JADE tea room ☕️
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All of the JADE tea, with a drop of Little Mix and a spoonful of Perrie and Leigh-Anne. ☕️ (Taking anonymous tips via DM. Tips aren’t guaranteed to be posted.)
Shorts
![Perrie admits she’s “frustrated” by how Jesy Nelson has portrayed the breakdown of her relationship with Little Mix, adding that she feels the group consistently tried supporting Jesy at the cost of their own mental health, and that accountability should be taken on all sides: “Sometimes you just won’t win with people. And what annoys me the most… I have to be careful how I say this because I don’t want to seem like a bitch… But what upsets me the most when situations like this happen is when the other person doesn’t take any accountability. That boils my blood. I’m not blaming everything on you [Jesy]. I’m not saying, ‘She’s this fucking monster and everything was her fault’ and blah blah blah. But take some accountability for your actions and realise you were difficult. You did have difficult moments. Granted, there were reasons for those moments... but you can only pick somebody up so many fucking times before you start losing track of your own sanity. You want to be there for that person, but if they can’t accept the help and they can’t accept the love you’re trying to show, how do you win? You can’t. I hate that. I don’t like putting the blame on people. Don’t put the blame on me and make me out to be something that I’m not. Yes, I’m not perfect. I might not have been there enough, or I could have done better I suppose… but I thought what I was doing was enough. I thought I’d tried everything. So to then sit there in further interviews and discuss it publicly and be like, ‘I wasn’t supported’… You were, though. You were. So just take some accountability and I’ll feel better about it. I’d say [I’m] more frustrated than angry, because I don’t like being painted into a person that I’m not. Because I’m an open book, I have to be real. It exhausts me when I see people that I know inside and out not being genuine. It frustrates me.”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2064621907001950660/amplify_video_thumb/2064621178082263040/img/D4nch9DNXgE2jCSM.jpg)
![Asked to reflect on navigating a “hellish” public breakup, Perrie acknowledges that she receives criticism for answering questions about it, “[but] I’m like, ‘But it really affected me massively’”: “People are gonna hate me talking about it… I can’t catch a break. If I talk about this, they’re like: ‘Why are you talking about it?!’ But anyway, shut up! Yeah, [it’s my life]. When you go through heartbreak, it is hellish. You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you feel horrendous. You don’t feel good enough and you feel like you’ve been left for something better, or whatever it is… Then what makes it even worse is, I feel like the world was then looking at me, laughing at me. I felt embarrassed; I felt horrified. I had serious breakdowns. I did. Because it wasn’t just the heartbreak I was dealing with. I was dealing with everybody looking at me, and I felt ridiculed. I just couldn’t cope with it; I hated it. I was breaking down in performances, which isn’t like me at all. I was crying constantly. I think I was depressed… I know that sounds ridiculous! But I think it was this plus this plus this, and everything on top. It was like, I had to be there for the girls; I had to be switched on; I had to power through for Little Mix – but I also just wanted to be left the fuck alone. But I also was getting followed every two seconds and asked about it 24/7, and it was the headlines, it was everywhere, and it was a lot! And this is the thing – when people are like, ‘Stop talking about it!’ I’m like, ‘But it really affected me massively’.”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2064693618191815033/amplify_video_thumb/2064693469633769472/img/nphr9B4HX-FkVJ3i.jpg)
![JADE’s boyfriend (Rizzle Kicks’s Jordan Stephens) picks Blur over Oasis when choosing between the biggest British artists: “Blur. Sorry! …Actually, I say sorry to Noel [Gallagher, but] Noel disses everyone for a living! I think he dissed JADE once! BLUR!”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2028094907488039191/amplify_video_thumb/2028094839204540416/img/L-8F933-Q-g8v-xn.jpg)
![JADE talks about her love of Britney Spears: “Britney is one of THE best pop artists of all time. We [Little Mix] did write a song for Britney actually [Pretty Girls]. It’s kind of iconic because people hate it so much.”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-1814309130640789603/amplify_video_thumb/1814304994419490816/img/GjroGmmFl1lUSXgD.jpg)
Videos
![Asked about her “toxic” relationship and “hellish” breakup with Zayn, Perrie sheds some light on what she went through but stresses there’s still “so much” she’ll never share: “I need to be careful how I say this, but… Let’s just say there was… There was a bit of an overlap. When you’re the one left behind, it’s hard. Because it’s like, ‘Shit, they’ve left me for someone more beautiful than me, someone better than me…’ That’s how it felt at the time. Then you have a song they’ve written about you, but then someone else is in the video… It was one thing after the other after the other. I remember finding out about that. I’d just moved into my little bungalow in Surrey because I was trying to get as far away as I could, and I just remember finding out about that. I thought, ‘This is all getting a bit much…’, and then I started crying my eyes out. And then my dad started crying and he was like, ‘I don’t know how I can take this pain away,’ and I’m like, ‘Nobody can! This is hellish! Like… What is going on?!” It was really one thing after the other. And there’s so much that people don’t know about that I would never say, even though I just spilled some beans. But there’s so much that went into it [and] that I went through that I would never talk about, and it was real hard. So that’s probably why I get a bit frustrated at times [when people tell her not to talk about her experience].”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2064703881255235832/amplify_video_thumb/2064703751747682304/img/fmGsmzqB886qw-9q.jpg)
Asked about her “toxic” relationship and “hellish” breakup with Zayn, Perrie sheds some light on what she went through but stresses there’s still “so much” she’ll never share: “I need to be careful how I say this, but… Let’s just say there was… There was a bit of an overlap. When you’re the one left behind, it’s hard. Because it’s like, ‘Shit, they’ve left me for someone more beautiful than me, someone better than me…’ That’s how it felt at the time. Then you have a song they’ve written about you, but then someone else is in the video… It was one thing after the other after the other. I remember finding out about that. I’d just moved into my little bungalow in Surrey because I was trying to get as far away as I could, and I just remember finding out about that. I thought, ‘This is all getting a bit much…’, and then I started crying my eyes out. And then my dad started crying and he was like, ‘I don’t know how I can take this pain away,’ and I’m like, ‘Nobody can! This is hellish! Like… What is going on?!” It was really one thing after the other. And there’s so much that people don’t know about that I would never say, even though I just spilled some beans. But there’s so much that went into it [and] that I went through that I would never talk about, and it was real hard. So that’s probably why I get a bit frustrated at times [when people tell her not to talk about her experience].”
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Leigh-Anne: “There’s that one line Perrie does in Secret Love Song when we performed at ‘The Search’ – that iconic performance, may I just say! She ends it, and it’s literally the most beautiful note I think I’ve ever heard. I sometimes just replay it.”
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![When asked if she thinks she’ll ever rekindle her friendship with Jesy, Perrie says she’ll “always love her” but no longer wants to reconcile after feeling hurt by her documentary: “If I’m being completely transparent, part of me wanted to… until her documentary. Then part of me withdrew again. This is the thing: I’m not a horrible person, I haven’t got a [malicious] bone in my body, but I can cut you off. [Laughs] If you upset me and hurt me in a way [where] there’s not really any going back, I can forgive, but I don’t want you in my space. This is what I’m learning in therapy: there’s capability and there’s capacity. I only have a certain amount that I can cram in – I have my career, my relationship, my friends, things going on… personal things, public things, everything. I don’t have the capacity for somebody like that in my life anymore. That might make me sound like a bitch, but I just don’t have the energy for it. As much as I will always love her, I don’t think I can hack that energy in my space. You can’t fix people. They’re set in their ways – and clearly they don’t think there’s anything wrong with [those ways] – so you think, ‘Okay! You do you and I’ll do me and that’s that.’”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2064647958751068270/amplify_video_thumb/2064647230745677824/img/6rdThuJIgieQw8Pu.jpg)
When asked if she thinks she’ll ever rekindle her friendship with Jesy, Perrie says she’ll “always love her” but no longer wants to reconcile after feeling hurt by her documentary: “If I’m being completely transparent, part of me wanted to… until her documentary. Then part of me withdrew again. This is the thing: I’m not a horrible person, I haven’t got a [malicious] bone in my body, but I can cut you off. [Laughs] If you upset me and hurt me in a way [where] there’s not really any going back, I can forgive, but I don’t want you in my space. This is what I’m learning in therapy: there’s capability and there’s capacity. I only have a certain amount that I can cram in – I have my career, my relationship, my friends, things going on… personal things, public things, everything. I don’t have the capacity for somebody like that in my life anymore. That might make me sound like a bitch, but I just don’t have the energy for it. As much as I will always love her, I don’t think I can hack that energy in my space. You can’t fix people. They’re set in their ways – and clearly they don’t think there’s anything wrong with [those ways] – so you think, ‘Okay! You do you and I’ll do me and that’s that.’”
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Cheryl reacts to finding out Kelly Rowland out Little Mix together
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JADE subtly references Ed Sheeran’s recent controversy while accepting the ‘Artist Impact’ award: “I love standing for something and using my platform and voice to show other women to not be afraid to be bossy or opinionated or loud. I love using my voice for good – whether that’s being an ally to the LGBTQ+ community, supporting charities I work with, or not being afraid to have a political opinion. For me, it’s all about being the pop star my younger self really needed to see and hear and look up to, so I really think Little Jade would be proper chuffed to know that she’s ended up with this award. Thank you.”
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Perrie addresses the fake viral video of her waving at Zayn while singing Shout Out To My Ex: “That wasn’t real, it was edited! But how good would that have been if it was real? Never been in the same room since the breakup, but that would’ve been iconic.”
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Perrie says she’s “sad” she couldn’t enjoy her pregnancy with Alanis because she was too “on edge” following her two miscarriages: “When I was pregnant with Alanis, I was just on edge the whole time. All I did was eat. I gained 4.5 stone of comfort food. Every appointment, my stomach felt like it was doing somersaults. Every appointment wasn’t enjoyable. And that upsets me, because I love being pregnant. I love the feeling of it, I love carrying a baby. I feel powerful, I feel untouchable. It’s wild how you feel. I’m sad that during the pregnancy, I didn’t get to enjoy it fully until the very end, because I was just always on edge.“
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![JADE says she still revisits Little Mix’s discography but admits she skips some songs: “There are some songs that I do skip, but for the most part, it’s a whole lot of gaggery. There’s a song called Oops [featuring Charlie Puth] that I despise.”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2090816552455008640/amplify_video_thumb/2090816292290732032/img/vr9nB5DpT2RstFfS.jpg)
Perrie says her current relationship is “the reverse” of her previous relationship, as they “very rarely argue” and she no longer feels like she has to “walk on eggshells”: “Little things might happen and I’d think, ‘Oh no, he’s gonna kick off.’ One point, my ex reached out, and I didn’t know how to the handle the situation cause I’d been with Alex for like, a year-and-a-half/two years. I remember sweating and panicking, thinking, ‘I’ve got to tell him that I spoke to him’, and I remember being terrified. I told him everything and he was like, ‘Okay, well I really appreciate you telling me. Thank you for letting me know. That’s fine.’ And that was it. He’s always been like that, and I think I needed that.”
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KATSEYE’s Lara and Megan dance to Salute by Little Mix: “representing all the mixers 🖤”
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![JADE describes the “nerdy” approach she took to writing Little Mix’s DNA: “DNA was our second single. I remember writing it very well. I was only 18 or 19 and I’d just come out of college, so I was very much in student-mode. I literally drew a body and [labelled] all the words and terms of the body to figure out what lyrics to put in the song – which is very [nerdy] of me, but I've always been a bit like that. I treat everything like a school project!”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2091152269743951964/amplify_video_thumb/2091151873847832576/img/xMZGjatcmZxzpmpW.jpg)
JADE describes the “nerdy” approach she took to writing Little Mix’s DNA: “DNA was our second single. I remember writing it very well. I was only 18 or 19 and I’d just come out of college, so I was very much in student-mode. I literally drew a body and [labelled] all the words and terms of the body to figure out what lyrics to put in the song – which is very [nerdy] of me, but I've always been a bit like that. I treat everything like a school project!”
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![Perrie discusses ‘Gabriela’ by KATSEYE: “You know that was meant to be a Little Mix song? I was obsessed with it. And we passed on it. Well… one of us did. Not me, not JADE, not Leigh-Anne… But [KATSEYE] smash it, I’m glad they got it! But we loved that song so much.”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-1973666347327561882/amplify_video_thumb/1973666204129665024/img/JD9UKPn-qaZt78t_.jpg)
Perrie discusses ‘Gabriela’ by KATSEYE: “You know that was meant to be a Little Mix song? I was obsessed with it. And we passed on it. Well… one of us did. Not me, not JADE, not Leigh-Anne… But [KATSEYE] smash it, I’m glad they got it! But we loved that song so much.”
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Perrie opens up for the first time about experiencing two miscarriages and losing a baby 6 months into pregnancy: “The first time it happened, I think because it was so early, I was like, ‘Aw, that's sad’. But I think when you're fully carrying and you’re 24 weeks and you've planned out that room and all these things, it's really hard. I’ve never spoken about it before because I end up a wreck. Nobody knows other than immediate friends and family. And I remember shortly after, friends would message and be like, ‘How's bump?’ And I'd be like, ‘There isn’t one.’ It was just a lot.”
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JADE performing her new single ‘Church’ on The Graham Norton Show
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Perrie admits she’s “frustrated” by how Jesy Nelson has portrayed the breakdown of her relationship with Little Mix, adding that she feels the group consistently tried supporting Jesy at the cost of their own mental health, and that accountability should be taken on all sides: “Sometimes you just won’t win with people. And what annoys me the most… I have to be careful how I say this because I don’t want to seem like a bitch… But what upsets me the most when situations like this happen is when the other person doesn’t take any accountability. That boils my blood. I’m not blaming everything on you [Jesy]. I’m not saying, ‘She’s this fucking monster and everything was her fault’ and blah blah blah. But take some accountability for your actions and realise you were difficult. You did have difficult moments. Granted, there were reasons for those moments... but you can only pick somebody up so many fucking times before you start losing track of your own sanity. You want to be there for that person, but if they can’t accept the help and they can’t accept the love you’re trying to show, how do you win? You can’t. I hate that. I don’t like putting the blame on people. Don’t put the blame on me and make me out to be something that I’m not. Yes, I’m not perfect. I might not have been there enough, or I could have done better I suppose… but I thought what I was doing was enough. I thought I’d tried everything. So to then sit there in further interviews and discuss it publicly and be like, ‘I wasn’t supported’… You were, though. You were. So just take some accountability and I’ll feel better about it. I’d say [I’m] more frustrated than angry, because I don’t like being painted into a person that I’m not. Because I’m an open book, I have to be real. It exhausts me when I see people that I know inside and out not being genuine. It frustrates me.”
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![Perrie is asked about reaching out to Jesy Nelson following her twins’ SMA diagnosis: “I think [after] everything we’ve been through as a group, even though it ended in ways I wouldn’t have wanted and we’re not that close anymore and not in each other’s lives, we’ll always have that weird connection. Seeing Jesy go through that… it broke me. As much as we’ve got our issues, I don’t want to see her go through that. I don’t want to see her hurting. I don’t want to see any of that. It’s heartbreaking.”](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2064601421903741275/amplify_video_thumb/2064601311190863872/img/hcw0G7RDjITX5AiL.jpg)
Perrie is asked about reaching out to Jesy Nelson following her twins’ SMA diagnosis: “I think [after] everything we’ve been through as a group, even though it ended in ways I wouldn’t have wanted and we’re not that close anymore and not in each other’s lives, we’ll always have that weird connection. Seeing Jesy go through that… it broke me. As much as we’ve got our issues, I don’t want to see her go through that. I don’t want to see her hurting. I don’t want to see any of that. It’s heartbreaking.”
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