Video wird geladen...

Video konnte nicht geladen werden

Beim Laden dieses Videos ist ein Problem aufgetreten. Dies könnte an einem vorübergehenden Netzwerkproblem liegen oder das Video ist möglicherweise nicht verfügbar.

Dr. Gabor Maté drops deep insight on imposter syndrome Theo Von: "Even when I'm nice, I feel like I'm manipulating." Maté: "That's not a feeling—it's a belief. Imposter syndrome. You couldn't be real as a kid, so you pretended. Now it's hard to let go of 'I'm fake.' Be... show more

Camus

404,418 subscribers

162,804 Aufrufe • vor 8 Monaten •via X (Twitter)

Bildung Gesundheit & Wellness

Anya Rossi• Live Now

Private livecam show

0 Kommentare

Keine Kommentare verfügbar

Kommentare vom Original-Post werden hier angezeigt

Ähnliche Videos

Do you ever get imposter syndrome? Yunjin : Guys, imposter syndrome is a real thing and it's really hard But, um, I think if you have imposter syndrome it's not... well, nothing in life nothing in this world is 100% good, 100% bad but, I think with imposter syndrome there's more good than there is bad That's kind of how I try to like stabilize myself whenever I feel like I'm having imposter syndrome and that's wrong of me I try to remind myself that "Oh it's better than having like a huge ego Because if you are doubting yourself, it's good to a point It gets to a point, you know? So I try not to get like... because I feel like a lot of problems often stem from me feeling like some way and then like demonizing that feeling when when it's not something that you should like demonize Yeah, so imposter syndrome, I get it But I also try to tell myself it's just a way of humbling myself, I guess It can be crippling though, sometimes And the way out of it is by keeping people that I respect and admire around me So that when they tell me that they trust me then I can trust them Because when I don't trust myself, I trust those people And thankfully, I have four of those people in my life, in my team And' then I have a bunch of staff who I feel the same way about

Do you ever get imposter syndrome? Yunjin : Guys, imposter syndrome is a real thing and it's really hard But, um, I think if you have imposter syndrome it's not... well, nothing in life nothing in this world is 100% good, 100% bad but, I think with imposter syndrome there's more good than there is bad That's kind of how I try to like stabilize myself whenever I feel like I'm having imposter syndrome and that's wrong of me I try to remind myself that "Oh it's better than having like a huge ego Because if you are doubting yourself, it's good to a point It gets to a point, you know? So I try not to get like... because I feel like a lot of problems often stem from me feeling like some way and then like demonizing that feeling when when it's not something that you should like demonize Yeah, so imposter syndrome, I get it But I also try to tell myself it's just a way of humbling myself, I guess It can be crippling though, sometimes And the way out of it is by keeping people that I respect and admire around me So that when they tell me that they trust me then I can trust them Because when I don't trust myself, I trust those people And thankfully, I have four of those people in my life, in my team And' then I have a bunch of staff who I feel the same way about

le sserafim pics

53,704 Aufrufe • vor 6 Monaten

Clarke: I have been feeling a little bit of imposter syndrome, feel like i am living in somebody else's body. I feel like "i am not capable of this or i'm not worthy of that". I am trying to be everything for everybody and have a successful relationship.

Clarke: I have been feeling a little bit of imposter syndrome, feel like i am living in somebody else's body. I feel like "i am not capable of this or i'm not worthy of that". I am trying to be everything for everybody and have a successful relationship.

Calissi✨🤍

218,663 Aufrufe • vor 4 Monaten

Trump: "We shouldn't be in a position where you have tumbleweed that's dry as a bone. Even tumbleweed can be nice & green & rich & & it's not gonna burn. You don't even have to remove it. It's not gonna burn. But it's just dry. So I hope you can all get together & say I'm so happy with the water that's gonna be flowing down."

Trump: "We shouldn't be in a position where you have tumbleweed that's dry as a bone. Even tumbleweed can be nice & green & rich & & it's not gonna burn. You don't even have to remove it. It's not gonna burn. But it's just dry. So I hope you can all get together & say I'm so happy with the water that's gonna be flowing down."

Aaron Rupar

1,504,695 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

🗣️: Is there any comment from a fan that you have never forgotten? 🪽: I think it's just when they say that they kind of love me, for me. They don't expect anything out of me, just hope I'm happy. I'm healthy. Just because it's more like, you know, the world is full of expectations. So it's just nice if you can be yourself. #TaoKaeNoixBecky

🗣️: Is there any comment from a fan that you have never forgotten? 🪽: I think it's just when they say that they kind of love me, for me. They don't expect anything out of me, just hope I'm happy. I'm healthy. Just because it's more like, you know, the world is full of expectations. So it's just nice if you can be yourself. #TaoKaeNoixBecky

Cham_Cham

11,761 Aufrufe • vor 2 Monaten

Gabor Maté on ADHD in kids: "It's not a disorder—it's a coping mechanism for a sensitive child in a stressed family." In this powerful clip, Maté reframes ADHD as the brain's way of protecting itself: - Sensitive, empathetic children absorb parental/family stress. - They "go absent-minded" to self-protect (not defiance or laziness). - Often highly talented, warm-hearted, deeply feeling. - They crave emotional security above all—understanding, not just behavior fixes or meds. "Once you realize a kid is like that... make them feel emotionally safe." A compassionate shift from "fix the child" to "heal the environment." Parents/teachers: Does this resonate with what you've seen in kids (or even yourself growing up)? What helped create real emotional safety? Share your thoughts/experiences respectfully below.

Gabor Maté on ADHD in kids: "It's not a disorder—it's a coping mechanism for a sensitive child in a stressed family." In this powerful clip, Maté reframes ADHD as the brain's way of protecting itself: - Sensitive, empathetic children absorb parental/family stress. - They "go absent-minded" to self-protect (not defiance or laziness). - Often highly talented, warm-hearted, deeply feeling. - They crave emotional security above all—understanding, not just behavior fixes or meds. "Once you realize a kid is like that... make them feel emotionally safe." A compassionate shift from "fix the child" to "heal the environment." Parents/teachers: Does this resonate with what you've seen in kids (or even yourself growing up)? What helped create real emotional safety? Share your thoughts/experiences respectfully below.

Camus

109,337 Aufrufe • vor 6 Monaten

Somebody help me Cause everyone's leaving Somebody save me I'm drowning on the deep end Would you please help me? You're the friend that I'm losing Can you please save me? I'm sorry I'm a nuisance I've been thinking lately that I'm better off dead now It's time that I get out, I gotta go I've been thinking lately you don't want me around now That's when I found out I don't wanna go home With nowhere to go, so I'm hurting, I'm feeling alone With nowhere to go, so I'm searching..

Somebody help me Cause everyone's leaving Somebody save me I'm drowning on the deep end Would you please help me? You're the friend that I'm losing Can you please save me? I'm sorry I'm a nuisance I've been thinking lately that I'm better off dead now It's time that I get out, I gotta go I've been thinking lately you don't want me around now That's when I found out I don't wanna go home With nowhere to go, so I'm hurting, I'm feeling alone With nowhere to go, so I'm searching..

🌙Tsuki

52,185 Aufrufe • vor 2 Monaten

Theo Von and Jake Paul say it’s a massive problem that anyone can have kids “Can you believe they let anybody have a kid? That's wild. I think it's a massive problem that anyone can have a kid. It is crazy, bro” “When I look at some people, I'm like, yo, what the fuck is this guy doing? He's got a kid. He's going to raise this kid. The kid's going to be worse” “If you don't finish school, you shouldn't get more than one kid. There should be some kind of certificate or IQ test”

Theo Von and Jake Paul say it’s a massive problem that anyone can have kids “Can you believe they let anybody have a kid? That's wild. I think it's a massive problem that anyone can have a kid. It is crazy, bro” “When I look at some people, I'm like, yo, what the fuck is this guy doing? He's got a kid. He's going to raise this kid. The kid's going to be worse” “If you don't finish school, you shouldn't get more than one kid. There should be some kind of certificate or IQ test”

Mikli

15,947 Aufrufe • vor 3 Monaten

joe locke: "i think at the moment i'm in this place where i feel like everything i get sent now is for another vulnerable skinny twink. which is great. and i know i can do that. and i'm really honored that the industry sees me as, like, the go-to guy to be the vulnerable gay guy. and it's holding space for both that feeling of, like, wow, this is an amazing thing, but also like, oh, but i know i can do other things, and i really want to be able to prove myself that i can, or prove to people that i can do other things. what's not, like, coming across like a bit of an asshole being like, oh, well, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, because, you know, i'm so grateful that i'm in the opportunity to be able to be seen as that, but i also, i'm also someone who always wants to prove themselves, and so i want to be able to do that. so, i don't know what that, like, to me, what that is, whether it's like a film that has nothing to do with sexuality, a film where i play a straight guy, a film where i even play a gay character that's just not like charlie. but i think that it's almost that, like, it's that, like, classic, like, miley cyrus thing of, like, her post-disney days where she—but with less disrespect and with a torrent of respect to the character of charlie." 🎥:

joe locke: "i think at the moment i'm in this place where i feel like everything i get sent now is for another vulnerable skinny twink. which is great. and i know i can do that. and i'm really honored that the industry sees me as, like, the go-to guy to be the vulnerable gay guy. and it's holding space for both that feeling of, like, wow, this is an amazing thing, but also like, oh, but i know i can do other things, and i really want to be able to prove myself that i can, or prove to people that i can do other things. what's not, like, coming across like a bit of an asshole being like, oh, well, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, because, you know, i'm so grateful that i'm in the opportunity to be able to be seen as that, but i also, i'm also someone who always wants to prove themselves, and so i want to be able to do that. so, i don't know what that, like, to me, what that is, whether it's like a film that has nothing to do with sexuality, a film where i play a straight guy, a film where i even play a gay character that's just not like charlie. but i think that it's almost that, like, it's that, like, classic, like, miley cyrus thing of, like, her post-disney days where she—but with less disrespect and with a torrent of respect to the character of charlie." 🎥:

daily joe locke

33,980 Aufrufe • vor 1 Monat

Namjoon talking about how friends mean so much to him, but wishes to be able to do things on his own too. 🐨: I don't like myself sometimes um when I'm when I feel like I'm too obsessed with the relationships. Like I always ask myself like, could you just please be on your own for a second? Why do you always need somebody to talk to or to go for a trip? Just could you just let yourself be alone um for like a week? And because I felt I sometimes feel I mostly feel really hard to be just do nothing and just be on my own. So, but friends um I think sometimes they're everything.

Namjoon talking about how friends mean so much to him, but wishes to be able to do things on his own too. 🐨: I don't like myself sometimes um when I'm when I feel like I'm too obsessed with the relationships. Like I always ask myself like, could you just please be on your own for a second? Why do you always need somebody to talk to or to go for a trip? Just could you just let yourself be alone um for like a week? And because I felt I sometimes feel I mostly feel really hard to be just do nothing and just be on my own. So, but friends um I think sometimes they're everything.

knjpagee𝄢

554,834 Aufrufe • vor 1 Monat

Gabor Maté on what trauma actually is: Asked "how do you define trauma?", Gabor Maté offers a definition that reframes how most people understand the word. "Trauma is a wound. The important distinction to make is that trauma is not what happened to you. It's what happened inside of you as a result of what happened to you." He illustrates this with his own story: "My trauma wasn't that my mother gave me to a stranger. The trauma was the wound which is that I perceive myself as not wanted. I perceive myself as abandoned. Who gets abandoned? Somebody who doesn't deserve to be loved." That internal wound, he explains, then shapes an entire life: "So then I developed this sense of not being good enough, not being lovable enough. Now that means I spend much of my life trying to prove that I'm good, that I'm lovable, that I am important, which then drives all kinds of behaviors which then create more problems." Gabor draws a sharp line between the event and the wound it leaves behind: "The trauma is not the event. That's the traumatic episode. The trauma is the wound that happens inside you."

Gabor Maté on what trauma actually is: Asked "how do you define trauma?", Gabor Maté offers a definition that reframes how most people understand the word. "Trauma is a wound. The important distinction to make is that trauma is not what happened to you. It's what happened inside of you as a result of what happened to you." He illustrates this with his own story: "My trauma wasn't that my mother gave me to a stranger. The trauma was the wound which is that I perceive myself as not wanted. I perceive myself as abandoned. Who gets abandoned? Somebody who doesn't deserve to be loved." That internal wound, he explains, then shapes an entire life: "So then I developed this sense of not being good enough, not being lovable enough. Now that means I spend much of my life trying to prove that I'm good, that I'm lovable, that I am important, which then drives all kinds of behaviors which then create more problems." Gabor draws a sharp line between the event and the wound it leaves behind: "The trauma is not the event. That's the traumatic episode. The trauma is the wound that happens inside you."

Kevin Tanaka

22,025 Aufrufe • vor 4 Monaten

🇺🇸 ARMED PROTESTER AT PRETTI VIGIL: IF YOU'RE A CONSERVATIVE, AND A WORKING MAN, I'M ON YOUR SIDE TOO "I'm not for the parties. I'm for the working class. I think to any conservative out there that's watching this, if you're a working man, I'm on your side. I want you to be able to feed your family. I want you to be able to go home safe to your kids. This isn't a conservative versus liberal issue. It's a government versus the people issue. And you're part of the people." Source: Talia Jane

🇺🇸 ARMED PROTESTER AT PRETTI VIGIL: IF YOU'RE A CONSERVATIVE, AND A WORKING MAN, I'M ON YOUR SIDE TOO "I'm not for the parties. I'm for the working class. I think to any conservative out there that's watching this, if you're a working man, I'm on your side. I want you to be able to feed your family. I want you to be able to go home safe to your kids. This isn't a conservative versus liberal issue. It's a government versus the people issue. And you're part of the people." Source: Talia Jane

Mario Nawfal

116,224 Aufrufe • vor 7 Monaten

Qullamaggie on A Million Dollars Is Not Enough to Quit Your Job “A million? Why would a million dollar trade ruin you? You would quit your job and start to drink? Why would you quit your job? A million dollars is not enough money to quit your job. Unless you're like in your 60s, then it may be enough. If you're younger than 60, a million is not going to last for long. How much is enough? Well, different for everyone. For some people... There is no upper limit. I fear I may be in that group. Like I feel like I won't be, even if I get to 100 million, I'm still going to be addicted to trading. Because it's a lot, it's like a, it's a passion, right? It's not a job, it's a passion. And if you, and once it starts feeling like a job, I'm probably going to quit.”

Qullamaggie on A Million Dollars Is Not Enough to Quit Your Job “A million? Why would a million dollar trade ruin you? You would quit your job and start to drink? Why would you quit your job? A million dollars is not enough money to quit your job. Unless you're like in your 60s, then it may be enough. If you're younger than 60, a million is not going to last for long. How much is enough? Well, different for everyone. For some people... There is no upper limit. I fear I may be in that group. Like I feel like I won't be, even if I get to 100 million, I'm still going to be addicted to trading. Because it's a lot, it's like a, it's a passion, right? It's not a job, it's a passion. And if you, and once it starts feeling like a job, I'm probably going to quit.”

Lone

18,758 Aufrufe • vor 6 Monaten

"Most people can't write. I'm not saying that to be an asshole. It's just the reality. I think I'm a good writer. But I read García Márquez and I'm like, holy shit. I couldn't do that if you paid me a billion dollars and gave me 20 years. Most people can get to a certain level. You can push, you can learn. But you have to understand what you're good at, and go for that. When I read writers trying to do creative dramatic leads and it's just not working. It's like, you're clearly good at X. Focus on X." — Nick Bilton

"Most people can't write. I'm not saying that to be an asshole. It's just the reality. I think I'm a good writer. But I read García Márquez and I'm like, holy shit. I couldn't do that if you paid me a billion dollars and gave me 20 years. Most people can get to a certain level. You can push, you can learn. But you have to understand what you're good at, and go for that. When I read writers trying to do creative dramatic leads and it's just not working. It's like, you're clearly good at X. Focus on X." — Nick Bilton

How I Write Clips

716,132 Aufrufe • vor 3 Monaten

Gabor Maté: The parts of you filled with hatred, addiction, and self-loathing all deserve compassion. They came along to protect you. Most of us treat our darkest inner states like enemies to be defeated. The shame, the compulsions, the voice that says you're not enough. We want to cut them out. Gabor Maté sees it differently. "The parts most filled with hatred, the parts that are addicted, the parts that are even full of self-loathing, they all deserve compassion. They all deserve to be held and understood. And they all came along for a reason." That reason, he explains, is survival. When a child isn't getting their needs met or worse, is being hurt, they face an impossible situation. They can make one of only two unconscious assumptions about their world. The first: this is a terrible world, I'm all alone, everybody is against me. The second: there is something wrong with me, and if I work hard enough, maybe I can fix it. Which one can a child actually live with? "To assume that the world is that dangerous is just unbearable for the child. It's also turning the anger towards the adults against yourself which is a lot safer. It's not very safe to be angry with your parents all the time when you're 2 years old." So the child chooses self-blame. It's the only assumption that gives them any sense of agency. If it's my fault, then maybe I can do something about it. That self-loathing voice was a coping mechanism. A piece of the psyche that stepped forward to make life bearable. The work, then, isn't to silence or destroy these parts. It's to finally see what they were trying to do and to offer them the understanding they never received.

Gabor Maté: The parts of you filled with hatred, addiction, and self-loathing all deserve compassion. They came along to protect you. Most of us treat our darkest inner states like enemies to be defeated. The shame, the compulsions, the voice that says you're not enough. We want to cut them out. Gabor Maté sees it differently. "The parts most filled with hatred, the parts that are addicted, the parts that are even full of self-loathing, they all deserve compassion. They all deserve to be held and understood. And they all came along for a reason." That reason, he explains, is survival. When a child isn't getting their needs met or worse, is being hurt, they face an impossible situation. They can make one of only two unconscious assumptions about their world. The first: this is a terrible world, I'm all alone, everybody is against me. The second: there is something wrong with me, and if I work hard enough, maybe I can fix it. Which one can a child actually live with? "To assume that the world is that dangerous is just unbearable for the child. It's also turning the anger towards the adults against yourself which is a lot safer. It's not very safe to be angry with your parents all the time when you're 2 years old." So the child chooses self-blame. It's the only assumption that gives them any sense of agency. If it's my fault, then maybe I can do something about it. That self-loathing voice was a coping mechanism. A piece of the psyche that stepped forward to make life bearable. The work, then, isn't to silence or destroy these parts. It's to finally see what they were trying to do and to offer them the understanding they never received.

Kevin Tanaka

27,395 Aufrufe • vor 4 Monaten

.James Talarico: I'm a former Texas public school teacher. I'm also a seminary student. So I can tell you there is a difference between teaching and preaching. It's hard to be different as a kid. If you're a Jewish kid,a Muslim kid, a Hindu kid going to Texas public schools, it's hard enough. Now, their teacher is teaching Bible stories at the front of the classroom because some politicians here in Austin are forcing them to do so, and with little to no representation for their faith traditions. I'm concerned with how that will make them feel and make their lives harder.

.James Talarico: I'm a former Texas public school teacher. I'm also a seminary student. So I can tell you there is a difference between teaching and preaching. It's hard to be different as a kid. If you're a Jewish kid,a Muslim kid, a Hindu kid going to Texas public schools, it's hard enough. Now, their teacher is teaching Bible stories at the front of the classroom because some politicians here in Austin are forcing them to do so, and with little to no representation for their faith traditions. I'm concerned with how that will make them feel and make their lives harder.

Team Talarico

51,310 Aufrufe • vor 6 Monaten

😂😂😂 🫳🏼🎤 “Um, so I'm American. I'm proud to be American. Um, to me being American isn't just eating a cheeseburger and french fries. (laughs) It's a lot um it's a- uh, uh, it's an interesting thing, um, it's hard to describe what it means to be American and what it means to be American but it- but it's like a cultural fusion. It- it's kind of like the cheeseburgers and french fries. People don't really see, like, you know, it's uh, it's uh... People don't think, "Oh, you can eat cheeseburgers and french fries," but that's what it's like to be American. It's like that combination of cheeseburgers and french fries, but you- uh, you're- you're gonna get what I mean.”

😂😂😂 🫳🏼🎤 “Um, so I'm American. I'm proud to be American. Um, to me being American isn't just eating a cheeseburger and french fries. (laughs) It's a lot um it's a- uh, uh, it's an interesting thing, um, it's hard to describe what it means to be American and what it means to be American but it- but it's like a cultural fusion. It- it's kind of like the cheeseburgers and french fries. People don't really see, like, you know, it's uh, it's uh... People don't think, "Oh, you can eat cheeseburgers and french fries," but that's what it's like to be American. It's like that combination of cheeseburgers and french fries, but you- uh, you're- you're gonna get what I mean.”

Gunther Eagleman™

85,077 Aufrufe • vor 7 Monaten