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Dating 101!!! Sit back, read, think and adapt!!! Before You Commit, Take Time to Know the Person!!! Again, if you are a perceptive person, you will realize that no human being can pretend forever. People can pretend for a while, they can hide their weaknesses, control their reactions, say... the right things and show you only the parts of themselves they want you to see. But with enough time, life will eventually reveal them, pressure will reveal them, your disappointing them will reveal them, money will reveal them, success will reveal them, failing will reveal them. And sometimes, simply being around them for long enough will reveal who they truly are. This is why you should never be in a hurry to commit your heart, your future or your life to someone you barely know. Think about anything you truly understand. Whether it is a profession, skill, subject or even a hobby, deep knowledge usually comes from spending a great deal of time with it. You observe it, study it, ask questions, make mistakes, look deeper…. People are not different… You cannot truly know a person simply because you have been talking to them for six months or because you are deeply attracted to them. You know someone by paying attention to them over time, you listen to what they say, but you also watch what they do. You observe how they treat people (immediately family members) who cannot benefit them, you watch how they behave when they are angry, disappointed, broke, successful, sick, stressed or ignored. In love, you must do more than admire someone. You must study a person’s character and who they truly want to be. Ask questions & difficult conversations about money, family, children, faith, responsibilities, friendships, boundaries, sex, ambition, failure, and expectations. Do not be afraid to confront uncomfortable subjects. Someone who looks perfect when everything is going well may look very different when life becomes difficult. . . . Familiarity does not only breed contempt. Many times, familiarity gives you a deeper appreciation of a good person. The more reasonable you are as a human being, the more you understand that nobody is perfect. When you spend enough time with a good person, you begin to see their weaknesses alongside their strengths and you can decide whether those weaknesses are things you can genuinely live with. So please, take your time before you commit to someone. See them in different seasons of life… See them when they have nothing… See them when they have plenty… See how they behave when they are in control and when they are not… See how they treat people who cannot help them... See how they respond when they are told “no”… See how they view money… See how they handle disappointment… See how they speak about their former partners… See how they treat their parents, siblings, friends, children, workers and strangers… And just as importantly, allow them to see you finish too. Do not pretend to be someone you are not just because you want someone to love you. Let them see you when you are struggling, when you are uncertain, when you are successful, when you are tired and when you are not at your best. Some people are obsessed with control, some are selfish, some are driven more by money than love, some settle for you because of age, pressure, comfort, or financial security, some have mot healed from previous relationships, some carry trauma you can not deal with, some lack common. That is why time, observation, honest conversations and self-awareness matter so much in love. Take your time to know people!!!!show more

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Divine being, you have an old karmic lover who is desperately trying to rewrite old contracts and tap back into your energy and bind themselves to your blessings, your abundance and your protection because the karma for everything they’ve done to you is finally catching up to them. Hear me clearly- they were PERFECTLY fine doing you dirty but now that things are crashing down in there lives they realize that YOU were the very thing that was bringing in protection, true love, && abundance. It took some time but they are ready to admit that you were the one who got away. Be aware, it’s not because they changed or because they love you- it’s because their health is failing, they’re in legal troubles and life is giving them a dose of what they gave you. Keep your wits about you bc these ppl are so mad they want to destroy you and EVERYTHING attached to you bc they feel like YOU owe them something because of the karma they are receiving from what they did to YOU. I KNOW I KNOW… that makes no sense but keep your wits about you bc they’re willing to do ANYTHING to get next to you now and this is why you see them, hear them, and feel them around you. Up Your Protection &&& if you need help, my books are open. Full message on YT, link in description. I love you🍀🌿

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Cleveland Browns HC Todd Monken - Coaching NFL vs College Players - "I found it to just be the opposite (coaching NFL players). They want to be coached, they want to be great. They want to know you can help them achieve all their dreams and connect with them. You get out of it what you give. How do they see you, how do they see you as a human being and a coach." "Certainly your approach changes. You have to show them, show them the value (of what you're teaching)." "Embrace the players you do have not the ones you don't have. Get them better, fight like hell to do the little things right."

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I have been preaching 📌 As a man, you're above your woman which means you're her God on earth. So how do you expect her to see you when you're constantly lamenting to her about your problems? Women are hypergamous by nature, which is why they settle for men who are better than them because they see them in a position to lead and solve all their problems. Imagine God who you expect to solve your problem complaining to you about his problems, will you see him the same? It's not as if telling her your problems will do anything. Afterall, most men marry women from poor homes who have nothing to offer. So what exactly will crying to her do for you? Stop crying out to a woman or telling her your problems. All you're doing is making her lose attraction for you. You have male friends, so you can tell them your problems. Only them will understand you better without looking down on you.

I have been preaching 📌 As a man, you're above your woman which means you're her God on earth. So how do you expect her to see you when you're constantly lamenting to her about your problems? Women are hypergamous by nature, which is why they settle for men who are better than them because they see them in a position to lead and solve all their problems. Imagine God who you expect to solve your problem complaining to you about his problems, will you see him the same? It's not as if telling her your problems will do anything. Afterall, most men marry women from poor homes who have nothing to offer. So what exactly will crying to her do for you? Stop crying out to a woman or telling her your problems. All you're doing is making her lose attraction for you. You have male friends, so you can tell them your problems. Only them will understand you better without looking down on you.

KING CHIDI

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I hate this gaslighting thing people often try to do with celebrities who ignore their fans. Nobody owes you shit. You all have siblings and friends in your circle you ignore whereas are all over celebrities who don't know you. I will always stand to the fact that fans love for celebrities are never genuine. It's all because of who they are and what they achieved. The only people who have genuinely loved them are their family, friends and those they mingled with before they attain fame. If they didn't make it in life, would you have be claiming to love them or looked them twice on the streets? Burna Boy was right!

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You’ve got time … I mean it … slow down! Who are you trying to prove it to? “Them” or you? Start living for you … not how “they” see you ❤️❤️❤️ And if you’re someone who has someone between the ages of 18-29 in your life .. pass this onto them.

You’ve got time … I mean it … slow down! Who are you trying to prove it to? “Them” or you? Start living for you … not how “they” see you ❤️❤️❤️ And if you’re someone who has someone between the ages of 18-29 in your life .. pass this onto them.

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FRIENDS ARE OF 4 TYPES. According to Muhammad Al-Ghazali: 1. Friends that are like food: you go to them every day, every time when you're hungry, and they are always available to provide you with what will save you from any form of harm. 2. Friends that are like Doctors; that you don't need to see everyday. But when there is a problem, you go to these friends & you come home with your problems solved. 3. Friends that are like illness; They won't kill you, but they will weaken you. Things that you were good at, you can't do at all when you're with these friends. In fact, there is always a battle between you & them. While you fight to grow, they fight to bring you down. 4. Friends that are like poison. If they don't kill you, they'd get you killed. They never rest until they see that you are no more. Please think carefully about the kind of friends you have, and those you'd want to go to in event of problems. Imagine going to someone that is waiting for you to die, with a problem that is a do or die? Imagine going to someone with a life threatening challenge, but he only pretends as a friend waiting for an opportunity to harm you? Speaker: Malam Nura Lemu (Hafizahullah).

Dr. Hidima

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Culture is genetic because behavior is genetic. This beaver never saw a dam in its life. No beavers or anything else ever taught it to build a dam. It wants to build a dam because it is a beaver. Many beavers together build a big dam. That is beaver culture. Humans are not different. Nothing is different. This is what life is. This is how life works. Your body is your mind. A caterpillar wants to build a chrysalis. A bee wants to build a hive. A lion wants to build a pride. You are not special. You are not above your nature. you are INSIDE of it. The thoughts that we think are genetic thoughts. The crimes we commit are genetic crimes. The art we create is genetic art. Just like this beaver, you can give the animal different sticks and it will build a different dam, but it will always build a dam. And you can give humans different "education," but the human will always use it to do what its genes tell it to do. This is the first big answer that you need. This is the biggest piece of the puzzle. This is how to understand people 90% of the way. You just... notice what they do, and get out of the way, and watch them do it. And if they need sticks, you give them sticks. And if you don't like what they do, you have to get away from them. You cannot train dam-building into them or out of them any more than you can with a beaver. A beaver wants to build a dam because it is a beaver. Whatever you see people build, that's what they wanted to build from the sticks they got in the river they were in. Stop pretending you can change it.

Culture is genetic because behavior is genetic. This beaver never saw a dam in its life. No beavers or anything else ever taught it to build a dam. It wants to build a dam because it is a beaver. Many beavers together build a big dam. That is beaver culture. Humans are not different. Nothing is different. This is what life is. This is how life works. Your body is your mind. A caterpillar wants to build a chrysalis. A bee wants to build a hive. A lion wants to build a pride. You are not special. You are not above your nature. you are INSIDE of it. The thoughts that we think are genetic thoughts. The crimes we commit are genetic crimes. The art we create is genetic art. Just like this beaver, you can give the animal different sticks and it will build a different dam, but it will always build a dam. And you can give humans different "education," but the human will always use it to do what its genes tell it to do. This is the first big answer that you need. This is the biggest piece of the puzzle. This is how to understand people 90% of the way. You just... notice what they do, and get out of the way, and watch them do it. And if they need sticks, you give them sticks. And if you don't like what they do, you have to get away from them. You cannot train dam-building into them or out of them any more than you can with a beaver. A beaver wants to build a dam because it is a beaver. Whatever you see people build, that's what they wanted to build from the sticks they got in the river they were in. Stop pretending you can change it.

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I can’t believe a person you would put your trust into, marry them, have kids with them and they can do this to you! And then have the nerve to get mad when we choose the bear. It’s really sicko and weird. Would you want this to happen to your daughter or sister or mother? I’m at a lost for words. For the men who say they are our allies, you have a lot of work to do. Men who get offended by this it’s because you know what men are actually capable of. Either you are them or so ashamed you don’t want to admit it. But it doesn’t stop it from happening. Damn damn damn. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I just wish we had the same strength as men cause this would be a different story. And for the ones who think “not all men” you are a very big part of the problem. You definitely know a man who is. Talk to the women in your life they will tell you or like he said they may not cause they just don’t trust you enough to do so. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

I can’t believe a person you would put your trust into, marry them, have kids with them and they can do this to you! And then have the nerve to get mad when we choose the bear. It’s really sicko and weird. Would you want this to happen to your daughter or sister or mother? I’m at a lost for words. For the men who say they are our allies, you have a lot of work to do. Men who get offended by this it’s because you know what men are actually capable of. Either you are them or so ashamed you don’t want to admit it. But it doesn’t stop it from happening. Damn damn damn. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I just wish we had the same strength as men cause this would be a different story. And for the ones who think “not all men” you are a very big part of the problem. You definitely know a man who is. Talk to the women in your life they will tell you or like he said they may not cause they just don’t trust you enough to do so. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

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