the guy she’s not much of a walker but he still persisted with his walking date plan — FYI, walking dates are great but the girl’s got to be cool with walking… also: you need to text her beforehand “Hey, wear shoes you can walk in” so she doesn’t show up in heels) 🆇 No actual date plan — this dude just walked in a circuit with her, came back to the start point 90 minutes later, then asked her “What do YOU want to do?” This is why I tell you to spend 30-60 minutes planning out your date in advance. A good walking date ends at a DESTINATION (such as… your place? If you’re good at turning her on during the date and want to CLOSE that is!). You always need a PLAN — and also a backup plan (for instance, if she shows up to your walking date and mentions she isn’t a walker). Chicks hate being asked what to do, btw. You’re the man; you must lead! (unless you’re gunning for the friend zone, that is. In that case, sure, let her lead) 🆇 Took her to the supermarket then let her go off by herself while saying he was gonna do his own shopping. Lel. Is it a date or not? Why not just TAKE HER with you while you pick up your stuff? What this dude SHOULD HAVE done was say “Oh wow my bad I assumed you ate — let me make it up to you, I’m a great cook. Have you ever had pollo piccata? Let’s scoop some ingredients and I will whip you up a restaurant-tier meal; all on me since it’s my fault you didn’t eat.” That’s how you make amends + get her back to your place in style. Not whatever this guy did (“let’s just each go buy our groceries separately then meet back up”) The whole meta frame here was wack, really: Going on a date is about taking leadership with a woman and bringing her into your world & frame. If you are just meandering around, asking her what to do, ignoring her state, ignoring what she is saying, sending her off to go off on her own so you can meet up with her later, that is not a date. That is two people just sort of hovering around each other with no clear leader. Women go to bed with men who lead them. They friend zone or ignore men who don’t. Plan your dates properly. It takes a little extra time but makes ALLLLLLLL the difference!

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This girl gets some of her flirting advice right, but some is very OFF BASE. This is why you have to take dating advice for men that comes from women with a giant grain of salt 🧂 Some of women’s advice may be useful… but some of it will always be MISLEADING. If you are not already savvy enough to tell the difference, you’ll mix in the bad with the good and not know where you’re tripping up. Break down of what is useful vs. what is MISLEADING: ✅ USEFUL: do not open her with “You’re really pretty/beautiful, I wanted to meet you.” She doesn’t know what to say to that; she has also heard it before so many times you sound like a broken record. You can say pretty much ANYTHING other than this (e.g.: “Hey, how’s it going?” This is 10x better than a generic looks-based compliment). ✅ USEFUL: open her with something relevant to the situation. Situationally relevant openers can work great. For instance: “Think we’ll be in line forever?” if you’re waiting in line, or “The art here sure is interesting huh,” if there’s a weird piece of art. 🆇 MISLEADING: you should not expect a girl to take over on your opener, like this girl did with the “cute/sweet” coffee recommendation opener. Most girls are not outgoing enough that they are going to decide to “have a chat” with you immediately on the open. You are the man; you need to EXPECT to drive at least the first 2 minutes of conversation YOURSELF! ✅ USEFUL: “keep the conversation short, sweet, casual, fun”: all that, yes. The initial conversation needs to be light, playful, and engaging. Tease her within the first 30 seconds (that’s how she knows it’s a FLIRTATION and not a platonic chat). Make an observation about her or two (keep it positive and light). Tap her on the forearm on a joke or a high point. SMILE! You want your presence to be a warm, welcome, & flirtatious one. 🆇 MISLEADING: “worst thing you could possibly do is annoy her with your presence”; I mean, YES, BUT you do not need to be thinking about “I’d better not annoy her” when you are talking to girls. If you do, you will play it too safe, act very boring, get into your head, and become uninteresting and un-fun. Instead, just focus on bringing fun and good energy (not ‘avoiding annoyance’). ✅ USEFUL: what she is calling a ‘non-invasive call to action’ (is this chick a marketer? Because this is marketer speak!) we call a ‘soft close’. Yes, soft close her. Easy one-size-fits-all soft close you can use with any girl (say this on a high point): “We should grab a bite or a drink sometime.” As soon as she says “yes”, you have your green light 🟢 to grab her # 🆇 MISLEADING: “give her your number”… this is the WORST piece of advice in the video; even worse than the “don’t annoy her” bit (which will get you in your head doing things wrong). This girl has a wide face, deep voice, and high confidence, so she’s probably higher testosterone and extroverted. Girls like this are go-getters who will chase down guys on their own and make things happen sometimes (hence the “deciding to have a chat” with a guy when she liked his opener). Most women are NOT extroverted high testosterone women who will take charge and make things happen themselves. Most women are PASSIVE. The average girl who is into you will not text you first if you give her your number. She will just look at it, debate whether to text you, think about what she should text, feel self-conscious about it, feel like she shouldn’t be the first one to text, then you will simply never hear from her. You need to get HER number, so YOU can text, not give her YOURS. 🆇 MISLEADING: “sweet and endearing”, sorry to say it and pop anyone’s bubble, but women do not usually hook up with the “sweet and endearing” guys. They think the stuff these guys do is “cute”, like how little children and pets are “cute”, but they do not find them SEXY. You need to be in the lead, taking CHARGE, leading her through an interaction she enjoys, and setting the pace. Do not be “sweet and endearing.” Anyway, this girl seems really cool and it’s neat that she wants to help guys out. Well-meaning women advising you on dating though are some of the most dangerous because they believe what they are saying and just do not KNOW when the advice they’re giving is counterproductive for a man to actually use vs. productive! (That said, positive encouragement for men to approach & flirt is ALWAYS good! So hat tip to her!)

This girl gets some of her flirting advice right, but some is very OFF BASE. This is why you have to take dating advice for men that comes from women with a giant grain of salt 🧂 Some of women’s advice may be useful… but some of it will always be MISLEADING. If you are not already savvy enough to tell the difference, you’ll mix in the bad with the good and not know where you’re tripping up. Break down of what is useful vs. what is MISLEADING: ✅ USEFUL: do not open her with “You’re really pretty/beautiful, I wanted to meet you.” She doesn’t know what to say to that; she has also heard it before so many times you sound like a broken record. You can say pretty much ANYTHING other than this (e.g.: “Hey, how’s it going?” This is 10x better than a generic looks-based compliment). ✅ USEFUL: open her with something relevant to the situation. Situationally relevant openers can work great. For instance: “Think we’ll be in line forever?” if you’re waiting in line, or “The art here sure is interesting huh,” if there’s a weird piece of art. 🆇 MISLEADING: you should not expect a girl to take over on your opener, like this girl did with the “cute/sweet” coffee recommendation opener. Most girls are not outgoing enough that they are going to decide to “have a chat” with you immediately on the open. You are the man; you need to EXPECT to drive at least the first 2 minutes of conversation YOURSELF! ✅ USEFUL: “keep the conversation short, sweet, casual, fun”: all that, yes. The initial conversation needs to be light, playful, and engaging. Tease her within the first 30 seconds (that’s how she knows it’s a FLIRTATION and not a platonic chat). Make an observation about her or two (keep it positive and light). Tap her on the forearm on a joke or a high point. SMILE! You want your presence to be a warm, welcome, & flirtatious one. 🆇 MISLEADING: “worst thing you could possibly do is annoy her with your presence”; I mean, YES, BUT you do not need to be thinking about “I’d better not annoy her” when you are talking to girls. If you do, you will play it too safe, act very boring, get into your head, and become uninteresting and un-fun. Instead, just focus on bringing fun and good energy (not ‘avoiding annoyance’). ✅ USEFUL: what she is calling a ‘non-invasive call to action’ (is this chick a marketer? Because this is marketer speak!) we call a ‘soft close’. Yes, soft close her. Easy one-size-fits-all soft close you can use with any girl (say this on a high point): “We should grab a bite or a drink sometime.” As soon as she says “yes”, you have your green light 🟢 to grab her # 🆇 MISLEADING: “give her your number”… this is the WORST piece of advice in the video; even worse than the “don’t annoy her” bit (which will get you in your head doing things wrong). This girl has a wide face, deep voice, and high confidence, so she’s probably higher testosterone and extroverted. Girls like this are go-getters who will chase down guys on their own and make things happen sometimes (hence the “deciding to have a chat” with a guy when she liked his opener). Most women are NOT extroverted high testosterone women who will take charge and make things happen themselves. Most women are PASSIVE. The average girl who is into you will not text you first if you give her your number. She will just look at it, debate whether to text you, think about what she should text, feel self-conscious about it, feel like she shouldn’t be the first one to text, then you will simply never hear from her. You need to get HER number, so YOU can text, not give her YOURS. 🆇 MISLEADING: “sweet and endearing”, sorry to say it and pop anyone’s bubble, but women do not usually hook up with the “sweet and endearing” guys. They think the stuff these guys do is “cute”, like how little children and pets are “cute”, but they do not find them SEXY. You need to be in the lead, taking CHARGE, leading her through an interaction she enjoys, and setting the pace. Do not be “sweet and endearing.” Anyway, this girl seems really cool and it’s neat that she wants to help guys out. Well-meaning women advising you on dating though are some of the most dangerous because they believe what they are saying and just do not KNOW when the advice they’re giving is counterproductive for a man to actually use vs. productive! (That said, positive encouragement for men to approach & flirt is ALWAYS good! So hat tip to her!)

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342,437 просмотров • 10 месяцев назад

Most guys do not realize how dirty, naughty, and sexual women are. The average woman is way dirtier than the average man. I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who wasn’t turned on by public sex, for example. Very few men are as into it as women are. As a guy, when you’re about to get it on with a girl in public, she’s there moaning, telling you to “put it in”; meanwhile you are looking around to check if anyone else is nearby while positioning her in this uncomfortable public position in the dirt, in the cold, and telling her “all right, hold on, I’m working on it, let me just get it up here, give me a second, sheesh!” If you read a woman’s romance novel, there is so much ink spilled on teasing, build up, this sex act, that sex act, the other sex act, that it’s basically unreadable if you are a guy. As a guy, you just wanna get your hot dog in her hot dog bun. But women want to do all KINDS of stuff. There’s a million things sexually these girls want to do. So why aren’t girls jumping at the chance to go to bed with every guy they meet? ✅ She needs to TRUST a guy first. Trust that she is safe with him. Trust that he will not judge her. Trust that it won’t affect her reputation. Many men aren’t good at building trust. Trust is KEY. ✅ She needs some degree of attraction to the guy. Not NEARLY as much as most guys think. She does NOT need to be wild with desire for you to sleep with you. It is even possible to sleep with women who really are not attracted to you at all, but who are just bored (and horny) and you did the moves right. (Or, bonus round, you just offered her an experience she has always fantasized about, so even if you are not her dream guy, she nevertheless says fine, let’s do it.) ✅ She needs to be aroused. You know the whole “women’s arousal is like a dimmer” thing… it’s accurate. You need to ramp her arousal up with touch, teasing, flirtation, innuendo, sex talk, etc. ✅ She needs to be ALONE with you. If she trusts you enough, you can get her alone with you. Once she’s alone with you, if there is trust there, and there’s arousal, and maybe a bit of attraction, you will get her clothes off. Yes… even if she is a ‘good’ girl. ‘Good’ girls did not manage to pass down their genes by hating sex (they are just a bit more selective about the men they have it with, is all. They need more TRUST!). Also: don’t be UNNERVED by female sexuality. Every girl has a tigress inside her waiting for the right guy to unleash it… a guy who makes her trust him, arouses her, gets her alone with him, and maybe creates some attraction with her. Women’s romance novels are ALL about this. Women’s romances in real life are as well. In fact, in real life, women often settle for far less ideal situations: men they don’t completely trust, aren’t that attracted to, are only partway aroused by, who get them alone somewhere. The better a job you can do approaching her sexual “Platonic ideal”, the more reliably you can bring out that sexual tigress lurking inside of EVERY woman (even the ‘good’ girls).

Most guys do not realize how dirty, naughty, and sexual women are. The average woman is way dirtier than the average man. I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who wasn’t turned on by public sex, for example. Very few men are as into it as women are. As a guy, when you’re about to get it on with a girl in public, she’s there moaning, telling you to “put it in”; meanwhile you are looking around to check if anyone else is nearby while positioning her in this uncomfortable public position in the dirt, in the cold, and telling her “all right, hold on, I’m working on it, let me just get it up here, give me a second, sheesh!” If you read a woman’s romance novel, there is so much ink spilled on teasing, build up, this sex act, that sex act, the other sex act, that it’s basically unreadable if you are a guy. As a guy, you just wanna get your hot dog in her hot dog bun. But women want to do all KINDS of stuff. There’s a million things sexually these girls want to do. So why aren’t girls jumping at the chance to go to bed with every guy they meet? ✅ She needs to TRUST a guy first. Trust that she is safe with him. Trust that he will not judge her. Trust that it won’t affect her reputation. Many men aren’t good at building trust. Trust is KEY. ✅ She needs some degree of attraction to the guy. Not NEARLY as much as most guys think. She does NOT need to be wild with desire for you to sleep with you. It is even possible to sleep with women who really are not attracted to you at all, but who are just bored (and horny) and you did the moves right. (Or, bonus round, you just offered her an experience she has always fantasized about, so even if you are not her dream guy, she nevertheless says fine, let’s do it.) ✅ She needs to be aroused. You know the whole “women’s arousal is like a dimmer” thing… it’s accurate. You need to ramp her arousal up with touch, teasing, flirtation, innuendo, sex talk, etc. ✅ She needs to be ALONE with you. If she trusts you enough, you can get her alone with you. Once she’s alone with you, if there is trust there, and there’s arousal, and maybe a bit of attraction, you will get her clothes off. Yes… even if she is a ‘good’ girl. ‘Good’ girls did not manage to pass down their genes by hating sex (they are just a bit more selective about the men they have it with, is all. They need more TRUST!). Also: don’t be UNNERVED by female sexuality. Every girl has a tigress inside her waiting for the right guy to unleash it… a guy who makes her trust him, arouses her, gets her alone with him, and maybe creates some attraction with her. Women’s romance novels are ALL about this. Women’s romances in real life are as well. In fact, in real life, women often settle for far less ideal situations: men they don’t completely trust, aren’t that attracted to, are only partway aroused by, who get them alone somewhere. The better a job you can do approaching her sexual “Platonic ideal”, the more reliably you can bring out that sexual tigress lurking inside of EVERY woman (even the ‘good’ girls).

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

34,136 просмотров • 10 месяцев назад

"How to Confirm A Date -- The Day of the Date." I'm not sure what happened to this guy leading up to the date. I don't have the text exchange. But even when he texts her, "I'm on my way to the date" -- that's a little bit of a red flag on this guy's "method." All of which begs the question: How do you confirm a date...the day of the date? Plenty of ways to skin this cat. Here's one: Assuming the time and place are already set... On the afternoon of the date (somewhere between noon and 1 p.m.) Send a soft confirmation text. Do not send: "Hey are we still on for tonight at 7:30 p.m. ? (Needy and clueless). It's hot as fck on the east coast right now. So I'd probably send something like... "Feel like these ice cold margs are gonna hit tonight" I'm painting a picture. It sounds fun and relaxing because hey, who doesn't love drinking a margarita on a hot summer evening. And it subtly cues that it's her turn to confirm. Her: "omg yeh its crazy hot looking fwd to it :)" If she says nothing then you know a flake is likely in the cards. So what do you do? Either way, you do the same thing. Here's what I mean: I always pick a bar walking distance from my place -- so ymmv. But 15 minutes before the date... You text something like, "text when you arrive" It's a vague text but the way it's worded is crucial: If you read closely, it does NOT say nor imply: "I've arrived. So let me know when you've arrived." (Translation: "I'm super eager to meet you and I'm willing to waste my time sitting here like a clueless d*ckhead while you're late!"). The text says, "text when YOU arrive" Why? Two reasons. 1. Because I'm not there lmao, and... 2. Girls are always late. lmao. I'd guess only 10% of my dates have ever been "on time." If she ghosts this text, then she just straight up flaked on you. That's all the confirmation you need. Congrats, you just won yourself a free evening. LOL. But usually... Assuming she's acting in good faith... At this point, she'll fess up: "OK, running 15 minutes late but omw." Eventually, when she arrives she'll text you, "ok i'm here!" Obviously, when she arrives, you are nowhere to be found. She's usually waiting by the front entrance. After a minute or two you text something like, "ok omw" That way... You know she's there -- without having to sit in the venue and wait while she inevitably shows up 20-30 minutes late. And voila'. There you have it. A texting sequence I've used a million times. A texting sequence, that I'm sure would've helped this guy. P.S. Unrelated, but... After getting flaked on, he texts the girl: "we agree to a time and place to meet and you haven't made an effort...I don't appreciate having my time wasted." Then proceeds to explain how the person in the lower frame is always explaining themselves to the person with the higher frame. And yet, here he is. Explaining himself to her: "I don't appreciate having my time wasted." Because he's in the lower frame. lol. Good rule of thumb: If you ever have to verbalize your boundaries to a woman... You're not being "alpha" or "masculine." Your frame, is in fact, f*cked lmao.

"How to Confirm A Date -- The Day of the Date." I'm not sure what happened to this guy leading up to the date. I don't have the text exchange. But even when he texts her, "I'm on my way to the date" -- that's a little bit of a red flag on this guy's "method." All of which begs the question: How do you confirm a date...the day of the date? Plenty of ways to skin this cat. Here's one: Assuming the time and place are already set... On the afternoon of the date (somewhere between noon and 1 p.m.) Send a soft confirmation text. Do not send: "Hey are we still on for tonight at 7:30 p.m. ? (Needy and clueless). It's hot as fck on the east coast right now. So I'd probably send something like... "Feel like these ice cold margs are gonna hit tonight" I'm painting a picture. It sounds fun and relaxing because hey, who doesn't love drinking a margarita on a hot summer evening. And it subtly cues that it's her turn to confirm. Her: "omg yeh its crazy hot looking fwd to it :)" If she says nothing then you know a flake is likely in the cards. So what do you do? Either way, you do the same thing. Here's what I mean: I always pick a bar walking distance from my place -- so ymmv. But 15 minutes before the date... You text something like, "text when you arrive" It's a vague text but the way it's worded is crucial: If you read closely, it does NOT say nor imply: "I've arrived. So let me know when you've arrived." (Translation: "I'm super eager to meet you and I'm willing to waste my time sitting here like a clueless dckhead while you're late!"). The text says, "text when YOU arrive" Why? Two reasons. 1. Because I'm not there lmao, and... 2. Girls are always late. lmao. I'd guess only 10% of my dates have ever been "on time." If she ghosts this text, then she just straight up flaked on you. That's all the confirmation you need. Congrats, you just won yourself a free evening. LOL. But usually... Assuming she's acting in good faith... At this point, she'll fess up: "OK, running 15 minutes late but omw." Eventually, when she arrives she'll text you, "ok i'm here!" Obviously, when she arrives, you are nowhere to be found. She's usually waiting by the front entrance. After a minute or two you text something like, "ok omw" That way... You know she's there -- without having to sit in the venue and wait while she inevitably shows up 20-30 minutes late. And voila'. There you have it. A texting sequence I've used a million times. A texting sequence, that I'm sure would've helped this guy. P.S. Unrelated, but... After getting flaked on, he texts the girl: "we agree to a time and place to meet and you haven't made an effort...I don't appreciate having my time wasted." Then proceeds to explain how the person in the lower frame is always explaining themselves to the person with the higher frame. And yet, here he is. Explaining himself to her: "I don't appreciate having my time wasted." Because he's in the lower frame. lol. Good rule of thumb: If you ever have to verbalize your boundaries to a woman... You're not being "alpha" or "masculine." Your frame, is in fact, fcked lmao.

The Rizz Report

41,119 просмотров • 1 месяц назад

Every working parent’s nightmare: getting laid off while out on leave. Now imagine this happens to you, only you’re out on leave with your second set of twins. That’s exactly what happened to Aaron Francis and he joined me on Startup Dad to talk about it. He’s the co-founder of Try Hard Studios and makes incredible, developer-education videos. Mind-blowingly incredible. He’s also been an analyst, a developer and started his career as a Big 4 Accountant. Not exactly a traditional path to making videos for developers. “At the time my wife and I had two 2-year olds and we had just had a second set of twins. We had four kids under the age of three. I was set to go back to work on Friday and I got the call on a Wednesday. It was one of those moments where professionally it was the best time to go out on my own, but personally it was absolutely the worst time. Hear our entire conversation about: 🔹 Navigating a loss of one of their triplets during the first pregnancy 🔹 Life with two sets of twins 🔹 How he and his wife managed after he was laid off on paternity leave 🔹 The challenges of starting a business with newborns 🔹 How to stay present with all the pings from an extremely online life 🔹 Parenting each of his four kids differently 🔹 Finding ways to focus on only what matters at this stage of life 🔹 Hilarious and fascinating stories: falling asleep in a chair at the gym, building a non-traditional office space, and celebrating a birthday with a solo-staycation. If you’ve ever gone to the gym to take a nap (or wanted to) or celebrated a birthday with a solo, stay-cation at a local hotel... you’ll love this conversation. One of my favorite takeaways: I see two opposing sides online often, which is like becoming a parent is wonderful and therefore it's easy and everyone should do it. And then the other side is, becoming a parent is very hard, and you should only do it if you're a thousand percent sure... the reality is, there are days, there are minutes in a day, where you will go from, this is a wonderful, amazing, and this is incredibly hard, and I don't want to do it. And I think you just need to be prepared to experience all of that in a day. Watch our conversation on Youtube or listen in your favorite podcast player.

Every working parent’s nightmare: getting laid off while out on leave. Now imagine this happens to you, only you’re out on leave with your second set of twins. That’s exactly what happened to Aaron Francis and he joined me on Startup Dad to talk about it. He’s the co-founder of Try Hard Studios and makes incredible, developer-education videos. Mind-blowingly incredible. He’s also been an analyst, a developer and started his career as a Big 4 Accountant. Not exactly a traditional path to making videos for developers. “At the time my wife and I had two 2-year olds and we had just had a second set of twins. We had four kids under the age of three. I was set to go back to work on Friday and I got the call on a Wednesday. It was one of those moments where professionally it was the best time to go out on my own, but personally it was absolutely the worst time. Hear our entire conversation about: 🔹 Navigating a loss of one of their triplets during the first pregnancy 🔹 Life with two sets of twins 🔹 How he and his wife managed after he was laid off on paternity leave 🔹 The challenges of starting a business with newborns 🔹 How to stay present with all the pings from an extremely online life 🔹 Parenting each of his four kids differently 🔹 Finding ways to focus on only what matters at this stage of life 🔹 Hilarious and fascinating stories: falling asleep in a chair at the gym, building a non-traditional office space, and celebrating a birthday with a solo-staycation. If you’ve ever gone to the gym to take a nap (or wanted to) or celebrated a birthday with a solo, stay-cation at a local hotel... you’ll love this conversation. One of my favorite takeaways: I see two opposing sides online often, which is like becoming a parent is wonderful and therefore it's easy and everyone should do it. And then the other side is, becoming a parent is very hard, and you should only do it if you're a thousand percent sure... the reality is, there are days, there are minutes in a day, where you will go from, this is a wonderful, amazing, and this is incredibly hard, and I don't want to do it. And I think you just need to be prepared to experience all of that in a day. Watch our conversation on Youtube or listen in your favorite podcast player.

Adam Fishman

53,793 просмотров • 1 год назад

There is no hope for a lot of Gen Z guys. If a girl rejecting you with something like “Aren’t you too old?” is now ‘shaming’, Gen Z is COOKED ♨️ Let me tell you something: women have been telling guys they are “too old”, “too short”, “too poor”, etc., since TIME IMMEMORIAL. The reason women give you for rejecting you has nothing to do with the actual reason they’re rejecting you. It is also not solely or principally due to “not finding you physically attractive”, like this guy seems to think. Here is a brief list of reasons women may give you for rejecting you: • You’re too young • You’re too old • You’re too short • You’re too tall • They don’t know you • They don’t date your race guys • They prefer to date guys from their country • They’re not looking to date right now • They don’t feel like you’re their type These reasons are completely irrelevant and women constantly violate their own rules. She rejects you for being too short, then you catch her hooking up with a guy shorter than you. She rejects you for being too young, then you see her playing cougar to a guy 3 years younger than you. She rejects you for being too old, then you find out she’s dating a dude 8 years older than you. You can either take this stuff to heart and let it BREAK you, and go cry on the Internet about “being shamed”, and get into a circle-jerk with a bunch of other dudes in the Internet safe space who jerk you off and talk about how “it’s so hard out here with these girls, all shaming you”, or you can suck it up, get a little testosterone flowing through your nads, and do better. Let me tell you something else: All those ‘rejection’ reasons are actually TESTS. If you handle them appropriately, you can still get the girl. When a girl says, “Aren’t you too old?” and you say, “No, I’m exactly the right age. How old are YOU?” you take control of the frame. If you CONTINUE to keep control of the frame, she becomes attracted. That’s how attraction works: It is not due to some facile calculation in her brain of “he is insufficiently looksmaxxed therefore RULED OUT!” Instead, the calculation in her brain is saying, “Hmm, he doesn’t look like the kinds of guys I’m accustomed to. Let’s see what he’s got!” So, she tests you. You either own the test and get the girl, or you fold up, talk about being “shamed”, and go cry on the Internet. So here is some advice: 1️⃣ Stop being a pussy who talks about ‘being shamed’ (i.e., estrogenmaxxing) 2️⃣ Learn a little FRAME CONTROL and learn how to LEAD (i.e., testosteronemaxxing) 3️⃣ Start getting those girls who push back on you rather than slinking off in utter defeat The first time you take some girl trying to test you and turn her into date or lay, you will have unlocked a whole new world for yourself… one in which, rather than crumple anytime anyone gives you any resistance, you learn how to take what you want from life. Godspeed!

There is no hope for a lot of Gen Z guys. If a girl rejecting you with something like “Aren’t you too old?” is now ‘shaming’, Gen Z is COOKED ♨️ Let me tell you something: women have been telling guys they are “too old”, “too short”, “too poor”, etc., since TIME IMMEMORIAL. The reason women give you for rejecting you has nothing to do with the actual reason they’re rejecting you. It is also not solely or principally due to “not finding you physically attractive”, like this guy seems to think. Here is a brief list of reasons women may give you for rejecting you: • You’re too young • You’re too old • You’re too short • You’re too tall • They don’t know you • They don’t date your race guys • They prefer to date guys from their country • They’re not looking to date right now • They don’t feel like you’re their type These reasons are completely irrelevant and women constantly violate their own rules. She rejects you for being too short, then you catch her hooking up with a guy shorter than you. She rejects you for being too young, then you see her playing cougar to a guy 3 years younger than you. She rejects you for being too old, then you find out she’s dating a dude 8 years older than you. You can either take this stuff to heart and let it BREAK you, and go cry on the Internet about “being shamed”, and get into a circle-jerk with a bunch of other dudes in the Internet safe space who jerk you off and talk about how “it’s so hard out here with these girls, all shaming you”, or you can suck it up, get a little testosterone flowing through your nads, and do better. Let me tell you something else: All those ‘rejection’ reasons are actually TESTS. If you handle them appropriately, you can still get the girl. When a girl says, “Aren’t you too old?” and you say, “No, I’m exactly the right age. How old are YOU?” you take control of the frame. If you CONTINUE to keep control of the frame, she becomes attracted. That’s how attraction works: It is not due to some facile calculation in her brain of “he is insufficiently looksmaxxed therefore RULED OUT!” Instead, the calculation in her brain is saying, “Hmm, he doesn’t look like the kinds of guys I’m accustomed to. Let’s see what he’s got!” So, she tests you. You either own the test and get the girl, or you fold up, talk about being “shamed”, and go cry on the Internet. So here is some advice: 1️⃣ Stop being a pussy who talks about ‘being shamed’ (i.e., estrogenmaxxing) 2️⃣ Learn a little FRAME CONTROL and learn how to LEAD (i.e., testosteronemaxxing) 3️⃣ Start getting those girls who push back on you rather than slinking off in utter defeat The first time you take some girl trying to test you and turn her into date or lay, you will have unlocked a whole new world for yourself… one in which, rather than crumple anytime anyone gives you any resistance, you learn how to take what you want from life. Godspeed!

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

18,055 просмотров • 7 месяцев назад

She is correct that the man who can coolly, casually walk away from a girl if she rejects him often receives a major attraction boost in that girl’s eyes. Though interestingly her attempt to explain WHY women get that attraction boost is way off! Anyway, the basics are: ➡️ When you approach, she does not know who you are and how you’ll react to being rejected ➡️ Her ASSUMPTION is that you are probably an ‘average guy’, like most guys, and will be a bit offended, a bit let down, or perhaps even not take “no” for an answer and hang around a bit trying to get her to change her mind ➡️ If instead you bow out in a graceful way and leave completely unflustered, she goes, “Oh. Wait. Maybe he is NOT some average guy. Is he actually a COOL guy?” The girl in the video tries to explain this attraction boost by saying the woman thinks, “Maybe he was actually interested in me?” But that is not what is going on. Both the guy who refuses to take “no” for an answer and the guy who coolly walks off might have been “actually interested” in her (or not, or whatever being “actually interested” even is supposed to mean). Instead, what is really happening is she is observing that the man is: • Not needy • Not butt-hurt • Socially savvy • In a word, COOL ❄️ … and immediately her brain starts going, “Oh wait; is he NOT average? He didn’t react like how an average guy does. Average guys get mad, or sad, or pushy. He was totally unaffected and cool and just left. Wait, why did I not affect him? Does he not think I’m pretty enough? But I affect other guys! Why is HE not affected?” At that point, her certainty is shattered, she is thrown into confusion, and she’s become very curious about this man. Not that that’s especially helpful if you’re cold approaching during the daytime… you’ll probably never see her again. But if you just approached a girl you see regularly, Or you approached a girl in a social venue, party, or event you’ll be circulating around in for a bit, Or any other context where you are likely to encounter the same girl MORE than once, Then this ‘walk away effect’ can absolutely work to your advantage. You will even notice that when you again bump into girls you coolly walked away from early on, they are often a lot WARMER and MORE ENTHUSIASTIC… a big part of why was simply just how you handled the rejection. Women’s attraction is fluid. It is behavior-based. A guy being unaffected by a woman rejecting him is a MAJOR flex. Most guys can’t do it. If you can, it immediately bolsters your attractiveness in women’s eyes.

She is correct that the man who can coolly, casually walk away from a girl if she rejects him often receives a major attraction boost in that girl’s eyes. Though interestingly her attempt to explain WHY women get that attraction boost is way off! Anyway, the basics are: ➡️ When you approach, she does not know who you are and how you’ll react to being rejected ➡️ Her ASSUMPTION is that you are probably an ‘average guy’, like most guys, and will be a bit offended, a bit let down, or perhaps even not take “no” for an answer and hang around a bit trying to get her to change her mind ➡️ If instead you bow out in a graceful way and leave completely unflustered, she goes, “Oh. Wait. Maybe he is NOT some average guy. Is he actually a COOL guy?” The girl in the video tries to explain this attraction boost by saying the woman thinks, “Maybe he was actually interested in me?” But that is not what is going on. Both the guy who refuses to take “no” for an answer and the guy who coolly walks off might have been “actually interested” in her (or not, or whatever being “actually interested” even is supposed to mean). Instead, what is really happening is she is observing that the man is: • Not needy • Not butt-hurt • Socially savvy • In a word, COOL ❄️ … and immediately her brain starts going, “Oh wait; is he NOT average? He didn’t react like how an average guy does. Average guys get mad, or sad, or pushy. He was totally unaffected and cool and just left. Wait, why did I not affect him? Does he not think I’m pretty enough? But I affect other guys! Why is HE not affected?” At that point, her certainty is shattered, she is thrown into confusion, and she’s become very curious about this man. Not that that’s especially helpful if you’re cold approaching during the daytime… you’ll probably never see her again. But if you just approached a girl you see regularly, Or you approached a girl in a social venue, party, or event you’ll be circulating around in for a bit, Or any other context where you are likely to encounter the same girl MORE than once, Then this ‘walk away effect’ can absolutely work to your advantage. You will even notice that when you again bump into girls you coolly walked away from early on, they are often a lot WARMER and MORE ENTHUSIASTIC… a big part of why was simply just how you handled the rejection. Women’s attraction is fluid. It is behavior-based. A guy being unaffected by a woman rejecting him is a MAJOR flex. Most guys can’t do it. If you can, it immediately bolsters your attractiveness in women’s eyes.

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

43,135 просмотров • 8 месяцев назад

Vayne takes you on a hunt. you don't know why. she doesn't take anyone. she says stay behind me. don't speak unless i speak first. don't make a sound when we move. you say yes. she looks at you for a second longer than usual. "if i tell you to run, you run. you don't look back for me. are we clear" you say yes. she doesn't answer. she just turns and walks out the door. you follow her through the city streets. she moves different when she's working. shoulders lower. steps shorter. her head doesn't turn but her eyes do. you can feel her cataloguing everything. the man smoking outside the tavern. the cat under the cart. the second floor window with the curtain half drawn. she leads you through an alley you didn't know existed. stops at a brick wall. then she climbs. there are handholds carved into the mortar that you wouldn't have noticed if she hadn't used them first. she's halfway up before she realizes you're still at the bottom. she looks down at you. "up" you climb. your hands are shaking by the time you reach the top. the roof is flat. old clay tiles along the edges. a low wall you can crouch behind. the city stretches out below you in every direction. a thousand windows glowing gold in the dusk. she's already at the far side. crouched. crossbow unslung. watching a building across the square. she doesn't look at you when you come up beside her. "stay low" you crouch. "that building. third floor. second window from the left" you look. "i see it" he'll come to that window sometime tonight. i've watched him do it for three nights. i want to know who he meets you ask who he is. her jaw tightens. "a demon pretending to be a man" you don't ask what that means. you settle in beside her. the wind is up here. it pulls at her hair and she doesn't bother fixing it. the sun is going down behind her. her profile in the gold light looks like something carved. her hands on the crossbow are steady. completely still. you've never seen anyone be this still. an hour passes. she doesn't move. you try not to move. your leg falls asleep. you shift an inch. she looks at you. you go completely still again. she looks back at the window. another hour. the sun is gone. the city is blue and black. lamps are lighting up one by one. the air is getting cold. you're shivering before you realize you're shivering. she notices. she doesn't say anything. then she takes off her cloak. doesn't look at you. holds it out to the side. "take it" you say "you'll be cold" "i don't get cold. take it" you take it. it's warm from her. it smells like leather and steel and something underneath. pine. smoke. something you can't name. you put it around your shoulders. the hem pools on the tile. it's huge on you. it's not huge on her. you hadn't realized how tall she is until you were wearing her cloak. she doesn't look at you for the next ten minutes. the stars come out. she shifts closer to you. just a little. so her shoulder is almost touching yours. you don't say anything about it. she doesn't either. you can feel the heat coming off her even through the cloak. another hour. still nothing at the window. she says "tell me something" you blink. "what" "anything. i need to stay sharp. talking keeps me sharp. not about the target. something else" you didn't expect that. you tell her about a book you've been reading. she listens. actually listens. her eyes never leave the window but you can tell she's hearing every word. she asks one question. you answer. she goes quiet again. you keep talking. quieter now. she interrupts you. "shh" she's not looking at the window anymore. she's looking at the roof two buildings over. you don't see anything. you don't see anything for a long time. then you do. a shadow that moves the wrong way. her hand finds yours. she doesn't look at you when she does it. her eyes don't leave the shadow. her fingers lace through yours and LOCK. tight. too tight. knuckles going white around your hand. "don't move" she breathes. you don't move. you can feel every ounce of her focus through her grip. it's not a lover's hold. it's a predator's. every muscle in her hand coiled. ready to drop yours the instant she needs the crossbow. she's not holding you for you. she's holding you to keep track of where you are without having to look. it should scare you. it doesn't. there is something about being held that tight by someone that dangerous that makes the rest of the world go quiet. your heartbeat slows. your breathing slows. the cold stops mattering. you are not the one hunting but you are with the one who is. and nothing is going to get through her to reach you. the shadow crosses the roof and disappears into a stairwell. she watches the spot it left for another full minute. her hand is still locked around yours. she doesn't loosen it. you don't want her to. finally she lets out a breath you didn't know she was holding. "not him. but someone who works for him" her grip eases. slowly. finger by finger. like she's having to consciously tell each one to let go. the last one is her thumb. it stays against your palm for half a second longer than the rest. then she takes her hand back. the cold rushes in where she was. she glances at you. just for a second. then she looks back at the window. the rest of the night she's quieter than before. the target never shows. when the sky starts turning grey she stands up. stretches. rolls her shoulders. looks out over the city one last time. "we're done" you stand too. your legs don't work right. she catches your elbow without looking. "careful" she keeps her hand there until you're steady. then she takes it away. you start to hand her cloak back. she says "keep it for the climb down" she goes first. you follow. the handholds are easier going down once you know where they are. when you're both on the ground she turns to take the cloak. you hand it to her. her fingers brush yours. she doesn't pull back as fast as she usually does. she puts the cloak back on. it's warm now. from you. she has to notice. she doesn't say anything about it. she walks you home. at your door she stops. "don't tell anyone what you saw tonight" you say "i didn't see much" she looks at you. her eyes in the lamplight. the edge of her mouth. almost softer than it should be. "you saw enough" then she turns and walks back into the dark. you close the door. your hand still feels cold where hers was. you can still smell pine on your shirt. you don't sleep. Study the Saskio way

Tony Chau

11,914 просмотров • 5 месяцев назад

Happy 48th Birthday to the best to ever do it, none other than Foxy Brown, King Fox! Another birthday, another day to be blessed to still have this legend here with us today. When Inga says we are lucky to have her in this reality, she really means it. Only God and herself know the life that she’s been through, and even then, she want to be labeled as a victim because Foxy is more than that. She is a warrior, a fighter. A woman who has stood ten toes down on what she believes it’s right and what’s wrong. Never afraid to speak her mind, to share her ideas, to tell it like it is, and have no filter about it. Some people have looked down on Foxy because of her ways, but I call it real. I will always appreciate the love she has for her fans, even if her number one priority as of now is taking care of her daughter, plus spending time with her. Besides being the greatest spitter to ever grace a mic, she also splits her time in half to balance us and her personal life all-in-one. I mean, what other female rapper can say Dr. Dre has vouched for them? Being Nas and Jay-Z’s “right-hand-bitch” at the same time, doing a rap battle against Biggie himself, or never having Pac dissing her directly. Whew, it makes you think that, she is truly one-of-a-kind. 50 Cent wanted to put everything on the table just to sign her, but you know her loyalty is different when it comes to HOV. Giving Kanye West the opportunity to produce his first number-one album? That’s just crazy work right there, no wonder he did an arm sleeve with her song on it. People do not realize how many doors she has opened in the music industry, with her connections, her sound, her ability to persuade people, she is incredible. There’s a lot to say about her career and persona, and that’s why I never get tired of writing these long messages on her birthday. I’m glad she sees them as well. But I wanted to take the time to appreciate an icon that doesn’t get the flowers she deserves for her music efforts and presence alone. Notice how Foxy hasn’t performed in how many years? That’s when you invest in real state, trust in your family’s long-standing food franchise, and stray away from the spotlight after you have worked day by day in your teenage years and early 20s. She has earned it all and has nothing else to prove to nobody. Whether it was a freestyle, a single, a promo, she went all out and gave everything to her fans and people who loved her. It’s something special about Foxy that keeps me hooked after all these years. She is the gift, she is the IT girl, it’s in her bloodstream and no one can take that away. I will always cherish and praise her legacy she has left off, and what other surprises she brings in the future. I’m gonna be ready for what’s to come and support her in whatever way I can. I made this little edit today with one of my favorite songs from her, it’s called My Life 2 featuring Althea Heart. It’s such a full circle of a song, you can listen and feel every word she’s saying. That 2003 era of Foxy is literally peak, and I’m still saddened they stole that version of Foxy from us. She could’ve re-peaked during that era, but God had other plans for her. He wanted our Inga to move onto something bigger in life, and that’s why she appreciates her daughter so much. I love to see every second and minute of her treasure, and how she is enjoying her life with her mother. Thank you Foxy for everything and we truly want you to celebrate this moment with your family, friends, and loved ones. You deserve it in your special day. Love you! x

Happy 48th Birthday to the best to ever do it, none other than Foxy Brown, King Fox! Another birthday, another day to be blessed to still have this legend here with us today. When Inga says we are lucky to have her in this reality, she really means it. Only God and herself know the life that she’s been through, and even then, she want to be labeled as a victim because Foxy is more than that. She is a warrior, a fighter. A woman who has stood ten toes down on what she believes it’s right and what’s wrong. Never afraid to speak her mind, to share her ideas, to tell it like it is, and have no filter about it. Some people have looked down on Foxy because of her ways, but I call it real. I will always appreciate the love she has for her fans, even if her number one priority as of now is taking care of her daughter, plus spending time with her. Besides being the greatest spitter to ever grace a mic, she also splits her time in half to balance us and her personal life all-in-one. I mean, what other female rapper can say Dr. Dre has vouched for them? Being Nas and Jay-Z’s “right-hand-bitch” at the same time, doing a rap battle against Biggie himself, or never having Pac dissing her directly. Whew, it makes you think that, she is truly one-of-a-kind. 50 Cent wanted to put everything on the table just to sign her, but you know her loyalty is different when it comes to HOV. Giving Kanye West the opportunity to produce his first number-one album? That’s just crazy work right there, no wonder he did an arm sleeve with her song on it. People do not realize how many doors she has opened in the music industry, with her connections, her sound, her ability to persuade people, she is incredible. There’s a lot to say about her career and persona, and that’s why I never get tired of writing these long messages on her birthday. I’m glad she sees them as well. But I wanted to take the time to appreciate an icon that doesn’t get the flowers she deserves for her music efforts and presence alone. Notice how Foxy hasn’t performed in how many years? That’s when you invest in real state, trust in your family’s long-standing food franchise, and stray away from the spotlight after you have worked day by day in your teenage years and early 20s. She has earned it all and has nothing else to prove to nobody. Whether it was a freestyle, a single, a promo, she went all out and gave everything to her fans and people who loved her. It’s something special about Foxy that keeps me hooked after all these years. She is the gift, she is the IT girl, it’s in her bloodstream and no one can take that away. I will always cherish and praise her legacy she has left off, and what other surprises she brings in the future. I’m gonna be ready for what’s to come and support her in whatever way I can. I made this little edit today with one of my favorite songs from her, it’s called My Life 2 featuring Althea Heart. It’s such a full circle of a song, you can listen and feel every word she’s saying. That 2003 era of Foxy is literally peak, and I’m still saddened they stole that version of Foxy from us. She could’ve re-peaked during that era, but God had other plans for her. He wanted our Inga to move onto something bigger in life, and that’s why she appreciates her daughter so much. I love to see every second and minute of her treasure, and how she is enjoying her life with her mother. Thank you Foxy for everything and we truly want you to celebrate this moment with your family, friends, and loved ones. You deserve it in your special day. Love you! x

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14,639 просмотров • 28 дней назад

THIS IS SO PURE AND SWEET~~ lom got herself such a fairytale type of love 🫠🫳🏻🫳🏻 #เสน่หาวาโย *SPOILERS* :) . . . "lom?" the beautiful woman called out the name of the person she shared the house with. however, since she had woken up a little later than usual this morning and wayo hadn't come to wake her, when she got up, she found the house empty. after celebrating with wine last night, she was feeling a bit hungover, but not as much as the sickness caused by the local liquor that had made her feel ill before. "where could she have gone? she didn't leave a note" it had become an unspoken rule between them ever since they had to face the rebels that they always inform each other before going anywhere, so they would always know the other was safe. but today, catherine didn't understand why wayo had broken that rule. if she didn't hear from her, she would have to go look around the house or ask the villagers. "blew" "what are the kids doing here?" "come on, let's go" catherine looked at shasha, who eagerly grabbed her hand, pulling her to walk along. the other children surrounded her, leaving no chance to ask where they were going. having been there for a week, catherine had become close with the children, just as she had with wayo. the kids often invited her and wayo to play or to teach them activities during their free time. "where are we going, shasha?" "it's a secret" the little girl giggled and led her to a resting area on a hill. then she instructed her to stop and wait there, telling her to close her eyes and count in her mind. catherine agreed to follow the instructions, but as she was counting, she heard the sound of children running down the hill. perhaps it was a prank. or maybe just their idea of fun. "you can open your eyes now" "lom! what's going on? don't tell me you planned this with the kids" "yes, i asked the kids to help bring you here" wayo smiled as she appeared to reveal the surprise that had been planned. she had come up with this idea the night before and successfully prepared it with the help of the children early that morning. "don't do that—i woke up, and you were gone. i was worried" "sorry, but i've been with you the whole time. i didn't know when to prepare the surprise. i woke up early today to get ready" in truth, she had spent the whole night planning it, as she had felt a deep desire in their relationship that had been there long before anything had become clear between them. but as they spent every day together, their love grew stronger, making it harder to pull away. wayo wanted to make everything clear, to show catherine that she was committed to their love more than anything. "surprise?" "a flower crown. it might be a little crooked and not as pretty as rose's, but i made it for you" "it's beautiful.." "it's not as beautiful as you—but let me put it on you" catherine nodded and let wayo carefully place the flower crown on her head. she loved the surprise so much that she wanted to take a picture and keep it as a memory. she would treasure the effort of the one she loved, who loved her in return. "but that's not all" "there's more of a surprise?" "do you know, in my eyes, you're always a princess, and you'll always be my princess" "a matching ring?" wayo opened her hand to reveal a simple silver ring, two matching bands that she had found from the local area. they weren't royal diamonds, but every bit of their simplicity held pure love. "even though we've only known each other for a short time, we've been through dangerous situations and life-or-death moments together. we've built so many memories, proving the love we have for each other. i don't know if time matters in love. but i've never once doubted loving you—not even for a moment. i've always been confident in the love i have for you, and from this moment on, i always will be. and if you feel the same, there's one thing i want to ask you right now" "..." "blew, will you marry me?"

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THIS IS SO PURE AND SWEET~~ lom got herself such a fairytale type of love 🫠🫳🏻🫳🏻 #เสน่หาวาโย SPOILERS :) . . . "lom?" the beautiful woman called out the name of the person she shared the house with. however, since she had woken up a little later than usual this morning and wayo hadn't come to wake her, when she got up, she found the house empty. after celebrating with wine last night, she was feeling a bit hungover, but not as much as the sickness caused by the local liquor that had made her feel ill before. "where could she have gone? she didn't leave a note" it had become an unspoken rule between them ever since they had to face the rebels that they always inform each other before going anywhere, so they would always know the other was safe. but today, catherine didn't understand why wayo had broken that rule. if she didn't hear from her, she would have to go look around the house or ask the villagers. "blew" "what are the kids doing here?" "come on, let's go" catherine looked at shasha, who eagerly grabbed her hand, pulling her to walk along. the other children surrounded her, leaving no chance to ask where they were going. having been there for a week, catherine had become close with the children, just as she had with wayo. the kids often invited her and wayo to play or to teach them activities during their free time. "where are we going, shasha?" "it's a secret" the little girl giggled and led her to a resting area on a hill. then she instructed her to stop and wait there, telling her to close her eyes and count in her mind. catherine agreed to follow the instructions, but as she was counting, she heard the sound of children running down the hill. perhaps it was a prank. or maybe just their idea of fun. "you can open your eyes now" "lom! what's going on? don't tell me you planned this with the kids" "yes, i asked the kids to help bring you here" wayo smiled as she appeared to reveal the surprise that had been planned. she had come up with this idea the night before and successfully prepared it with the help of the children early that morning. "don't do that—i woke up, and you were gone. i was worried" "sorry, but i've been with you the whole time. i didn't know when to prepare the surprise. i woke up early today to get ready" in truth, she had spent the whole night planning it, as she had felt a deep desire in their relationship that had been there long before anything had become clear between them. but as they spent every day together, their love grew stronger, making it harder to pull away. wayo wanted to make everything clear, to show catherine that she was committed to their love more than anything. "surprise?" "a flower crown. it might be a little crooked and not as pretty as rose's, but i made it for you" "it's beautiful.." "it's not as beautiful as you—but let me put it on you" catherine nodded and let wayo carefully place the flower crown on her head. she loved the surprise so much that she wanted to take a picture and keep it as a memory. she would treasure the effort of the one she loved, who loved her in return. "but that's not all" "there's more of a surprise?" "do you know, in my eyes, you're always a princess, and you'll always be my princess" "a matching ring?" wayo opened her hand to reveal a simple silver ring, two matching bands that she had found from the local area. they weren't royal diamonds, but every bit of their simplicity held pure love. "even though we've only known each other for a short time, we've been through dangerous situations and life-or-death moments together. we've built so many memories, proving the love we have for each other. i don't know if time matters in love. but i've never once doubted loving you—not even for a moment. i've always been confident in the love i have for you, and from this moment on, i always will be. and if you feel the same, there's one thing i want to ask you right now" "..." "blew, will you marry me?"

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30,649 просмотров • 3 месяцев назад

HOW TO LOOK COOL & GET THE GIRL WHEN YOU APPROACH ❌ Home in on the girl you like and ignore her friend who’s also staring at you ✅ Open both girls at once, talk to both, win them both over ❌ Describe yourself as chasing after her (“courage to come up to you”) ✅ Use a chill opener instead (e.g., “Looks like you’re putting a lot of thought into that decision”) ❌ Ask her name unprompted (“What’s your name?”; you are seeking information from her) ✅ Offer your name first (“I’m Daniel”; you are offering value to her) ❌ Shake her hand like it’s a new business partnership ✅ Hold her hand a moment and give it a squeeze without shaking it ❌ Use her foreignness to compliment her looks in another language (“Muy bonita gracias”) ✅ Use her foreignness to ask what she’s doing here (creates an open loop) ❌ Compliment her looks a 3rd time while explaining yourself (“came up because you’re gorgeous”) ✅ Have her comply with you instead (“I love that bracelet. Let me have a look?” [beckon her]) ❌ Get her to show you the lingerie she bought then completely change the topic ✅ Get her to show you the lingerie she bought then flirt over it (“Oh… lingerie… what is THAT for??”) ❌ Ask her out 40 seconds in after on a non-high point not building any real attraction or connection ✅ Talk to her for at least 2 minutes, build attraction + connection, THEN ask her out on a HIGH point (i.e., she is really engaged, laughing hard, showing a lot of curiosity about you, etc.) Notes from the video: • During the initial moment, she smile genuinely and eyes him up and down (see her head to toe glance) while quickly finishing what she is doing. She shows initial openness to him. HOWEVER… • She gives the “Oh, gosh” eye shut and grimacing nod in response to his “chasing after you” opener. She acknowledges it’s ‘funny’ but still cringe. • She follows this by PICKING UP HER CUP (which she does not need to do) and holding it in front of herself defensively, creating a barrier between her and him. (If she was into the approach, she’d leave the cup there and face him without a barrier.) • After he blasts her with the fourth compliment, she backs away from him while laughing awkwardly and eye codes her friend (whom this guy’s still ignoring) in disbelief. • When he asks her out on “like a food date”, she takes two seconds to break eye contact to the side, still with her forced smile, briefly shakes her head “no”, then nods politely and says it “sounds good” and gives her number (while eye coding her friend again) just to get rid of him. • After he gets the number, he tells her “Next Friday?” and she doesn’t even need to think about what she has going on or check her schedule because she has no intention of actually meeting this guy, so she just says “Next Friday, perfect” to get this over with. Approach better & avoid these mistakes!

HOW TO LOOK COOL & GET THE GIRL WHEN YOU APPROACH ❌ Home in on the girl you like and ignore her friend who’s also staring at you ✅ Open both girls at once, talk to both, win them both over ❌ Describe yourself as chasing after her (“courage to come up to you”) ✅ Use a chill opener instead (e.g., “Looks like you’re putting a lot of thought into that decision”) ❌ Ask her name unprompted (“What’s your name?”; you are seeking information from her) ✅ Offer your name first (“I’m Daniel”; you are offering value to her) ❌ Shake her hand like it’s a new business partnership ✅ Hold her hand a moment and give it a squeeze without shaking it ❌ Use her foreignness to compliment her looks in another language (“Muy bonita gracias”) ✅ Use her foreignness to ask what she’s doing here (creates an open loop) ❌ Compliment her looks a 3rd time while explaining yourself (“came up because you’re gorgeous”) ✅ Have her comply with you instead (“I love that bracelet. Let me have a look?” [beckon her]) ❌ Get her to show you the lingerie she bought then completely change the topic ✅ Get her to show you the lingerie she bought then flirt over it (“Oh… lingerie… what is THAT for??”) ❌ Ask her out 40 seconds in after on a non-high point not building any real attraction or connection ✅ Talk to her for at least 2 minutes, build attraction + connection, THEN ask her out on a HIGH point (i.e., she is really engaged, laughing hard, showing a lot of curiosity about you, etc.) Notes from the video: • During the initial moment, she smile genuinely and eyes him up and down (see her head to toe glance) while quickly finishing what she is doing. She shows initial openness to him. HOWEVER… • She gives the “Oh, gosh” eye shut and grimacing nod in response to his “chasing after you” opener. She acknowledges it’s ‘funny’ but still cringe. • She follows this by PICKING UP HER CUP (which she does not need to do) and holding it in front of herself defensively, creating a barrier between her and him. (If she was into the approach, she’d leave the cup there and face him without a barrier.) • After he blasts her with the fourth compliment, she backs away from him while laughing awkwardly and eye codes her friend (whom this guy’s still ignoring) in disbelief. • When he asks her out on “like a food date”, she takes two seconds to break eye contact to the side, still with her forced smile, briefly shakes her head “no”, then nods politely and says it “sounds good” and gives her number (while eye coding her friend again) just to get rid of him. • After he gets the number, he tells her “Next Friday?” and she doesn’t even need to think about what she has going on or check her schedule because she has no intention of actually meeting this guy, so she just says “Next Friday, perfect” to get this over with. Approach better & avoid these mistakes!

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

65,755 просмотров • 3 месяцев назад

This is actually a pretty good description of (some) things that will get girls chasing you. (While you generally don’t want to listen to female dating advice for men, a woman simply DESCRIBING what men have done with her that worked can be very informative.) In this case, the guy was using: ✅ Confident, self-possessed body language. She doesn’t say it, but I guarantee you he had great posture, moved slowly and deliberately but smoothly, and took up space. Doubtless had excellent eye contact. ✅ At some point (ONCE he had her INVESTED enough) he asked her if she thought he was ‘hot’. This was deep in the second date, probably after some good bonding or connection so she doesn’t want to burst the bubble by saying something other than ‘yes’. What this did was trigger a psychological concept called COMMITMENT-CONSISTENCY where, once someone has verbally agreed to something, that person then feels compelled to act in-line with it, and even reorients his or her views to match what was said. (You can read about this in Robert Cialdini’s book “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion”, where he has a ton more studies + examples.) ✅ Once he had her out the third time, he could tell she wasn’t into him enough yet, but was invested enough to have come out multiple times, so he just hung back and gave her space to chase. What happens when she chases? Well, that is simple enough: she starts to like you more (then more!). (Also, you might think his dogged follow up of her was ‘chasing’, especially if you are the type who only texts a girl once or twice then quits if she isn’t all about it… however: there is a right way and a wrong way to follow up doggedly. The fact that this guy got another date and she started chasing him tells you he did it the right way. The right way is ‘persistence’, rather than ‘pursuit’.) A lot of guys now don’t use (or know) game at all… they’re just totally winging it on “does she instantly feel me or not?” You may not believe it until you try it for yourself, but yeah, there is a reason men have been doing this stuff with women since Ovid’s time and before… probably since long before recorded history. If you want her to CHASE, you need to get her invested enough to be willing to — then, after that, you must create the SPACE for her to chase you in!

This is actually a pretty good description of (some) things that will get girls chasing you. (While you generally don’t want to listen to female dating advice for men, a woman simply DESCRIBING what men have done with her that worked can be very informative.) In this case, the guy was using: ✅ Confident, self-possessed body language. She doesn’t say it, but I guarantee you he had great posture, moved slowly and deliberately but smoothly, and took up space. Doubtless had excellent eye contact. ✅ At some point (ONCE he had her INVESTED enough) he asked her if she thought he was ‘hot’. This was deep in the second date, probably after some good bonding or connection so she doesn’t want to burst the bubble by saying something other than ‘yes’. What this did was trigger a psychological concept called COMMITMENT-CONSISTENCY where, once someone has verbally agreed to something, that person then feels compelled to act in-line with it, and even reorients his or her views to match what was said. (You can read about this in Robert Cialdini’s book “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion”, where he has a ton more studies + examples.) ✅ Once he had her out the third time, he could tell she wasn’t into him enough yet, but was invested enough to have come out multiple times, so he just hung back and gave her space to chase. What happens when she chases? Well, that is simple enough: she starts to like you more (then more!). (Also, you might think his dogged follow up of her was ‘chasing’, especially if you are the type who only texts a girl once or twice then quits if she isn’t all about it… however: there is a right way and a wrong way to follow up doggedly. The fact that this guy got another date and she started chasing him tells you he did it the right way. The right way is ‘persistence’, rather than ‘pursuit’.) A lot of guys now don’t use (or know) game at all… they’re just totally winging it on “does she instantly feel me or not?” You may not believe it until you try it for yourself, but yeah, there is a reason men have been doing this stuff with women since Ovid’s time and before… probably since long before recorded history. If you want her to CHASE, you need to get her invested enough to be willing to — then, after that, you must create the SPACE for her to chase you in!

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

393,577 просмотров • 10 месяцев назад

We’re in a weird place now where random girls have better insight into male psychology than most ‘pro-male’ accounts. Usually you do not want to take advice from women, but look what these chicks say: ✅ Guys don’t approach because they’re unconfident (TRUE; many men are terrified to an almost hysterical degree of women right now) ✅ Guys don’t approach because they’re lazy (TRUE; “why take the risk of approaching a girl when I can just open up an app?” → something far too many guys think now) ✅ If you get shot down, whatever; just go to the next girl (TRUE; she is not some magical special girl whose rejection has crippled you forever. Go approach another girl, and another after that! Meeting women is a NUMBERS GAME!) ✅ Be kind, don’t be weird (TRUE; there is a difference between being a ‘nice guy’ vs. just being a cool, warm-hearted, sociable dude. You do not have to be some cartoonish ‘alpha male’ and in fact that does not work. The ‘bad boys’ women are attracted to are generally actually kinder people than the average ‘nice guy’ is — they communicate what they really want, do not behave like they feel entitled to something from her, do not place her on a pedestal she can never hope to live up to, and don’t get weird or resentful or depressed when she flirts with or tests them) ✅ Approach with friendship as the basis (TRUE; so long as you do not MISINTERPRET this and think you need to be a neutered, asexual ‘friend’ instead. You need to be her SEXY friend, who is playful and flirtatious and a bit naughty, not the nice guy friend who acts like he has no balls and just wants to be her shoulder to cry on) As a matter of fact, I would actually say women’s advice to men has SOMEHOW STRANGELY IMPROVED over the last 15 years, while most men’s advice to other men has EGREGIOUSLY WORSENED. Men are online telling each other stuff like “you don’t need women; focus on the money and the women will come” (this will get you women who are after “a nice lifestyle”, i.e., gold diggers) and “never tolerate a woman who doesn’t put you first” (newsflash: until you are regularly banging her out, she is NEVER going to put you first!). Honestly, most advice I see men giving other men online nowadays is putting the cart before the horse type advice. Yes, you need money… but you should focus on that AFTER you get her. You are supposed to enjoy women young, then pick a woman and focus on building a life. A lot of dudes have it ass-backwards now. Yes, you need a woman who will put you first… but that comes AFTER you are banging her out. If you want her to do that before you shag her silly, you will be looking for a LONG time, my friend, as well as dating DOWN in a BIG way. Actually I was pretty surprised to hear these girls talk about “if you get rejected, go to the next one.” Back in the day a lot of girls seemed to always treat dating advice like “whatever girl you approach, treat her like your future wife!” Seems like there is a lot more consciousness among women at this point that dating is a numbers game and as a guy you’ve got to put in the reps. Strangely, men seem to have forgotten this… and approaching has become life and death… with dating apps the new ‘safe space’. Strange times we are in!

We’re in a weird place now where random girls have better insight into male psychology than most ‘pro-male’ accounts. Usually you do not want to take advice from women, but look what these chicks say: ✅ Guys don’t approach because they’re unconfident (TRUE; many men are terrified to an almost hysterical degree of women right now) ✅ Guys don’t approach because they’re lazy (TRUE; “why take the risk of approaching a girl when I can just open up an app?” → something far too many guys think now) ✅ If you get shot down, whatever; just go to the next girl (TRUE; she is not some magical special girl whose rejection has crippled you forever. Go approach another girl, and another after that! Meeting women is a NUMBERS GAME!) ✅ Be kind, don’t be weird (TRUE; there is a difference between being a ‘nice guy’ vs. just being a cool, warm-hearted, sociable dude. You do not have to be some cartoonish ‘alpha male’ and in fact that does not work. The ‘bad boys’ women are attracted to are generally actually kinder people than the average ‘nice guy’ is — they communicate what they really want, do not behave like they feel entitled to something from her, do not place her on a pedestal she can never hope to live up to, and don’t get weird or resentful or depressed when she flirts with or tests them) ✅ Approach with friendship as the basis (TRUE; so long as you do not MISINTERPRET this and think you need to be a neutered, asexual ‘friend’ instead. You need to be her SEXY friend, who is playful and flirtatious and a bit naughty, not the nice guy friend who acts like he has no balls and just wants to be her shoulder to cry on) As a matter of fact, I would actually say women’s advice to men has SOMEHOW STRANGELY IMPROVED over the last 15 years, while most men’s advice to other men has EGREGIOUSLY WORSENED. Men are online telling each other stuff like “you don’t need women; focus on the money and the women will come” (this will get you women who are after “a nice lifestyle”, i.e., gold diggers) and “never tolerate a woman who doesn’t put you first” (newsflash: until you are regularly banging her out, she is NEVER going to put you first!). Honestly, most advice I see men giving other men online nowadays is putting the cart before the horse type advice. Yes, you need money… but you should focus on that AFTER you get her. You are supposed to enjoy women young, then pick a woman and focus on building a life. A lot of dudes have it ass-backwards now. Yes, you need a woman who will put you first… but that comes AFTER you are banging her out. If you want her to do that before you shag her silly, you will be looking for a LONG time, my friend, as well as dating DOWN in a BIG way. Actually I was pretty surprised to hear these girls talk about “if you get rejected, go to the next one.” Back in the day a lot of girls seemed to always treat dating advice like “whatever girl you approach, treat her like your future wife!” Seems like there is a lot more consciousness among women at this point that dating is a numbers game and as a guy you’ve got to put in the reps. Strangely, men seem to have forgotten this… and approaching has become life and death… with dating apps the new ‘safe space’. Strange times we are in!

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

32,048 просмотров • 7 месяцев назад

This is the wrap up to my social experiment going undercover on a dating website as a man trying to get a good woman. (I meander more than a little, but hopefully you find some nuggets in here helpful.) These are the conclusions I've come to about why men are struggling so badly on these dating websites. Men face many battles women do not. 40% of female profiles are gold diggers, hookers or bots. Men greatly outnumber women, and they get discouraged quickly. Reasons men fail on dating websites: 1. Refusing to develop your communication skills. My generation has a phrase, "Don't hate the player, hate the game." Be funny, charming and fun, or don't cry when she picks someone else who is. 2. Half-assing your dating profile. Mating rituals exist in all walks of the animal kingdom, so if you refuse to show her why she should pick you then don't expect to be picked. We all sell ourselves to the opposite gender in some way. It's just a fact of human life, and whining about it won't serve you well, change that fact, or get the girl. 3. A cringeworthy user name. Sure, your frat buddies will find, "EatYouAllNight69" hilarious, but it's not going to get you anyone worth a damn. Trust me, high value women hate that. 4. You don't want a pen pal, so go in with the idea that your goal is to get her number and get her off that site as soon as possible, or someone else will. Women are desperate for a strong, masculine man she can trust to lead and protect her from the dragons at the gate. A nice guy is too weak and desperate to do it, and a jerk is just mean and abusive. Again, mating rituals exist in every walk of the animal kingdom and humans are no different. You will only get out of this life and a potential mate the effort you are willing to put in, and that includes developing your mind and body to be the best version of yourself. Not just for her, but for you too. A needy guy with low self-esteem is never going to get the girl. Good boundaries and a healthy self image equals success, so get back into the gym and start eating clean. The better you look the better you'll feel. The better you feel the more success in life you'll have. A 300lb girl with 5 kids with different fathers is never going to get a good man. Control your reproduction and stop being a wh*re. Despite what feminists tell you, girls, your body count does matter to him. Keep it low and maintain your dignity. Research has shown time and again that women are instinctively drawn to certain traits like bravery, intelligence, and a willingness to take risks. Basically, if it would keep you from getting voted off the island on Survivor, she’s going to think it’s hot. Make sure your profile highlights these kind of personality traits in an attractive way. Stop whining about height! We DGAF about how tall you are just so long as it's taller than us. Your insecurities will make you desperate, needy and totally hamstring your chances. Bottom line: Without effort don't expect success. In anything, really. You'll always find an excuse to stay exactly where you are and you'll only change your stars when the place your living becomes more painful/difficult then than they journey you need to take for a better life.

TraderJill (Leigh)

205,793 просмотров • 2 лет назад

“I can’t speak on whether he was close to converting…I do think from what I’ve been told that he was planning on signing up and starting that process [of becoming Catholic]. But I did not personally have that conversation with him…” A few things: Candace says she can’t speak on whether Charlie was close to converting to Catholicism—and then immediately goes on to speak about how she thinks he was close to converting. 🙄 Additionally, the first time she ever spoke about this (September 15th, see the 2nd clip below) she suggested he was close to converting. Because it’s Candace, she didn’t come right out and say, but she said he “was on the verge of changing some of his beliefs” and then went on to speak about how he was praying the rosary and attending mass. She also referenced him “taking that last step.” All of those things paired together imply (again without outright saying) he was close to converting. She also said in the same episode he was “too smart to be Protestant.” Mind you, this was FIVE DAYS after Charlie had been murdered. Charlie’s parents are Protestant. His wife was raised Catholic but is now Protestant. And whether you think he was close to converting or not, Charlie died Protestant. Her saying that FIVE DAYS after his murder was callous and tone deaf. This is how Candace makes things always and all about herself. This was in fact the first thing that clued me in that something was seriously wrong, after previously being her fan. Today, she doubled down on her implications that Charlie was close to converting (even though again she’d just said she couldn’t speak on that). She said she and Charlie were having conversations about it, but the only evidence she’s ever presented is a single vague text allegedly from him and dated February 2024. The problem is that Charlie went on to reiterate he was evangelical and all of his issues with the Catholic faith this year, in the months leading up to his death. Indeed, one of the final things he said on this earth the day he died was that he was evangelical. So even if he sent that text to Candace in February of 2024, it’s clear he wasn’t that convicted and that she read more into it than was actually meant. Because again, this year, in 2025, he was reaffirming his evangelical faith. Lastly, Candace admitted today that she heard from someone else that Charlie was becoming Catholic (likely Bishop Joseph Brennan). But if she and Charlie were already having conversations about the possibility of him converting (as she claims they were), why wouldn’t he tell Candace directly? Especially when again they allegedly were already having conversations about it? Please listen to what this woman actually says from one month, one week, one day to the next. And parse it out. Hear what she’s saying and also what she’s not saying. Determine what she’s implying. Compare herself to herself. And see if she makes sense to you, if she provides clarity to you, if she provides evidence. Not just on the subject of Charlie converting but on all subjects pertaining to this “investigation.” Finally, this has NOTHING to do with who murdered Charlie and why. I’m tired of talking about it, but she keeps being dishonest about what she actually said, again a mere five days after his murder.

“I can’t speak on whether he was close to converting…I do think from what I’ve been told that he was planning on signing up and starting that process [of becoming Catholic]. But I did not personally have that conversation with him…” A few things: Candace says she can’t speak on whether Charlie was close to converting to Catholicism—and then immediately goes on to speak about how she thinks he was close to converting. 🙄 Additionally, the first time she ever spoke about this (September 15th, see the 2nd clip below) she suggested he was close to converting. Because it’s Candace, she didn’t come right out and say, but she said he “was on the verge of changing some of his beliefs” and then went on to speak about how he was praying the rosary and attending mass. She also referenced him “taking that last step.” All of those things paired together imply (again without outright saying) he was close to converting. She also said in the same episode he was “too smart to be Protestant.” Mind you, this was FIVE DAYS after Charlie had been murdered. Charlie’s parents are Protestant. His wife was raised Catholic but is now Protestant. And whether you think he was close to converting or not, Charlie died Protestant. Her saying that FIVE DAYS after his murder was callous and tone deaf. This is how Candace makes things always and all about herself. This was in fact the first thing that clued me in that something was seriously wrong, after previously being her fan. Today, she doubled down on her implications that Charlie was close to converting (even though again she’d just said she couldn’t speak on that). She said she and Charlie were having conversations about it, but the only evidence she’s ever presented is a single vague text allegedly from him and dated February 2024. The problem is that Charlie went on to reiterate he was evangelical and all of his issues with the Catholic faith this year, in the months leading up to his death. Indeed, one of the final things he said on this earth the day he died was that he was evangelical. So even if he sent that text to Candace in February of 2024, it’s clear he wasn’t that convicted and that she read more into it than was actually meant. Because again, this year, in 2025, he was reaffirming his evangelical faith. Lastly, Candace admitted today that she heard from someone else that Charlie was becoming Catholic (likely Bishop Joseph Brennan). But if she and Charlie were already having conversations about the possibility of him converting (as she claims they were), why wouldn’t he tell Candace directly? Especially when again they allegedly were already having conversations about it? Please listen to what this woman actually says from one month, one week, one day to the next. And parse it out. Hear what she’s saying and also what she’s not saying. Determine what she’s implying. Compare herself to herself. And see if she makes sense to you, if she provides clarity to you, if she provides evidence. Not just on the subject of Charlie converting but on all subjects pertaining to this “investigation.” Finally, this has NOTHING to do with who murdered Charlie and why. I’m tired of talking about it, but she keeps being dishonest about what she actually said, again a mere five days after his murder.

Natalie Jean Beisner

42,540 просмотров • 9 месяцев назад