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Dawn Staley shares a coaching and parenting truth that most people get wrong. "I'm very different than your parents because your parents don't want you to fail, and they don't want you to be uncomfortable." You can't steal the struggle for others. "They do everything in their power to...

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“I’m very different than your parents because your parents don’t want you to fail. I love you enough to allow you to fail. I love you enough to allow you to hurt. You'll have bad days that you will have to just fight through. That's what I try to prepare our players for."

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Derek Jeter shares a truth about failure that most people don't want to hear. "Failure is essential. If I can promise you one thing for certain, you will fail. I wouldn't have had the success without the failures." Failure isn't the opposite of success - it's part of the path to it. Successful people don't avoid adversity. They expect it. They know that they must learn from the setbacks and challenges. You can't avoid failure - you have to be relentless in your pursuits and refuse to let it stop you. Failure isn't a destination - it's a checkpoint. It's where growth begins. (🎥 MLive)

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Melody: "I'm starting to feel bad now" (about hiding Lala's stuff) Drew: "For what? What you just did? You can undo it." Melody: "No, because I don't feel bad enough." Drew: "I don't know how I feel about what you did. I would not have it done because first of all, they're gonna think it's me, and second of all, you're good with them. They're never gonna put you up." Melody: "I don't know about all that." Drew: "I think they probably think they can bring you in. Taylor thought you and Mallory were dumb or something and she was just like 'I can tell them everything, they just follow me.'" #BB28 #BBBitez
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Big Brother Bitez 🔊

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Nikola Jokic shares the journey it takes to become a champion. "If you wanna be successful, you need a couple years. You need to be bad, then you need to be good, and then when you're good, you need to fail. And then when you fail, you gonna figure it out." That's the process. Bad → Good → Fail → Figure it out. There are no shortcuts. "Experience is not what happens to you. It's what you're gonna do with what happened to you." Because the setbacks don't define you. Your response does. "There is a process that you need to go through. There are steps that you need to fill. There is no shortcuts. It's a journey." "And I'm glad that I'm part of this journey." The path to greatness isn't clean. It's messy, painful, and full of failures. But that is the way. Trust the journey. (🎥 NBA)
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Nikola Jokic shares the journey it takes to become a champion. "If you wanna be successful, you need a couple years. You need to be bad, then you need to be good, and then when you're good, you need to fail. And then when you fail, you gonna figure it out." That's the process. Bad → Good → Fail → Figure it out. There are no shortcuts. "Experience is not what happens to you. It's what you're gonna do with what happened to you." Because the setbacks don't define you. Your response does. "There is a process that you need to go through. There are steps that you need to fill. There is no shortcuts. It's a journey." "And I'm glad that I'm part of this journey." The path to greatness isn't clean. It's messy, painful, and full of failures. But that is the way. Trust the journey. (🎥 NBA)

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Mike Vrabel gives a masterclass on mindset, self-talk, and dealing with doubt. "You can't let doubt creep into what you do as a person. I don't care what you do." "You have to be able to talk to yourself and not listen to yourself so much. You have to tell yourself what to believe." Read that again about your self-talk. Talk to yourself - don't just listen to yourself. Your mind will feed you doubt, fear, and negativity. Your job is to challenge it. Tell yourself what's true, not what's easy to believe. "That doesn't say that there aren't tough times that you struggle with failure. You have to be able to recognize it and know that that is a part of all of us." Failure isn't the opposite of success - it's part of the path to it. Successful people don't avoid adversity. They expect it. They know that they must learn from the setbacks and challenges. "If you coach long enough, you're gonna get fired. Just like if you play long enough, you're gonna get cut or you're gonna get traded. That's just how this business is." That's the reality. Not cynicism...clarity. "I've tried to explain it to the players that this is what happens. And I'm grateful for the opportunity to be able to do it with this group of guys." Tough times happen. The choice is to be a tough person that overcomes those tough times. (🎥New England Patriots )
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Mike Vrabel gives a masterclass on mindset, self-talk, and dealing with doubt. "You can't let doubt creep into what you do as a person. I don't care what you do." "You have to be able to talk to yourself and not listen to yourself so much. You have to tell yourself what to believe." Read that again about your self-talk. Talk to yourself - don't just listen to yourself. Your mind will feed you doubt, fear, and negativity. Your job is to challenge it. Tell yourself what's true, not what's easy to believe. "That doesn't say that there aren't tough times that you struggle with failure. You have to be able to recognize it and know that that is a part of all of us." Failure isn't the opposite of success - it's part of the path to it. Successful people don't avoid adversity. They expect it. They know that they must learn from the setbacks and challenges. "If you coach long enough, you're gonna get fired. Just like if you play long enough, you're gonna get cut or you're gonna get traded. That's just how this business is." That's the reality. Not cynicism...clarity. "I've tried to explain it to the players that this is what happens. And I'm grateful for the opportunity to be able to do it with this group of guys." Tough times happen. The choice is to be a tough person that overcomes those tough times. (🎥New England Patriots )

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Jimmy Fallon says the hardest part of fame is knowing not everyone likes you “Getting rejection. Being told you're not funny. Haters. This was before Twitter and all that stuff, which is a different ball game that I wasn't ready for either” “You think it's just going to be, ‘Oh, this is cool. Everyone will be great.’ But not everyone's rooting for you. Some people want you to fail. People's jobs are to take me down and put bad press out” “That stuff I wasn't prepared for, overcoming that. Hating on you or saying you're not good. You don't think that's going to happen, but it will if you're successful because someone's not going to like you no matter what” “It's the worst. Absolutely the worst. I hate it. I want everyone to like me. I can't stand it. I go, oh my gosh, what can I do to make you like me?” “I think the answer is you can't. You can't make everyone like you. You just have to do what you do, do the best that you can at what you do, and be happy with yourself”
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Jimmy Fallon says the hardest part of fame is knowing not everyone likes you “Getting rejection. Being told you're not funny. Haters. This was before Twitter and all that stuff, which is a different ball game that I wasn't ready for either” “You think it's just going to be, ‘Oh, this is cool. Everyone will be great.’ But not everyone's rooting for you. Some people want you to fail. People's jobs are to take me down and put bad press out” “That stuff I wasn't prepared for, overcoming that. Hating on you or saying you're not good. You don't think that's going to happen, but it will if you're successful because someone's not going to like you no matter what” “It's the worst. Absolutely the worst. I hate it. I want everyone to like me. I can't stand it. I go, oh my gosh, what can I do to make you like me?” “I think the answer is you can't. You can't make everyone like you. You just have to do what you do, do the best that you can at what you do, and be happy with yourself”

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It's not important that your partner is an identical copy of you. It's important that they're not, that they bring something else to the table that you don't have. Now, in the context of entrepreneurship, because that's what I'm associated with, you need to find somebody that's willing to put up with the fact that you're just never there. I mean, that's very difficult because if you're running a business and you can't have a balanced life when you're an entrepreneur. It's really about finding that person that understands what you're about, that you're going down that journey and that you're not gonna stop doing it.
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It's not important that your partner is an identical copy of you. It's important that they're not, that they bring something else to the table that you don't have. Now, in the context of entrepreneurship, because that's what I'm associated with, you need to find somebody that's willing to put up with the fact that you're just never there. I mean, that's very difficult because if you're running a business and you can't have a balanced life when you're an entrepreneur. It's really about finding that person that understands what you're about, that you're going down that journey and that you're not gonna stop doing it.

Kevin O'Leary aka Mr. Wonderful

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“You're not entitled to get what you want. I love you. You're entitled to earn what you're willing to go work for. And that's true in our families, in our parenting, in our marriage, in our companies, in society. If we want it, go earn it. If that's positivity, have positivity. I think and I am a positive person. I am jacked. I am excited. Obviously, you can feel my energy through technology here, I hope. Frankly, think positive people just need to get a lot stronger. I really do. I mean, I don't want to call them weak because people hear that differently but it kind of is. Look, if you want that positivity to stick, you’ve got to get tougher. Not sacrifice your love and your care and your empathy, but you got to get tough. And then we have to figure out how to love the people who are cynical because I don't think there's a ton of bad people in the world and I don't think there's a ton of bad people on teams. But I do think there are people who've been burned out. I do think there are people who have been through things in their lives. They've been through things in their company. They're experiencing stuff somewhere else. For whatever reason, they just kind of got run down and cynical and negative, or whatever. Or they're just wired a little different than we are. And I don't to hate on those people. I want to win those people. They don't have to be like me. They don't have to have my energy. But I want those people on my team. I want to love those people. And if eventually they choose that they don't believe in the same things that I believe in, I want to make it really clear and obvious that they don't want to be on this team because we're not about that. You know what I'm saying? I want it to be very easy, obvious, that, ‘Hey I should not be on this team. Because this team is full of very positive people who have great energy and talk to people, not about them.’ And we solve problems. We don't complain. We don't get defensive. We're real. I recognize I'm imperfect and I'm vulnerable to show you that about me. I want to be on that kind of a team. And if there's somebody who doesn’t believe in that stuff, I want to make it really easy for them to say, ‘Look, I don't want to be on this team. I don't wanna live like you guys live. I don't want do what you guys do.’ And then I really hope that that person leaves us and goes and joins our competitor.”
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“You're not entitled to get what you want. I love you. You're entitled to earn what you're willing to go work for. And that's true in our families, in our parenting, in our marriage, in our companies, in society. If we want it, go earn it. If that's positivity, have positivity. I think and I am a positive person. I am jacked. I am excited. Obviously, you can feel my energy through technology here, I hope. Frankly, think positive people just need to get a lot stronger. I really do. I mean, I don't want to call them weak because people hear that differently but it kind of is. Look, if you want that positivity to stick, you’ve got to get tougher. Not sacrifice your love and your care and your empathy, but you got to get tough. And then we have to figure out how to love the people who are cynical because I don't think there's a ton of bad people in the world and I don't think there's a ton of bad people on teams. But I do think there are people who've been burned out. I do think there are people who have been through things in their lives. They've been through things in their company. They're experiencing stuff somewhere else. For whatever reason, they just kind of got run down and cynical and negative, or whatever. Or they're just wired a little different than we are. And I don't to hate on those people. I want to win those people. They don't have to be like me. They don't have to have my energy. But I want those people on my team. I want to love those people. And if eventually they choose that they don't believe in the same things that I believe in, I want to make it really clear and obvious that they don't want to be on this team because we're not about that. You know what I'm saying? I want it to be very easy, obvious, that, ‘Hey I should not be on this team. Because this team is full of very positive people who have great energy and talk to people, not about them.’ And we solve problems. We don't complain. We don't get defensive. We're real. I recognize I'm imperfect and I'm vulnerable to show you that about me. I want to be on that kind of a team. And if there's somebody who doesn’t believe in that stuff, I want to make it really easy for them to say, ‘Look, I don't want to be on this team. I don't wanna live like you guys live. I don't want do what you guys do.’ And then I really hope that that person leaves us and goes and joins our competitor.”

Brian Kight

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Dan Quinn said, "Sometimes as coaches and leaders, you have to tell them the things they don't want to hear." "I'm comfortable doing that because they know I come from a place that I care about them, I love them, and I want the best for them." As players, be grateful when a coach tells you the truth because it shows you they care. They tell you the truth because they believe in you and your potential. • They want what's best for you. • They care about you as a person. • They see what you're capable of, even when you don't. Great leaders hold you accountable because they know it's the only way to help you grow into your best self. It means telling the hard truths while showing empathy and belief in your potential. Great Coaches Balance 3 Things: 1. Caring for you - Great coaches want what's best for you. They care for you as a person and believe in you and your potential. This is why they hold you to a high standard - they see what you can become, even when you don’t yet. 2. Having high standards - High standards set expectations. It creates clarity and direction about what habits and actions are expected. Great coaches set the bar high because they want the best for you, not because it’s easy. When someone believes in you enough to expect greatness, it inspires you to rise to the challenge. 3. Pushing you to grow before your comfort zone - Growth doesn’t happen without discomfort, and this is where development starts. Great coaches look to challenge you and develop you over time. This means expecting challenges, facing adversity, and refusing to accept the status quo. Bottom Line: People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Leadership will always be a relationship business.
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Dan Quinn said, "Sometimes as coaches and leaders, you have to tell them the things they don't want to hear." "I'm comfortable doing that because they know I come from a place that I care about them, I love them, and I want the best for them." As players, be grateful when a coach tells you the truth because it shows you they care. They tell you the truth because they believe in you and your potential. • They want what's best for you. • They care about you as a person. • They see what you're capable of, even when you don't. Great leaders hold you accountable because they know it's the only way to help you grow into your best self. It means telling the hard truths while showing empathy and belief in your potential. Great Coaches Balance 3 Things: 1. Caring for you - Great coaches want what's best for you. They care for you as a person and believe in you and your potential. This is why they hold you to a high standard - they see what you can become, even when you don’t yet. 2. Having high standards - High standards set expectations. It creates clarity and direction about what habits and actions are expected. Great coaches set the bar high because they want the best for you, not because it’s easy. When someone believes in you enough to expect greatness, it inspires you to rise to the challenge. 3. Pushing you to grow before your comfort zone - Growth doesn’t happen without discomfort, and this is where development starts. Great coaches look to challenge you and develop you over time. This means expecting challenges, facing adversity, and refusing to accept the status quo. Bottom Line: People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Leadership will always be a relationship business.

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness

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Kara Lawson shares a message every competitor needs to hear. "Don't give me the power to affect your self-esteem, who you are as a person, and how good a practice you can have. Don't ever give someone externally the power to touch you in that way." Your mindset is yours. Protect it. "If you give someone externally the power to impact how good a day you're gonna have, what type of attitude you're gonna have, how hard you're gonna work - you're ceding something that's really, really valuable in life." "You control that. Don't give me that power. Don't let me control whether you're gonna have a good day or not, or whether you feel good about yourself." You choose how you want to show up. "No one gets to own you. I don't get to own you. Nobody does. Nobody should." "Don't give anyone that power. That's important." Take ownership of yourself, your attitude, your effort, and your confidence. They all belong to you. (🎥 Duke Women’s Basketball)
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Kara Lawson shares a message every competitor needs to hear. "Don't give me the power to affect your self-esteem, who you are as a person, and how good a practice you can have. Don't ever give someone externally the power to touch you in that way." Your mindset is yours. Protect it. "If you give someone externally the power to impact how good a day you're gonna have, what type of attitude you're gonna have, how hard you're gonna work - you're ceding something that's really, really valuable in life." "You control that. Don't give me that power. Don't let me control whether you're gonna have a good day or not, or whether you feel good about yourself." You choose how you want to show up. "No one gets to own you. I don't get to own you. Nobody does. Nobody should." "Don't give anyone that power. That's important." Take ownership of yourself, your attitude, your effort, and your confidence. They all belong to you. (🎥 Duke Women’s Basketball)

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness

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ELON: SEEK THE TRUTH, NOT WHAT YOU WISH TO BE TRUE "Mistakes people generally make, and I'm guilty of it too, is wishful thinking. You know, like you want something to be true even if it isn't true, and so you ignore the things that, you ignore the real truth because of what you want to be true. This is a very difficult trap to avoid, and like I said, it's certainly one that I find myself in having problems with. But if you just take that approach of you are always to some degree wrong and your goal is to be less wrong, and solicit critical feedback, particularly from friends. If somebody loves you, they want the best for you, they don't want to tell you the bad things." Source: Unlock Futurix YT
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ELON: SEEK THE TRUTH, NOT WHAT YOU WISH TO BE TRUE "Mistakes people generally make, and I'm guilty of it too, is wishful thinking. You know, like you want something to be true even if it isn't true, and so you ignore the things that, you ignore the real truth because of what you want to be true. This is a very difficult trap to avoid, and like I said, it's certainly one that I find myself in having problems with. But if you just take that approach of you are always to some degree wrong and your goal is to be less wrong, and solicit critical feedback, particularly from friends. If somebody loves you, they want the best for you, they don't want to tell you the bad things." Source: Unlock Futurix YT

Mario Nawfal

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Maye Musk on her challenges: “I didn't want to talk about my challenges or any struggles, but Elon, Kimball, and Tosca separately said, 'Be sure you talk about your struggles because we lived through it.' When you can just afford to put a roof over your head if it's rent controlled, you don't have to go to the movies, you don't have to go out for dinner, you can eat very economically and healthy, and you don't have to go to a gym because you can't afford it, so you can just walk around or run aroun. And so, you can do without your privileges, but you're moving ahead. In other words, you're leaving a bad situation. I don't move because moving is fun. Moving is hell. Every section of it goes wrong. Anyone, even if you move next door, it goes wrong. I moved cities and countries, and I don't recommend it, but for each time it was either to improve my life or to get away from a bad situation, and then the thing is, you just want to survive. You just have to survive, and then eventually you thrive. So now I'm thriving. I'm here.”
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Maye Musk on her challenges: “I didn't want to talk about my challenges or any struggles, but Elon, Kimball, and Tosca separately said, 'Be sure you talk about your struggles because we lived through it.' When you can just afford to put a roof over your head if it's rent controlled, you don't have to go to the movies, you don't have to go out for dinner, you can eat very economically and healthy, and you don't have to go to a gym because you can't afford it, so you can just walk around or run aroun. And so, you can do without your privileges, but you're moving ahead. In other words, you're leaving a bad situation. I don't move because moving is fun. Moving is hell. Every section of it goes wrong. Anyone, even if you move next door, it goes wrong. I moved cities and countries, and I don't recommend it, but for each time it was either to improve my life or to get away from a bad situation, and then the thing is, you just want to survive. You just have to survive, and then eventually you thrive. So now I'm thriving. I'm here.”

Eva Fo𝕏 🦊 Claudius Nero's Legion

34,317 görüntüleme • 5 ay önce

JLO had something important to say.😳 Her words: “Fix my hair. Let the rest of you get out of here. You broke. I don't need you. I don't need your money. I don't need your gifts. That's right. You know, people look at me, they look at me for years, and they think, I'm expensive. And I am! I am! But I have my own money. Lady, do you want learn? We don't need anybody to buy us anything. We don't. We want them to. Sometimes that's nice. But you know what makes a man really attractive? It's not the watch, it's not the car. It's not the private jet. It really isn't. Oh, no, that's nice. It's nice. It's seeing them make the bed in the morning. Or wash the dishes for you when you're tired at night. That's what's sexy. Now that's what I call sexy…” Please excuse any error this was translated with AI.
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JLO had something important to say.😳 Her words: “Fix my hair. Let the rest of you get out of here. You broke. I don't need you. I don't need your money. I don't need your gifts. That's right. You know, people look at me, they look at me for years, and they think, I'm expensive. And I am! I am! But I have my own money. Lady, do you want learn? We don't need anybody to buy us anything. We don't. We want them to. Sometimes that's nice. But you know what makes a man really attractive? It's not the watch, it's not the car. It's not the private jet. It really isn't. Oh, no, that's nice. It's nice. It's seeing them make the bed in the morning. Or wash the dishes for you when you're tired at night. That's what's sexy. Now that's what I call sexy…” Please excuse any error this was translated with AI.

Shawnee Gregorio

511,376 görüntüleme • 2 ay önce

Trump just released a bizarre statement. Not sure if it makes much sense. "Many say, don't punch down when talking about people like Chris Sununu or sloppy Chris Christie or Ada Hutchinson. I call him Ada, not Asa, because of certain reasons or others, but sometimes it's necessary to talk badly about those that for no reason other than politics speak badly about you. Otherwise, the people that love you don't know whether or not they're for real. Are they saying the truth or not? So sometimes you have to punch down and you have to say what's happening. Otherwise, they won't understand. It's not fair to them. You have to put them in proper perspective. These bad people, you have to put them in their place. People like this are very destructive, and you have to tell the voters what it's all about. Otherwise, why should they be able to understand it? Thank you very much."
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Trump just released a bizarre statement. Not sure if it makes much sense. "Many say, don't punch down when talking about people like Chris Sununu or sloppy Chris Christie or Ada Hutchinson. I call him Ada, not Asa, because of certain reasons or others, but sometimes it's necessary to talk badly about those that for no reason other than politics speak badly about you. Otherwise, the people that love you don't know whether or not they're for real. Are they saying the truth or not? So sometimes you have to punch down and you have to say what's happening. Otherwise, they won't understand. It's not fair to them. You have to put them in proper perspective. These bad people, you have to put them in their place. People like this are very destructive, and you have to tell the voters what it's all about. Otherwise, why should they be able to understand it? Thank you very much."

Ian Miles

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