This is a typical example of “while men slept”.... Make we sha no dey do watin go cary us go hell fire ooo 😒. God abeg!!! First of all, Imisi is not an “uneducated Yoruba woman”, as you said. She's proud of who she is, who God has made her, and most importantly where she came from (Ebute Meta), she never hides it for once, she carry am for head like gala. Let's get it straight abeg! You can excuse everything with fancy words, but let’s not twist facts to suit our narrative, remember, everyone is watching: Faith dragged a pot, insulted Imisi as “uneducated Yoruba alubosa (onions)” reduced her to his maid at home. At least, if he doesn't respect Imisi, he should respect the person (his maid at home) who cares for him at home. I have attached the video of the part that was deliberately left out, you can watch it in case you missed it. That wasn’t just a slip, it was aimed to degrade her. Imisi has always been the bigger person, laughing off insults that would break others. If Imisi does not appear as the most glamorous housemate, we believe that does not make her less of a woman, and the narrative of “in real life she can never near me” and I'm happy to tell him that in real life their path will never cross too if not for the show✌🏾 Imisi is more than their taunts, she is talented, strong, and hearty. Come what may, she will continue to stand up for herself in the face of it all with her TEN TOES DOWN!!! #ImisiAyanwale #BBNaijaS10 #BBNaija cc: Big Brother Naija MultiChoice Groupshow more

I genuinely cannot understand how someone can watch this... story and still stand there, looking at two women, and somehow decide that the wrong one is the victim. On one side, you have a girl (Yıldız) who has been mistreated her entire life. Since the moment she was born, she was treated like a sacrifice for a conflict she was never even part of and later we find out that this conflict never even existed. Her right to study was taken from her. She was pushed into a marriage at a very young age just imagine being six, seven, eight years old, living in fear of being tied to someone you don’t even know. She was treated like a servant in her own home, by the very people she thought were her family. And just when she gets close to the happiness she dreamed of, the man she was engaged to shows up with another wife. She gets mistreated by that wife, by his family, and even (unintentionally) by him, because he was trying to run away from his own feelings, and that only caused her more heartbreak. The whole world was literally against her. She fought through all of that, only to find out in the end that everything she suffered for was based on something that wasn’t even real. Her entire life was built on a lie. That she isn’t even part of that family that she has literally no one in this world. Now on the other side… You have a girl (Melek) who, yes, was taken from her biological mother but she was raised by loving parents. She had everything anyone could wish for: education, freedom, a happy childhood, a healthy environment. She lived her life, fell in love, went out, made choices and no one questioned her, no one controlled her. And then what did she do? She found out that her man was engaged to another woman before marrying her (and even saw him marry her) and instead of holding on to her dignity, she chose to stay, to fight for a man who lied to her, to hold onto a marriage he tried to end multiple times. She used her unborn child to keep him tied to her. She lied constantly, and her excuse was that she was “protecting her marriage” a marriage that was already broken from the moment Serhat removed that ring at the airport in episode one. She tried to hand Yıldız (a woman who had already suffered enough) over to dangerous people. Then she found out the truth about her own birth (that her father ra*ped her mother.)And still no empathy. No moment of humanity toward her own mother. All she cared about was herself. And even though none of this had anything to do with Yıldız, she still found a way to blame it on her. Instead of holding her father accountable, she went and made a deal with him to get rid of Yıldız. She literally made a deal with the devil just to hurt Yıldız one more time. And after all of that… you want me to feel sorry for her? You want me to call her a victim? I honestly cannot believe we are living on the same planet with people who see this and still say, “she’s the victim.” Not morally. Not logically. Not emotionally. There is no world where this makes sense. It’s like watching someone clearly cause harm, and still calling them the victim and actually BELIEVING it. #HalefKöklerinÇağrısıshow more

Guys will see this kind of thing and think... it’s instruction, but they don’t read the fine print: 1️⃣ This girl is married yet still posting thirst traps online 2️⃣ She is clearly ADVERTISING herself for someone; someone who is NOT the husband (the husband already has her!) 3️⃣ Further, she is bragging about what she is able to get her husband to do and how easy she has it (i.e., he is way more invested in her than she is in him) Many men assume that, “The easier and more comfortable I make life for my woman, the more indebted to me she’ll be for all that comfort and ease, the more grateful she’ll be for how spoiled rotten I’ve made her, and the less motivation she’ll have than ever to look for other guys!” This assumption is based on one very WRONG misunderstanding of women, however: That what women really want is ‘stuff’. Material comforts. ‘Nice things’. It is easy for men to get this misunderstanding, because women will constantly tell you they DO want ‘stuff’. Just like how children will tell you they want stuff: • “I want this present!” • “Will you buy me that gift?” • “A new version of that came out! Can we get it?” But if you spoil a child rotten, that does not make the child ‘forever grateful’ to you. Likewise, spoiling a woman rotten does not make her forever grateful either. The harsh reality is a woman’s loyalty has NOTHING to do with how much or how little you spend on her. You can spend on her if you want to and if it makes you feel good. But you should treat it like charity; it is like giving alms to the poor. That is, it is not an action you should expect anything back from. You can spoil her rotten but still have her posting thirst traps online, showing herself off and advertising for other men. (In this chick’s other videos, she shows herself getting a nose job, and looking at the camera flirting and ignoring her man even when he is on camera next to her paying her attention. This husband is a placeholder.) Likewise, you can spend nothing on her at all yet have her be fiercely devoted to you. If you want a woman to actually be LOYAL to you: ✅ She needs to do things for YOU. She needs to work hard in the relationship. She needs to invest in it. She needs to be putting thought into how she is going to keep you satisfied. ✅ She needs to be getting it from you hard enough in the bedroom that she is so sexually sated she doesn’t even want to think about other men or feel any need to bother to act outwardly flirtatious in public to entice other men in. ✅ She needs to be at least a little more attentive to you than you are to her. There is no such thing as ‘true equality’ except in the imagined world of Platonic ideals. In reality, someone will always be working a little harder to gain the other’s attention. For an actual healthy relationship, the one working a little bit harder MUST BE the woman! Again: buy her stuff if you really want to. But, like spoiling a child rotten, don’t delude yourself thinking that, “If I keep her comfortable enough, she’ll be so happy and loyal!” There is ZERO relationship between “spending on her” and “keeping her in-love and loyal.” These two things are completely unrelated. Her devotion stems from her feeling invested in you, not the reverse.show more

Today is Kayoko's birthday! She does not talk much,... and she tends to act as if she already knows everything before it even needs to be said. It is not that she has no emotions — she simply has no particular interest in letting them show, and at some point, the teacher has probably come to understand that. She does not mind being misunderstood, moves when she needs to, says what she has to say in as few words as possible, and considers that enough. When the teacher reaches out to her first, she does not push them away, but she does not exactly welcome them either — and somehow, that careful, precise distance she keeps is the part that tends to stay with you. Maybe today is a good day to close that distance, just a little. #BlueArchiveshow more

People are trying to make sense of why Reform... have put forward Laila Cunningham as their candidate for Mayor of London. Is she a real Muslim? Is Reform containment? The simplest answer is that Cunningham is only interested in politics as a path for self-promotion. She's a grifter. She saw Reform are likely to form the next government, rote-learned the slick "British values" talking points to get ahead in a party desperate to not be called racist, and was pushed as the progressive-proof face of the party. Everything she does is to increase her personal advantage. She made headlines with her "supermum" citizens arrest stunt. She was in favour of hate crime legislation when it benefitted her. She wrote Woke poetry about how London's diversity was its strength — words which could have come straight from the mouth of Sadiq Khan. Then she jumped aboard the Conservatives when they were in power. She took selfies with everyone she could, because it was more important to be seen at functions than to be actually doing anything. She went to Pride and hosted the first Iftar event as a Councillor for Westminster North. The contradictions don't matter. She doesn't believe anything consistent. These are just the rituals of being a part of liberal political circles. The passwords you have to speak to be part of the club. It gatekeeps in favour of shameless grifters. She only pulled out of being the Conservative Parliamentary candidate for Rotherham right before the 2024 election. What connection does she have to Rotherham? None, since she loves London so much that she's always lived there and wants to be Mayor. She just took the seat as a nonwhite Muslim woman, until she realised she couldn't win and it would damage her future prospects. We shouldn’t trust Cunningham. Not just because she's a Muslim, and both the British right and public at large don't like Islam. We shouldn’t trust her because her entire political career appears to be about making her famous. She wants to be in power and on camera for the sake of it. She isn't really all that interested in philosophy or policy. Otherwise, she wouldn't be reciting insults like "far right" or pushing the incoherent platitudes of "British values", because neither stand up to scrutiny. It's a grift. And if we want an effective right-wing in this country, we shouldn’t reward it.show more

"My mother raised four kids and buried a husband... and built a life entirely with her own hands. Last week she turned 80 and moved into assisted living. She was allowed to bring one thing that wasn't furniture. Every single one of us assumed she would bring Dad's photo or her china or the quilt she's had since 1987. She looked at all of us and she said — 'I'm bringing Bruno.' Not one of us said a single word. Because not one of us could argue with that. Because Bruno has slept beside her bed every night for seven years. Because when Dad passed Bruno didn't leave her side for two weeks. Because she is 80 years old and she has earned every single choice she makes and this one was never a question." We helped her move in on Thursday. She directed everything. Where the lamp goes. Which books on which shelf. Dad's photo facing the bed so she sees it first thing. Bruno's bed went in first. Before anything else. She told my brother — "Get his bed in there first. Everything else can wait." When we left that afternoon Bruno was already on his bed with his chin on her quilt like he'd lived there his whole life. My sister called me on the drive home. She couldn't finish a sentence. Neither could I. We are not sad about this. We want to be clear about that. Mom is okay. Mom is more than okay. Mom walked into that room like she walks into every room — like she owns it and is prepared to improve it. We are crying because of the chin on the quilt. We are crying because she is 80 years old and she has been through everything and when they told her one thing she didn't hesitate. Not the china. Not the photo. Not the quilt. Bruno. Drop a ❤️ for Mom. And one for Bruno who has been her one thing for seven years without knowing it.show more

This woman is a single mother who has a... job as a delivery driver for a company that has a Fed Ex route contract. She relies on this job to support her and her kids. She just found out that the company she works for lost the contract and they will all be out of a job in about a month. She found out from someone else, not the company that she works for. 🤯 She is considering just taking her load back and walking out. This happens quite often in the delivery service field. Companies like Amazon and Fed Ex deliveries are contracted out and if those contractors don’t meet certain standards they can lose the contract. 💯 It’s possible the new contractor will hire her but nothing is guaranteed. My son just went through this a couple of years ago and they did not hire most of the drivers over to the new company. Many people told her not to quit, to stick it out and to go apply with the new company asap. She said if they don’t hire her it is just wasted time in getting a new job. She’s upset because she feels it is disrespectful of her company not to let them know personally and give them time to find a new job. I wouldn’t make matters worse. She needs the money. Stick it out and start looking for a new job. Did you know this happens regularly in the delivery service field, that contractors lose the contracts all the time and people lose their jobs?show more

#Chrisean Speaks on why she doesn’t wanna be too... Booked & Busy! She loves her Junior so much 🥺👩🏽‍🍼💙✨ && some of y’all always wanting her to be so transparent with y’all, but when she does, y’all can’t handle it, How y’all gonna not like Blue for things he done in the past, just to get on here bashing her for choosing to do what she felt like she should in this moment, she said if it didn’t work out she would go home and continue to take care of her son, she’s not slow, && she is aloud to try and choose peace and give chances, we live and learn, And to the ones that unfollowed her, stay gone, it just shows how you wasn’t rocking w/her fr more real supporters will come.show more

Caitlin Clark’s Coach pulls her out of the game... in college. This is where the monster was created. Her college Coach was weak and passive, and her WNBA Coaches are suffering for it. No one can coach this chic. She does not respect ANY form of authority. She talks to officials like they’re dogs. She talks to coaches like they’re dogs. She literally thinks that EVERYone is beneath her. THIS is why so many players in the WNBA dislike her, and why they are coming for her THROAT. Go ahead. Make your excuses. Just competitive fire, right? Look at how terrified her Coach is in this video. She looks like she’s afraid of getting punched! Stephanie White has the job of trying to correct a petulant child who has NEVER received correction. This is not a Coach’s job. This is a PARENT’s job!show more

I've been refraining from addressing this person because frankly... she's irrelevant to my life, even though she's been obsessed with me for years. But her recent uptick in psychotic behaviors finally warrants a post. Jess Machado could not be any more accurate if her life was on the line. Just dropping truth bombs like it's Christmas morning. If I were Aidan, I would invest in a state of the art security system equipped with cameras at every angle, nuke my devices, make the switch to a Droid (make fun of me all you want), get a private security detail, and sleep with one eye open for the rest of my Goddamn life. Meredith "Swimfan" O'Neil should know that I know so much more than she could ever imagine about the crimeS she's been committing. People have been flooding my DMs (and phone calls 😉) with unsolicited evidence of everything she's done (from the last 3 years; to her antics after her lackluster publicity stunt of a relationship ended when she was dumped; to her most recent activities). I know who has helped her. I have people who want to testify under oath against her. I have. It. All. This woman deserves no sympathy. She's been conning everyone on the internet since she first sunk her teeth into the prey she had been stalking for a year prior. She knew what she was getting into with Aidan as she sought him out in JAIL. She knew he was a womanizer. She chose that, thinking she was "different" and better than everyone around her. The sweet innocent act never fooled me for a second. But it fooled many others. I'm going to make sure it never fools anyone again.show more

3. Home must always be a safe place for... your children. Please, let your children know they can always come back home from a toxic and abusive marriage. Do not condemn them to fated marriages however it turns out. Nobody retires from parenting. You will always be a prent to your child. Please do not allow anyone kill your child in the name of marriage by not opening your door for them to return home. My mother is a grandmother and she still has a room in her parents house. Anytime she visits home, she stays in her room. If at any point she wanted to leave my father, she has her room waiting for her untouched. I also stay in her room anytime I visit my grandparents. We the kids have the same assurance that we can always come home if the world turns out negatively. It is important for your child to have that sense of security. This also applies in relationship and marriage. In choosing a partner, one primary factor you must consider is that you look forward to going home to them because in their presence you find peace and warmth in spite of the chaos outside and for every finite moment you spend with them, the world makes sense for you.show more

This has always confused me. She tributes to Her... dad about never giving up on her and her mom for being her strength in her high school yearbook post. But yet she always says her dad left her after the divorce and her she never had a strong female figure. She said her grandmother on her deathbed asked her to forgive her mom. She said her grandfather was the only male in her life. And she was kicked out at 14. Had to live with a boyfriend and pay for herself. So is she lying about her childhood? Why didn’t she say thank you to her grandfather she says raised her and taught her everything about being who she is? Does it seem weird to you or am I just being a Candace and reading too much into this? How does she say it? It’s not sending me the right vibes.show more

What the heck is this?🤨 First, Meghan Markle’s audio... quality is horrifically bad and not even amateur, it’s worse than that. The part about Lili is barely understandable. It’s also so fake with her standing in the fake kitchen with a pristine white apron, which reinforces the idea that she doesn’t cook nor cares about her products. And the stupidity of continuing to believe that claiming her hostages, err family, can help sell these spreads by sharing their favorites is cringe in the extreme. For pete’s sake, she needs to show that her products are useful for something, beyond a scone and fingerprint cookies if she wants the crap to sell. You got it give it to her, she is trying, but she’s so out of her depth it’s as painful as listening to that tinny audio. Seriously, this woman is supposed to be a producer and can’t even get the audio right for a short Instagram video, which is both over produced and somehow under produced at the same time. It boggles the mind. 😵‍💫 She is well and truly running all of this and it REALLY shows.show more

Today is Reisa's birthday! The ace, the hero, the... judge, the knight, the star, and probably a dozen more titles she has yet to announce, but just for today, maybe it is okay to simply call her Reisa. She is always the first to rush in and the loudest voice on the scene, yet on the way home she quietly worries whether she might have been a bother. It is not that she feels no fear. She charges in despite it, and that is what makes her truly remarkable. Whether she is dozing off on a bench or flashing a fearless grin while holding out a challenge letter, it is all the same person and the same sincerity. Why not visit her first today, Sensei. For someone who is always the one making the entrance, a day where someone comes to find her first might be the best gift of all. #BlueArchiveshow more

This is why I felt so out of it.... 10 years today. I take solace in the fact that my mother loved us well and did her best for us. She was a fighter, protector and provider. She endured harassment by the SAP in the Apartheid era to keep us safe. She was the keeper of secrets, my secrets in particular. She loved all of us equally and never spoke a bad word about one of my siblings to me. She endured the loss of a child with dignity and later in life would be the matriarch of the family. Keeping us together when it seems we were drifting apart. Whoever came to visit, never left empty handed. I remember Geraldine and Jasper , adopted kids that she fed and nurtured through their formative years. She was there at my lowest points in life and never failed to support me.. She could cook up a storm in the kitchen and sew dresses for us and if Matthew Duiker would allow it she would make him an underpants. The death of my brother almost destroyed her, but again she rose from the ashes to keep the home fires burning during the most terrible times her life. She loved all her grand kids equally and often talked of Cheyenne and Edwynne and just wished she could see them. Go in peace my sweet mother. Till we meet again. Hamba Kahle. lala uxolo. Sheila May Duiker nee Peters.show more

Let’s talk about RESPECT. You know how rare it... is to find someone who’s had a life goal since childhood to just help people? Nicki Minaj has done that. Her impact is multi-generational. She has CHANGED countless lives globally through her work and philanthropy When no one else dares to speak up in the face of adversity, SHE DOES. That level of selflessness and courage is why I look up to her Putting others first is the most respectful thing you can do. As she goes to address the United Nations today please always remember that #UnitedNationsBarbieshow more

Hah Meanwhile this sociopath... this is the THIRD time... that this Meghan burner account has posted this same pic to pretend William EVER wanted Meghan😵‍💫 Meghan and her fans always lie, edit pictures and video to justify their envy of the Wales. The video clearly shows William never gave Meg a second look, He never did ever in life. Poor Megsy will never get over the fact she is not Catherine and that she is married Harry not William. Donkey, bye, it was never you and will never be you🤭 Meghan's obsession with William is clearly documented in pictures and facts. The fact that she continues till today to stalk and repeat everything he says and does, is clear to see too🤷🏽‍♀️ Wallis 2.0 will never get over the fact that William was so repulsed by her and her cheap advances and evil soul, he made sure she is never around him or his family again😏 #MeghanMarkleisaLiar #StayawayfromMarriedMenshow more