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XX female | NYC comic + original video commentary Women’s rights, language & culture Author of Breaking the Spell ↓

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Women: You Are Free Because Men Allowed You To Be

Women: You Are Free Because Men Allowed You To Be

319,650 views • 3 months ago

“MY BOOBS WERE OUT!”

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“MY BOOBS WERE OUT!”

117,578 views • 1 month ago

Is this man a liar? If you think so, and want to learn how to call it out, get my books.

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Is this man a liar? If you think so, and want to learn how to call it out, get my books.

113,770 views • 1 month ago

Nothing short of full compliance and submission will appease these men. Get my book 50% OFF until tomorrow.

Nothing short of full compliance and submission will appease these men. Get my book 50% OFF until tomorrow.

90,439 views • 1 month ago

He tells this story like he was the victim. But what actually happened? A boy entered the girls’ restroom, the girls objected, security got involved, and he was outraged that girls did not just accept his self declaration over what they could plainly see. That is the entire issue. Girls deserve private spaces where they do not have to explain, apologize, or be pushed out for recognizing biological reality. Pronouns and language are not harmless when they are used to erase the boundary that protects women and girls. Read Breaking the Spell to learn how these arguments are built and how to answer them clearly.

He tells this story like he was the victim. But what actually happened? A boy entered the girls’ restroom, the girls objected, security got involved, and he was outraged that girls did not just accept his self declaration over what they could plainly see. That is the entire issue. Girls deserve private spaces where they do not have to explain, apologize, or be pushed out for recognizing biological reality. Pronouns and language are not harmless when they are used to erase the boundary that protects women and girls. Read Breaking the Spell to learn how these arguments are built and how to answer them clearly.

10,758 views • 4 days ago

He thinks having boobs settles the question of sex. No, men being attracted to femininity, makeup, breasts, or a particular look does not rewrite biology. Attraction is not a sex test. And “I have boobs” is not an argument. It is a chest-based press release. My book Breaking the Spell teaches you how to spot the word swaps, emotional framing, and little logic tricks used to make absurd claims sound unquestionable. It is on sale until tomorrow. Get it here:

He thinks having boobs settles the question of sex. No, men being attracted to femininity, makeup, breasts, or a particular look does not rewrite biology. Attraction is not a sex test. And “I have boobs” is not an argument. It is a chest-based press release. My book Breaking the Spell teaches you how to spot the word swaps, emotional framing, and little logic tricks used to make absurd claims sound unquestionable. It is on sale until tomorrow. Get it here:

68,917 views • 1 month ago

JK Rowling did nothing of the sort. Watch me take this narrative down.

JK Rowling did nothing of the sort. Watch me take this narrative down.

185,789 views • 3 months ago

Hunter Schafer went on the Call Her Daddy podcast and accidentally revealed way more than intended. The second the conversation became about actual sex instead of abstract identity theory… biology came crashing back through the wall.

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Hunter Schafer went on the Call Her Daddy podcast and accidentally revealed way more than intended. The second the conversation became about actual sex instead of abstract identity theory… biology came crashing back through the wall.

292,219 views • 5 months ago

Who’s jealous??

Who’s jealous??

122,346 views • 2 months ago

Everybody gather around!!

Everybody gather around!!

67,825 views • 1 month ago

10 Words/Phrases that end the debate before it even starts

10 Words/Phrases that end the debate before it even starts

205,289 views • 4 months ago

“If gay men don’t date me, does that mean I’m not male?” No, sir. It means gay men, like everyone else, have individual preferences. A straight man not wanting every woman does not make those women male either. Sexual orientation is about the sex someone is attracted to, not whether every person in that sex class finds you attractive. I break down this kind of linguistic bait-and-switch in Breaking the Spell: Language, Social Pressure, and Psychological Framing in Modern Discourse. Get it here:

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“If gay men don’t date me, does that mean I’m not male?” No, sir. It means gay men, like everyone else, have individual preferences. A straight man not wanting every woman does not make those women male either. Sexual orientation is about the sex someone is attracted to, not whether every person in that sex class finds you attractive. I break down this kind of linguistic bait-and-switch in Breaking the Spell: Language, Social Pressure, and Psychological Framing in Modern Discourse. Get it here:

49,948 views • 1 month ago

Girls keep having to beg for the bare minimum.

Girls keep having to beg for the bare minimum.

228,786 views • 5 months ago

Men can wear what they want and enjoy what they want without appropriating womanhood. Learn how language smuggles absurd claims in as common sense with Breaking the Spell.

Men can wear what they want and enjoy what they want without appropriating womanhood. Learn how language smuggles absurd claims in as common sense with Breaking the Spell.

45,546 views • 1 month ago

Apparently straight men now need a public re-education campaign to stop noticing sex. You are free to be attracted to whoever you are attracted to. But no one gets to redefine heterosexuality, or demand that men deny reality, to make an argument feel more comfortable. This is exactly how linguistic framing works: swap precise words for soft euphemisms, then act shocked when people still understand what was said. Learn how to spot and dismantle these tactics in my Breaking the Spell Master Course:

Apparently straight men now need a public re-education campaign to stop noticing sex. You are free to be attracted to whoever you are attracted to. But no one gets to redefine heterosexuality, or demand that men deny reality, to make an argument feel more comfortable. This is exactly how linguistic framing works: swap precise words for soft euphemisms, then act shocked when people still understand what was said. Learn how to spot and dismantle these tactics in my Breaking the Spell Master Course:

45,038 views • 1 month ago

A 6’2”, 180-pound male says his “safety privileges” were revoked after identifying as a woman. In this video, I break down the linguistic switch being made here: ordinary advice about walking alone at 2 a.m. is being reframed as proof that identity changes sex-based vulnerability. Presentation can affect how strangers treat you. Everyone should use common sense about late-night safety. But feminine presentation does not make a male body female, and it does not erase the physical reality behind women’s safety concerns. This is exactly why language matters. Watch how assumptions get smuggled into a story until disagreement with an idea is framed as cruelty. Get my book, Breaking the Spell: Language, Social Pressure, and Psychological Framing in Modern Discourse: #WomensRights #SexBasedRights #GenderIdeology #CriticalThinking #BreakingTheSpell

A 6’2”, 180-pound male says his “safety privileges” were revoked after identifying as a woman. In this video, I break down the linguistic switch being made here: ordinary advice about walking alone at 2 a.m. is being reframed as proof that identity changes sex-based vulnerability. Presentation can affect how strangers treat you. Everyone should use common sense about late-night safety. But feminine presentation does not make a male body female, and it does not erase the physical reality behind women’s safety concerns. This is exactly why language matters. Watch how assumptions get smuggled into a story until disagreement with an idea is framed as cruelty. Get my book, Breaking the Spell: Language, Social Pressure, and Psychological Framing in Modern Discourse: #WomensRights #SexBasedRights #GenderIdeology #CriticalThinking #BreakingTheSpell

27,789 views • 19 days ago

His voice is like nails on a chalkboard.

His voice is like nails on a chalkboard.

41,553 views • 1 month ago

I play poker. This is my response to the world series of poker ladies championship letting a male place 2nd and cash $129k

I play poker. This is my response to the world series of poker ladies championship letting a male place 2nd and cash $129k

132,867 views • 3 months ago

He says his surgically constructed anatomy is “better than women’s.” That one sentence tells you everything: reduce women to sexual function, sneer at menstruation and pregnancy, then call it empowerment. This is how language is used to make women doubt what is obvious and to pressure us into applauding our own degradation. If you want to spot the word games and dismantle them in real time, get Breaking the Spell: Language, Social Pressure, and Psychological Framing in Modern Discourse. Link in bio.

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He says his surgically constructed anatomy is “better than women’s.” That one sentence tells you everything: reduce women to sexual function, sneer at menstruation and pregnancy, then call it empowerment. This is how language is used to make women doubt what is obvious and to pressure us into applauding our own degradation. If you want to spot the word games and dismantle them in real time, get Breaking the Spell: Language, Social Pressure, and Psychological Framing in Modern Discourse. Link in bio.

41,727 views • 1 month ago

The way I have been practically FROTHING AT THE MOUTH waiting to get out of work so I could respond to this ONE sentence. 😂 The funniest part of, “stop saying biological sex because you sound crazy” is WHO is saying it. 😭😂 Sir… you really walked directly into that one.

The way I have been practically FROTHING AT THE MOUTH waiting to get out of work so I could respond to this ONE sentence. 😂 The funniest part of, “stop saying biological sex because you sound crazy” is WHO is saying it. 😭😂 Sir… you really walked directly into that one.

58,284 views • 2 months ago