Funerals reveals the truth about friendships 😔

This is why I really don't believe in friendship as a progressive concept, acquaintances absolutely! People need to learn to stand on their own as much as they can, never to depend on people for anything. Life is not a group assignment. O phela le motho, eseng ka motho.

I want my data back. At least her friends know what she thinks of them. 1) For a married woman She must burn her whatever on her husband and children. 2) People don’t like you the same way you like them 3) Yes, people have far more important things and people in their lives than you 4) People also don’t know how to support others in moments of grief/loss. It’s easier for them to stay away 5) Yes, you will be used by people. Sometimes that’s all they want from you. 6) Don’t wish bad on people because you are struggling to get whatever you want out of them 7) Lastly, men are the prize.

The post is not necessarily about "funerals", she's reflecting on how people you show up for, don't always show up for you when you need them. Generally, when you're going through hardships; When days are dark, friends are few, is basically what she's saying. I feel her pain 🫂

And some family members. Both good and bad things are revealed about where you stand with people

Not only in friendships, even in some relatives it happens a lot. I have learned a lot that I shall have no expectations from anyone else, so I can avoid any disappointment.

I understand very well what This Lady went through... Even families fall on the same brackets

But how do you rely to people that much. I dont do woman society, i dont like baby showers i do most things with family. Im not a crowd person. I can do a private ceremony 100% and such things do need a lot of money.

She have to Take it easy on herself Like she said. “Just because someone is important to you doesn’t mean you’re important to them” It’s life 😔

Make person watch the video, summarize am I no get data to waste

We are adults maan. People must learn not to do things/or be there for others expecting that in return. People come into our lives for a reason, season, to serve a purpose & once that's done we move on. Only few people remain in our lives for a lifetime