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Dads matter. When it comes to child development we are still only beginning to understand the long term impacts of our early experiences. But a growing body of evidence suggests that our experiences during early childhood not only wire the brain for success but also powerfully shape our adult...

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*.·:·.✧Alice✧.·:·.*2 years ago

I love macho manly man dads who just melt like butter for their little ones.

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The Efficient Parent2 years ago

Moms are a requirement. But dads are too a requirement and clearly play an Important role in development and growth as kids age. HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO ALL DADS OUT THERE!

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Susan McLachlan2 years ago

My baby boy with his baby boy 😍

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Brian Reisinger2 years ago

Amen and thank you for posting this. I wrote about this exact issue this week for Father’s Day:

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Debs ヅ2 years ago

This breaks my heart in a thousand pieces. My daughters father would nót bé a father. He would get frustrated and very angry about responsibilities and having to spend time with her. This led to us splitting up. He’s sees her now and then. Always on his terms.

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KatECoolK2 years ago

I had the BEST dad. He celebrated my intelligence & encouraged my in my studies/career. He talked to me about principles & encouraged me to fight for them. He taught me how to change a tire, how to be kind/generous, & how to stand up for myself, b/c he ❤️ me. I miss him.

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Heather Beaven2 years ago

be Careful who you pro-create with … it matters! Nothing is better than watching a good man be a good daddy.

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Rocky Mountain Views 🪷💙🌊2 years ago

Kind dads matter. Loving dads matter. Abusive dads destroy.

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sunflower petals2 years ago

My mum tells me that as a very young baby I would hear my dads footsteps as he came home from work and get all exited. I miss my dad so much even after 27 years and I still have things I want to tell him about.

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Jason Barrett2 years ago

Happy Father’s Day! ❤️

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