Ms. Malissia
@Ms_Malissia • 30,027 subscribers
Mentor of Feminine Authority, writer and Founder of the Mistress Mindset Brand & The Dominatrix Academy https://t.co/TzMu8nmHhT
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The misconceptions around BD|SM are generally coming from ignorance. When we think of how many times people engage in "vanilla" s3xual activities without having any communication, trust or safety established before, we can imagine the damage that causes... But nobody talks about that, as from the outside, it seems all so "normal". What I find normal is for human beings to have a desire to explore themselves, physically, psychologically, emotionally and therefore s3xually. And BD|SM offers a safe and consensual environment, where through a power dynamic we can embody different sides of ourselves and explore our limits. So many of us have limits that have been put upon us, from fears inherited and passed on. In this realm we get to push our own unique limits and to define what they are, to us. It wouldn't be "normal" for every single person to have the exact same limits, levels of tolerance, in pleasure and in pain. And pain allows us to discover the liminal space between our inner and outter world, which is defined by personal limits and boundaries... which are only determined once reached. This conscious self-exploration is rooted in rules and rituals, which can lead to overcoming of fears, as it requires courage to move through them, and leads to confidence in this outside world -once the scene is over. It can be a healing, transformative and even spiritual experience to dive into this type of practice with mindfulness and a true desire to connect to our innermost desires, outside of the fears and the shame that gatekeeps them.
Ms. Malissia41,268 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren
![The subject of 'owning a slave' is dense. It is something we hear a lot when we are in the FemDom Realm. Is it just fantasy? Can it actually be a lifestyle? How do we navigate this type of dynamic? How do we even get to that level of D/s? In this short clip [Exerpt from SLAVE TRAINING Part 2] I want to already bring to your attention one thing that will define if your desire for a slave (or desire as a slave) is touching more on a fantasy or... how can you actually navigate this in a realistic way. No one person 'can do it all' or should be expected to. If you want your slave to be 'the best' , assign them a specific role in which they can excel... and then build upon that. Once they 'master' your housekeeping (which takes quite a bit of real training), they can move to other levels. And an important note I want to leave here... make them EARN access to certain things in your life that sometimes you just want to delegate because you don't want to manage or don't know how to manage. Entrusting them with serious tasks that can affect your life, your business, your reputation, are on top of the ladder. Are they even qualified for the thing you want them to take off your shoulders? Start small and allow them to grow in their submission, to develop their skills and to learn how to best satisfy you without setting them up for failure by expecting too much, too quick. In the end, if you want this to truly work, you have to approach it from a place that transcends the roles. As this is consensual power exchange. And you both want to be fulfilled in that relationship.](https://image.24vids.com/tw-2024607322354434443/ext_tw_video_thumb/2024607017210441729/pu/img/Gb0sS-jDF3Qob_x9.jpg)
The subject of 'owning a slave' is dense. It is something we hear a lot when we are in the FemDom Realm. Is it just fantasy? Can it actually be a lifestyle? How do we navigate this type of dynamic? How do we even get to that level of D/s? In this short clip [Exerpt from SLAVE TRAINING Part 2] I want to already bring to your attention one thing that will define if your desire for a slave (or desire as a slave) is touching more on a fantasy or... how can you actually navigate this in a realistic way. No one person 'can do it all' or should be expected to. If you want your slave to be 'the best' , assign them a specific role in which they can excel... and then build upon that. Once they 'master' your housekeeping (which takes quite a bit of real training), they can move to other levels. And an important note I want to leave here... make them EARN access to certain things in your life that sometimes you just want to delegate because you don't want to manage or don't know how to manage. Entrusting them with serious tasks that can affect your life, your business, your reputation, are on top of the ladder. Are they even qualified for the thing you want them to take off your shoulders? Start small and allow them to grow in their submission, to develop their skills and to learn how to best satisfy you without setting them up for failure by expecting too much, too quick. In the end, if you want this to truly work, you have to approach it from a place that transcends the roles. As this is consensual power exchange. And you both want to be fulfilled in that relationship.
Ms. Malissia12,836 Aufrufe • vor 6 Monaten
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THE MISTRESS EXPERIENCE is a 5 day immersive FemDom event to celebrate the Graduates of The Dominatrix Academy. We are hosting it in one of the most famous villas in Spain from July 3-7. We are looking for 10 submissives who are service-oriented to join us and experience 24/7 servitude. To join? You have to go through the online submissive training SUBSPACE. Apply here:
Ms. Malissia16,089 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
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You don't want to NEED subs! A conversation inspired by a 1:1 session I had with a Domme.
Ms. Malissia19,360 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
Being Dominant means being the One in Control. Some people love it and some hate it, but either way, there is always someone in control and the areas where you are not the one in control, are where you have given that control to someone else! Being the one in control means being the one people TRUST to lead, to be in charge. And for us to hold that responsibility, we gotta be not only comfortable with that role, but to love it! To want it. Control holds negative connotations, yet if it is exerted by someone with positive intentions, it is very healthy. It means you trust yourself and don't need to rely on others to direct you. NOT being in control means chaos. It means helplessness. It means inability to make decisions. Or to take initiatives. It means you are the one that follows. And if that is what you actually desire you have to be conscious of that choice. Otherwise you fall into that role and then wonder why nothing goes as you want. And if you choose to follow, choose your leader wisely. There always is someone in control, someone in charge, someone that leads. There is always a power dynamic. Truth is, we feel safe with those in control. Especially when they show us that them being in that role is positive for us. But so many people trust others more than they trust themselves! Which means being constantly influenced by everyone else's option and advice... which makes then the ones in control of your life! Decide WHO you want to take control when you want or need it, but also choose when YOU should be The One in charge. Developing that self-trust requires radical self responsibility. Which is what people struggle with. Nobody wants to be responsible for anything. And then we blame everyone for why our lives are not what we want them to be. And if you DO want to dominate, start by controling your own Self, your own thoughts, your own life. You can't expect others to trust YOU if YOU don't. Think about it... those that are in control are the people that have the most influence in the world. So if conscious people who desire to create a positive change take more control/responsibility, it would literally change society as we know it.
Ms. Malissia18,397 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren
The CUNTENT CREATION CHALLENGE started today! DOMME SPACE is your #1 online community for Mıstresses, where we have a private yet global Network of hundreds of Alpha Women, both Lifestyle, Pros, beginners and highly experienced. Every month we have Live events - classes, trainings, Guest speakers, and Mastermind Calls - available to all our Pro Members, and a Mistress Happy Hour for all our Members to connect and Network. And August is all about building online momentum on your social platforms! Visibility and presence are key components to be found and to build trust with your fans, which is how you get to connect with them and have them book you for sessions, join your fansites, send you tributes and gifts, etc. Boosting your online presence = boosting your income. Some do SFS, we are running this challenge to learn how to create sexy and SFW content, while all supporting each other grow in the FəmDom space. I am co-hosting this challenge with my Domme Sister, the one and only GoddessSultanaAisha who is a Mıstress who has Mastered dominating in the online space (and beyond). You will have direct access to both of us through Telegram, where we will be reviewing the content, giving feedback, offering guidance and tips ! By joining you also get access to all the VIP features. Comment or DM me 'DOMME SPACE' for the link! And if you are joining the new round of The Domınatrıx Academy starting on the 8/8, well.. you automatically get access to the Membership for 6 months! Let's make 2025 the year you took the space that belongs to you 😈 online and beyond.
Ms. Malissia10,964 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
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Trigger warning ⚠️ Listen with an open mind 🙏 Sometimes speaking about taboo subjects on the internet, with the intention to destigmatize them and dismantle stereotypes, feels like walking with stilettos in the middle of ruins. But even if my feet are shaking, I am mindful of each step and walk with conviction and confidence, because I know that what I share is of service to those ready to hear me. So many people ask 'why do people want to engage in BDSM?' Most people who don't understand why, actually believe it is rooted in trauma. Or... share their concerns about the sanity of kinksters. Or simply feel curious about the root of such unconventional intimate practices. Well... after years of playing professionally in this Realm, it is only when I became a Mother (I was out of the industry as a Practionner and only Mentoring) that I had the biggest breakthrough in terms of this question... WHAT IS IT REALLY ABOUT? I shared my perspective in different groups and classes to test my theory and see how it is received. I was quite uncertain at first, as I know the kind of backlash we can get from associating anything related to childhood and the ę/rotic. But since people associate BD|SM with childhood trauma all the time, I wanted to offer an alternative perspective. So take this as my personal opinion and not the absolute truth. What if... it was connected to our memories of safety and security experienced while we were still unconscious little beings, that were taken care of by loving parents that used a lot of equipment and behavioural educational tools to protect us? What if the deep feeling we seek is one of being seen, taken care of, secured, kept safe while being disciplined and punished from someone we trust has our best interest at heart...? This exert is from the BD|SM Framework (Module 4) of the Domınatrix Academy: the Foundations of BD|SM Play through a FemDom perspective. It is available inside DOMME SPACE now and I am thinking of having it as it's own Masterclass! Please join the conversation and share your comments, perspective, thoughts, and let me know if you are curious to learn more about this taboo subject! LIKE & RETWEET IF YOU AGREE 🤍
Ms. Malissia13,626 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
DOMINATRIX ACADEMY TESTIMONIAL Lady Lilith Lotus is the true embodiment of the Goddess Lilith. A Woman who knows what she wants and who will not submit/give up no matter what challenge comes her way. What truly marked me was the way she lead herself during the journey of The Domınatrıx Academy. She actually showed up later than everyone, but she did not let that define the outcome of her path. When she decides something, she will see her vision come through. That showed from the second she heard about the Mistress Experience and booked everything without even needing to get on a call, how she arrived already fully prepared for her photoshoots, executing on her ideas, up until the moment she had her evaluation and got to bring to life one of her fantasies. It is a woman that seizes the opportunities when they present themselves, knowing what she wants and pursuing it with determination and grace. I have been so impressed to witness her as a student and as a Domınatrıx. This woman is not only very well-spoken, seductive and the incarnation of a truly powerful Goddess, but a gift to the community of Dommes and to her future subs. Thank you for your beautiful testimonial @ladylilithlotus 🤍
Ms. Malissia10,894 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
Congratulations Queen Patricia Pleasure Toy Queen for winning the ultimate Mıstress Toy/Tool Box from @upko_officialnew, the big prize for being a ⭐️student during DA3! The Pleasure toy box for the Pleasure toy Queen, how fitting 🤩 And thank you so much for this heartfelt testimonial of your experience during the Academy! 🙏🤍 It was an honour to guide you on your Mıstress Journey and witnessing you implement all you learn so fast! Next round there will be another winner at the end of the journey! 🏆 Apply for DA4 at 🥂
Ms. Malissia11,089 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
DOMINATRIX ACADEMY GRADUATE Dayanara V A L E S K A shares about her experience in the Academy. From the first moment I connected with Domme Dayanara, I knew this women was a really powerful woman. The kind that exudes natural self-confidence. The kind that makes everyone feel like they can be themselves and they are safe around her. So needless to say that having this type of Presence in DOMME SPACE was truly a gift, to me and the whole community. But that is not even what most impressed me with this laser-focused badass woman. It is her consistency. She entered DOMME SPACE holding her Belonging like a whip on her shouler... she knew she was meant to be amongst Us. But that was not just show off. She remained legendary from that moment, through the whole Program of the Domınatrıx Academy, all the way up to the pivotal point of coming to Spain for the Graduation Ceremony. She already had left an impression. Meeting Her, only solidified it. Watch out world, because General Domme Dayanara is onto big things and she came here to PLAY in the big leagues. I am honored to be your Mentor Dayanara V A L E S K A 🤍👑
Ms. Malissia10,717 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr
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My Mistress journey taught me - To own my light. To embrace it. To own my power. To hold it. And to play with it. A woman who has Erotic power is a woman who can't be fucked with. A woman who has Monetary power is a woman that can't be kept on a financial leash. A Woman who has embraced her light, her fire, her power, has ultimate Sovereignty over herself. I desire for every women to experience her power in this way. That is what Divine Domme Awakening is about. Your Divine Feminine Power. Join us on January 24th for a transformational journey of remembering how powerful you are.
Ms. M A L I S S I A11,968 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren
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