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Chase Hughes drops the wildest self-improvement hack: Become so self-forgiving it’s almost delusional. “Most people look back with regret and shame… Get so forgiving of everything you’ve ever done that it’s like delusional to the point where it’s just crazy. You get to a point where everything is fine... show more

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Lizzie Liz6 ay önce

This is called Radical Self Acceptance — and it becomes even more powerful with a clear process: See it → Own it → Forgive it → Learn from it → Accept it with gratitude. The guilt is the illusion. The mistake was just a teacher. I take it one step further — I try to say thank you the moment a challenge arrives, before I even know what it’s here to teach me. Just a quiet: “I don’t fully understand this yet, but I trust it’s here to help me grow.” That one shift changes everything. You stop resisting and start receiving. The present moment opens up and suddenly there’s room to actually learn. 🙏

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This is only good if the forgiveness flows from Jesus Christ, who not only forgives, but empowers us through the Holy Spirit to REPENT, which doesn't mean to hate ourselves but to change and make amends. Without Christ, this is just a very convenient way to excuse the inexcusable.

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Coldst6 ay önce

Also known as being a toddler. Unbelievably destructive in an adult relationship. Yes, it can work if you never forget the lesson but way too many people are incapable of remembering the lesson. To make this work, the person has to change their habits (permanently) and generally people don’t. Grow up first, feel the pain as that is how humans learn, and only when you know you aren’t doing the same (or similar behaviour/habit) then you can forgive yourself.

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David Bostrom6 ay önce

A Christian take on this is that God's forgiveness allows us to forget what lies behind and press forward to what lies ahead (Philippians 3:13).

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SecretAgent696 ay önce

So if you raped someone, just forgive yourself! Amazing! It's actually "hilarious". Brilliant. So easy. Nothing like living detached from reality in "delusion". What's the point of Life? Are we here to embrace reality or escape it?

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Clipsleuth.com6 ay önce

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Horton6 ay önce

This example is not very specific or instructive.

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George Buffet6 ay önce

sounds like a psycho talking

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Andreas Valentin6 ay önce

If this is true, is this what ancient people figured out and what Jesus also represents? Complete forgiveness?

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TheTruthRevealer6 ay önce

Well its very simple to dumb it down, why are you upset over what happened any further than yesterday when you’ve been given the opportunity to see what you can do better today.

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Jamie Bass6 ay önce

This is true! Biblically, Love the Lord your God with all your heart, and Love your neighbor as yourself (Mark 12:31). You have to love yourself (in Christ's forgiveness and live in His righteousness) before you can love others. This is a MAJOR secret to peace and joy.

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Rick Colby6 ay önce

Currently undergoing this exact same thing. Must be a natural part of aging to do a life review while you’re still alive.

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Amigo Joe6 ay önce

thief on the cross playe the hate game then wised up played hey Jesus that salvation thing immortality thing does that apply , even to me

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Amigo Joe6 ay önce

thief on the cross

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This applies to ppl who are basically good but beat themselves up for minor things or big things that were out of their control or mistakes that they are truly sorry for. I know too many terrible people who easily justify their terrible actions. They are legion &have power& money

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Steve de L'Escalier6 ay önce

I'm not so sure that this is great advice to be giving people, but Chase Hughes doesn't seem to be very concerned with what's good for society. Having a great financial quarter doesn't make up for how much harm one person can do with this mentality.

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alphonceg6 ay önce

Sociopaths think like that

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Springblade 🇺🇸6 ay önce

Great stuff, ty.

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Substantial evidence supports the claim that Chase Hughes has lied about or grossly exaggerated his military past, experiences, credentials, and expertise. Multiple independent investigations (including by a former CIA officer and a behavior analyst) have compared his public statements to verifiable records and found clear discrepancies. This isn't minor embellishment—it's a pattern that undermines his "government brainwashing/interrogation expert" persona. Claimed Background vs. Reality Military Service (the core issue): Hughes repeatedly describes 20 years in the U.S. Navy (retiring ~2019) as an interrogation specialist, psy-ops expert, human behavior analyst, and trainer for top intelligence agencies. He claims he developed tools like the "6MX system" (gold standard for tradecraft), had top-secret clearance to improve intel after the USS Cole attack, taught "ethical brainwashing" and persuasion to elite operators, attended interrogation/SERE schools, and tied his entire behavior work to official military/intel roles. Actual record (from his released OMPF service file): He was a Quartermaster (QMC rating)—a navigation/ship operations and maintenance role. Duties included basic seamanship, boat docking, harbor work, underwater drone platoon management, and some jail-guard shifts (locking doors, feeding prisoners, paperwork). He reached Chief Petty Officer late in his career and was medically discharged (heart issues). No intel, interrogation, psychology, or behavior-related duties whatsoever. People who served with him confirm this. No evidence of the claimed schools, clearance for psy-ops, or official training roles. Ex-CIA HUMINT veteran Kent Clizbe (who previously exposed real frauds like Wayne Simmons) calls this "stolen valor-adjacent"—Hughes implies elite operator experience while his record shows mundane non-intel work. He never had access to the high-level ops he describes. Education & Early "Expertise": Claims Harvard neuroscience/neuro-endocrinology education (sometimes "Harvard-educated neuroscientist") + Duke Medical Neuroscience, plus Government Leadership certification. Reality: Short paid executive courses or certificates at best (e.g., a continuing-ed Harvard program anyone can buy into). No full degrees or formal neuroscience training. His hypnotherapy certs are entry-level and open to anyone. Pre-2010s, he was selling a pick-up artist book (The Passport, 2007) and a supplement (RedShift/"Neuridium") with false claims it was used by "all branches of the U.S. Armed Forces" and had "international recognition." No evidence he was a known behavior expert until podcasts boosted him in the late 2010s. His "Behavioral Table of Elements" and other systems have zero independent verification of government/FBI adoption.

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Really there are only 2 choices. Forgive yourself to move forward cleanly, or keep repeating the fear of repeating the mistake in your head. I have embarrasing moments reappear occasionally. I think it's a fear of repeating the mistake.

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Heather Haddad6 ay önce

This has been so helpful for me. In my case, it’s asking God for forgiveness and then believing that, to paraphrase scripture, if confess my sins, He forgives them. Point blank. This does involve true repentance though,so it’s believing that I am changing for the positive as well

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ConservativeHippie6 ay önce

It sounds like narcissistic behavior actually.

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I'm really not sure about this guy.

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This is wonderful, but may I suggest that you try and include that you are not just forgiving yourself, which may seem a coping skill/ psychological reset, but that God truly does forgive each of us our shortcomings, and loves us despite, and maybe because, of them.

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Frank Fieldhouse6 ay önce

He says to do this to the point that it’s “almost delusional.” But then, he throws out the qualifier, saying, “It’s delusional.” We may trick our egos, but reality keeps the score, and unconscious dissonance will manifest in surprising and damaging ways. Yes, “It’s crazy.”

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Gypsy6 ay önce

Thank you

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Martin Dirker6 ay önce

Haha. Pretty cool.

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kara frances6 ay önce

It helps to remember the nazis who love demons are out ta getcha so all things considered yr kinda smashing it !

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Anji Long6 ay önce

Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I’ll give that a try…. Lol. 💜💖

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Michael B6 ay önce

Treat yourself like your own mother would. Forgive everything. You didn't know any better. Now you do.

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EdKo6 ay önce

Radical self-forgiveness works not because the past deserves it but because the shame was never processing the event - it was just replaying it.

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Josh Chambers

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Olivia Miles on being embraced by WNBA fans for being her authentic self. “It’s special, a lot of people mistake my confidence for arrogance, and I don’t know why because a lot of successful people in this world are probably the most confident people in themselves… I wish more people had that sort of confidence to just not care, but I understand it’s not easy. So if I can be a role model to someone to just say “F- it” and not care what people think, like literally it’s a sign of freedom, it’s a sign of you doing you, and you playing outside the box and breaking the rules a few times and pushing the lines, I think that’s how we grow as a society. It’s a little uncomfortable but once you get comfortable with yourself everything else will be fine”

Olivia Miles on being embraced by WNBA fans for being her authentic self. “It’s special, a lot of people mistake my confidence for arrogance, and I don’t know why because a lot of successful people in this world are probably the most confident people in themselves… I wish more people had that sort of confidence to just not care, but I understand it’s not easy. So if I can be a role model to someone to just say “F- it” and not care what people think, like literally it’s a sign of freedom, it’s a sign of you doing you, and you playing outside the box and breaking the rules a few times and pushing the lines, I think that’s how we grow as a society. It’s a little uncomfortable but once you get comfortable with yourself everything else will be fine”

Andrew Dukowitz

84,288 görüntüleme • 2 ay önce

Clutch install hack that is a massive time saver. The struggle of balancing a clutch disc and pressure plate while lying on your back is a rite of passage for every person that ever tried this install—but it doesn’t have to be a struggle. If you’ve ever lost your alignment tool or find yourself working on a platform where the tool just won't stay seated, this zip-tie hack is your best friend. By "marrying" the disc to the pressure plate before you lift it into place, you’re essentially creating a single unit. Why this works: Perfect Centering: The ties keep the disc from sagging, ensuring it lines up perfectly with the pilot bearing. Weight Distribution: It’s much easier to handle one solid unit than two sliding plates. Solo Friendly: If you don't have a second set of hands, this is a lifesaver. Once you’ve got a couple of bolts started into the flywheel, just snip the ties, pull them through, and torque everything down to spec. It’s simple, it’s effective, and it costs about $0.05 in materials. Drop a "🔥" if you’ve used this before, or let me know your favorite shop hack in the comments!

Clutch install hack that is a massive time saver. The struggle of balancing a clutch disc and pressure plate while lying on your back is a rite of passage for every person that ever tried this install—but it doesn’t have to be a struggle. If you’ve ever lost your alignment tool or find yourself working on a platform where the tool just won't stay seated, this zip-tie hack is your best friend. By "marrying" the disc to the pressure plate before you lift it into place, you’re essentially creating a single unit. Why this works: Perfect Centering: The ties keep the disc from sagging, ensuring it lines up perfectly with the pilot bearing. Weight Distribution: It’s much easier to handle one solid unit than two sliding plates. Solo Friendly: If you don't have a second set of hands, this is a lifesaver. Once you’ve got a couple of bolts started into the flywheel, just snip the ties, pull them through, and torque everything down to spec. It’s simple, it’s effective, and it costs about $0.05 in materials. Drop a "🔥" if you’ve used this before, or let me know your favorite shop hack in the comments!

Chuckling Charlie

41,665 görüntüleme • 5 ay önce

Self-love? Absolutely essential. But Meghan Markle takes it to a level where it stops being empowering and starts being exhausting. It’s not self-respect anymore—it’s self-worship. The kind where everything has to revolve around her narrative, her truth, her spotlight. At some point, it’s less about inner peace and more about outer validation. There’s a difference between valuing yourself and thinking the world should orbit around you. Meghan didn’t just cross the line—she turned it into a runway.

Self-love? Absolutely essential. But Meghan Markle takes it to a level where it stops being empowering and starts being exhausting. It’s not self-respect anymore—it’s self-worship. The kind where everything has to revolve around her narrative, her truth, her spotlight. At some point, it’s less about inner peace and more about outer validation. There’s a difference between valuing yourself and thinking the world should orbit around you. Meghan didn’t just cross the line—she turned it into a runway.

Queen Esther

93,055 görüntüleme • 1 yıl önce

Tim Ferriss on the dangerous trap hiding inside self-help: Most people approach self-improvement the same way someone might prepare to play soccer, except they never actually get on the field. Tim describes this pattern in striking detail: "You want to play soccer but first you're going to read all the textbooks and get a master's degree and PhD in soccer and then you're going to practice dribbling and penalty shots and so on by yourself and you want to become as perfect a player as possible by yourself before you ever actually get on the field and play the game of soccer." The result? You begin to believe that practising alone is the same as playing the game. This is the hidden danger Tim calls the self-help trap, the implicit belief that you must fix yourself, do the work, and polish yourself to readiness before you can meaningfully engage with other people, relationships, or family. The problem is that it never ends. There's always another edge to smooth, another flaw to address. The self becomes a project with no completion date. As Tim puts it: "You're always polishing this self and it can become this real recursive dangerous trap, this fixation on the self." The real game, relationships, family, community is learned by playing, not by preparing to play. The friction, the discomfort, the messiness of showing up imperfectly with other people is the development. You can't practise your way into readiness for it in isolation. The irony of self-help is that taken too far, it keeps you away from the very thing you're supposedly preparing for.

Tim Ferriss on the dangerous trap hiding inside self-help: Most people approach self-improvement the same way someone might prepare to play soccer, except they never actually get on the field. Tim describes this pattern in striking detail: "You want to play soccer but first you're going to read all the textbooks and get a master's degree and PhD in soccer and then you're going to practice dribbling and penalty shots and so on by yourself and you want to become as perfect a player as possible by yourself before you ever actually get on the field and play the game of soccer." The result? You begin to believe that practising alone is the same as playing the game. This is the hidden danger Tim calls the self-help trap, the implicit belief that you must fix yourself, do the work, and polish yourself to readiness before you can meaningfully engage with other people, relationships, or family. The problem is that it never ends. There's always another edge to smooth, another flaw to address. The self becomes a project with no completion date. As Tim puts it: "You're always polishing this self and it can become this real recursive dangerous trap, this fixation on the self." The real game, relationships, family, community is learned by playing, not by preparing to play. The friction, the discomfort, the messiness of showing up imperfectly with other people is the development. You can't practise your way into readiness for it in isolation. The irony of self-help is that taken too far, it keeps you away from the very thing you're supposedly preparing for.

Kevin Tanaka

16,976 görüntüleme • 6 ay önce

Elon Musk: Humans get tired, get wasted, have arguments. Tesla self-driving will be 10X safer. “For anyone that's using Tesla self-driving, you can see the dramatic improvements where it's getting to the point where interventions are extremely rare. Eventually it'll get to the point where there really is no need to intervene. The car is going to be better than a human. It's worth emphasizing it's not that Tesla full self-driving will be equal to humans in safety. It will be ultimately 10 times safer than a human because it never gets tired. Humans get tired and sometimes get wasted, and we'll have arguments or change the radio or you know, text. I know no one in this audience would ever text while driving. That'd be crazy. But you know, it does happen. So the reality is that Tesla full self-driving will be vastly safer than humans. Not just equivalent. It will actually be vastly safer.” From: Tesla All-Hands, March 20, 2025

Elon Musk: Humans get tired, get wasted, have arguments. Tesla self-driving will be 10X safer. “For anyone that's using Tesla self-driving, you can see the dramatic improvements where it's getting to the point where interventions are extremely rare. Eventually it'll get to the point where there really is no need to intervene. The car is going to be better than a human. It's worth emphasizing it's not that Tesla full self-driving will be equal to humans in safety. It will be ultimately 10 times safer than a human because it never gets tired. Humans get tired and sometimes get wasted, and we'll have arguments or change the radio or you know, text. I know no one in this audience would ever text while driving. That'd be crazy. But you know, it does happen. So the reality is that Tesla full self-driving will be vastly safer than humans. Not just equivalent. It will actually be vastly safer.” From: Tesla All-Hands, March 20, 2025

ELON CLIPS

32,457 görüntüleme • 8 ay önce

track #4 in #COJSilakboTheAlbum is “bubog,” the 2nd song under the anger stage. it’s abt self-hatred; discovering how hard it is to love urself & to even look at yourself in the mirror; and blaming yourself for everything wrong that has happened. it’s that moment of hopelessness.

track #4 in #COJSilakboTheAlbum is “bubog,” the 2nd song under the anger stage. it’s abt self-hatred; discovering how hard it is to love urself & to even look at yourself in the mirror; and blaming yourself for everything wrong that has happened. it’s that moment of hopelessness.

gian

205,924 görüntüleme • 1 yıl önce

You do not have a past-self living within your mind or body. You only exist in this moment at the age you currently are with all that you've lived through. No part of you is a child. You cannot heal the 6-year-old self who was neglected. That neglect was very real if that's something you experienced. The pain you feel from that neglect, it matters and it's real. But only the 25 or 32 or 45 or 56-year-old self staring back at you in the mirror can actually be healed. And she can't be healed by you. The self cannot be both the problem and the solution. It's actually a power outside of you that can heal you as you are right now. Namely, it is the God who created you, who alone has the power to heal you and to help you. And yes, He speaks to you as His daughter, no matter your age, but not as a toddler. He sees and cares about your childhood, but He communicates to you as the adult you are, not as the baby that you were. The Christian approach to trauma is compassion. Yes, absolutely. But it is also the difficult Holy Spirit empowered work of finding our worth in Christ and forgiving those who have wronged us. This is where true liberation is found. It is not found from self-discovery and self-love. No amount of speaking to your inner child, which doesn't actually exist, will lead you down a path of lasting fulfillment. Counseling, in light of that truth, can be helpful and healing for the Christian, but no borrowing of New Age psychology will do.

You do not have a past-self living within your mind or body. You only exist in this moment at the age you currently are with all that you've lived through. No part of you is a child. You cannot heal the 6-year-old self who was neglected. That neglect was very real if that's something you experienced. The pain you feel from that neglect, it matters and it's real. But only the 25 or 32 or 45 or 56-year-old self staring back at you in the mirror can actually be healed. And she can't be healed by you. The self cannot be both the problem and the solution. It's actually a power outside of you that can heal you as you are right now. Namely, it is the God who created you, who alone has the power to heal you and to help you. And yes, He speaks to you as His daughter, no matter your age, but not as a toddler. He sees and cares about your childhood, but He communicates to you as the adult you are, not as the baby that you were. The Christian approach to trauma is compassion. Yes, absolutely. But it is also the difficult Holy Spirit empowered work of finding our worth in Christ and forgiving those who have wronged us. This is where true liberation is found. It is not found from self-discovery and self-love. No amount of speaking to your inner child, which doesn't actually exist, will lead you down a path of lasting fulfillment. Counseling, in light of that truth, can be helpful and healing for the Christian, but no borrowing of New Age psychology will do.

Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey

10,846 görüntüleme • 5 ay önce