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Ms. Malissia

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Mentor of Feminine Authority, writer and Founder of the Mistress Mindset Brand & The Dominatrix Academy https://t.co/TzMu8nmHhT

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In my world, being a Mistress is not a role you play, but an extension of who you are. It is the boldest version of us that leads from a place of Sovereignty. It is the Woman behind the persona, behind the limiting beliefs, under the layers of good girl conditioning. The Mıstress is the embodiment of that side of ourself that we have given permission to do what the fuck she desires, without apologizing, without asking for permission, without first thinking of 'what would people think'. She is Free from the invisible restraints holding us back from taking up the space that is ours, from speaking up our truth and from creating a life based on our desires. She is a Leader who first leads Herself. And most importantly, She is a Woman of Influence. If you want to be part of a community of Mıstresses (from that definition) I recommend joining DOMME SPACE. Tomorrow we are having a Masterclass on Mıstress Leadership you won't want to miss! That space is for Visionary Leaders of all walks of life. Professional Dommes, Lifestyle Dommes, Women on a mission, curious Women who are on a path of exploring the depth of their power, Business Women and Women who love being in a femme-powered room filled with other badass Women. Message me to get in, so we can start planning your next moves.

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In my world, being a Mistress is not a role you play, but an extension of who you are. It is the boldest version of us that leads from a place of Sovereignty. It is the Woman behind the persona, behind the limiting beliefs, under the layers of good girl conditioning. The Mıstress is the embodiment of that side of ourself that we have given permission to do what the fuck she desires, without apologizing, without asking for permission, without first thinking of 'what would people think'. She is Free from the invisible restraints holding us back from taking up the space that is ours, from speaking up our truth and from creating a life based on our desires. She is a Leader who first leads Herself. And most importantly, She is a Woman of Influence. If you want to be part of a community of Mıstresses (from that definition) I recommend joining DOMME SPACE. Tomorrow we are having a Masterclass on Mıstress Leadership you won't want to miss! That space is for Visionary Leaders of all walks of life. Professional Dommes, Lifestyle Dommes, Women on a mission, curious Women who are on a path of exploring the depth of their power, Business Women and Women who love being in a femme-powered room filled with other badass Women. Message me to get in, so we can start planning your next moves.

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DOMMES ARE BOSSES But sometimes, there are Business related challenges in this very niche industry that can lead to being the slave of the Business behind the scenes. Well that ends now. I am launching a 3h BUSINESS CALL for ProDommes where we will be having a NEXT LEVEL talk! More info coming soon!

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DOMMES ARE BOSSES But sometimes, there are Business related challenges in this very niche industry that can lead to being the slave of the Business behind the scenes. Well that ends now. I am launching a 3h BUSINESS CALL for ProDommes where we will be having a NEXT LEVEL talk! More info coming soon!

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SOUND ON 🔊

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SOUND ON 🔊

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This used to be a very large dress, and now... look what I created! My Mistress Closet holds a lot of personal creations, who knows, maybe one day I will have my own fashion line! And I will call it HOUSE OF MISTRESS.

This used to be a very large dress, and now... look what I created! My Mistress Closet holds a lot of personal creations, who knows, maybe one day I will have my own fashion line! And I will call it HOUSE OF MISTRESS.

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THE GATES OPEN ON THE 5/5 at 5pm EST. Welcome to SUBSPACE. A virtual submissive training experience for those who desire to understand, explore and learn how to become the best submissive for a Domme. Like in a session, you have to follow the instructions and then you surrender in trust, to the experience. More information will be revealed as we go. Knowing everything at once defeats the purpose... you have to be comfortable not being in control. If you already know you are IN, comment: "Dear Mistress, I am ready to submit". And I will send you the link to book. This will be an exceptionally exciting and educational opportunity. LIKE & RETWEET 💋

THE GATES OPEN ON THE 5/5 at 5pm EST. Welcome to SUBSPACE. A virtual submissive training experience for those who desire to understand, explore and learn how to become the best submissive for a Domme. Like in a session, you have to follow the instructions and then you surrender in trust, to the experience. More information will be revealed as we go. Knowing everything at once defeats the purpose... you have to be comfortable not being in control. If you already know you are IN, comment: "Dear Mistress, I am ready to submit". And I will send you the link to book. This will be an exceptionally exciting and educational opportunity. LIKE & RETWEET 💋

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Omgggg so excited to launch THE MISTRESS CLOSET, we are almost done recording ! Here is some BTS 🫣 As I reveal more, price will raise, now there is very little info, so here is the link to get access to the masterclass at the lowest price:

Omgggg so excited to launch THE MISTRESS CLOSET, we are almost done recording ! Here is some BTS 🫣 As I reveal more, price will raise, now there is very little info, so here is the link to get access to the masterclass at the lowest price:

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The misconceptions around BD|SM are generally coming from ignorance. When we think of how many times people engage in "vanilla" s3xual activities without having any communication, trust or safety established before, we can imagine the damage that causes... But nobody talks about that, as from the outside, it seems all so "normal". What I find normal is for human beings to have a desire to explore themselves, physically, psychologically, emotionally and therefore s3xually. And BD|SM offers a safe and consensual environment, where through a power dynamic we can embody different sides of ourselves and explore our limits. So many of us have limits that have been put upon us, from fears inherited and passed on. In this realm we get to push our own unique limits and to define what they are, to us. It wouldn't be "normal" for every single person to have the exact same limits, levels of tolerance, in pleasure and in pain. And pain allows us to discover the liminal space between our inner and outter world, which is defined by personal limits and boundaries... which are only determined once reached. This conscious self-exploration is rooted in rules and rituals, which can lead to overcoming of fears, as it requires courage to move through them, and leads to confidence in this outside world -once the scene is over. It can be a healing, transformative and even spiritual experience to dive into this type of practice with mindfulness and a true desire to connect to our innermost desires, outside of the fears and the shame that gatekeeps them.
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The misconceptions around BD|SM are generally coming from ignorance. When we think of how many times people engage in "vanilla" s3xual activities without having any communication, trust or safety established before, we can imagine the damage that causes... But nobody talks about that, as from the outside, it seems all so "normal". What I find normal is for human beings to have a desire to explore themselves, physically, psychologically, emotionally and therefore s3xually. And BD|SM offers a safe and consensual environment, where through a power dynamic we can embody different sides of ourselves and explore our limits. So many of us have limits that have been put upon us, from fears inherited and passed on. In this realm we get to push our own unique limits and to define what they are, to us. It wouldn't be "normal" for every single person to have the exact same limits, levels of tolerance, in pleasure and in pain. And pain allows us to discover the liminal space between our inner and outter world, which is defined by personal limits and boundaries... which are only determined once reached. This conscious self-exploration is rooted in rules and rituals, which can lead to overcoming of fears, as it requires courage to move through them, and leads to confidence in this outside world -once the scene is over. It can be a healing, transformative and even spiritual experience to dive into this type of practice with mindfulness and a true desire to connect to our innermost desires, outside of the fears and the shame that gatekeeps them.

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You don't want to NEED subs! A conversation inspired by a 1:1 session I had with a Domme.
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Trigger warning ⚠️ Listen with an open mind 🙏 Sometimes speaking about taboo subjects on the internet, with the intention to destigmatize them and dismantle stereotypes, feels like walking with stilettos in the middle of ruins. But even if my feet are shaking, I am mindful of each step and walk with conviction and confidence, because I know that what I share is of service to those ready to hear me. So many people ask 'why do people want to engage in BDSM?' Most people who don't understand why, actually believe it is rooted in trauma. Or... share their concerns about the sanity of kinksters. Or simply feel curious about the root of such unconventional intimate practices. Well... after years of playing professionally in this Realm, it is only when I became a Mother (I was out of the industry as a Practionner and only Mentoring) that I had the biggest breakthrough in terms of this question... WHAT IS IT REALLY ABOUT? I shared my perspective in different groups and classes to test my theory and see how it is received. I was quite uncertain at first, as I know the kind of backlash we can get from associating anything related to childhood and the ę/rotic. But since people associate BD|SM with childhood trauma all the time, I wanted to offer an alternative perspective. So take this as my personal opinion and not the absolute truth. What if... it was connected to our memories of safety and security experienced while we were still unconscious little beings, that were taken care of by loving parents that used a lot of equipment and behavioural educational tools to protect us? What if the deep feeling we seek is one of being seen, taken care of, secured, kept safe while being disciplined and punished from someone we trust has our best interest at heart...? This exert is from the BD|SM Framework (Module 4) of the Domınatrix Academy: the Foundations of BD|SM Play through a FemDom perspective. It is available inside DOMME SPACE now and I am thinking of having it as it's own Masterclass! Please join the conversation and share your comments, perspective, thoughts, and let me know if you are curious to learn more about this taboo subject! LIKE & RETWEET IF YOU AGREE 🤍
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Trigger warning ⚠️ Listen with an open mind 🙏 Sometimes speaking about taboo subjects on the internet, with the intention to destigmatize them and dismantle stereotypes, feels like walking with stilettos in the middle of ruins. But even if my feet are shaking, I am mindful of each step and walk with conviction and confidence, because I know that what I share is of service to those ready to hear me. So many people ask 'why do people want to engage in BDSM?' Most people who don't understand why, actually believe it is rooted in trauma. Or... share their concerns about the sanity of kinksters. Or simply feel curious about the root of such unconventional intimate practices. Well... after years of playing professionally in this Realm, it is only when I became a Mother (I was out of the industry as a Practionner and only Mentoring) that I had the biggest breakthrough in terms of this question... WHAT IS IT REALLY ABOUT? I shared my perspective in different groups and classes to test my theory and see how it is received. I was quite uncertain at first, as I know the kind of backlash we can get from associating anything related to childhood and the ę/rotic. But since people associate BD|SM with childhood trauma all the time, I wanted to offer an alternative perspective. So take this as my personal opinion and not the absolute truth. What if... it was connected to our memories of safety and security experienced while we were still unconscious little beings, that were taken care of by loving parents that used a lot of equipment and behavioural educational tools to protect us? What if the deep feeling we seek is one of being seen, taken care of, secured, kept safe while being disciplined and punished from someone we trust has our best interest at heart...? This exert is from the BD|SM Framework (Module 4) of the Domınatrix Academy: the Foundations of BD|SM Play through a FemDom perspective. It is available inside DOMME SPACE now and I am thinking of having it as it's own Masterclass! Please join the conversation and share your comments, perspective, thoughts, and let me know if you are curious to learn more about this taboo subject! LIKE & RETWEET IF YOU AGREE 🤍

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