ItGIRL
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EPISODE 1 STARTING MY LIFE OVER These are the parts of my life I swore I’d take to the grave. I was embarrassed, ashamed, and honestly terrified that I had to start all over again. I really felt like I ran for my life… but what I learned is you can move cities, houses, even relationships….. but you can’t outrun YOU. So… here’s the beginning. The part where everything fell apart so I could finally put myself back together NEXT EPISODE: NOV 28th What yall think happened next? 🫤
ItGIRL1,939,939 views • 6 months ago
NOW ITS TIME TO TALK ABOUT THE REAL WORK! Some people who paint their self to be perfect & happy on social media are the farthest from it. Those who are truly happy, don’t have to paint the picture! It’s either you see it or you don’t. I never been one to fold under pressure but when I stopped seeing ME and only saw instagram likes and comments when I looked in the mirror, I started folding like Sunday Laundry fresh out the dryer. As human, we’re not supposed to be privy to so many opinions or eyes on us. And while I don’t have it ALL figured out, I can say that I have SOME of it and what I figured out is that Life is so much easier when you stop caring about the validation of others, and that’s including family. The pressure is invisible and when you let go of it, your true personality comes out and you can finally heal. You will NEVER heal by trying to live up to others standards. I know soooooooo many people including celebrities, content creators and normal every day folks who are also dealing with all of what I’ve been talking about, but are so afraid to be vulnerable, ask for help or share their story. and I totally understand why. BUT I’M NOT! Im not afraid anymore And I’m gonna speak up for all of those who probably can’t find their voice right now to be honest and say “hey im not okay”. If this is you and you are seeing this, I hope you know you are seen, heard & understood here. Welcome to the Army 🫶🏽 NEXT EPISODE DEC 7
ItGIRL1,023,113 views • 6 months ago
My most vulnerable video yet 💔 We experienced a chemical pregnancy and even though it is early, that does not make it any less real. A chemical pregnancy happens around 4 weeks when the hormones rise but the pregnancy does not fully implant. It ends quickly, but the emotions stay. Some days I catch myself imagining what my life would look like right now with my baby in my arms. Other days I remind myself that I asked God for a healthy, strong body and a healthy, happy baby. I know I wasn’t at my healthiest so all I can do is have faith & trust. Going through this opened my eyes in a way I was not prepared for. So many women suffer silently through miscarriages at every stage. One in four. The heartbreak, the fear, the fertility struggles, the wondering if your body is failing you, the dips in confidence, the pressure from family… it is a lot. It is too much for any woman to carry alone. Sharing this episode honestly scared me. I feel exposed. I feel tender. But I also feel stronger knowing another woman might watch this and feel less alone. I am holding faith, hope, and softness for myself, and for anyone else walking this journey too. 🤍
ItGIRL622,257 views • 5 months ago
I’m late but I’m here LMAO! STARTING MY LIFE OVER | EPISODE 3 Girls… as a beautiful women, it’s important to know that outside and external things such as your beauty, men, clothes & money will never validate you. The only thing that can, is YOU! And if you need help to get there, get the help! We all need help in some areas because… ITS ALL OF OUR FIRST TIME HERE ON EARTH! So it’s ok. If it’s your second time here then I might side eye you a likkle cause like girl give us the tea and tips lmao No but seriously, I’ve went through major transformation and a lot of it made me realize that external things are just… external things. I was so used to functioning off of my beauty, men, and money, once all of those were stripped I had to look at what else was there. We’ll get into that in episode 4 tho! NEXT EPISODE: DEC 4th
ItGIRL291,464 views • 6 months ago
LETS ADDRESS THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤨 everybody put a promise in the comments 🤞 if your gonna tune in for my major come back 😂 I love you guys so much thank you for even giving me space to grow. But now it’s time to get back to what I love & that’s you guys 🫶🏽🥹
ItGIRL174,425 views • 6 months ago
WHEN SKINCARE MEETS FULL FACE GLAM ✨🎀 PART 1 It's important to take care of your skin in any weather, no matter if your wearing makeup or not. But if your going to wear makeup, you should also wear makeup that has active skincare ingredients in it that allow your skin to breath and work will you WERK! Let me show you why you should use these products & how 🤏🏽 Using the Mary Phillip and 💋 techniques to achieve to achieve this winter glam. Products listed on TikTok for part 1 & 2! TikTok: AaliyahJay
ItGIRL156,655 views • 6 months ago
WE DATE MEN THAT WE ACTUALLY LIKE! NOT MEN THAT WE NEED. 💋 This is a teachable moment for all women. Dating for love can look like many things. It doesn’t have to look like the “made up” instagram baddie standard that society has created where women are only dating for survival or in exchange for external things. Do not fall into the pressure of confirming to what your life should LOOK like. What’s important is how it FEELS. On social media everyone has their boundaries, morals and life together while watching and judging other. I have yet to see a HOW-TO BE PERFECT book from any of these women. You can date, and still be in the process of finding yourself! In fact, you will ALWAYS be in the process of finding yourself. This is a never ending journey. Just because someone is figuring their self out doesn’t mean they should be deprived of love, quality time or affection or physical touch. The amazing thing about my journey is that I did all the work on my own and I made it out alive! No one was there to save me, except for me! I had to really figure this out alone! And I did just that! And that’s something no one can ever take from me. For those of you who are exactly where I was, keep going! People are going to talk… but later, they’ll be asking you how did you do it! Keep going 💎 ✨
ItGIRL101,735 views • 6 months ago
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Starting your life over isn’t just about cutting people off, leaving your ex or moving. It’s also about looking in the mirror and recognizing the part you played in the cycle. You can’t heal without admitting the truth about yourself. It’s your responsibility to recognize it. No one else’s As a woman who considers herself a powerhouse, I thought being a powerhouse meant being harsh & mean. simply because I was treated like trash as well before. But I didn’t realize that it took 2 to tango and chileeeee I was tango-ingggggg. Until this man sat me down and set his boundaries. I never had a man do that EVER and honestly I wasn’t sure if I should be happy or offended by it? 🤔 I almost got offended because anger was my addiction. It was what I knew and how I kept myself going sometimes. I was angry at my past, at the men who had hurt me and used me, why should I be nice now? But that connection was undeniable and It was time for me to make a choice…. WAS IT GONNA BE MY ANGER OR HIM? 💔 NEXT EPISODE: DEC 1st
ItGIRL68,054 views • 6 months ago
The Finale! 🎬 Here’s to officially closing this chapter & Entering a new one! 🥂✨ Moving forward I will be posting informal beauty videos, but also taking you guys along for the journey & series of trying to conceive, marriage, life and so much more! Let me know down below what else you’d like to see, I’m an open book at this point 😂
ItGIRL57,364 views • 5 months ago
I trusted Doctor Q with my smile and he delivered beyond anything I imagined. Dr. Q really understood the assignment. Subtle. Clean. Timeless. Not “new teeth” energy, just this is how they were always supposed to look. Forever grateful for you Doctor Q, for the precision, the patience, and the glow up. 🦷✨
ItGIRL36,736 views • 3 months ago
As your fairy makeup mother, I’m here to inform you: you’ve been doing your lipsticks all wrong, darling. 👑✨🪞 You all have fallen victim to the orange-undertone epidemic. A plague upon pout and pigment! Let us restore dignity to the lip. Let us return to refinement. 🪄 💋 From now on, you shall select a cool-toned liner that agrees with your skin tone… and then pair it with a lipstick built on blue or violet undertones. Anything else will be deemed as TREASON & punishable by immediate public shame and then banishment to the guillotine of beauty & fashion! 🗡️ Hehehe 🎀
ItGIRL40,438 views • 6 months ago
As a mental health advocate who plans to do so much for my community soon regarding mental health, I think it’s important for me to educate while also setting some boundaries here. This isn’t the Salem witch trails and This conversation isn’t up for debate when it comes to me, my page or my supporters. Questioning my faith or anything of the sort won’t be tolerated. Therefore I won’t be touching on the conversation comparing religion & mental health again after this. What I WILL do is help my community through their mental health journey. My community, Girl coded will soon create scholarships, benefit programs and a foundation for those who want to start their journey and either are scared, or can’t financially support it. Stay tuned! 💋
ItGIRL26,285 views • 6 months ago
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