Exactly THIS‼️👇🏼 💯

Oh she got this 🥷 trained

In short, stop stressing her out. Stop causing chaos, and listen to her concerns and act on them. And BTW, her energy is porous. If you are dysregulated, she absorbs that and becomes dysregulated and that keeps amplifying. And you wonder why you have no peace in the house

All he said was dont hurt her, pay attention to her, manage his shit. LEAD, hold his end up (no weaponized incompetence), & lastly enjoy her happiness. Its not HW/HL. It's more men are providers, women are multipliers. Why are so many mad and playing dumb???

I promise you women will agree with this. Majority of women will allow a man to lead- IF he leads like this. When he doesn't- you are asking for a lot when the woman that has to be the man too & still deal with a male in her vicinity, taking her peace. Its not about money either

whole lotta men in these comments opposing his perspective.. i wonder how many of their women would agree with him (if they even have a woman)

So, basically, don't add anything to her plate because she can't handle it, and she will self-destruct, bringing down the whole house? If she has mood swings, she shouldn't have to understand and be accountable; that's your job.

What is he getting from this level of pandering?

They will say he is simping….

none of this is useful, it's just therapy speak.

long story short, he basically said "Happy wife, happy life," which is retarded because it should go both ways! Happy spouse, happy house. This nigga lame af

Shut yo bitch ass up boy, I hate these pandering niggas that fiend for female validation, protect what you wanna protect walking on eggshells in your own home but keep that shit to yourself bitch.

Completely wrong… it’s crazy how even some men became 3rd wave feminists 🤦‍♀️ It’s the exact opposite, the woman is supposed to take care of the house and create a peaceful atmosphere for the man

I don’t necessarily disagree but it’s just as important for a wife to nurture her husband and provide him with a place of peace and comfort. This works both ways and it’s heartbreaking when either side thinks their peace is the priority. Team work makes the dream work.

I love how some of the men in this discussion are centering themselves or dismissing/clowning the woman's behavior. there's a reason you're alone. (and before you come for me... get at me when you've got 38+ years of marriage under your belt)

This made zero fucking sense

Okay but what about you bro.. not long but bro cuz ain’t no way you doing all that and still man if the house

@PandhandleLadee The men in the comments clowning on this, must be great partners. Happy spouse, happy house. BOTH partners support each other, and it brings peace. This man is correct. When she can’t be her feminine self, it’s hard to be soft & supportive.

It’s not “happy wife, happy life”; it’s “happy spouse, happy house,” meaning both partners need to be happy, not just the wife.

Nigga shut the fuck up. Gato culo.

This doesn’t sound like happiness; it's suffering. You shouldn't have to act like a pushover for your wife to treat you well. Marriage isn’t about always making sure the wife is catered to while you slave and mentally drain yourself. It’s a two way thing….

He gave no objective advice just constantly adjusting yourselves to match her mood lol

herez ya $5 💵 brother thank you for your service !! 🫡 🪖

This is a prime example of a weak man who got all his dating advice from tik tok and single woman. These weak pandering men need to be eradicated

Men and women both want peace. All you have to learn is what that looks like for your partner, when they don't have to shrink themselves to preserve "the peace". It will be different for everyone. Good luck! 😂

I stopped watching 3 seconds in. Be a man. Stop listening to the Internet about relationship advice.

When he finally learns that ‘protecting her’ means protecting her from his own BS too… We love a self-aware king. 🧠👑 Now do a TED Talk for the rest of ‘em.

Lmfaoooo nigga turning into Jaheim right before our eyes

Thats the only he getting his 🐱 sad but true💯

Sounds like some woman wrote this and had this homeless guy read it on x

He's talking a bunch of subjective nonsense. Most people are lost because they depend on feelings that fade like clouds. They are mentally unstable because their imagination runs wild, and they do not know reality from fiction.

So stop listening to her and product her next moves like your fighting a final boss..... 🥷🏿👌🏿 You sound crazy. It's called communication learning this will save you a lot of trouble and if you can't talk it out you shouldn't be together period. Sounding slow.

Simps still get divorced don’t get it twisted

This is the year I realized I’m not a bad mom. I’m just not a good mom AND dad. I’m working on the paperwork. If I’m going to function as a single mom, I might as well be one.

Emotional Intelligence I hope his woman recognizes that in him…if so they gonna win so bigly…she also want to help him make their life lighter for each other… a win win.