Dear wives, note this about your husbands

There are way too many women who will watch this and dismiss it saying, “He’s the problem. Not me.” There comes a day, when every man in this situation makes one of two choices; 1. Resolves to accept the situation for what it is, or 2. Finds someone who does want to be with him in that way. Neither one are good. It doesn’t have to be that way.

Been married for almost 20 years and platonic is right. Frustrating but refuse to lose hope. My prayer is that she changes because I love her a ton, but dammit, get a clue. Women it’s super easy, when we’re out working and making that cash, have dinner ready for us and make us feel right before bed or in the morning. Constant refusal will lead to a complete failure of a relationship. She is 💯 right.

Marriage without intimacy is a partnership.

1 Corinthians 7:5 “Do not deprive each other.”

For 99% of women, this will go on to deaf ears...

It starts to feel like all I am here for is to provide an income, like you said, just like a roommate.

Tips for women to keep a man. Keep his balls drained, stomach full and be appreciative from time to time. Been married to that woman for 36 years.

I doubt any women doing this will be receptive to the message. And a husband trying to be communicative about it will likely just repulse her. Women only say they want men to talk to them, but usually what they really want is to have their own needs always heard.

Just reading some of the comments and men shouldn’t be blatantly asking for sex. Women aren’t light switches to be turned on or off. Figure out what she likes and put. in. some. Damn. Effort. If you do that and it’s still a no, then there’s a problem in your relationship. Also consider she might have underlying health issues too if no drive despite effort and foreplay though.

A consistent issue in many marriages and as a priest, it’s impossible to talk about without people chiming in about how wrong the man is or bringing up examples of this idea being abused. In the end, It’s not just that there is a serious problem in a sexless marriage, it’s also that men aren’t allowed to talk about it or through it without being told how it’s their fault or hearing about this healthy concept (sex in marriage) being abused.