
Ms. Malissia
@Ms_Malissia • 30,027 subscribers
Mentor of Feminine Authority, writer and Founder of the Mistress Mindset Brand & The Dominatrix Academy https://t.co/TzMu8nmHhT
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The misconceptions around BD|SM are generally coming from ignorance. When we think of how many times people engage in "vanilla" s3xual activities without having any communication, trust or safety established before, we can imagine the damage that causes... But nobody talks about that, as from the outside, it seems all so "normal". What I find normal is for human beings to have a desire to explore themselves, physically, psychologically, emotionally and therefore s3xually. And BD|SM offers a safe and consensual environment, where through a power dynamic we can embody different sides of ourselves and explore our limits. So many of us have limits that have been put upon us, from fears inherited and passed on. In this realm we get to push our own unique limits and to define what they are, to us. It wouldn't be "normal" for every single person to have the exact same limits, levels of tolerance, in pleasure and in pain. And pain allows us to discover the liminal space between our inner and outter world, which is defined by personal limits and boundaries... which are only determined once reached. This conscious self-exploration is rooted in rules and rituals, which can lead to overcoming of fears, as it requires courage to move through them, and leads to confidence in this outside world -once the scene is over. It can be a healing, transformative and even spiritual experience to dive into this type of practice with mindfulness and a true desire to connect to our innermost desires, outside of the fears and the shame that gatekeeps them.
Ms. Malissia41,268 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren
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You don't want to NEED subs! A conversation inspired by a 1:1 session I had with a Domme.
Ms. Malissia19,360 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

THE MISTRESS EXPERIENCE is a 5 day immersive FemDom event to celebrate the Graduates of The Dominatrix Academy. We are hosting it in one of the most famous villas in Spain from July 3-7. We are looking for 10 submissives who are service-oriented to join us and experience 24/7 servitude. To join? You have to go through the online submissive training SUBSPACE. Apply here:
Ms. Malissia16,089 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
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Trigger warning ⚠️ Listen with an open mind 🙏 Sometimes speaking about taboo subjects on the internet, with the intention to destigmatize them and dismantle stereotypes, feels like walking with stilettos in the middle of ruins. But even if my feet are shaking, I am mindful of each step and walk with conviction and confidence, because I know that what I share is of service to those ready to hear me. So many people ask 'why do people want to engage in BDSM?' Most people who don't understand why, actually believe it is rooted in trauma. Or... share their concerns about the sanity of kinksters. Or simply feel curious about the root of such unconventional intimate practices. Well... after years of playing professionally in this Realm, it is only when I became a Mother (I was out of the industry as a Practionner and only Mentoring) that I had the biggest breakthrough in terms of this question... WHAT IS IT REALLY ABOUT? I shared my perspective in different groups and classes to test my theory and see how it is received. I was quite uncertain at first, as I know the kind of backlash we can get from associating anything related to childhood and the ę/rotic. But since people associate BD|SM with childhood trauma all the time, I wanted to offer an alternative perspective. So take this as my personal opinion and not the absolute truth. What if... it was connected to our memories of safety and security experienced while we were still unconscious little beings, that were taken care of by loving parents that used a lot of equipment and behavioural educational tools to protect us? What if the deep feeling we seek is one of being seen, taken care of, secured, kept safe while being disciplined and punished from someone we trust has our best interest at heart...? This exert is from the BD|SM Framework (Module 4) of the Domınatrix Academy: the Foundations of BD|SM Play through a FemDom perspective. It is available inside DOMME SPACE now and I am thinking of having it as it's own Masterclass! Please join the conversation and share your comments, perspective, thoughts, and let me know if you are curious to learn more about this taboo subject! LIKE & RETWEET IF YOU AGREE 🤍
Ms. Malissia13,626 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

DOMINATRIX ACADEMY TESTIMONIAL Lady Lilith Lotus is the true embodiment of the Goddess Lilith. A Woman who knows what she wants and who will not submit/give up no matter what challenge comes her way. What truly marked me was the way she lead herself during the journey of The Domınatrıx Academy. She actually showed up later than everyone, but she did not let that define the outcome of her path. When she decides something, she will see her vision come through. That showed from the second she heard about the Mistress Experience and booked everything without even needing to get on a call, how she arrived already fully prepared for her photoshoots, executing on her ideas, up until the moment she had her evaluation and got to bring to life one of her fantasies. It is a woman that seizes the opportunities when they present themselves, knowing what she wants and pursuing it with determination and grace. I have been so impressed to witness her as a student and as a Domınatrıx. This woman is not only very well-spoken, seductive and the incarnation of a truly powerful Goddess, but a gift to the community of Dommes and to her future subs. Thank you for your beautiful testimonial @ladylilithlotus 🤍
Ms. Malissia10,894 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

Congratulations Queen Patricia Pleasure Toy Queen for winning the ultimate Mıstress Toy/Tool Box from @upko_officialnew, the big prize for being a ⭐️student during DA3! The Pleasure toy box for the Pleasure toy Queen, how fitting 🤩 And thank you so much for this heartfelt testimonial of your experience during the Academy! 🙏🤍 It was an honour to guide you on your Mıstress Journey and witnessing you implement all you learn so fast! Next round there will be another winner at the end of the journey! 🏆 Apply for DA4 at 🥂
Ms. Malissia11,089 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

DOMINATRIX ACADEMY GRADUATE Dayanara V A L E S K A shares about her experience in the Academy. From the first moment I connected with Domme Dayanara, I knew this women was a really powerful woman. The kind that exudes natural self-confidence. The kind that makes everyone feel like they can be themselves and they are safe around her. So needless to say that having this type of Presence in DOMME SPACE was truly a gift, to me and the whole community. But that is not even what most impressed me with this laser-focused badass woman. It is her consistency. She entered DOMME SPACE holding her Belonging like a whip on her shouler... she knew she was meant to be amongst Us. But that was not just show off. She remained legendary from that moment, through the whole Program of the Domınatrıx Academy, all the way up to the pivotal point of coming to Spain for the Graduation Ceremony. She already had left an impression. Meeting Her, only solidified it. Watch out world, because General Domme Dayanara is onto big things and she came here to PLAY in the big leagues. I am honored to be your Mentor Dayanara V A L E S K A 🤍👑
Ms. Malissia10,717 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
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My Mistress journey taught me - To own my light. To embrace it. To own my power. To hold it. And to play with it. A woman who has Erotic power is a woman who can't be fucked with. A woman who has Monetary power is a woman that can't be kept on a financial leash. A Woman who has embraced her light, her fire, her power, has ultimate Sovereignty over herself. I desire for every women to experience her power in this way. That is what Divine Domme Awakening is about. Your Divine Feminine Power. Join us on January 24th for a transformational journey of remembering how powerful you are.
Ms. M A L I S S I A11,968 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren
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