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Communicating with someone who has avoidant tendencies doesn’t mean abandoning your needs and tolerating constant BS, it means learning to communicate in a way they can actually receive without abandoning yourself in the process. And it starts with learning to regulate before you communicate. 🌹 Need help with that... show more

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