Bafwethu nay'inkinga

Eish was reading ama comments on some video on tik tok, people sharing their stories how they regret ukulungisa emakubo, than starting with themselves. Yoooo the stories were sad man, especially to those who lost their jobs and no one is willing to help them🥺

@still_Madam It’s worse if you don’t have a child or children. They’ll keep asking what you do with your money and why you’re working if you can’t give them that money. Sometimes you have to be selfish. For your own sanity.

I agree with her, families can be so toxic and they emotionally blackmail you if you choose yourself r

Why ekhuluma ngami 😭😭😭 From buying, coming ziphikile, feeding them, others eating drugs and alcohol, building from the ground ekhaya now Nathi it’s not a family land. Lapho abafana all above 30s kunini this needs a vn. This year got lasts iPhone and changed my car. I’m happy they can eat the the wall if they wish, yes I am a bad person today.

@TheJustCaused Unfortunately this is the reality in most families 🤞

Nami bandla ngiyavumelana no sisi.

I once bought a window glass at home January, when I come back for June holidays that glass was waiting for me to install it. Then there was a broken door handle 😢😢. Thulani anazi lutho kunzima ukuba i responsible sibling.

As for "Inkqayi ezixwebileyo"😂😂. Usisi keyena is 💯

"Umntu ofun'iTile makayithenge!" Asitolikwa.

Uyitye yonke my sister 🤝🏾

No lies detected.

Kubuhlungu ukuba nomthwalo ongazilandelanga wona . She spoke for all of us

"Umamele aba bamatshanda" 🤣🤣🤣

Asitolikwa

She ate... lm afraid

Aba bamatshanda 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

A collegue says he stopped investing too much back home because 1. Despite his visible contributions over the years, he was sidelined & parents' favourites and their kids were embraced and more welcome in the same home he was upgrading. Some parents are VERY devisive and toxic.

Ja she definitely bought the IPhone.

I can attest to her sentiment; nothing is as painful as not having a supportive family. Ufake kitchen unit ubuye yonke iminyango itshekile eminye iphumile.

That’s what I did since 2017 kubiwe I Cement , cables and isanti ithengisiwe!!2022 I lived my own life shame sorry

Kweminye ubenzela something kufike their favorite kuthiwe njoba nibona nje usbanibani wena ungabalwa nakancu

IsiXhosa esingaka

Thats True, my dad squandered his pensions and came back, now he doesn't want us to touch the house as its the only thing he owns and always alluded to waiting for our moms passing...God forbit!

Ngiyayithanda-ke lempempe, yinhleee. Oyaziyo angiphe i @

This is true,im living proof i always replace things i once bought,not because they got old but because they sold by my brother just to spite me,I hav stopped everything I buy now is to make my self happy our 55th ketile broke in Feb,I told them to boil water with a pot m tired

She grew up in a rough family...

@NtombiShibe Awu Nkosi 🙏🏾🙌🏽

Mina bandla ngihambile, angikhulumisi muntu!

Good girl

Thank you sis.

I can relate Shem 😭😭😭

This is a reality of most children in black families. It's actually bad. I hope the new generation will change this nonsense. The old generation failed their children. Idc.

Sister you said it all 🙏

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