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"toxic perma-hater", "rad-lib", "wrecker", "woke of the day" (multitime), "mean", "hostile" "CIA'S dumbest soldier" Trans elder (mid 30s) 🌶️@Stefanygirlnow

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Here's the full clip. "I support trans women because they are my only matches on tinder. They are my future" That's a position that you end up in by choice. And that's fine. 90% of society would not date a trans woman. That means this guy is further ahead than most people. Including a lot of trans men, according to the rest of the bit. We are still the butt of the joke though, because the humor lies in the "self-depricating" way that he would be settling for a trans woman, despite that being what he obviously desires. It's particularly unsettling because of the implication it carries for those future relationships. A situation where a man feels like he is "settling" for a woman means he sees her as less worthy of respect than other, better women. That attitude is what Lundy Bancroft identifies as the attitude from which misogynistic abuse originates.

Here's the full clip. "I support trans women because they are my only matches on tinder. They are my future" That's a position that you end up in by choice. And that's fine. 90% of society would not date a trans woman. That means this guy is further ahead than most people. Including a lot of trans men, according to the rest of the bit. We are still the butt of the joke though, because the humor lies in the "self-depricating" way that he would be settling for a trans woman, despite that being what he obviously desires. It's particularly unsettling because of the implication it carries for those future relationships. A situation where a man feels like he is "settling" for a woman means he sees her as less worthy of respect than other, better women. That attitude is what Lundy Bancroft identifies as the attitude from which misogynistic abuse originates.

Stef Girl 🏳️‍⚧️

1,094,731 views • 28 days ago

We need to rally behind this woman, she is putting herself in a very vulnerable position to advocate for our people and receiving very little support in the face of hostility from those with more privilege

We need to rally behind this woman, she is putting herself in a very vulnerable position to advocate for our people and receiving very little support in the face of hostility from those with more privilege

Stef Girl 🏳️‍⚧️

220,589 views • 25 days ago

Maybe.... We aren't trying hard enough. Have we considered this?

Maybe.... We aren't trying hard enough. Have we considered this?

Stef Girl 🏳️‍⚧️

202,532 views • 1 month ago

They apologized (and I watched it multiple times to bring you this clip cause I ran out of memory on my phone the first time) I do think it's important to remember these are humans who deserve space to learn and grow. I also noticed they put a lot more time and energy into addressing lesbians and bi women than us. Unsurprising.

They apologized (and I watched it multiple times to bring you this clip cause I ran out of memory on my phone the first time) I do think it's important to remember these are humans who deserve space to learn and grow. I also noticed they put a lot more time and energy into addressing lesbians and bi women than us. Unsurprising.

Stef Girl 🏳️‍⚧️

79,136 views • 1 month ago

They are misrepresenting this tension. It's not "enbies didn't suffer enough" or "aren't trans enough", but it IS "you aren't qualified to speak on that". If your struggle is lesser, and you get up there, present your own experience, and say "this is what it's like, that's the whole picture", you're doing erasure. If you want to make things better for younger trans people, you do need to know when to sit down and check your ego.

They are misrepresenting this tension. It's not "enbies didn't suffer enough" or "aren't trans enough", but it IS "you aren't qualified to speak on that". If your struggle is lesser, and you get up there, present your own experience, and say "this is what it's like, that's the whole picture", you're doing erasure. If you want to make things better for younger trans people, you do need to know when to sit down and check your ego.

Stef Girl 🏳️‍⚧️

43,926 views • 1 month ago

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