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Dr. Ramani Durvasula’s rule for dealing with a narcissist is simple: don’t defend, don’t engage, don’t explain, don’t personalize. They bait you because they want the fight. They will invent stories, drag in your friends, threaten public shame, whatever gets a reaction. The moment you take the bait the...

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The single most powerful thing you can do when a narcissist comes for you: DON’T DEFEND. DON’T EXPLAIN. DON’T ENGAGE. DON’T PERSONALIZE. Just gray-rock them with short, boring answers: “Okay.” “Sure.” “Yes.” “No.” Why? Because narcissists are literally addicted to the fight. A massive 2024 meta-analysis from Ohio State University (analyzing 437 studies & over 120,000 people) found that narcissism has one of the strongest, most consistent links to aggression ever recorded in personality psychology. They don’t just enjoy conflict—they NEED it to feel alive. When you refuse to feed the fight, you starve the cycle. Dr. Ramani calls it being “made of steel.” It’s hard in the moment, but it’s the fastest way to protect your peace. Watch this 50-second clip — it might be the most useful minute you spend today ↓ [Attached video: 0:50 – Dr. Ramani perfectly explaining the strategy] If you’ve ever dealt with a high-conflict person, drop your best one-word response that shuts it down.
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The single most powerful thing you can do when a narcissist comes for you: DON’T DEFEND. DON’T EXPLAIN. DON’T ENGAGE. DON’T PERSONALIZE. Just gray-rock them with short, boring answers: “Okay.” “Sure.” “Yes.” “No.” Why? Because narcissists are literally addicted to the fight. A massive 2024 meta-analysis from Ohio State University (analyzing 437 studies & over 120,000 people) found that narcissism has one of the strongest, most consistent links to aggression ever recorded in personality psychology. They don’t just enjoy conflict—they NEED it to feel alive. When you refuse to feed the fight, you starve the cycle. Dr. Ramani calls it being “made of steel.” It’s hard in the moment, but it’s the fastest way to protect your peace. Watch this 50-second clip — it might be the most useful minute you spend today ↓ [Attached video: 0:50 – Dr. Ramani perfectly explaining the strategy] If you’ve ever dealt with a high-conflict person, drop your best one-word response that shuts it down.

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We stand with law enforcement. They are doing a life-and-death job enforcing the law, not writing it. They don’t set policy; they carry it out on behalf of the American people. Democrats who encourage mobs, obstruction, or confrontation with federal agents are playing a dangerous game. Standing in the middle of a lawful operation isn’t “activism” it’s reckless, and it puts lives at risk. If you don’t like immigration policy or the outcome of an election, there is a constitutional way to change it: win the next election. You don’t get your way by intimidating officers. You don’t get your way by obstructing justice. And you don’t get your way by turning law enforcement into political targets.

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Don’t you dare. Don’t you dare sit at a table with the butchers of Tehran and call it "diplomacy." Look closely at the hands you are shaking. They are dripping with the blood of our youth. If you shake those hands, you don’t secure a deal; you get blood on your cuffs that will never wash off. Every smile at the negotiation table is a stab in the back of millions of Iranians. Every deal you sign is written in the blood of our children. We are watching. History is writing. Negotiating with killers is not politics; it is complicity. Don’t deal over our blood.

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The world is a vampire. This is why I give them nothing, never self censor, take the arrows, never back down, because I have a very deep understanding of dealing with narcissists. They expect perfection and they believe whatever they want to be true is true. There is no pleasing or meeting of the minds with these people. And the narcissist is always lonely needy and motivated by a deep shame. The key is to not only never appease them, but to genuinely live a happy life. See them for what they are. Broken. I wouldn’t even be describing them or engaging if it wasn’t for my job. Comedian in an online world attracts the rage of narcissists. Because we make them feel small or ashamed. And they can lash out anonymously. They are playing a different game than you. Their game is to get a reaction or to humiliate. You think they want to actually debate or know truth or that they want to know if they’re wrong. Nope. They live in hell. In my personal life I have zero that I communicate with. They give nothing and take everything. And they want you to hate them. It makes them feel like they matter. Livestream 1230 pm pst
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