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File under ‘Things that never happened’. I am sure men with such requests do exist, but no business will speak to a customer like that… and if she thinks she will turn down a client because of her frankly laughable mindset, she shouldn’t be a matchmaker. I am pretty...

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I do not feel any pity for this Roby Ekpo guy for the simple reason that he did everything that you must not do as a man. 1. He married a divorcee. Every man in his right senses knows that you should never marry a divorced woman or a single mother. You should only sleep with them 3 to 5 times and discard them exactly the way their initial husband did. A man must start a family, not join one. 2. He married her after just five months of dating. A marriage proposal that a woman got on a platter will never be appreciated. If she had to wait for at least two years before getting the marriage proposal from him, she probably would have appreciated the marriage more. 3. He cried over a woman. The only reason you should cry over a woman is if she dies and was good to you when she was alive. 4. He couldn't satisfy her in bed. This is solely because the woman he married has been with multiple men and cannot be satisfied by one man anymore. This is why you should only marry a woman you met as a virgin and who is between the ages of 19 and 23 when you start dating her. 5. He sent her abroad while he remained in Nigeria. A woman that you send abroad will find your replacement in less than 3 months. And if she must go abroad, let her go with majorly her own money or with a loan from you (through proxies). Never fully foot the bill so that when she leaves, you will at least get your money back. 6. He is not polygamous. You can do everything right and a woman will still cheat on you, but when you have about three other women who will easily replace her, you will not go through so much heartbreak and definitely not cry on a podcast. 7. He said the Mayowa lady made him hate Nedu and other people who did not offend him. Once a woman can control who you can and cannot relate with, she has successfully made you her slave. As a man, you must be able to relate with whoever you want whether your woman likes it or not. She can either live with it or pack and leave. I wish him well but he is the perfect representation of a foolish man.

Ayo-Elesho

15,301 views • 2 months ago

Why is my book on The Lust of the Flesh necessary? Because of teachings like this from Sam Allberry. He has believed the lie from the devil that he is same-sex attracted and cannot get married and have children, though he would love to, and it breaks my heart for him. He says, "I would love to be...opposite-sex attracted rather than same-sex attracted. I would love to be a husband to a wife. I'd love to be a father to a child....I love family life. I'd love to have kids. But however much I might want those things, the great goal in my life is not that one day I'd become heterosexual. That is not the win for me. That is not the prize that excites me as a Christian. It'd be lovely if it happened but it's not what I spend every waking hour kind of trying to go towards. No. Far, far greater than becoming heterosexual is knowing Jesus better....We have found the One who provides real satisfaction." 1) Who told Allberry that he was "same-sex attracted" and could not marry a woman? The Bible didn't. God didn't. The Holy Spirit didn't. The world and Allberry's flesh did. But we are who God says we are, not who our flesh or the world says we are. You don't have to be a "heterosexual man" to marry a woman, you just have to be a man! Because all men are "heterosexuals" according to Scripture, meaning that God created them to be men, and entailed in being a man is finding a woman to marry (Gen 2:18-25). *This is the created order. This is the default. There are exceptions for not pursuing marriage given in Scripture, but "I'm same-sex attracted" is not one of them. 2) Biblically, since Allberry is a Christian man who desires marriage and children, he should pursue a godly Christian woman to marry. The only thing keeping him from doing so is believing the world and his flesh. Sexual desire is not a prerequisite for marriage, though he should desire to cut a sexual covenant with a Christian woman to become his wife. 3) Allberry is obviously lonely, obviously desiring marriage and kids but has rejected God's wonderful gifts because he has bought into the world's lie that his sexuality is separate from his biology. He is not a "same-sex attracted" man; rather, he is a man that God designed for marriage, based on his biology. God literally designed Allberry's body to fit together with a woman in the marriage bed. But his flesh has warped his desires to be contrary to God and His design. 4) Instead of rejecting God's good design, Allberry should turn from his same-sex desires, find the godliest single woman he can, and pursue her for marriage. Repentant men make the best husbands and fathers. And I believe a repentant Allberry would be a great husband and father! 5) To summarize, the only thing keeping Allberry from biblical marriage is Allberry. I pray he repents, because he's unnecessarily reaping loneliness. And he doesn't have to. And...if you have same-sex desires, you don't have to reap loneliness either. #marriage #bible #singleness You can buy my book here

Jared Moore

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This story and my message is for MEN ONLY. It applies to women too but I am not a woman and do not live in their reality. Neither am I a content creator that set ring light to discuss women issues. I am a man and have lived realities as a man so I will only address men. Yesterday, I stumbled upon this incredibly profound video by David Depiero and reshared it on Instagram, and got a few responses from people who could relate with it. But one call from a friend particularly stood out. And I told him I had to share this for others to learn. A bit of a long story. Anyways, my friend (let’s call him Jabi) got separated a few years ago and divorced thereafter. After Jabi separated, a friend (let’s call his friend Ogidi) reached out to him that he noticed Jabi shared same surname with someone he knows on IG but had recently stopped and also no longer followed each other. Jabi then mentioned that they were married and now divorced. Then Jabi got a shocking story - Ogidi confessed to him that Jabi’s ex wife was actually his own ex girlfriend/fiance. He was madly in love with her while she was in final year while he had graduated, and was already planning to marry her when his family friend, who was hostel mates with this lady, called him and vehemently opposed the idea and narrated to him how terribly toxic the lady is. How she is very active in fellowships, very religious, but very stingy and toxic to her room mates and hostel mates to the point of violence and tantrums and smashing things. Amongst the many other things she told him, she insisted it was going to be a mistake and convinced him to reconsider. She then went the extra mile to tell his mum and dad and fought hard to ensure he reconsidered. Ofcourse, the toxic lady then met my friend Jabi very shortly afterwards and got married to him. My friend in turn fell in love with the active fellowship shy girl and never bothered to check her background. He invested everything in her and supported her in every way from when they met till they separated. Turned out a total mistake of his life. Toxic, ungrateful, narcissistic and violent. Worse, she came from a terrible family with opposite family love and values from his. He eventually ran away from the house to avoid domestic scandals that will ruin his career and life - because as a man, you can never win in the court of public opinion. This video is so profound especially for young men. Please and please, keep building your life till you find your purpose. Keep grinding. Don’t succumb to society to pressure you to marry just because it’s another thing to do. As you build, painstakingly also develop a mental or written checklist of the type of woman you want that aligns with your purpose and journey. PRAY. FLEE from toxic women. Flee from entitled and ungrateful women. The choice of a life partner may be the single most important decision of your life, do not gamble recklessly with it. Men who had their lives so good have lost their life’s work, gotten poorer, committed suicide, become a shadow of themselves, and thousands of other things just by marrying toxic and selfish women. Ofcourse this is not talking to irresponsible men. A man can't be perfect but I am addressing ambitious, responsible, family oriented and naturally generous men. You’ll only keep pouring into a basket and never get anything back. Don't choose a loser. Don’t waste your life with women who dont align with your purpose and only want to take from you. Save this video, share it, ponder on it and make it your mantra to ensure you dont do more due diligence in choosing a business partner or buying a television than you spend choosing a life partner. It may be leading you into a voluntary life of toxicity that will change the course of your life for worse, forever.

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