Children change your life.

Children make you younger and your heart larger.

I knew all my life that I wanted nothing more than to be a father. Why? I'm privileged to have an amazing one, and I've always wanted to be just like him.

My 2 kids are grown now. I always put my kids first (as a single mom) and now I’m 52, trying to figure out how to live without them needing me as much. It’s a transition, but I wouldn’t change anything! Baseball, school carnival, teaching them to drive…..the happiest years of my life 💜

Our kids are the only evidence that we were ever here. So enjoy the ups and downs and raise them right.

FACTS! This was beautiful. You had me in tears thinking about my own kids and how I am so grateful that I raised them with tons of love, affection, oppertunity and respect while having so much fun despite a nasty divorce. Nobody is more important than the one thinks you are 🙏

My son changed my life the second he was in my arms out of the womb. From that day, everything I do is for him. I owe him everything, he owes me nothing

I completely agree, when I had my first daughter and I needed an emergency c-section all I wanted was to talk to my mom, after I had my daughter I cried to my mom a second time but because I finally understood how much she loved me. Having a child is having a piece of your heart outside of your body.

And this is why abortion is vile. It’s really about selfishness.

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Yes Sir this gets a repost of truth!!

You’re only ever as happy as your unhappiest’s child. Help them become strong and independent they are your replacements.

That's great and all but unfortunately there are no women left in the west who are wife material and mother material. A liberal society will never be a safe place for a man (especially white man) to raise a family.

Maybe let’s not try to convince the people that are telling you they would be horrible parents to have children. Children absolutely deserve loving parents but not everyone deserves to be a parent. And the life of a child is not a maybe that should be gambled on.

"A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they shall never sit". My daughter gave me the will to continue onwards with purpose. God willing the next eleven will do the same. It's a shame so many only think inwardly. Liberty is wasted on them.

They definitely changed my life, for the best!

Eh, I'm sure it can awaken something for some, but let's not pretend this awakens in all. It's clear a lot of mothers/ fathers never change, and remain selfish. Which points to it being more so related to intrinsic cognition & character. Even having nephlings can be eye opening.

Unless you get a bad child, can make your life hell.

Abortion is the epitome of a selfish act.

Well said and brilliant!! I was Single, and I had life by the balls,, Then I had my two daughters luckily the switch flips as it did for me ,,it's amazing if you're aware !! . Appreciate every second as it goes by quickly that love is irreplaceable ,, if that makes any sense❤️❤️

No doubt, the happiest days of my life were days spent with my kids, such pure love flowing both ways.

Spot on

This is beautiful more people should hear it

100%. I have 4.

OK, I understand that but for some people who don’t want children or who don’t really care to have that part of their lives that’s completely normal and fine not everyone needs to have kids, but I also understand what he’s trying to say here as well

I eventually got tired of living just for myself and started asking myself what’s the point in me existing just to please myself, just to consume, just to occupy space? And do I want to be lonely when I am old? I’m more tired but far more fulfilled, stronger, and more refined.

I am childless and I completely agree. But I will die alone so wishing you guys the Best

Please don't act like children are the best thing ever. Have you ever been in poverty? Disabled? People just silently agree that you, for some reason, are the devil and thus are not worthy of anything good? Have you ever dealt with chronic depression? Suicidal ideation? Any chronic conditions? Have you wanted children after these things? Especially all these things combined? Children are good, yes, bottom line - we're animals, of course we want to reproduce. We want to fuck like foxes in heat with the explicit intention to reproduce, that is why the concept of children is so attractive, it's in our system. You are abled, you have good income, you potentially have a partner, and you are healthy. Occasional flu doesn't count. Would you have children if there was a decent chance for them to have a cancer? Doctor says "I'm sorry, Mr gothdaddy, you have some gene that makes it 85% chance for your child to develop a cancer by the age of 10, and then it drops to an annual 80% chance. You'll need to be ready for chemo for the kid." Would you want children if there was a decent chance for them to get a disability? "I'm sorry, Mr gothdaddy, your child will probably develop medically resistant epilepsy within 20 years of his life. Nothing you do will make him have a normal life." Children are great and all, but only if they're healthy and abled. Otherwise you have to simulate normal childhood for them, and simulating will never be as good as the real thing. I turned into a cripple at 17. My hypothetical child will never have a normal childhood because he'll always worry about my seizures. He'll need to learn to care for me when I'm down, he'll need to care for me in my post ictal. Do I want children? Yes, but I also understand that I better not have any.

Children are a blessing but some people just aren't meant for that experience. I don't think it should be forced on anyone whose not interested nor should they be called out for it. It's a very difficult road as is, much more difficult if it wasn't your thing to start with.

Deep, and absolutely spot on.

Would love to have a family and children. Problem is most the women in the west are fuckin crazy and cant be trusted 🤷

I want to leave a legacy and have someone to eventually bury me.

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Its the best "meaning" I've found as well. Also, I only tacitly cared about heritage, politics, the future, etc until I had children. It reshapes everything. My parents could have done better in helping me understand the importance of those things. I am though.

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