Avoidant attachment simply put…

Worst experience ever being around these people, don’t bother getting close to them they will throw you away every time

She doesn't have a "sense of self " of herself. Worse is that after pushing you away, she goes on to cry to the world that you're just like everyone else that comes and goes. Now that she's saying this, one would think she'd work on herself and not repeat this but SHE WILL.

Yep they push you away, then when you leave they say see everyone leaves.

Reassurance goes a long way with someone of this nature. Had issues with this stemming from childhood, reassurance does wonders. Counseling too lol

Let an anxious-attachment someone find themselves partnered up with this avoidance… Shege 😭

This can be seen as a defense mechanism. It comes from a few things such letting the wrong people in too many times. Also, being abandoned before will put you in this space. Such as a parent abandoning you etc. I know because I dwelled in this space for years w/o knowing what it was called. You have to heal past this in order to experience love and life the way we are meant to.

How do you deal with these type of people,, should one just leave them alone?

we now discussing bad manners as some sort of "style"....we trying so hard to define certain things that jst shouldn't be coz its plain...nothing more to it

Damn.. That’s sad.. Imagine being a prisoner of your own life.. Because you are scared, scared to try.. scared to be vulnerable.. that’s the worst thing you can do to yourself… In my own opinion.. such actions come with regret.. as you get older.